[QUOTE=Helix Alioth;26806979]I would like to join, too :q:.[/QUOTE]
And me :q:
It's almost pathetic seeing all the agrees with the OP.
I competitively play games online and at tournaments.
I play drums/electric guitar.
I play games along side my internet buddies.
I have lan parties with my R/l friends.
I watch movies.
I go biking/jogging.
There's tons of shit to do at any given day, if you feel like you're wasting your life; do something about it.
Your fate is whatever you decide it to be.
[QUOTE=Mr_Razzums;26811118]It's almost pathetic seeing all the agrees with the OP.[/QUOTE]
Oh hello Mr Big Shot!
Get girlfriend
Get girl to introduce you to her friends
Get friends to hate girlfriend
Ditch girlfriend
Keep friends
Profit
[QUOTE=Brage Nyman;26811248]Oh hello Mr Big Shot![/QUOTE]
Yeah, because respecting yourself automatically makes you a big shot.
[QUOTE=Brage Nyman;26809473]I love how people say get off your ass and do something. What the fuck are you supposed to do anyway? Most stuff requires friends anyway, hell i speak more with people on VoIP then people in actual real life.
Studies and a Job is pretty much the only proper way to get friends. This internet world we live in is so fucking bullsht.[/QUOTE]
There are a lot of environements in which one can establish some contact with different persons. Although school and work are the most popular, it is the very beginning of making new friends. But once you have some friends whose company you enjoy, it will not be to hard to meet new people. You just have to start somewhere.
Joining a club or going on certain events is also a good place to find decent folk. I love people on concerts, they are mostly sheerful and great.
Right now I feel like my time could be used better. I'm going to community college and am transfering to a university to continue my degree in hopes of becoming a psychologist. I feel like I need to spend more time in school but I can't afford it, and I don't know if I will be able to even transfer to a university because my mom has terminal bone cancer and I don't know where my father is, so I won't exactly have anywhere to go when she passes. I just really hope destiny has a couple fair cards to play out for me in my future, for once.
I wanna pick up my cello again..
But I can't find any video game sheet music or things I want to play.. :ohdear:
[QUOTE=Arsonist;26811283]Get girlfriend
Get girl to introduce you to her friends
Get friends to hate girlfriend
Ditch girlfriend
Keep friends
Profit[/QUOTE]
Or:
Get girlfriend
Get girl to introduce you to her friends
Have friends and a girlfriend
Profit
[QUOTE=Brage Nyman;26811248]Oh hello Mr Big Shot![/QUOTE]
Oh hello Mr I made excuses because they make me feel better about my shitty anti social personality!
[QUOTE=Brage Nyman;26809473]I love how people say get off your ass and do something. What the fuck are you supposed to do anyway? Most stuff requires friends anyway, hell i speak more with people on VoIP then people in actual real life.
Studies and a Job is pretty much the only proper way to get friends. This internet world we live in is so fucking bullsht.[/QUOTE]
SUTDIES AND JOB IS THE ONLY WAY TO GET FRIENDS. I BLAME THE INTERNET!
[QUOTE=MrJazzy;26803890]I actually disagree with this. Normal humans? Everyone I've talked to, everyone I know is very much unique and have interesting thoughts and feelings about life.[/QUOTE]
No such thing as normal humans. :3:
I know how you feel OP, I've wasted my whole life in front of the fucking computer as well. I had not a single friend from middle school all the way up to my senior year of high school. Never socialized outside of school. At all. I was the target of bullies throughout middle school. Diagnosed with ADD as well (still take medication for it, which doesn't seem to be helping anymore).
It wasn't until my senior year of high school that I realized how much I had missed, and after being all sad and depressed for a few weeks, did something about it. I met who I consider to be the only true "friends" I've ever had in high school six months before graduating. It was great, we'd get together and play Dungeons & Dragons every now and then. :v:
Unfortunately I lost contact with them over the summer and recently started college. Of course I'm living at home because my mother didn't think I'd be able to live on my own (ADD and a history of chronic procrastination). I thought it was supposed to be easier to make friends and actually have a life in college, but thus far I'm not convinced. I haven't made any real "friends," despite being surrounded by like-minded people all day. I talk to people in my classes, but it doesn't seem like that goes anywhere. Thought about joining clubs, but an intense fear (rather, borderline paranoia) of uncertainty in social situations sort of prevented me from doing that. It's too late now anyway, winter break is due to start. One month of sitting in my room on the PC FTW!
I did make a few friends though. Since starting college I've been out of my room with other people once. Best night of my fucking life (I went to an abandoned mental asylum, stood in a morgue, wandered around underground tunnels and rooftops) but afterword I couldn't help but be frustrated at the irony of that night. I have this... almost paralyzing fear of placing myself in situations in which I cannot plan for every possible outcome. Couldn't join any clubs because I was afraid of what other people would think about me or say about me or if I didn't know how to react to specific circumstances. Couldn't try any sports because what if I suck at them or can't do them? Yet I had no problem with placing myself into situations and literally "unknown" environments at considerable risk to my own health and safety.
do drugs
If you're worried you won't get a good career, don't be. Once this gigantic recession (it isn't just the US, it's affecting other places) stops there will be lots of jobs freed up.
[editline]20th December 2010[/editline]
Also you can make a lot of money doing computer-related things
Technicians can make 100k per year working for themselves, and about 3/4 that doing work for a company.
