[QUOTE=wildwill;20659684]I really am thinking of the child in this. That is and has been my concern from the beginning. I feel like your actions did nothing for the child and only helped boost your ego. We are back at the beginning of the thread.[/QUOTE]
Well you both don't seem to like the fact that there is an obese mother who doesn't give a shit about her kids and that is something to agree on, so just calm down.
[QUOTE=Sergeant Stacker;20659726]Well you both don't seem to like the fact that there is an obese mother who doesn't give a shit about her kids and that is something to agree on, so just calm down.[/QUOTE]
No one was talking to you! If you were my kid I'd smack you right in the....Oh shit, someones looking. Hey there sweety, run along now. :)
You're right, no one was talking to me. But you two are arguing about something that you should be agreeing on.
[QUOTE=wildwill;20659684]I really am thinking of the child in this. That is and has been my concern from the beginning. I feel like your actions did nothing for the child and only helped boost your ego. We are back at the beginning of the thread.[/QUOTE]
So then let's start at the beginning. Point out to me where I am boosting my ego. Please, because either I've misread what I've typed, or I'm just blind and haven't read any posts. Point out where I called her names, and where we got into an argument bad enough, where the child has to suffer. Quote all the posts of mine that you want, ask or PM any person here, who has either agreed or disagreed, and show me where I am displaying myself as a hero. You, the one trying to find the one fault in any of my posts, are trying to get an ego boost. Because you know if you do, you'll get all the attention is this thread. You'll be the one, who singlehandedly proved Identity wrong. Everyone will agree with you, and you'll log off happy that you found a way to utterly "break" the thread, and show everyone here what an egotistical asshole I am. Just remember that every action I took in this event had a reason behind it. And you can show me all of them. Quote them, put them into bullets, hell, email me a powerpoint. You can't accept the fact that someone, a random stranger, stood up to someones comment, that will affect a persons life. But you as a parent don't see that. All you want is change and reasons. Well Will, not everything happens for a reason. I'll leave you to your tasking. I'll check the thread tomorrow for any questions or declarative statements you have, either helpful, hurtful, and ones that are disagreeing with this post. As for now, I wish you a good night. But see, there must be a reason and an action behind that, right?
I can imagine you saying that.
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Jokes aside, I completely agree with your problem with the bitch's remark, but arguing with her won't make her love her child more. This is why you ಠ_ಠ and shake your head at them.
[QUOTE=Klammyxxl;20659960]I can imagine you saying that.
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Jokes aside, I completely agree with your problem with the bitch's remark, but arguing with her won't make her love her child more. This is why you ಠ_ಠ and shake your head at them.[/QUOTE]
I know and I realized that. I felt bad about saying it. I don't know, I guess I take it kind of personal. I don't have a father, and seeing another kid who's unwanted just really gets to me.
[QUOTE=Sergeant Stacker;20659805]You're right, no one was talking to me. But you two are arguing about something that you should be agreeing on.[/QUOTE]
Easy tiger, I was only joking there.
[QUOTE=Identity;20654987]\
Why make a thread about it? I don't really know. I guess it kind of irks me when when a parent says not to have kids in front of her four year old son. I can't imagine how he must feel after that, or if he really interpreted that at all.[/QUOTE]
He's four. He won't know what it means.
[QUOTE=teeheeV2;20660117]He's four. He won't know what it means.[/QUOTE]
He might be a child prodigy, you never know.
[QUOTE=Identity;20658267]Boosting my ego? Not for me. I don't like egos, nor people who intentionally boost them. The comment was never to hurt, nor harm. It was merely a question of "Why do you have kids, if you don't want them?"[/QUOTE]
is that an ironical joke?
