Meeting my Dad for the first time - General

If you didn't meet him, you'd no doubt regret it later.

Is your name Sue? [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1BJfDvSITY[/media]

Wow OP, I'm so jelly. I wish I had two mums and was the biological son of a gay man. :saddowns: :saddowns: :saddowns:

Sure, meeting the guy is gonna be strange. A lot will be floating around. Are we alike? Are are interests similar? Does he even [b]care[/b]? If it were me, I'd meet him. Just to see what he's like.

Why would you be scared? Are you afraid of what he is? Just find out, if he is a horrible person [b]then[/b] say I don't want to see him ever again. But give him a chance. He gave you life anyway. Also, how which mom was the surrogate? And could I get a link to the spicy tuna funny thread? [editline]29th April 2011[/editline] Do that monotone cry when you meet him for lulz.

[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29491465]Well I didn't really want to mention it, but I'm Bisexual. People can get the impression that my parents are 'forcing their gay on me', which is the most absurb thing I've ever heard.[/QUOTE] Not to sound homophobic or anything like that. But how old are you? Because a lot of the time at a certain age people go through a curious phase. Even if they don't admit it. So if you're anywhere from 13 to 25 your sexuality will probably not be completely certain until after that. But bisexual, gay or straight don't be ashamed of it, especially don't think it's because of your parents. You'll figure out what you like completely by yourself eventually :P

It's always going to be good to know your biological family members, you're more likely to know of health problems you might encounter in the future. He could end up being a good friend, it's worth a shot. (Not to mention, (appealing to greed) if you get close at all you're more likely to receive gifts/inheritance.)

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[QUOTE=The_J_Hat;29500266]Sure, meeting the guy is gonna be strange. A lot will be floating around. Are we alike? Are are interests similar? Does he even [b]care[/b]? If it were me, I'd meet him. Just to see what he's like.[/QUOTE] Well he's the one that wants to meet, of course he cares.

This may be a stupid question, and someone else may have already asked it but I can't be assed to read, so here goes: Do you call both of your parents "mom"? If you did I would imagine that it would get confusing if they're near each other and you called them.

[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29491465]Well I didn't really want to mention it, but I'm Bisexual. People can get the impression that my parents are 'forcing their gay on me', which is the most absurb thing I've ever heard.[/QUOTE] I think it's entirely possible that being raised by gay parents can influence the child to be gay or bisexual, but I don't necessarily think its a bad thing. I think that a lot of people who would otherwise at least experiment in homosexuality are put off by the idea simply because of how they viewed such acts, at least subconsciously, during their formative years. A lot of people growing up knowing only that gay is gross and icky and is something to be mocked and you don't want to be gay, and I think that discourages people from focusing on homosexual thoughts. Kind of like those aversion therapies where people snap a rubber band on their wrist when they think of a certain thing. So by the time people mature and realize that there is nothing wrong with being gay or having gay thoughts they've already gone through most if not all of puberty and their sexual preferences are already firmly established. So if you have a child raised in an environment where they are constantly reminded that gay is ok they are less likely to have the stage of hostility to homosexuality and more likely to pay attention to them and carry them into adulthood.

Hey, it's SpartanApples! I hope you go alright - he sounds like a good enough person.

When you call for your mom do both of your parents respond Ninja... Anyways, I think you should meet him. Maybe you won't get another chance

Guys, he said he's meeting him in the next hour.The OP was posted 14hrs ago

[QUOTE=w0lfeh;29503363]Guys, he said he's meeting him in the next hour.The OP was posted 14hrs ago[/QUOTE] I wonder if he got raped No seriously. I hope he was rich, that would be SWEET~

OP, just go do it, he's probably feeling the same right now. A lot of people never get to see their biological father, don't pass this opportunity.

[QUOTE=w0lfeh;29503363]Guys, he said he's meeting him in the next hour.The OP was posted 14hrs ago[/QUOTE] Not quite, I'm going in two hours. I'm English. [editline]29th April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=Dr. Strangelove;29503584]I wonder if he got raped No seriously. I hope he was rich, that would be SWEET~[/QUOTE] If he is rich, I hope he's dying and plans to leave me all his money.

Good luck OP, hope it goes well.

[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29507499]Not quite, I'm going in two hours. I'm English. [editline]29th April 2011[/editline] If he is rich, I hope he's dying and plans to leave me all his money.[/QUOTE] Stop answering boring questions. :v: [quote]This may be a stupid question, and someone else may have already asked it but I can't be assed to read, so here goes: Do you call both of your parents "mom"? If you did I would imagine that it would get confusing if they're near each other and you called them.[/quote]

I only call my biological Mother Mum, but I still see the other as a Mum even if she isn't connected by blood.

thats cool

[QUOTE=Nyaa;29500610]Not to sound homophobic or anything like that. But how old are you? Because a lot of the time at a certain age people go through a curious phase. Even if they don't admit it. So if you're anywhere from 13 to 25 your sexuality will probably not be completely certain until after that. But bisexual, gay or straight don't be ashamed of it, especially don't think it's because of your parents. You'll figure out what you like completely by yourself eventually :P[/QUOTE] you're not straight you're just going through a phase

ROFL LESBO SPAWN [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Trolling/dumb post." - Seiteki))[/highlight]

You are actually going to go in a hour or so? Let us know how it went, this is a very interesting "thing"(don't know what else to call it)

[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29507724]I only call my biological Mother Mum, but I still see the other as a Mum even if she isn't connected by blood.[/QUOTE] Was it hard growing up wondering why you only had 2 mums?

If you're comfortable enough with it, I'd say go and meet with him. Just keep it casual, nothing special. It doesn't have to be a big "OMG YOU'RE MY DAD." emotional thing. Just talk about interests, life, etc. Then, if you warm up to him, you can get into the more emotional stuff. Pretty much, just treat it like you're meeting one of your parents' friends.

Say hi from me will ya? My name is Joakim:v:

[QUOTE=Camp er Joe;29508399]Was it hard growing up wondering why you only had 2 mums?[/QUOTE] I thought I was lucky.

I rated the OP funny, am I a bad person now?

[QUOTE=SpartanApples;29508695]I thought I was lucky.[/QUOTE] Why all of a sudden are you happy to answer these questions yet on the first page you and the other gimp exploded and shat all over the thread?