You've got to understand Maverick that most people are here for advice and are obviously not as experienced as you, this will be my first proper kiss and I'm nervous as fuck, you're obviously confident but others are not (not even in the same league) so something that you might find easy could be much more difficult to others, like me for example.
All I wanted was simple advice on how I should go in for the kiss, if I'll know the right moment to and once I dive in what next.
just do it naturally
learn by your mistakes
[QUOTE=David Tennant;29205665]You've got to understand Maverick that most people are here for advice and are obviously not as experienced as you, this will be my first proper kiss and I'm nervous as fuck, you're obviously confident but others are not (not even in the same league) so something that you might find easy could be much more difficult to others, like me for example.
All I wanted was simple advice on how I should go in for the kiss, if I'll know the right moment to and once I dive in what next.[/QUOTE]
I was nervous about my first kiss too, but still didn't plan shit out and whatnot. It just happened naturally, like it should.
if she likes you and you make a mistake or something it won't matter
dont plan out anything
any plans you make with any girl besides a date plan will not go according to plan, trust me, and don't go in with such high hopes, go in with big balls
[QUOTE=Dysentery;29199361]what is it with people planning when they're going to kiss[/QUOTE]
I did that with my first girlfriend. Should of just let it happen naturally, but seeing as I was akward as fuck with women at the time(17 years old at the time) It just seemed right to take a chance. I just asked her when we were alone "Wanna make out?" and she accepted we kissed for like an hour. We ended up dating for 2 years before breaking up a few weeks ago.
I miss her. Oh well, life goes on. Hopefully I should be able to find a new lady to date v:v:v
I have everything down to my bowel movements planned out.
Trust me, it works.
(no ofc. im not a virgin /sarcasm)
I'm such a weird person. I'm active in the afternoons and I play basketball n shit with my friends and the Xbox and whatnot but when the evening hits I just lock myself in my room and be a huge hermit,
Like right now I'm listening to country love songs wishing I had a girlfriend. Can't wait till summer break hits.
I could do with some tips for getting past the goalie.
Hey guys, i've done the whole sex thing with a chick ages back, and all my guy mates were like "OOOH yeah you stud!", we broke up, i was like yeah whatevs, sadly. Then two years went by, i started too get real lonely.
I'm just a normal guy i guess, nerdy, games, the usual, but im also sorta popular. But at school i've started too like more than 2 chicks at the same time. Which can be quite frustrating. I can't read reactions from them either, like some of you can and i just kinda dive head first into most of the situations we have.
I dont know, its hard too explain. Can anyone help me out of the whole liking many people at once situation? Is it just a phase or am i just lonely that i just come up with these false feelings.
[QUOTE=enduarance;29213626]Hey guys, i've done the whole sex thing with a chick ages back, and all my guy mates were like "OOOH yeah you stud!", we broke up, i was like yeah whatevs, sadly. Then two years went by, i started too get real lonely.
I'm just a normal guy i guess, nerdy, games, the usual, but im also sorta popular. But at school i've started too like more than 2 chicks at the same time. Which can be quite frustrating. I can't read reactions from them either, like some of you can and i just kinda dive head first into most of the situations we have.
I dont know, its hard too explain. Can anyone help me out of the whole liking many people at once situation? Is it just a phase or am i just lonely that i just come up with these false feelings.[/QUOTE]
i'm confused as to what you're asking. just ask one of them out already.
[QUOTE=Psychopath12;29197696]why are thoughts of her suddenly surfacing again months later?[/QUOTE]
It happens. Like I randomly had a thought of my ex the other day while I programming. I kinda felt like I missed her. And then I reminded myself she was a massive bitch and went on with programming.
Simplest solution is just to ignore it.
[QUOTE=David Tennant;29205665]You've got to understand Maverick that most people are here for advice and are obviously not as experienced as you, this will be my first proper kiss and I'm nervous as fuck, you're obviously confident but others are not (not even in the same league) so something that you might find easy could be much more difficult to others, like me for example.
All I wanted was simple advice on how I should go in for the kiss, if I'll know the right moment to and once I dive in what next.[/QUOTE]
I'm frigid as fuck. I'm your typical nerdy programmer/gamer. Mine started with her gesturing for a hug, which turned into a kiss. You don't plan it, just do it when you're both ready without any prompting..
Back in February I was c[B][/B]hatting up a girl which I had met at a nation wide ''shadow day''. We had really great contact, and she even invited me to her city, however I refused so I didn't hurt my girlfriend, and so I cut contacts with her. Yesterday I found out my girlfriend has been having very healthy conversations (kinda like facepunch PM's, only each day and several paragraphs long) through the internet with some guy ever since the same February. Normally I'd ignore this, since she's got a lot of male friends. However she has never met him, and the guy was the one who started chatting her up.
Do I confront her with this and talk this out, since I'm kinda worried? She met with him this morning when I was going to my course work presentation (which she could have went to and looked, since it wasn't a closed event), and she'll meet him this night in the city centre, when she'll go clubbing. Or am I just making a huge deal out of damn nothing?
she gon' get laid
This girl I like, we've been talking and flirting alot. I like her, Im sure she likes me. However, im looking for something long term and this girls 'history' of boyfriends has pretty much been one week with them, leave them because shes "Bored"
What should I do? Should I bother trying it with this girl even though it might not work or what? What do?