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[QUOTE=Identity;20660023]I know and I realized that. I felt bad about saying it. I don't know, I guess I take it kind of personal. I don't have a father, and seeing another kid who's unwanted just really gets to me.[/QUOTE]
yeah i didn't have a dad too, but i mind my own business
if i was in her position, i'd frankly tell you to go fuck yourself
[QUOTE=Identity;20659820]So then let's start at the beginning. Point out to me where I am boosting my ego. Please, because either I've misread what I've typed, or I'm just blind and haven't read any posts. Point out where I called her names, and where we got into an argument bad enough, where the child has to suffer. Quote all the posts of mine that you want, ask or PM any person here, who has either agreed or disagreed, and show me where I am displaying myself as a hero. You, the one trying to find the one fault in any of my posts, are trying to get an ego boost. Because you know if you do, you'll get all the attention is this thread. You'll be the one, who singlehandedly proved Identity wrong. Everyone will agree with you, and you'll log off happy that you found a way to utterly "break" the thread, and show everyone here what an egotistical asshole I am. Just remember that every action I took in this event had a reason behind it. And you can show me all of them. Quote them, put them into bullets, hell, email me a powerpoint. You can't accept the fact that someone, a random stranger, stood up to someones comment, that will affect a persons life. But you as a parent don't see that. All you want is change and reasons. Well Will, not everything happens for a reason. I'll leave you to your tasking. I'll check the thread tomorrow for any questions or declarative statements you have, either helpful, hurtful, and ones that are disagreeing with this post. As for now, I wish you a good night. But see, there must be a reason and an action behind that, right?[/QUOTE]
I really seems like I must have poked your little ego button there, whoops.
[QUOTE=Identity;20656047]I didn't mind her being defensive. I knew that was going to happen anyway. And my opinion was greater? I never said anything about it being the best one in the world.
And people who speak up get on your nerves?[/QUOTE]
No, people who speak up don't get on my nerves. This is also a response to everyone else who quoted me.
In that situation you could have just moved on, no need to say anything. First off it is a waste of time, because whatever you say is going to be ignored by the person you are saying it to.
If you want to have an opinion and express your opinion, do so at the correct time. I just feel that overhearing someone say something at a store is a good reason to approach them and give your 2 cents.
When I said you think your opinion is better than everyone elses it is because of the situation you presented your opinion. There was really no need to present your opinion unless you thought it was better than what this woman thought.
I don't believe you walk around thinking your views are better all the time, but like I previously stated, when you present a statement in this timing you give off the impression that your opinion is better.
[QUOTE=wildwill;20660690]I really seems like I must have poked your little ego button there, whoops.[/QUOTE]
You didn't even tell him why, which means hes right.
[QUOTE=PivotDJ;20660883]You didn't even tell him why, which means hes right.[/QUOTE]
You think so eh?
OP is a fucking hero. Seriously. More people should act like this.
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We need to cut down on fat people.
[QUOTE=Identity;20654987]So I'm grocery shopping last night, browsing amognst grilling spices, when I see this lady and her friend, who, quite literally, is the size of a small sedan, come strolling down the aisle. The younger female, is a bit slimmer, and has two kids, one who is about four, and another who is maybe a few months, to a year old. The older child is trying to get his mother's attention for a question he has. No big deal, could've a been a yes or no answer. What does the mother say to her friend? "This is why you never have children." That made me pissed. I looked at her and said "Why didn't you keep your legs closed then?" She shoots me a glare and tells me to "Mind my own fucking business." Now her fat friend tries to get in on the action. I tell her simply to shut her mouth, because this is a conversation beteween her friend and I. Basically, I tell her to be an actually fucking parent and acknowledge her kid, rather than wish he was gone.
Why make a thread about it? I don't really know. I guess it kind of irks me when when a parent says not to have kids in front of her four year old son. I can't imagine how he must feel after that, or if he really interpreted that at all.[/QUOTE]
Rated agree because as I got to "This is why you never have children", the same response came through my mind.
[QUOTE=Identity;20654987]So I'm grocery shopping last night, browsing amognst grilling spices, when I see this lady and her friend, who, quite literally, is the size of a small sedan, come strolling down the aisle. The younger female, is a bit slimmer, and has two kids, one who is about four, and another who is maybe a few months, to a year old. The older child is trying to get his mother's attention for a question he has. No big deal, could've a been a yes or no answer. What does the mother say to her friend? "This is why you never have children." That made me pissed. I looked at her and said "Why didn't you keep your legs closed then?" She shoots me a glare and tells me to "Mind my own fucking business." Now her fat friend tries to get in on the action. I tell her simply to shut her mouth, because this is a conversation beteween her friend and I. Basically, I tell her to be an actually fucking parent and acknowledge her kid, rather than wish he was gone.
