• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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[QUOTE=ConvolutedLogic;29327973]Ha, love how I have a reputation for starting shit.[/QUOTE] I don't.
Thanks, darling. Anyways, didn't come to start shit. Actually just had a thought I wanted to mention. Obviously I'm still considered the bitch, so. x) Never mind. [editline]20th April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=MindMuncher;29328148]I don't.[/QUOTE] Congrats.
okay so i have this movie date with this girl tomorrow, but im mulling it over in my head and every time i think about it, going to the movies sounds less and less appealing. what i'd much rather do is have her come over, put a movie on in my basement and then try my luck from there. is this a good idea?
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;29310223]Well ouch. While that guy may be doing one of the first two, it doesn't apply to all heterosexual guys... I have a friend that's a girl that I hang out with pretty often one on one and we don't fuck every chance we get. Er, or at all.[/QUOTE] but do you walk her home and text her 24/7? i have the same friends i just don't walk them home or text them, a ride home once in a while is different [QUOTE=GoldenGnome;29328451]okay so i have this movie date with this girl tomorrow, but im mulling it over in my head and every time i think about it, going to the movies sounds less and less appealing. what i'd much rather do is have her come over, put a movie on in my basement and then try my luck from there. is this a good idea?[/QUOTE] same thing happened to me, i asked her to a movie but the closer to the date it seemed worse and worse the issue is movie dates are the easiest and fun date ( on a teenager's salary/transportation ) but bad for a first date since you can't converse very much in the theater without making much noise so you really can't get to know them then I kinda put it up in the conversation and I found out she also prefered the movie in the basement idea and we'll see how it goes on Saturday night, plus it's a for sure way in to some make out too.
[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;29328485]but do you walk her home and text her 24/7? i have the same friends i just don't walk them home or text them, a ride home once in a while is different same thing happened to me, i asked her to a movie but the closer to the date it seemed worse and worse the issue is movie dates are the easiest and fun date ( on a teenager's salary/transportation ) but bad for a first date since you can't converse very much in the theater without making much noise so you really can't get to know them then I kinda put it up in the conversation and I found out she also prefered the movie in the basement idea and we'll see how it goes on Saturday night, plus it's a for sure way in to some make out too.[/QUOTE] awesome. i love you, man.
Movies are a good/bad date depending on the type of person you are. I'm a physical person, I prefer touching over talking. Therefore, movies are a good date to me. To a pussy who doesn't have the balls to touch the girl and/or just wants to talk, they're terrible.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;29325394]I had an "I'll go if you go" pact with my friends. No one went. Mutually Assured Virginity.[/QUOTE] The acronym for which is, ironically, "MAV".
[QUOTE=zzzZZZZ;29325741]Hurr. I'm sorry for not being willing to go to a dance with someone ugly? It has nothing to do with the fact that I'm "too cool" for prom. It's just that I have high standards, and the likelihood of my prospective date being attractive is pretty low.[/QUOTE] So you can't just go and have fun with your friends? [editline]21st April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=ConvolutedLogic;29328154]Thanks, darling. Anyways, didn't come to start shit. Actually just had a thought I wanted to mention. Obviously I'm still considered the bitch, so. x) Never mind. [editline]20th April 2011[/editline] Congrats.[/QUOTE] I had no preconceived notions about you because I barely know you (only seen you post a tiny bit) Just by your 3 or 4 posts in this thread so far I already don't like you. It has nothing to do with your "reputation".
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29328592]Movies are a good/bad date depending on the type of person you are. I'm a physical person, I prefer touching over talking. Therefore, movies are a good date to me. To a pussy who doesn't have the balls to touch the girl and/or just wants to talk, they're terrible.[/QUOTE] I have balls. Not all high-school girls like to fondled in a movie theater on a first date, with your only prior experience being a fifteen minute conversation.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29328828]So you can't just go and have fun with your friends? [editline]21st April 2011[/editline] I had no preconceived notions about you because I barely know you (only seen you post a tiny bit) Just by your 3 or 4 posts in this thread so far I already don't like you. It has nothing to do with your "reputation".[/QUOTE] I wasn't talking about you.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29328828]I had no preconceived notions about you because I barely know you (only seen you post a tiny bit) Just by your 3 or 4 posts in this thread so far I already don't like you. It has nothing to do with your "reputation".[/QUOTE] I know right, she's back and worse than ever.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;29328451]do is have her come over, put a movie on in my basement and then try my luck from there.[/QUOTE] So, think about what might potentially sound creepy to a girl. e. Have a chainsaw downstairs?