[QUOTE=SPESSMEHREN;26815543]I know how you feel OP, I've wasted my whole life in front of the fucking computer as well. I had not a single friend from middle school all the way up to my senior year of high school. Never socialized outside of school. At all. I was the target of bullies throughout middle school. Diagnosed with ADD as well (still take medication for it, which doesn't seem to be helping anymore).
It wasn't until my senior year of high school that I realized how much I had missed, and after being all sad and depressed for a few weeks, did something about it. I met who I consider to be the only true "friends" I've ever had in high school six months before graduating. It was great, we'd get together and play Dungeons & Dragons every now and then. :v:
Unfortunately I lost contact with them over the summer and recently started college. Of course I'm living at home because my mother didn't think I'd be able to live on my own (ADD and a history of chronic procrastination). I thought it was supposed to be easier to make friends and actually have a life in college, but thus far I'm not convinced. I haven't made any real "friends," despite being surrounded by like-minded people all day. I talk to people in my classes, but it doesn't seem like that goes anywhere. Thought about joining clubs, but an intense fear (rather, borderline paranoia) of uncertainty in social situations sort of prevented me from doing that. It's too late now anyway, winter break is due to start. One month of sitting in my room on the PC FTW!
I did make a few friends though. Since starting college I've been out of my room with other people once. Best night of my fucking life (I went to an abandoned mental asylum, stood in a morgue, wandered around underground tunnels and rooftops) but afterword I couldn't help but be frustrated at the irony of that night. I have this... almost paralyzing fear of placing myself in situations in which I cannot plan for every possible outcome. Couldn't join any clubs because I was afraid of what other people would think about me or say about me or if I didn't know how to react to specific circumstances. Couldn't try any sports because what if I suck at them or can't do them? Yet I had no problem with placing myself into situations and literally "unknown" environments at considerable risk to my own health and safety.[/QUOTE]
How about this. Every time you walk in a room and you think people are judging you and all that, just know in the back of your mind they they aren't. Because seriously, they aren't
Also the future holds lots more computer and networking related jobs, so getting experience with them is never a bad idea or wasted time even if you're just dicking around on Facebook.
[editline]20th December 2010[/editline]
[quote=mr_razzums;26815724]how about this. Every time you walk in a room and you think people are judging you and all that, just know in the back of your mind they they aren't. Because seriously, they aren't[/quote]
stop judging me razzums
I love reading these threads
how hard can it be to socialize? You guys make it sound like it's impossible to make friends and go out and do stuff
How does everyone get themselves in these positions? How is it even possible lol
[QUOTE=En-Guage V2;26815752]I love reading these threads
how hard can it be to socialize? You guys make it sound like it's impossible to make friends and go out and do stuff
How does everyone get themselves in these positions? How is it even possible lol[/QUOTE]
It's hard to believe I know.
Why do you fucks put the wrong steam community profile in your links, I want to view how many hours you've spent ingame and point out you spend a lot of time playing video games so I can feel smug
Who cares what you do or don't do. Last night I DD'd for this kid, I didn't know what to do so I said to hell with it, I threw on a flick in the empty living room. All the women there were snuggling by me before it was over.
[QUOTE=CMasta;26815824]Who cares what you do or don't do. Last night I DD'd for this kid, I didn't know what to do so I said to hell with it, I threw on a flick in the empty living room. All the women there were snuggling by me before it was over.[/QUOTE]
What the fuck are you talking about?
You're complaining about wasting your life and you have just over 100 posts? How do you think I feel?
[QUOTE=Bacteria;26803181]I feel very strange this year. I feel like I'm wasting my time. I have nothing to do. All I do is just sit infront of my PC and type shit on Facepunch. It's not like I achieve anything from it. I lived a quarter of my life and did nothing. I was just curious, what do you guys do to have fun? I feel like a complete loner doing nothing. It was my birthday a month ago and I couldn't celebrate it IRL, because I don't have a lot of friends to celebrate with.[/QUOTE]
How do you think I feel, I haven't been doing anything, just fucking looking at a forum.
Fuck my life.
[QUOTE=Tropophas;26815858]What the fuck are you talking about?[/QUOTE]
Peruvian Flute bands I guess.
[QUOTE=poopsicle;26815896]How do you think I feel, I haven't been doing anything, just fucking looking at a forum.
Fuck my life.[/QUOTE]
I don't feel bad for you. Every post you make is useless dick-waving immature garbage.
[QUOTE=poopsicle;26815896]How do you think I feel, I haven't been doing anything, just fucking looking at a forum.
Fuck my life.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Stupideye;26815873]You're complaining about wasting your life and you have just over 100 posts? How do you think I feel?[/QUOTE]
There isn't anything stopping you from doing something else with your time.
Go pick up a hobby, learn an instrument, socialize, or go to a party. It isn't that hard.
[QUOTE=Tropophas;26815923]I don't feel bad for you. Every post you make is useless dick-waving immature garbage.[/QUOTE]
Internet Tough Guy
[QUOTE=that1dude24;26815941]There isn't anything stopping you from doing something else with your time.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I know. Most of my posts are in the airsoft section anyway, which is a physical sport that I participate in every weekend or so. I don't just sit around talking about video games all day like lots of FP does.
[QUOTE=Tropophas;26815923]I don't feel bad for you. Every post you make is useless dick-waving immature garbage.[/QUOTE]
The same could be said for you. Say something constructive, not just insults.
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