Mother abuses son, son refuses to live with her for the week (divorced), mother tries to call police
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[QUOTE=Namaste;41021807]That was intense. I just hope she was indeed abusive and not just being a parent.[/QUOTE]
When a child becomes afraid of his own home because a parent hits them it's abusive. My parents hit me when I did bad things, but that was because I did retarded shit when I was young, and learned getting punished was a consequence for bad actions.
When his mom said that she was standing her ground for her child, he should have replied "Well I'm not your child then"
"The way you edit the video to say those things."
Cunt.
Its been a while since i've seen a video of police being very professional. Im glad the kid got to live with his dad like he wanted.
If I'm half as good as a father as this man is, I'd be happy
Good on the kid for standing up for himself when being guilt tripped by the mom
At 1h 4mins 40 sec
I fucking applaud ! seriously that was the best decision ever.
also that kid 14 years old got some MASSIVE BALLS
so calm yet know exactly what to do.
[QUOTE=BloodYScar;41021227]Ive witnessed this several times in my own life, "most" was probably not hitting the right spot.
"Many" would have been better, definitely no individual case. However I have not seen this behaviour
in men, not once. Now you can call it what you want to, but thats my personal experience.[/QUOTE]
Yeah see the problem there is that your personal experiences don't give you the right to make sweeping, sexist generalisations.
I'm gonna say there are things that a mother can't teach a child like the way the father does it, and a father can't teach a child like the mother does it,
but don't leave the child in the hands of a psycho bitch
[editline]13th June 2013[/editline]
thats all i have to say after watching the whole thing
Shit this is one of those videos I hope goes viral
Wow.
I am glad on so many different levels that my parent's divorce went well.
[QUOTE=Roof;41025401]I'm gonna say there are things that a mother can't teach a child like the way the father does it, and a father can't teach a child like the mother does it,
but don't leave the child in the hands of a psycho bitch
[editline]13th June 2013[/editline]
thats all i have to say after watching the whole thing[/QUOTE]
wise words
[QUOTE=dvc;41026144]wise words[/QUOTE]
thank you
took me years
WOW, she wanted to charge her own son with assault.
44:53
Bribing her son to get out of the car with a car she says she has for her 14-year-old that obviously doesn't exist. wut
[QUOTE=Wingz;41027357]44:53
Bribing her son to get out of the car with a car she says she has for her 14-year-old that obviously doesn't exist. wut[/QUOTE]
That made me really upset.
I mean if the kid doesn't want to live with you then don't force him to.
She even admitted that she is willing to try any loophole to get her son to come with her, no matter how extreme. What a selfish bitch.
Did no one notice the weed on his dash? I must move to Otessa. A couple officers walking around, can obviously see it, No problem. Florida has basically a zero tolerance for that shit
[QUOTE=Namaste;41022160]I guess I never considered spanking as abusive. My parents spanked me one time and I never did what I did again. I love my parents, they love me, the last thing I consider them is abusive. I think if your child is out of line and you've asked/explained/disciplined verbally and it hasn't worked that swatting them on the ass to establish respect isn't out of the question. I'm not saying I would do it, but I think there is a non-abusive way to go about it.[/QUOTE]
Hitting anyone to establish respect is ridiculous.
[QUOTE=Chicken_Chaser;41017316]Same. Mine was way worse than this mother. It's ridiculous how prejudiced the courts are.[/QUOTE]
This happened to me too, and I'm not jumping on the bandwagon.
If I weren't at home when the cops came, they would have arrested my dad.
[QUOTE=Karmah;41028961]This happened to me too, and I'm not jumping on the bandwagon.
If I weren't at home when the cops came, they would have arrested my dad.[/QUOTE]
My mom was an obvious alcoholic. There was NEVER food in the house. I ate tortillas and bread to keep myself alive, yet somehow it was deemed the best place for me to live 6 days a week (whatever the terms were. dont remember for certain but you know how shitty they are). That bitch spent child support on booze. Oh, and spanking was most definitely an abused loophole.
