• Why do people sabotage their happiness with sexually incompatible relationships?
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I don't give a damn about my boyfriend finding other girls attractive, I can't exactly say I don't find other guys attractive so I'd be a hypocrit if I got pissed. I even point out girls to my boyfriend and ask if he'd "do" them. It's harmless as long as it isn't taken beyond a "yeah she's hot" and isn't on a "oh I wish you were more like her" level (and as long as it's not my best friend or something!). The same goes for porn, if it's just something hot to look at while you get off and nothing more then it's fine to me.
When I saw the title I thought of American and British electrical plugs.
[QUOTE=Kamaitachi;25534169]This is entirely true, yet I see women consistently talking about how "hot" guys are. surely that's a little hypocritical of them? if they don't want to be compared to other women then stop comparing dudes?[/QUOTE] Well it really depends. Like my girlfriend doesnt really do that. She'll compliment me but with other people she wont. It may also be a factor of the person themselves. Some are attention whores who when they see someone who is out putting a higher want than what they have they move on to the next, some are only there to have sex never really settling down, some can just never get it right, some just doesnt fit in well enough to find a mate but there is always someone out there for everyone, ect. Again it really depends on who you find. Some people are able to block out anyone else when they have a partner that fits their needs or is perfectly happy with what they have. Sure some may look around and say theyre hot but if they mean it or really feel that way is another thing. Many factors goes into this. Also sure we may say "Lets not look at other women/men" its hard not to because its a primitive instinct to always look for suitable mates to create offsprings with to continue the bloodline. Even though that may be true we have gotten better at containing that urge to look for other mates when we have found the right person. But as being the humans that we are we have emotions that allow us to convey our thoughts almost perfectly in which sometimes conflict with whats in front of us.
[QUOTE=BlackWind;25533950]On the [b]other hands[/b], Homosexuality?[/QUOTE] You have more than two hands?
[QUOTE=BlackWind;25536367]I think porn [b]comes into it[/b].[/QUOTE] :smug:
Most people are still child-minded when they're in their early 20s and get infatuated with someone and want to marry them, and it turns out that it doesn't last. I think a lot of it has to do with peer pressure and people behaving how they think they should (due to society), rather than how they actually are.
mane you are a pretty cool dude not ironic :thumbsup: still not ironic
[QUOTE=Shadaez;25561921]Most people are still child-minded when they're in their early 20s and get infatuated with someone and want to marry them, and it turns out that it doesn't last. I think a lot of it has to do with peer pressure and people behaving how they think they should (due to society), rather than how they actually are.[/QUOTE] In modern society, there is pressure to get married early. Being unmarried at later ages is a social faux pas.
What about when you're gay and date girls just to conform with society so you don't have to deal with discrimination. I've done that a few times. [editline]22nd October 2010[/editline] My cousin and his girlfriend rent and watch porn all the time. :p
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