I'm being bullied at school - General

[QUOTE=kraffslol;28805679]Some people have it easier than others to make friends. It always depends on the people in the class. Some are assholes, some are not.[/QUOTE] This is true, some classes are pure shit. Still, the chance that they are all assholes is low, so OP should try and find why everyone is avoiding him.

Kick their asses

OP needs to hang out with kids like him. 10 bucks says he's trying to interact with the "popular" kids.

I've heard that shooting sprees are a great way of fixing problems like this.

Oh and how many have read the OP? Seems like it's not many. He's not being bullied physically right now, actually he's not being bullied at all, just ignored.

[QUOTE=acds;28805777]Oh and how many have read the OP? Seems like it's not many. He's not being bullied physically right now, actually he's not being bullied at all, just ignored.[/QUOTE] Bullying doesnt have to be physical.. You're an idiot if you think that this isnt bullying.

are you by any chance living in Vellinge, Oxie or Sjöbo? because those towns are shit and you should avoid them

We should allow and encourage suicide because people should be able to do whatever they want with their bodies.

If you are taller/bigger than your agressors, look them straight in the eye, and tell them you will not take their shit anymore. Say it in the most serious voice you possibly can.

I'm sorry I have to ask this, but it's relevant to this thread. OP, are you fat?

[QUOTE=acds;28805777]Oh and how many have read the OP? Seems like it's not many. He's not being bullied physically right now, actually he's not being bullied at all, just ignored.[/QUOTE] This. The kid is approaching them and they are either ignoring him or telling him to get away. They aren't hounding him or anything like that.

[QUOTE=Explosions;28805820]We should allow and encourage suicide because people should be able to do whatever they want with their bodies.[/QUOTE] Thanks I broke my keyboard and F6 is lodged in my skull.

[QUOTE=Raiskauskone V2;28804395]You're in sweden and you understand english? Depending on where you life I can drive to you in 4-10 hours, I'm going to get you wasted and teach you how to be cool. Those fuckers at school never know what hit 'em[/QUOTE] Raiskauskone means Rape Machine in Finnish.

[QUOTE=Mr.T;28804289] Absolutley no one in my class ever hangs out with me, everytime I hear that many of my classmates are going to the cinema or having a lan party or something, I ask them if I can come. They always say no or sometimes when I ask them on facebook they just sign out. When I actually am allowed to come, everyone avoids me and sometimes when I walk with the classmates they say "Don't walk with us, your embarrising all of us". So I have no one to speak to, no one to hang out and on top of that everyone I meet always thinks bad of me because either my pronunciation is not good or that I am very much into technology and science. I am always alone, or in internet terms "Forever Alone". I am so depressed and I do not know what to do.[/QUOTE] same here...pretty much

[QUOTE=Mr.T;28804357]I'm 14.[/QUOTE] 14 and your classmates still haven't grown out of their shit? That's a bit sad.

[QUOTE=acds;28805777]Oh and how many have read the OP? Seems like it's not many. He's not being bullied physically right now, actually he's not being bullied at all, just ignored.[/QUOTE] No cause ignoring someone isn't bullying, fucking nutjob, but that comes from a nolifer with 7 posts a day over 3 years, jeeez

[QUOTE=MaverickIB;28805773]OP needs to hang out with kids like him. 10 bucks says he's trying to interact with the "popular" kids.[/QUOTE] No. [editline]25th March 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=deggie;28805804]are you by any chance living in Vellinge, Oxie or Sjöbo? because those towns are shit and you should avoid them[/QUOTE] In fact, I live around those parts.

There's a foreign guy in my school, nobody likes him. But it's not because he's foreign, but because he's a complete idiot. I know it's impossible not to offend you saying this, but maybe that's your case, and you don't realize it.

[QUOTE=kraffslol;28805797]Bullying doesnt have to be physical.. You're an idiot if you think that this isnt bullying.[/QUOTE] You're an idiot for confusing exclusion with bullying. Both are equally damaging but they're definitely not the same. In middle school I was constantly bullied and harassed for various reasons. I realized that it was all bullshit and none of it mattered so I began to disregard everything around me and just focus on my work. School turned into an occupation for me, but don't make the mistake of treating high school the same way. Half my high school career was spent alone and frustrated because of it. In high school you'll be able to meet people who share your interests and you won't be excluded nearly as much.

