• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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[QUOTE=Phsykotik;29185162]Tell her to, how to put this nicely... "Fuck off?" e. If it is not too much trouble, can you get a new number?[/QUOTE] I don't think I need to go as far as getting a new number, but I just texted back saying "I don't want to be in a relationship right now, and I don't think we should talk. You're making it harder for yourself by talking to me." Breaking hearts fucking sucks.
Are all women attracted to douches, or are douches the only ones with confidence?
[QUOTE=plazzydan;29185301]Are all womem attracted to douches, or are douches the only ones with confidence?[/QUOTE] this loaded question could be answered by cracked [url]http://www.cracked.com/article_18804_the-6-wrong-questions-men-love-to-ask-about-women.html[/url]
[QUOTE=plazzydan;29185301]Are all women attracted to douches, or are douches the only ones with confidence?[/QUOTE] They're attracted to dudes with confidence in general. It just so happens that plenty of assholes are confident as well. Girls actually like guys that are both nice and confident [b]more[/b] thank jerks and whatnot, just dudes like that are rare. Plenty of guys like to think they're nice/confident, but they're probably actually lacking in the confidence sector. You might think you're confident, but if you treat a girl like you're afraid to step on her toes and scared of upsetting her, you have some confidence issues. I'm an asshole to people in a very general way. I'm sarcastic at times, extremely harsh at others. I don't sugar coat things and I like to point out people's mistakes the moment they make them. However, I treat girls (the ones that deserve it) like queens. The difference between me treating a girl like a queen and some autistic kid treating a girl like a queen is that I hold myself as a king. I don't hold girls up to be superior to me or whatever, I never see them as more than my equal.
Yeah, I just got this in a text. "I think you're a fool. Goodbye." I feel sad, but strangely relieved. It's kinda bad for me to think about it, because she doesn't really have any friends, and her parents aren't as nice to her as they should be, but she should be okay. I didn't really think that it was possible to just fall out of interest with someone like that. We only saw each other every couple of weeks too, which made it harder.
[QUOTE=UniiQue;29185568]Yeah, I just got this in a text. "I think you're a fool. Goodbye." I feel sad, but strangely relieved. It's kinda bad for me to think about it, because she doesn't really have any friends, and her parents aren't as nice to her as they should be, but she should be okay. I didn't really think that it was possible to just fall out of interest with someone like that. We only saw each other every couple of weeks too, which made it harder.[/QUOTE] [img]http://www.becks.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/mr_t.jpg[/img] Well, you broke up with her 8 months ago. Telling straightforward that "its not going to work, goodbye." might actually easier for her. Just do that if she texts you again. Ofcourse, im not a pro like Mav.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29179996]Ummm, well there was this time I ended up with a posse of girls at orientation. [img_thumb]http://i53.tinypic.com/20axuex.jpg[/img_thumb] And then I met their moms. [img_thumb]http://i56.tinypic.com/66fabl.jpg[/img_thumb][/QUOTE] I have that shirt it's one of my favorites
I broke up with a girl around the beginning of December; I've gone no contact with her ever since, deleted phone number and email address, I've been distracting myself with my education, a programming project, and even another relationship (was short-lived, however). I've got nothing physical that can remind me of her, no mementos or whatnot. Basically I've done as much of Darky's guide to breakups that I can imagine. I've not even thought about her since around New Years when I was just giving her a friendly greeting, why are thoughts of her suddenly surfacing again months later? Relevant information about the breakup: A mutual breakup, there was no fighting or hurt feelings etc. We simply realized that we could not be together due to a technicality and went our separate ways.
Eh, thoughts like that will surface every once in a while for as long as you're single. That's life. Just don't take any action on them and they'll go back into hiding.
K, good to know. That was my first relationship/breakup where I felt a strong connection with the other person so this feeling is foreign to me.
I'm going to be "kissing" for the first time on Monday, I've "kissed" a girl before but not in four years (when I was 14) so I'm incredibly nervous. All I know is that I should play with the hair and neck, don't dive in with the tongue, tilt my head right, have fresh breath. We're going to a free museum first and then wandering around the park/nearby forest so I don't know when my opportunity will happen, should I ask or.. what? Honestly I have no idea. Advice is appreciated. I also don't have the most self confidence, but I'm more confident around her than I am normally.
what is it with people planning when they're going to kiss
She and I want to get it over with, relieve the tension as it were.
[QUOTE=Dysentery;29199361]what is it with people planning when they're going to kiss[/QUOTE] This. Just let it happen. Please god don't ask her to kiss.
[QUOTE=David Tennant;29199574]She and I want to get it over with, relieve the tension as it were.[/QUOTE] Relieve the tension ... :|
Ok I won't ask that's just strange, I'm worried I won't find a moment and I'll look.. frigid?
[QUOTE=David Tennant;29199574]She and I want to get it over with, relieve the tension as it were.[/QUOTE] lol? that's pretty bad if theres tension in a relationship... everything should happen naturally.
What I'm trying to say is that when it happens I won't know what to do. When is generally a good time? Or will I just know?
a good opportunist finds opportunities, a great one makes them
I feel like a tactician now.
what the fuck haha since when was kissing a girl stressful
Why did you write "kissing" in quotes?
I don't know
[QUOTE=thisispain;29175184]yeah i don't really see where you are getting that from i don't really draw the connection of minecraft and men growing up to be pussies[/QUOTE] The minecraft statement was a joke, and for the record, I enjoy minecraft. Emasculation of men is a serious issue though, but the reasons are broad and the exact effects are not yet known.
yay my girlfriend is leaving to go to chicago tomorrow for a week which is awesome because she doesn't know that i'm also going to chicago.. i already have tickets for one of the venues that she's doing (she's a small-time actress), which is the same exact venue that we met at haha this could either go extremely well or extremely bad
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;29201561]The minecraft statement was a joke, and for the record, I enjoy minecraft. Emasculation of men is a serious issue though, but the reasons are broad and the exact effects are not yet known.[/QUOTE] well after i take off my dress and re-apply my nail-polish i'll sure have something to say about that!
Going to see the girl out of school for the first time in a while. I want to hint that we should move on to the next level (tongue action, I guess.), but I'm not sure what choice of words I should use without being too direct. Help?
Oh my fucking god. What is up with you kids and being so insecure about kissing and whatnot? Who the fuck [i]asks[/i] if they can start using the tongue when kissing? Just fucking go for it. If she joins in, you're good to go. If she doesn't want to do that, she'll let you know right away. God damn.
"just stick your fucking minge in my mouth you cunt" like that
Will do. [editline]15th April 2011[/editline] Probably should have read the earlier posts, shouldn't I?
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