[QUOTE=Dysentery;29201986]yay my girlfriend is leaving to go to chicago tomorrow for a week
which is awesome because she doesn't know that i'm also going to chicago.. i already have tickets for one of the venues that she's doing (she's a small-time actress), which is the same exact venue that we met at haha
this could either go extremely well or extremely bad[/QUOTE]
You smooth bastard :v: Hope it goes well!
I have had some girl trouble lately, well today, Basically, I met a friend of mine that I haven't seen for like 10 years, But, I have never felt this way about a girl before...
[QUOTE=Retarded Turtle;29223983]This girl I like, we've been talking and flirting alot. I like her, Im sure she likes me. However, im looking for something long term and this girls 'history' of boyfriends has pretty much been one week with them, leave them because shes "Bored"
What should I do? Should I bother trying it with this girl even though it might not work or what? What do?[/QUOTE]
I'd say go for it; might as well have a good time while you can. Just be prepared to not have a pissy fit if she gets "bored".
[QUOTE=Retarded Turtle;29223983]This girl I like, we've been talking and flirting alot. I like her, Im sure she likes me. However, im looking for something long term and this girls 'history' of boyfriends has pretty much been one week with them, leave them because shes "Bored"
What should I do? Should I bother trying it with this girl even though it might not work or what? What do?[/QUOTE]
You're setting yourself up for disaster just by going in looking for something long term.
You're not supposed to go into relationships hunting for long term/short term goals. Just take it day by day, and if it turns into something that lasts a long time, then so be it. Don't try and force it or anything like that. Couples always start to fall apart the second they plan too far into the future.
[QUOTE=B-hazard;29210763]I could do with some tips for getting past the goalie.[/QUOTE]
Make sure your cleets are on tight, and that you're really wide open.
You want a running start, but don't make it look too obvious that you're about to shoot so the goalie can't have much time to prepare.
Aim for one of the corners to give him the hardest time blocking it.
And remember, get ready to get the ball if it bounces off the post!
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29225124]Make sure your cleets are on tight, and that you're really wide open.
You want a running start, but don't make it look too obvious that you're about to shoot so the goalie can't have much time to prepare.
Aim for one of the corners to give him the hardest time blocking it.
And remember, get ready to get the ball if it bounces off the post![/QUOTE]
Holy fuck.
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Do you pick up girls like that?
[QUOTE=Str4fe;29225771]Holy fuck.
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Do you pick up girls like that?[/QUOTE]
Yes 100% chance for sex
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29226106]Yes 100% chance for sex[/QUOTE]
dood thx now i can score so much... on FIFA 11
[QUOTE=cr2142;29224076]You smooth bastard :v: Hope it goes well![/QUOTE]
thanks bro :3: i've actually been planning this for a while haha
This also being social advice how would one comfort a person who's crying:S
I can handle angry people but when someone cries i don't know what to do so it makes the situation pretty awkward
punch them in the head
that'll make them angry
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then voila you can handle it
[QUOTE=11z;29233770]This also being social advice how would one comfort a person who's crying:S
I can handle angry people but when someone cries i don't know what to do so it makes the situation pretty awkward[/QUOTE]
Depends on why they're crying.
You fucked up? Apologize. And fucking MEAN it.
They fucked up? Reassure them it's not their fault.
They're crying about someone or something else? Just comfort them. I can't really explain how. Just try to get their mind off it, tell them to look up, that sort of shit.
[QUOTE=Protocol7;29233979]Depends on why they're crying.
You fucked up? Apologize. And fucking MEAN it.
They fucked up? Reassure them it's not their fault.
They're crying about someone or something else? Just comfort them. I can't really explain how. Just try to get their mind off it, tell them to look up, that sort of shit.[/QUOTE]
the third thing someone who's close to hers leaving the country. Thanks
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29225124]Make sure your cleets are on tight, and that you're really wide open.
You want a running start, but don't make it look too obvious that you're about to shoot so the goalie can't have much time to prepare.
Aim for one of the corners to give him the hardest time blocking it.
And remember, get ready to get the ball if it bounces off the post![/QUOTE]
Awesome analogy but it doesn't help much.
I hit on this girl while drunk on Thursday(apparently I'm a cheesy romantic while drunk), and she asked to hang out on Friday.
We just chilled and talked, I didn't make a move since I had tried to make too many while drunk. She said she was free again most of next week.
She still has her boyfriend, but she mentioned that she has to pay for everything when they go out and some other things :v:.
Any advice LA?
She sounds pretty keen to see you which is definitely something, but she could just be being friendly. Either ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend completely, and continue seeing her and doing what you do to build attraction (making sure to never give her too much, and always leave her wanting more), or just give up and stop seeing her. Really you're setting yourself up for disappointment if you get too caught up with taken girls.
How long have they been together? Do you know the boyfriend at all? Does it seem like a solid relationship?
I generally don't get too attached to girls unless it actually goes somewhere.
They have been together for a month or two, I don't know him but he seems like a cock, and from what I've heard it doesn't sound all that solid.
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