Why make a thread about it? I don't really know. I guess it kind of irks me when when a parent says not to have kids in front of her four year old son. I can't imagine how he must feel after that, or if he really interpreted that at all.[/QUOTE]
I know how you feel. Last week I served this mother and her partner and child and her son says hello to me the mother immediately told him to shut up and I was thinking "wtf that is no way to treat your child" I wish I could've said something but I would've gotten into a lot oftrouble with the boss if she complained.
Wow, that really shouldn't happen at all.
The girl saying that you shouldn't have children of course.
Good thing you told her what for.
Don't understand why people disagree. Probably would have done the same thing.
[QUOTE=BrickInHead;20655248]so, have you never dealt with a child before? they're annoying little fucks, especially in shopping centers in which every other sentence is "buy me this"
it was crass of her to say such a thing but I guarantee what the kid was going to ask wasn't going to be anything profound
good burn tho[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=wildwill;20661073]You think so eh?[/QUOTE]
I think so. You fell back to your ego remark again and you presented nothing to backup that statement. Really, this isn't to boost my internet ego. But keep thinking so, because maybe one day I'll want it stroked a few times, and then I'll do something for attention. As for now, let me post my story in General Discussion.
[QUOTE=j-richardson;20655107]Leave the parents to do the parenting[/QUOTE]
And then curse yourself 10 years later when that same kid has grown up all fucked up and is mugging you with a knife behind the local convenience store.
If no one ever said anything, nothing would ever change. I applaud to you OP.
ITT people who are not parents
[editline]08:14AM[/editline]
HEY WE DON'T HAVE KIDS OR ANYTHING BUT WE'RE GONNA TELL YOU HOW TO RAISE YOURS.
you go have a kid, come back here and tell me they don't fuckin piss you off.
I have a kid. And he's an ASSHOLE. Don't you fuckin say that makes me a bad parent because I'm not gonna fuckin lie to everyone.
[editline]08:21AM[/editline]
Not only does he fuckin cry for no reason whatsoever every fuckin night, but he imposes HIS bullshit on to me, and then I start panicking thinkin something is actually fuckin wrong, get up at 3AM in the fuckin morning to go to the doctor just to find out he's just bullshitting everyone.
Someone who fuckin makes noise EVERY NIGHT and outright DENIES YOU the ability to sleep. That person is a fuckin ASSHOLE.
[QUOTE=Lankist;20663208]ITT people who are not parents
[editline]08:14AM[/editline]
HEY WE DON'T HAVE KIDS OR ANYTHING BUT WE'RE GONNA TELL YOU HOW TO RAISE YOURS.
you go have a kid, come back here and tell me they don't fuckin piss you off.
I have a kid. And he's an ASSHOLE. Don't you fuckin say that makes me a bad parent because I'm not gonna fuckin lie to everyone.
[editline]08:21AM[/editline]
Not only does he fuckin cry for no reason whatsoever every fuckin night, but he imposes HIS bullshit on to me, and then I start panicking thinkin something is actually fuckin wrong, get up at 3AM in the fuckin morning to go to the doctor just to find out he's just bullshitting everyone.
Someone who fuckin makes noise EVERY NIGHT and outright DENIES YOU the ability to sleep. That person is a fuckin ASSHOLE.[/QUOTE]
You should get castrated for this post.
[QUOTE=Laserbeams;20663386]You should get castrated for this post.[/QUOTE]
So how is your child-rearing experience been?
[editline]08:46AM[/editline]
Because you seem to know so much about the process.
[editline]08:47AM[/editline]
See, I used to say the same shit when I was a fuckin bachelor. Then running 6 months on bare minimal sleep, shit changes a bit.
[editline]08:47AM[/editline]
OOOOH riiiight you're 15.
All kids are annoying, you know, but most parents still love them. If you dont, then something is really wrong with you
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