[QUOTE=ConvolutedLogic;29327973]Ha, love how I have a reputation for starting shit.[/QUOTE] That's because you do [editline]21st April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=ConvolutedLogic;29328154]Thanks, darling. Anyways, didn't come to start shit. Actually just had a thought I wanted to mention. Obviously I'm still considered the bitch, so. x) Never mind. [editline]20th April 2011[/editline] Congrats.[/QUOTE] but you are a bitch
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29325276]Good. Prom is a waste of time and money. Be smart. Only go to the before/afterparties.[/QUOTE] Fuck your shit i've got a top hat, monocole and pimp cane. Gonna be swish
prom parties are for drinking stupid amounts of beer that is all. Literally.
[QUOTE=B-hazard;29278188]I guess. Apparently he got his rugby team on the last guy she cheated with and he ended up in hospital, so should I wait to make a move?[/QUOTE] Could do with more advice on this. We met last Thursday while I was drunk and she asked the next day to hang out. We've chilled more since then but I haven't been able to do much because of the boyfriend, and she seems to be the one asking to see me more than the other way round. She has told one of my friends that she is interested in me(and it seems that way to me) but also mentioned the boyfriend. Me, her and two of my friends are going drinking today and I'm wondering if I should be trying to make a move or wait until shes broke up with the boyfriend (or ask her about it?).
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29328828]So you can't just go and have fun with your friends? [editline]21st April 2011[/editline] I had no preconceived notions about you because I barely know you (only seen you post a tiny bit) Just by your 3 or 4 posts in this thread so far I already don't like you. It has nothing to do with your "reputation".[/QUOTE] Maybe you didn't see, but I'm a sophomore. Therefore, either I have a date, or I don't go.
Oh, I guess I missed that. Yeah don't go, that would be boring. Wait till next year.
[QUOTE=Mr.Dounut;29328916]I have balls. Not all high-school girls like to fondled in a movie theater on a first date, with your only prior experience being a fifteen minute conversation.[/QUOTE] Hence the "and/or." Also, I'm not talking about fondling. I'm talking about cuddling and whatnot or at least holding hands. [editline]21st April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Occlusion;29332163]Fuck your shit i've got a top hat, monocole and pimp cane. Gonna be swish[/QUOTE] You're going to go and hate that you spent money for something so stupid and lame.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29335655]You're going to go and hate that you spent money for something so stupid and lame.[/QUOTE] Fuck your shit again, already have a top hat, the moncole is like £3 and the cane is cheap. Just cause you can't afford £10. I figure maybe if i'm an asshole too it'll counter you and create a paradox causing you to implode.
it cant be done you're walking into a gas chamber occlusion
[QUOTE=Occlusion;29335772]Fuck your shit again, already have a top hat, the moncole is like £3 and the cane is cheap. Just cause you can't afford £10. [/QUOTE] Going to prom doesn't cost that little :colbert:
[QUOTE=B-hazard;29333034]Could do with more advice on this. We met last Thursday while I was drunk and she asked the next day to hang out. We've chilled more since then but I haven't been able to do much because of the boyfriend, and she seems to be the one asking to see me more than the other way round. She has told one of my friends that she is interested in me(and it seems that way to me) but also mentioned the boyfriend. Me, her and two of my friends are going drinking today and I'm wondering if I should be trying to make a move or wait until shes broke up with the boyfriend (or ask her about it?).[/QUOTE] Why haven't you been able to do much? Nothing is stopping you, it's not like her boyfriend is there watching over her shoulder. Make a move already before she gets bored of you, it's pretty clear she's interested. Start making things more flirtatious and physical, and just treat her as you would a single girl. Whatever you do don't talk about it or ask her to make a decision/ultimatum. Completely ignore the fact, to you he doesn't exist, and draw her into this idea until an 'accident' happens (i.e. she cheats on him with you). If you're actually scared of the guy's reaction in terms of physical harm to yourself, then that's really another problem. If there is a real chance of you getting hospitalized or injured out of this, then one girl probably ain't worth it. Does the guy know of you at all yet? I think you said that their relationship has only lasted a short while, maybe his reaction won't be as severe as the last time? And finally if it all goes well and you end up making out or having sex or whatever, just keep in mind that she has it in her to cheat as she did with you, so there's no saying for sure that she won't cheat on you later with someone else.
