[QUOTE=sp00ks;29488147]Burden of proof is on you. You said gays have more oestrogen, we say no.
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He already provided a source though..
[QUOTE=archangel125;29487807]My advice would be to meet him, OP. If your parents say he's a nice guy, he probably is, and he'll certainly be an intelligent one if he's a doctor. You may find you get along rather well.
Besides, it'll be interesting to see if you recognize any of your own characteristics in him, wouldn't it? Given that he's your biological father and all. I wouldn't miss this opportunity.[/QUOTE]
In short. What this guy said.
[QUOTE=stupidass;29488049]I'm not going to lie in saying that is really, really weird.
But thats just my opinion.
Is that even legal what your parents did?[/QUOTE]
I think when one's rights are not recognized by one's government, the illegal route to getting what one wants is perfectly acceptable.
[editline]28th April 2011[/editline]
[QUOTE=David Cameron;29488182]He already provided a source though..[/QUOTE]
Not a reliable one, and his source says nothing about estrogen.
[QUOTE=David Cameron;29487940]How is it unacceptable? They were serious questions and you're taking offence to them like it was aimed at you. There's nothing wrong with those questions whatsoever.
I'm not homophobic at all I was just curious. Was it really that inappropriate?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=David Cameron;29484061]You're referring to people studying other animal fags?
They probably suffered some kind of trauma early in life - If they, like humans, are raised properly they will be straight.[/QUOTE]
Not homophobic at all.
The Conservatives are not welcome in this thread...
...BE GONE.
[QUOTE=David Cameron;29488182]He already provided a source though..[/QUOTE]
A shitty source that proves nothing.
You shouldn't really be afraid, since you've never met him before he's a stranger so treat him like a regular guy. The father thing shouldn't really make a difference since neither of you have invested anything in each other, what I'm trying to say is go meet him and if you guys hit it off then you've made a new friend and if now then oh well.
Some people are never given the option to meet their real Dad in life, I don't think you should let this chance pass you by, meet him, don't you have any curiosity to know what type of man he is?
[QUOTE=archangel125;29487905]Reported. This is fucking unacceptable.[/QUOTE]
Relax sir white knight, no sense getting offended over a comment on the internet.
[QUOTE=Xenoyia v2;29488145]wow guys this guy is asking for help on an important life matter and you guys are arguing about oestrogen[/QUOTE]
I know it's hilarious. And so very sad. . .
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If only this could happen in the real Parliament...
It's really up to you OP. You feel uncomfortable, that's normal, it's not something you have to deal with every day (most people will never have to deal with anything like this). What matters is whether you're feeling [I]too[/I] uncomfortable to stop you from meeting your dad. Even though it's unlikely he'll be gone any time soon, would you really want to "risk" never meeting your real dad. Even though he's just a stranger to you now, he's basically still the reason you exist. Even if that is not important to you, it could be interesting nonetheless. And really, what's the worst thing that could happen, he sounds like an okay guy.
Also if you don't want to meet him then that's perfectly alright as well. I can't say I really understand why everybody is saying don't miss this chance to meet him because there is no bond between you too other then you share some DNA that besides from some physical features (and other stuff) contributed nothing to the person you are now. So the only reason I can think of wanting to see him over any other person is perhaps curiosity? I don't know but I feel like if I found out that I was adopted today and that I could go meet my real father I wouldn't really any drive to go meet him. As an advanced species with language and society I feel like we are no longer bound to one another by genetics but instead by the emotional bonds we form between one another through life, it just so happens that the two usually overlap.
[QUOTE=- Livewire -;29488302]Some people are never given the option to meet their real Dad in life, I don't think you should let this chance pass you by, meet him, don't you have any curiosity to know what type of man he is?[/QUOTE]
Of course I'm really curious to see what kind of man he is, and I think now that I should meet up with him, but I'm still really nervous. What if I meet him and I don't like him? Or what if he doesn't like me?
Anyway, OP. I have a feeling that if you don't take the opportunity to meet your biological father, it's something you'll regret ever after. Just be cool and cautiously optimistic :)
And honestly, I don't think it's possible he wouldn't like you. You're his biological son. If anything, I think he's terrified you'd be disappointed in HIM.
Are you gay?
[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29488368]Of course I'm really curious to see what kind of man he is, and I think now that I should meet up with him, but I'm still really nervous. What if I meet him and I don't like him? Or what if he doesn't like me?[/QUOTE]
No harm done, he got to meet you like he wanted to, and you got to meet him like you wanted to. Even if things don't work out, there will never be any doubt about whether it would work out.
You should meet you Dad, because if you decide he is a massive cunt and you don't want to know him then you can just avoid him in the future.
edited my last post, some good stuff mayhaps?
[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29488368]Of course I'm really curious to see what kind of man he is, and I think now that I should meet up with him, but I'm still really nervous. What if I meet him and I don't like him? Or what if he doesn't like me?[/QUOTE]
He'll love you. He's obviously interested in getting to know you and has been ever since you were planned. I think you're in a very unique and positive situation because you don't have a NEED to be nervous now that he's the one showing interest first. Also remember that first impressions don't ever hold true. Just go see him and keep an open mind. - You're not gonna hit off as son-and-father bffs4ever within this first meeting and for the same reason neither of you will be conclusively be able to say you dislike the other person. : )
[QUOTE=Aw_Hell;29488339]Also if you don't want to meet him then that's perfectly alright as well. I can't say I really understand why everybody is saying don't miss this chance to meet him because there is no bond between you too other then you share some DNA that besides from some physical features (and other stuff) contributed nothing to the person you are now. So the only reason I can think of wanting to see him over any other person is perhaps curiosity? I don't know but I feel like if I found out that I was adopted today and that I could go meet my real father I wouldn't really any drive to go meet him. As an advanced species with language and society I feel like we are no longer bound to one another by genetics but instead by the emotional bonds we form between one another through life, it just so happens that the two usually overlap.[/QUOTE]
You do make a point, but in a way I feel like I owe him this. I know that sounds weird, but he did help bring me here.
[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29488536]You do make a point, but in a way I feel like I owe him this. I know that sounds weird, but he did help bring me here.[/QUOTE]
You'll be okay, OP. It'll go well. Then you come back and tell us all about it, eh?
Good luck Spartan.
[QUOTE=archangel125;29488563]You'll be okay, OP. It'll go well. Then you come back and tell us all about it, eh?[/QUOTE]
Of course I'll keep you guys updated, I'm not going to leave you hanging on half a story.
Yes, good luck spartan, me and Live are rootin' for ya'!
Have you seen The Kids Are All Right? Great film. The plot of the movie is almost the exact same situation as you are in. Of course, with all the Hollywood drama.
How cool is the feeling of having two moms?
Stop being a pussy and go.
[QUOTE=Paravin;29488618]How cool is the feeling of having two moms?[/QUOTE]
Well one loves computers, camping and cars, and the other nags a lot.
[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29488636]Well one loves computers, camping and cars.[/QUOTE]Thats pretty awesome actually...
If I were you, I'd go because your mothers told you he's a nice guy and he's the one who wants to meet, so I suppose it'll turn out well.
Good luck
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