Not trying to gain sympathy or join the bandwagon either. I just feel like venting since this vid stirs memories.
idk if the dad is the best influence on him what with his beliefs and all but it's sure as hell a lot better than an abusive mother and stepdad
in the end if a kid is afraid to go to a parents house then there's a damn good reason for it and it should weigh heavily in a custody battle
[QUOTE=Namaste;41022160]I guess I never considered spanking as abusive. My parents spanked me one time and I never did what I did again. I love my parents, they love me, the last thing I consider them is abusive. I think if your child is out of line and you've asked/explained/disciplined verbally and it hasn't worked that swatting them on the ass to establish respect isn't out of the question. I'm not saying I would do it, but I think there is a non-abusive way to go about it.[/QUOTE]
spanking is negative reinforcement, which a parent should never do. you did a bad thing, so i hit you. what kind of a message is that to send? imagine your kid hits another, and so you spank him. that just teaches him that violence is the answer to violence. never the less, if spanking successfully got you to stop doing something, it was out of fear. fear of physical threat from you should never be used to deter your child's action. it is incredibly old fashioned, from before we knew as much about psychology. spanking has no place in modern society.
[editline]14th June 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Roof;41025401]I'm gonna say there are things that a mother can't teach a child like the way the father does it, and a father can't teach a child like the mother does it,
but don't leave the child in the hands of a psycho bitch
[editline]13th June 2013[/editline]
thats all i have to say after watching the whole thing[/QUOTE]
so now you're saying a kid with gay parents won't be well balanced? bullshit
Poor kid
[QUOTE=Rusty100;41031595]spanking is negative reinforcement, which a parent should never do. you did a bad thing, so i hit you. what kind of a message is that to send? imagine your kid hits another, and so you spank him. that just teaches him that violence is the answer to violence. never the less, if spanking successfully got you to stop doing something, it was out of fear. fear of physical threat from you should never be used to deter your child's action. it is incredibly old fashioned, from before we knew as much about psychology. spanking has no place in modern society.[/QUOTE]
Well, negative reinforcement in a psychological context is the removal of negative stimulus to change behavior. Also while I don't think a parent has any place spanking a child that's 14 years old there is an application for it as a punishment. The issue is that it needs to be approached very carefully by the parent, it's not for them to vent their anger, it's not to put the child through as much pain as possible, it's to have the child associate unacceptable behavior with that negative result. This is for children that are too young to understand the full scope of what they've done and have only thought of themselves before conducting their actions. If the parent approaches it with a level head and self control, it's no different than a time-out. Of course when the child gets old enough to understand why something is wrong spanking is completely unnecessary and degrading though.
I'm not telling anyone how to raise their kids though, I don't think I'd even want to spank a kid if I had one. I wasn't even spanked as a child, but I think it's a bit much to say that it's always a negative thing to do.(Also I am in no way agreeing with the mom in the video)
It fucking pisses me off how she never acknowledges the actual father as his 'dad'.
Also that guy looks like your typical asshole stepdad
Make sure you watch the whole thing, it's definitely worth it.
[QUOTE=Sero;41017494]That was pretty awesome. It really irritated me that the mother started to cry right when the cop got there to try and get some sympathy. Really Pathetic.[/QUOTE]
I don't think it was sympathy exclusively. She seems like a person that really believes in authority, and the fact that it didn't immediately went her way when the police arrived was probably pretty upsetting for her.
She's a sick bitch, that's for certain, though.
I feel sorry to people who have to deal with this shit seeing as with my family all I've gotten up to was a heated argument which ended when I walked away and just cooled myself because I tend to get very upsetting and very very angry and i fucking hate going to that level
The fact the mother and the stepdad tried to lock him in his room when he went to get his school supplies to go with his dad, proves it enough she's a fucking psycho.
I love how the mom tried to press assault charges on her own son. Psycho bitch.
Great job to the cops and the dad for keeping calm in this situation. Also, good job for Parker to stand his ground.
those are some cool as fuck cops
long time since i seen cops that don't give a fit over recording
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