Okay I have this problem...When I'm with my girlfriend I feel as though I don't kiss/touch her enough. I know for a fact that she enjoys it and it is also appropriate for the current situation. I think about doing it but I don't. What the hell is wrong with me?
Just do it, wtf.
She isn't going to think any less of you for it, if she's your girlfriend she'll just want to reciprocate. You've got nothing to lose, and sexytime to gain. :pervert:
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;29397166]Just do it, wtf.[/QUOTE]
That's exactly what I think... It's bullshit I know.
I know what you mean, I sorta have the same problem.
I'll be sitting there like "what am I doing why am I not kissing her" and I still won't do it.
I found you just need to force yourself to open up and make contact. Once you start forcing yourself to have balls, you start to get them.
Even do it in day to day conversations, just touch people's arms lightly when talking to them and stuff like that. Once you start forcing yourself to be more touchy feely, you become more touchy feely.
Hai guyz how do I ask this girl out?? It needs 2 be EXTRA speshul!!
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[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29399409]I know what you mean, I sorta have the same problem.
I'll be sitting there like "what am I doing why am I not kissing her" and I still won't do it.
I found you just need to force yourself to open up and make contact. Once you start forcing yourself to have balls, you start to get them.
Even do it in day to day conversations, just touch people's arms lightly when talking to them and stuff like that. Once you start forcing yourself to be more touchy feely, you become more touchy feely.[/QUOTE]
Yeah that is my exact problem. Thats for the advice, I shall try.
[QUOTE=Nonikai;29399749]Hai guyz how do I ask this girl out?? It needs 2 be EXTRA speshul!!
:laugh:[/QUOTE]
I can't tell if you are even being serious or not, but if you are serious. It doesn't need to be super special, just put a little effort into whatever you do. I personally learned how to make an origami rose and gave it to her on valentines. Rather than just buying a rose I really put time and effort into making it (many many bad attempts), and she recognised that. It goes a long way.
You're most likely joking but anyway, may help anyone else that looks at this.
Is he being serious? Is he not? :iiam:
Yeah he's not being serious.
[QUOTE=Lukeo;29400091]Is he being serious? Is he not? :iiam:
Yeah he's not being serious.[/QUOTE]
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there is a guy that iv been dating on and off for the psrt year. then he changed schools and we didnt talk for almost a year. then just last week he starts talking to me agen and we see eachother a few times. now he has a gf right now but whenver i c him he spends more time with his hands up my shirt then anything. and i no hes is going to hurt me agan if we get back together but at the same time i dont no if i can just stay friends with him. so i really dont no what to do
You should touch him on the penis.
[QUOTE=xxDeadx.xMetalx;29404353]there is a guy that iv been dating on and off for the psrt year. then he changed schools and we didnt talk for almost a year. then just last week he starts talking to me agen and we see eachother a few times. now he has a gf right now but whenver i c him he spends more time with his hands up my shirt then anything. and i no hes is going to hurt me agan if we get back together but at the same time i dont no if i can just stay friends with him. so i really dont no what to do[/QUOTE]
I...what?
[QUOTE=Occlusion;29407302]ah fuck i think i like one of my friends.
fuck[/QUOTE]
Ask her out if you like her.
If you don't, don't.
It's not such a bad situation.
people always say "touch her arm touch her arm"
and i mean not saying it's a bad idea but i can never really think of a time when it would be proper
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29342441]The trick to stealing a girl is to pretend like she doesn't have a boyfriend at all.
Don't ever bring it up, and if she brings it up, deflect the conversation immediately. It's like Inception up in that bitch. You don't go in there and say "Break up with your boyfriend," because it makes her think about her boyfriend and put up a defensive wall. What you do is continually impress her and draw her attention away from the boyfriend, so she thinks on her own "Wow, this guy is better than my boyfriend."
That's the big mistake kids make. They get desperate and tell girls "But he's an asshole and treats you like shit! You deserve so much better!" Her breaking up with the boyfriend is a decision she must come to make on her own without any direct influence from you. It's all indirect mind games.[/QUOTE]
So act as if he doesn't exist at all? As in, ask her out normally?
How do you deflect the conversation if she was to say something like, "You know I can't; I've got a boyfriend."?
[QUOTE=Faren;29409675]So act as if he doesn't exist at all? As in, ask her out normally?
