• How NOT to react when your child tells you that he's gay
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[QUOTE=BananaChops;45823173]Yes because I will obviously get banned since this place is so pro faggot. You can't disagree without being branded as a troll and getting banned. As I said, it's fine if they fuck each other in private. It's not fine if they act like faggots, just listen to his voice. It's not fine to do it in public, I don't go to a park to see two faggots kissing. And it's certainly not fine to do what he did to his family.[/QUOTE] Well that just makes you a bit childish if you are actually a real person and not a poe. [url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homosexual_behavior_in_animals[/url] Since you disagreed with me.
[QUOTE=NoobieWafer223;45823183]...Yer a faggot.[/QUOTE] And this is another retarded response to when someone disagrees with faggots. Claim they are faggots/hiding in their closets. This makes no sense, a faggot wouldn't disagree with himself now would he...
[QUOTE=BananaChops;45823073] Gays can do what they do sure, but when faggots like this act like drama queens, talk like fucking faggots and behave like faggots in public and on top of all destroy their families. Well he deserves a fucking beating. [/QUOTE] tbh I can kind of agree with that its alright if you're homo, but don't you fucking act as a stereotypical mega flamboyant faggot, it's stupid on its own and probably large part of the reason why homosexuals (or other minorities) aren't accepted in many countries I understand it could be because that's their way of dealing with it (all that "proud" stuff), but that just makes them more distanced and hated by people like in OP's video more (and those are the majority so whoops)
I like boys but I hate faggots. I'm a homo homophobe.
I don't want to sound too mean, sure he could tell his family that he was gay if he thought he should and they wouldn't mind him being gay. But obviously they do mind and he was 100% sure of that before telling them. He could've just not told them, he could still be gay. But noooo if you are gay you must tell everyone you meet that and if they don't like it they are evil south people that don't tolerate and are full of hate!! He's just a fucking drama queen, doing it to be the victim. All of this could've been avoided if he just fucking manned up and he could still be gay. Because he wanted to start drama and play victim, he is now disowned, his family destroyed and probably will never talk to his family again. He deserved that punch and more.
[QUOTE=BananaChops;45823225]I don't want to sound too mean, sure he could tell his family that he was gay if he thought he should and they wouldn't mind him being gay. But obviously they do mind and he was 100% sure of that before telling them. He could've just not told them, he could still be gay. But noooo if you are gay you must tell everyone you meet that and if they don't like it they are evil south people that don't tolerate and are full of hate!! He's just a fucking drama queen, doing it to be the victim. All of this could've been avoided if he just fucking manned up and he could still be gay. Because he wanted to start drama and play victim, he is now disowned, his family destroyed and probably will never talk to his family again. He deserved that punch and more.[/QUOTE] They would have found out eventually, and they would've reacted the exact same way. If anyone is starting drama, it's his parents. Now go be a homophobe somewhere else, Shoo.
[QUOTE=Garrot;45823256]They would have found out eventually, and they would've reacted the exact same way. If anyone is starting drama, it's his parents. Now go be a homophobe somewhere else, Shoo.[/QUOTE] They wouldn't find out if he wasn't a fucking faggot. This is the difference, a normal gay person just fucks dudes and that's that. A faggot like him must let everyone know that he fucks dudes, you can tell by his voice, just the way he acts, this is why his mom suspected it. Because he acts like a fucking faggot.
3/10 troll, too obvious usage of slurs and stereotypically aggressive try again next time
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[QUOTE=Levithan;45823268]3/10 troll, too obvious usage of slurs and stereotypically aggressive try again next time[/QUOTE] I call him a faggot because that's what he is, nothing but a faggot. He deserves no sympathy and he'll have none from me. His family should've done worse to him, like he did to them.
Stop entertaining him, this is exactly what he wants. Just report and move on.
[QUOTE=damnatus;45823208]tbh I can kind of agree with that its alright if you're homo, but don't you fucking act as a stereotypical mega flamboyant faggot, it's stupid on its own and probably large part of the reason why homosexuals (or other minorities) aren't accepted in many countries I understand it could be because that's their way of dealing with it (all that "proud" stuff), but that just makes them more distanced and hated by people like in OP's video more (and those are the majority so whoops)[/QUOTE] People shouldn't be forced to act a certain way to be "safe" for themselves. It's like telling a woman to stop dressing in a provacative manner if she doesn't want to be raped. LGBTQ shouldn't be abused full stop, regardless of how flambuoyant they act, that doesn't justify any abuse. In the same way that provactive dressing doesn't justify rape. The problem is not with homosexuals and don't suggest for a moment it is.
"tha wird o gaaaahd" holy shit haha
Don't bite the bait
That was immensely hard to watch, holy shit. Poor guy.
[QUOTE=SKEEA;45822769]Shit like this is why I carry a gun, especially when I am with my boyfriend in public. To put this into context, I am in Tennessee. Now, Tennessee ain't so bad, but you still gotta be careful. However, Kentucky is the place you have to worry about more, and I go there a lot too. It's really quite unnerving to see behavior like this. One of my friends who is a drill sergeant got assaulted by 3 guys with knives because he was wearing an MLP shirt, and thought he was gay. Thankfully he had his gun on him, and when he drew it they ran away. The south can be awesome, but the behavior of intolerant people really makes it look bad, and causes fear that does not need to exist.[/QUOTE] The united states are a first world country, are they?