[QUOTE=Mr.T;28804289]Hello Facepunch, I am having the worst time of my life. I have been bullied ever since I moved to Sweden. People hate me for what I am. When I was in 4th grade, I was thrown around, the teachers ignored and sometimes insulted me and the students hated me because I am half english and my Swedish pronunciation is not perfect. Sometimes they started to punch me and do all kinds of shit against me. I had enough of it and went to the headmaster, she just laughed at me. So I consulted my parents on what to do and we finally decided to move school when I was in 6th grade. I thought I would make new friends, start fresh. Present Day Absolutley no one in my class ever hangs out with me, everytime I hear that many of my classmates are going to the cinema or having a lan party or something, I ask them if I can come. They always say no or sometimes when I ask them on facebook they just sign out. When I actually am allowed to come, everyone avoids me and sometimes when I walk with the classmates they say "Don't walk with us, your embarrising all of us". So I have no one to speak to, no one to hang out and on top of that everyone I meet always thinks bad of me because either my pronunciation is not good or that I am very much into technology and science. I am always alone, or in internet terms "Forever Alone". I am so depressed and I do not know what to do.[/QUOTE] I was bullied from 6th grade to about my Junior year in high school (11th grade) The one thing i learned real quickly was to find something that takes the pain away for me it was gaming and working out. Once you can release some steam in a healthy way that is not harmful to you or others you can then work on the problem itself. Take a step back and get an over view of the situition. To think of it eaiser stand in front of a mirror and look at yourself, i'm not saying change yourself for others but seriously look at your apperance. Does it fit who YOU are? do you match sock colors? are your jeans ment for the correct time era and not a back up pair to grease? Fix things that you find wrong but make sure you can come off looking "good" to yourself meaning never doubt that you look good it gives you a sense of confidence which i find people like people with strong and good confidence. Next is your hygiene good? Like every morning do you floss, brush , and use mouth wash? Is your hair always washed? I used to go through my 8th grade year semi showered and same clothes and never brushing my teeth to becoming the type of guy that brushes 3 times a day, always washing my hair after a day or before i go off to work, always putting on deodrant and colonge. I'm not saying to you that the way to get happy is to be somethign your not, what i'm suggesting is you need to see if it's time to "improve" on some aspects of your life. Also as a kid growing up with ADHD i learned that it's best to just observe what it is the other kids do around you and learn from them that way you're not completely socially akward. Hope i helped somehow.

[QUOTE=Mr. Scorpio;28804401] congratulations, you've attracted a wild internet rapist[/QUOTE] two.

[QUOTE=Monomiro;28806129]You're an idiot for confusing exclusion with bullying. Both are equally damaging but they're definitely not the same.[/QUOTE] 3. Indirect bullying includes spreading rumors or stories about someone, telling others about something that was told to you in private, and excluding others from groups. Douchè.

[QUOTE=Monomiro;28806129]You're an idiot for confusing exclusion with bullying. Both are equally damaging but they're definitely not the same.[/QUOTE] A group of classmates excluding someone IS bullying if hes trying to reach out to them.

You don't generally hang out with people until you become friends with them. Sounds like your trying to ask them to hang out with you but you didn't even talk to them.

you could always hang out with the goth kids at school they hate everybody, even themselves

Bullying was pretty big in my middle school, sad to say, i took part a couple times. Putting kids in trash cans or making fun of girls with mustaches. When you get to high school things will change, thats what happened in my school. Some bullying still went on, but those were the douchebag kids. I was friends with just about anyone at my hs, i could sit at any table in the lunch room but i hung out with the wrestler football players (weird cuz i was the gamer soccer player) so when they would make fun of people I would step in and say a good word on the person. I always found it weird whenever my city friends would tell me of all the clicks in their schools. Although my brother says things have changed in my old hs, lots of punk skaters and guidos. All I have to say is hang in there, keep being who you are. Keep being friendly. You'll make friends, and hey if you don't in highschool you will in college. The douchebags wont have good enough grades to get into one.

[QUOTE=kraffslol;28806178]A group of classmates excluding someone IS bullying if hes trying to reach out to them.[/QUOTE] Maybe he should just take the hint that they don't like him and stop wasting his time and find people who he will actually get along with.

Maybe you're better off having no friends, not trying to sound harsh, or maybe that's not your ideal way. But I don't have many friends so I don't have to set my expectation bar very high. I've learned to rely on myself for excitement, etc. That's just my point of view though.

Tell them to fuck off when they come to you asking for drug money in their late thirties.

I had a bad time in middle school. Totally unrelated to that, I went to an engineering charter school and have been so happy ever since. I have way to many friends and I'm always gone hanging out with them.