• Maverick's Love/Relationship/Social Advice Megathread
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[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29382341]or she.. just isn't able to text right now?[/QUOTE] for five hours
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;29382709]for five hours[/QUOTE] how "clingy' have you been?
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29382771]how "clingy' have you been?[/QUOTE] just one text. im paranoid, haha.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;29382785]just one text. im paranoid, haha.[/QUOTE] clingy is constantly texting someone. sometimes i force myself to take breaks from people so im not clingy. also you got to also be aware some people just take a long time to reply to texts. I got a reply from a friend to a text i sent 2 days ago.
[QUOTE=ScoutKing;29382894]clingy is constantly texting someone. sometimes i force myself to take breaks from people so im not clingy. also you got to also be aware some people just take a long time to reply to texts. I got a reply from a friend to a text i sent 2 days ago.[/QUOTE] i suppose. [editline]23rd April 2011[/editline] turns out she blew me off, haha.
Sucks. My friend was clingy today and I didn't know how to get rid of him so I just started watching Seinfeld and he left.
okay she just sent me this long ass text about how her parents are getting a divorce and she just got my texts now and she has to go to her grandma's and yadi yada. i mean, at risk of sounding like an insensitive cunt, it does sound a bit convenient. i don't really know why anyone would use parents divorcing as an excuse, but i guess i've heard of stranger things. she said she'll make it up to me, so i suppose that's a good sign. i just have no idea how to respond to something like this. [img]http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS5jI9fyCSakCqHG4x0Sib2VjUCVgJLhHFiz6KpceUcnNtzRNeP&t=1[/img]
Haha she took all that time just to think of an elaborate excuse. No but seriously, most girls don't put that much effort into excuses. The more elaborate it is, the more likely it is to be true. Girls are good at lying, they know not to leave a lot of loose ends and/or means of getting busted.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29385907]Haha she took all that time just to think of an elaborate excuse. No but seriously, most girls don't put that much effort into excuses. The more elaborate it is, the more likely it is to be true. Girls are good at lying, they know not to leave a lot of loose ends and/or means of getting busted.[/QUOTE] honestly reading this thread (and LA when it [i]existed[/i]) has conditioned me to make that my first thought, but i figured that only a sick twisted fuckwit would lie about something like a divorce. i mean i know people get divorced all the time, but i also know it can be really difficult on the kids sometimes. i don't even know, mang. she did suggest an alternate for next weekend, though. third time's the charm, i suppose.
Im supposed to be meeting a girl on friday. A bit of backstory... My friends told her to add me on facebook, we got talking and have been constantly texting and talking to eachother on cam. We get on quite well so far, same music interests, same hobbies, same favorite colors and artists, similar subjects at school and ambitions. She is unbelievably pretty, sweet voice and the biggest, nicest eyes ever. I dont know how to act when meeting someone under these conditions (meeting online, never talking in person). Any tips on what to do? How to break the awkward silences that will no doubt plague the day?
Put your hand down her pants.
"we got talking and have been constantly texting and talking to eachother on cam. We get on quite well so far" By that logic you should be able to talk to her without making things too awkward, just relax.
[QUOTE=Retarded Turtle;29386052]Im supposed to be meeting a girl on friday. A bit of backstory... My friends told her to add me on facebook, we got talking and have been constantly texting and talking to eachother on cam. We get on quite well so far, same music interests, same hobbies, same favorite colors and artists, similar subjects at school and ambitions. She is unbelievably pretty, sweet voice and the biggest, nicest eyes ever. I dont know how to act when meeting someone under these conditions (meeting online, never talking in person). Any tips on what to do? How to break the awkward silences that will no doubt plague the day?[/QUOTE] Just imagine there's a computer screen between you. Actually don't because then you might start jacking off under the imaginary desk.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;29386004]honestly reading this thread (and LA when it [i]existed[/i]) has conditioned me to make that my first thought, but i figured that only a sick twisted fuckwit would lie about something like a divorce. i mean i know people get divorced all the time, but i also know it can be really difficult on the kids sometimes. i don't even know, mang. she did suggest an alternate for next weekend, though. third time's the charm, i suppose.[/QUOTE] If she actually suggested and committed to an alternate, then she wasn't just lying and blowing you off. That would defeat the whole purpose of blowing you off anyway.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29389073]If she actually suggested and committed to an alternate, then she wasn't just lying and blowing you off. That would defeat the whole purpose of blowing you off anyway.[/QUOTE] ~inconsequential~
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;29389248]~inconsequential~[/QUOTE] if her parents are divorcing, you should probably throw out your ideas for awhile. Cause TRUST me. That shit changes people. So expect them to be really bitchy and down for the next.. ohh few months.
Or, in my case, three years.
[QUOTE=Phsykotik;29389790]Or, in my case, three years.[/QUOTE] eh my parents split when i was 2, but it was nasty, and 15 years later there is still a lot of drama,court,AG office, money, and shit attempts to slander each other. So yeah, ugly shit. Don't be expecting to ask much of anything from someone who just had their parents split.
^thanks for the advice^ not being sarcastic
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could of just said no. everyone will get pissed off if you say "fuck off"
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I don't believe you.
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Dude learn to articulate whatever your actual problem is and then maybe you could actually get some advice.
well im just asking how to get rid of her when she won't leave me alone.
He's saying his ex wants to get back together again. I honestly don't believe a word he says though, because he doesn't actually have a question, he seems like he just wants to tell us about his ex and how he "told her off like a man" instead. [editline]24th April 2011[/editline] Oh ninja. Is that a real question? Just tell her to stop and that you're not interested at all. If she honestly doesn't stop then that's a serious problem.
yeah i will just snip all my random shit, i apologize. ill just tell her to seriously stop it and leave me alone, and well, let's hope it gets better.
[QUOTE=ForgotPassword;29396555]So there is this cute girl who are one of my neighbors. I live in those apartments that are about 4 stories btw. I don't know her but we have run into each other a few times while leaving or entering the building. I try to give her a smile but I'm so nervous. It's not weird to give her a simple "hello" or "hey" is it?[/QUOTE] Really just go ahead and say hi. Most of the time people will talk if you take the time to start a converstion. Even if you just start by talkin about somthing genral like how its fuckin snowing in April or somthing it a place to start so font think its weird just to say hi.
[QUOTE=ForgotPassword;29396555]So there is this cute girl who are one of my neighbors. I live in those apartments that are about 4 stories btw. I don't know her but we have run into each other a few times while leaving or entering the building. I try to give her a smile but I'm so nervous. It's not weird to give her a simple "hello" or "hey" is it?[/QUOTE] Yes she'll call the police. Man the fuck up.
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