[QUOTE=DMGaina;45823454]The united states are a first world country, are they?[/QUOTE] If you're straight, white and male. Or alternatively if you're white and rich.
Poor guy, I feel with him. Would wish he had a family like mine, when I came out as a trans all they did was support me and keep loving me.
[QUOTE=TheRealRudy;45823550]For these kind of reasons I don't like religion at all. Imo the world would be alot better without it.[/QUOTE] People would just find other ways of manifesting their hatred.
[QUOTE=redback3;45822608]These people make me sick, I don't want them to live if they feel this is an appropriate way to treat someone different from them - they don't deserve to exist.[/QUOTE] you wish them dead for this, surely you must understand the shear hypocrisy?
jesus fucking christ this video makes me angry
i bet bananachops watches colossal amounts of lesbian porn
[QUOTE=SKEEA;45822769]Shit like this is why I carry a gun, especially when I am with my boyfriend in public. To put this into context, I am in Tennessee. Now, Tennessee ain't so bad, but you still gotta be careful. However, Kentucky is the place you have to worry about more, and I go there a lot too. It's really quite unnerving to see behavior like this. One of my friends who is a drill sergeant got assaulted by 3 guys with knives because he was wearing an MLP shirt, and thought he was gay. Thankfully he had his gun on him, and when he drew it they ran away. The south can be awesome, but the behavior of intolerant people really makes it look bad, and causes fear that does not need to exist.[/QUOTE] Don't worry about Kentucky man, it's actually pretty tolerant in the larger cities. I'm from the eastern portion and one of my best friends from here is gay and he hasn't gotten any hate at all. There are dumbasses everywhere, and intolerant people in each and every state. Don't let them warp your view of a place. Check out Lexington or Louisville the next time you're here. I'm not gay, but I can attest through many of my friends and peers at college it's (Lexington that is) pretty progressive.
The one thing I don't understand, is that homosexual males seem to take up a lisp of some sort, that doesn't sound natural at all and almost becomes forced. He seemed to be doing it in the video. Call it dumb curiosity, but I really ponder, why does that happen? Is it forced? Is it their natural voice? As for the video, I can believe that people would still react this way. But it's probably better than the reaction he'd get from anywhere in the middle east.
[QUOTE=Covalent;45824193]The one thing I don't understand, is that homosexual males seem to take up a lisp of some sort, that doesn't sound natural at all and almost becomes forced. He seemed to be doing it in the video. Call it dumb curiosity, but I really ponder, why does that happen? Is it forced? Is it their natural voice? As for the video, I can believe that people would still react this way. But it's probably better than the reaction he'd get from anywhere in the middle east.[/QUOTE] it's usually because they tend to have more feminine personalities (not a generalization)
That was really difficult to watch. I get not completely understanding, or being comfortable, with your child being gay, but disowning him, denouncing him, and treating him like that is just out of this world to me. Do these people really think God would approve? Isn't God supposed to be the one to judge us based on our "decisions"? If it really is a decision, why not let God judge him for that when he dies? Why not do YOUR job as a parent and love your child unconditionally? I think the most troubling part about all of this is the fact that his birth mother (who I'm guessing didn't raise him but was just part of his life?) supported and encouraged him, until all this came out and she saw what the rest of her family thought, then went with mob mentality. Him talking about how he trusted her is really, really heartbreaking :\ I just don't understand why people still think being gay is a choice. If I had a choice as a teenager, I would have NEVER chosen to be gay. I struggled with serious depression and anxiety over it as a teenager, and only recently began to accept myself for who I am. But I guess I chose to do it for attention, even though I was a complete recluse for most of my teenage years and even my closest friends don't know much about me because because I'm constantly afraid of being judged. It's definitely a choice.
Fuck these parents. Seriously. Wish I was there to help him. Seriously, I am sieving with rage.
Shit like this is why I don't think I'll ever come out. This is what I'm always terrified about happening. And being in Texas (small town no less), I've come to find that being gay is not exactly a safe thing from what I've witnessed. I think when I get the chance I'm going to get the hell out of this state (or maybe move to Austin).
[QUOTE=Dalto11;45824121]Don't worry about Kentucky man, it's actually pretty tolerant in the larger cities. I'm from the eastern portion and one of my best friends from here is gay and he hasn't gotten any hate at all. There are dumbasses everywhere, and intolerant people in each and every state. Don't let them warp your view of a place. Check out Lexington or Louisville the next time you're here. I'm not gay, but I can attest through many of my friends and peers at college it's (Lexington that is) pretty progressive.[/QUOTE] Yeah, I actually really like Louisville. I can't say I have been to Lexington. I just know that some parts of KY I have been to have been a little unnerving. I guess you can say the same about any state, really. I am near Hopkinsville, and it hasn't been too bad. Get the occasional death glare, but that's it.
[QUOTE=Shark Cat;45824279]it's usually because they tend to have more feminine personalities (not a generalization)[/QUOTE] I didn't think lisping was even a feminine trait at all.
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