How do you deflect the conversation if she was to say something like, "You know I can't; I've got a boyfriend."?[/QUOTE]
"And?"
If she doesn't say yes at this point either you're ugly or she thinks she loves him.
[editline]24th April 2011[/editline]
or if you're a sly motherfucker you could say "it'll be our little secret" but that really only works when you're george clooney.
all you john c reilly's need not apply.
[QUOTE=Faren;29409675]So act as if he doesn't exist at all? As in, ask her out normally?
How do you deflect the conversation if she was to say something like, "You know I can't; I've got a boyfriend."?[/QUOTE]
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe what he means is not that you should pretend she doesn't have a boyfriend, because that's denial. Instead you want to make her want to break up with him not because you put him down, but because you subtly make yourself look like a better option.
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[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;29408869]Ask her out if you like her.
If you don't, don't.
It's not such a bad situation.[/QUOTE]
Would do, she's got exams till end of june and is grounded till then so somewhat pointless for a month or two though haha
oh well give it till then and see if i still like her
Does it mean anything if a girl says "I really like you, you're fab" on fb chat?
[QUOTE=kiooora;29409939]Does it mean anything if a girl says "I really like you, you're fab" on fb chat?[/QUOTE]
she thinks you're gay
[editline]24th April 2011[/editline]
but really, in and of itself, that doesn't hold much weight. It most likely means she just likes you as a friend.
[QUOTE=kiooora;29409939]Does it mean anything if a girl says "I really like you, you're fab" on fb chat?[/QUOTE]
friendzOWN'd xD
[editline]24th April 2011[/editline]
but yea what zzzZZZZ said
okay thanks
[QUOTE=Pown;29409800]Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe what he means is not that you should pretend she doesn't have a boyfriend, because that's denial. Instead you want to make her want to break up with him not because you put him down, but because you subtly make yourself look like a better option.
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Just change the subject, let her forget about her boyfriend.
If she brings him up, you're probably not going to get anywhere, so change the subject and try again when she forgets about him.
Is it bad if I didn't know the girls name on the first date? We ended up dating for 2 years.
[QUOTE=Faren;29409675]So act as if he doesn't exist at all? As in, ask her out normally?
How do you deflect the conversation if she was to say something like, "You know I can't; I've got a boyfriend."?[/QUOTE]
You don't ask girls with boyfriends out in the same manner you do single girls.
With taken girls, you [b]do[/b] want to use the words "hang out" and whatnot. You want whatever you do to be disguised as a "just friends" kind of endeavor. This puts her at ease and keeps her from raising walls up. Even if you manage to get her to go on a legitimate date with you, she'll be really reserved and uneasy because she knows she's cheating.
If you disguise everything as just friends hanging out, she's put at ease even if she knows your real intentions. So, if you say "Hey, you should come to the movies with my on Saturday," and she replies, "You know I have a boyfriend," you respond with, "So? I meant just as friends," with a smug look on your face.
I guess I worded things wrongly when I said to pretend he doesn't exist. I mean it in the context that you behave around her like you would if she was single. You don't bring up the boyfriend and when she says something about him, you completely ignore it by diverting the conversation.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29411042]You don't ask girls with boyfriends out in the same manner you do single girls.
With taken girls, you [b]do[/b] want to use the words "hang out" and whatnot. You want whatever you do to be disguised as a "just friends" kind of endeavor. This puts her at ease and keeps her from raising walls up. Even if you manage to get her to go on a legitimate date with you, she'll be really reserved and uneasy because she knows she's cheating.
If you disguise everything as just friends hanging out, she's put at ease even if she knows your real intentions. So, if you say "Hey, you should come to the movies with my on Saturday," and she replies, "You know I have a boyfriend," you respond with, "So? I meant just as friends," with a smug look on your face.
I guess I worded things wrongly when I said to pretend he doesn't exist. I mean it in the context that you behave around her like you would if she was single. You don't bring up the boyfriend and when she says something about him, you completely ignore it by diverting the conversation.[/QUOTE]
I thought this was mostly obvious.
[QUOTE=zzzZZZZ;29411460]I thought this was mostly obvious.[/QUOTE]
"i have no idea what the fuck im talking about but i'll quote mav to make people think i was just about to say the same thing also you're all dumb for not realizing what i'm quoting"
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