• Meeting my Dad for the first time
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[QUOTE=-z-e-m-i-;29490585]How old are you OP? I mean like, how long have you lived without knowing your father?[/QUOTE] 16.
Good luck OP, do what you feel is right. Meet him if you want, or don't if you don't
On a side note which will doubtless put your mind at ease, my dad is bald and I can safely say that they're only secretly evil geniuses if they have a tiny beard and a silly outfit.
Go meet your Dad OP. If it wasn't for him, you wouldn't be here today.
Go my Portal partner!
Go meet him. When will you have this opportunity again?
If I were you, I'd go and meet him, but I'd be really nervous. Serious question though, are you gay as well?
If you don't go meet him at some point, you're probably going to regret it later on in life. Sure it might be awkward as hell, but that's better than being stuck wondering "what if".
I would go meet him.
Good luck
[QUOTE=RedBlade2021;29491247]If I were you, I'd go and meet him, but I'd be really nervous. Serious question though, are you gay as well?[/QUOTE] Well I didn't really want to mention it, but I'm Bisexual. People can get the impression that my parents are 'forcing their gay on me', which is the most absurb thing I've ever heard.
Well I doubt you would have a chance later in life to see him if you turned this down, when you're 50 years old what do you think you will be thinking if you turn this down? Could you live with yourself without knowing who your dad ever was?
[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29491465]Well I didn't really want to mention it, but I'm Bisexual. People can get the impression that my parents are 'forcing their gay on me', which is the most absurb thing I've ever heard.[/QUOTE]Yea, I'm sure people will use that against you, which really sucks. At least you'll always have the support of your parents if you do decide one way or the other.
[QUOTE=RedBlade2021;29491544]Yea, I'm sure people will use that against you, which really sucks. At least you'll always have the support of your parents if you do decide one way or the other.[/QUOTE] Even if they did somehow "force him to be gay" would there still be a problem being gay and all? no.
[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29491465]Well I didn't really want to mention it, but I'm Bisexual. People can get the impression that my parents are 'forcing their gay on me', which is the most absurb thing I've ever heard.[/QUOTE] Obviously they didn't force you but this clearly swayed you.
[QUOTE=ultra_bright;29491576]Even if they did somehow "force him to be gay" would there still be a problem being gay and all? no.[/QUOTE]I really don't believe you can force someone to be gay, and that's coming from one. I think it's bullshit how people think that two gay parent's can't raise a child because, "They'll turn it gay too!"
[QUOTE=Acolyt3;29487729]I thought he had absolutely no right to see you since he was a donor? Can't you just refuse meeting him?[/QUOTE] :frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog::frog:
[QUOTE=RedBlade2021;29491632]I really don't believe you can force someone to be gay, and that's coming from one. I think it's bullshit how people think that two gay parent's can't raise a child because, "They'll turn it gay too!"[/QUOTE] "and god made it so it dun only be a man and a woman only gun get married" [media]http://www.google.ca/url?source=imgres&ct=img&q=http://www.wedding-cake-toppers.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/redneck-wedding-cake-topper.jpg&sa=X&ei=i8i5Tce2L8S10QHm87DdDw&ved=0CAQQ8wc&usg=AFQjCNGBuGtAQPIYl3G1lxAwL84vd9NnbA[/media]
[QUOTE=David Cameron;29487872]How old are you? Doesn't it bother you that you're raised by 3 gays? Are you gay? Serious questions. [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Idiot / Trolling" - Swebonny))[/highlight][/QUOTE] Rated late since you should be living sometime in a mid 20th century or earlier.
Why are you scared again?
[QUOTE=Toothpick;29492733]Why are you scared again?[/QUOTE] Because I know nothing about the man, and yet he's meant to be one of the most important people in my life; and I don't know what to think of him.
He's probably a nice guy, if he's nice to your parents then everything should be fine. Plus if he's cool and everything you pretty much have it set. :buddy:
Well it couldn't hurt to at least meet him. It would be a nice thing to do at least.
Well I just got a tidbit of news on my father. Some years ago, he was pushed into a canal by some yobs and was in the local paper. It feels good that I have half of this mans genes.
good luck with the meeting son
So you DON'T want to see your dad for the first time?
how do i make a thread
Meet him. You may never have this opportunity again.
[QUOTE=James Dean;29498018]how do i make a thread[/QUOTE] By deleting system32 on your PC so that you may never plague this forum with your idiocy.
[QUOTE=Archonet;29498799]By deleting system32 on your PC so that you may never plague this forum with your idiocy.[/QUOTE]He's been posting this everywhere, just report and move on
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