Women are always saying "hi" what do they want?
Prom isn't even worth 10 european thingamajigs. Like I said, people are best off going to the before/afterparties. This is how prom itself goes: -Everyone shows up and admires what other people are wearing. -People look for a home base table to keep their stuff. -Music is going so they dance. -Dancing for the rest of the time. -Prom is over, everyone leaves to parties. Think of it. In movies, they only show a few minutes at most of prom. Because that's all prom is, it's those few minutes of people dancing put on repetition. Ever had any dances in middle school? It's just like that, just everyone is dressed nicer. Fucking lame.
i didnt go to my formal, or 'prom' i knew it was going to be really boring and i hate everybody so
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29337240]Think of it. In movies, they only show a few minutes at most of prom. Because that's all prom is, it's those few minutes of people dancing put on repetition. Ever had any dances in middle school? It's just like that, just everyone is dressed nicer. Fucking lame.[/QUOTE] I'm going to the before/afterparties as well. I didn't go to the school leavers thing so i wanted to go to my colleges and then get trashed. [QUOTE=Psychopath12;29336227]Going to prom doesn't cost that little :colbert:[/QUOTE] :| I'm renting a suit aswell, the tophat etc is just a joke. [insert no fun allowed sign here] [QUOTE=Nonikai;29335866]you're walking into a gas chamber occlusion[/QUOTE] [img]http://www.dicts.info/img/ud/gasmask.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;29336697]Why haven't you been able to do much? Nothing is stopping you, it's not like her boyfriend is there watching over her shoulder. Make a move already before she gets bored of you, it's pretty clear she's interested. Start making things more flirtatious and physical, and just treat her as you would a single girl. Whatever you do don't talk about it or ask her to make a decision/ultimatum. Completely ignore the fact, to you he doesn't exist, and draw her into this idea until an 'accident' happens (i.e. she cheats on him with you). If you're actually scared of the guy's reaction in terms of physical harm to yourself, then that's really another problem. If there is a real chance of you getting hospitalized or injured out of this, then one girl probably ain't worth it. Does the guy know of you at all yet? I think you said that their relationship has only lasted a short while, maybe his reaction won't be as severe as the last time? And finally if it all goes well and you end up making out or having sex or whatever, just keep in mind that she has it in her to cheat as she did with you, so there's no saying for sure that she won't cheat on you later with someone else.[/QUOTE] I tried but meh, I'm not sure. I'm not scared of the guy, I just don't know what the fuck I'm doing. I just got back home after being out with her and friends(PUI meh) and she didn't seem like she wanted to do much. [editline]21st April 2011[/editline] I wish I had tried to do more today, fuck.
The whole concept that the boyfriend might hurt you if you steal the girl is stupid. The only dudes that retaliate in violence toward the guy that stole their girlfriend are convicted felons and whatnot. Otherwise, the guy is more likely to be angry at the girl than you.
Sounds like you're already losing momentum. One thing though is that you were with her friends. You want to try create a situation where you're alone with her so escalation is possible/easier. Don't see her too often either. I'd say wait a couple of days, and then take her on a date. As soon as you meet up, hug her/kiss on the cheek to start things physically straight away. From there, escalate with touching (light pats during conversation, leading her by the hand/arm, etc). She probably didn't seem like she wanted to do much because you weren't doing anything. Since when is the female the initiator? Are you asking advice on how exactly you can get a kiss close? On the topic of proms, my year 10 formal was pretty fun tbh. It was when my ex and I first started dating so we were still all excited and everything, and we snuck out of the hall whilst everyone was having their lame dance, ending up making out in a small room under the hall. It was like out of the movies or some shit, makes for a nice memory. That being said, the after party following that formal was where I first had sex, so there you go.
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