sucks for you guys about first time couple shower experiences
mine involved turning the lights off, pressing her up against the wall and making out while feeling the hot water on us in the dark
Don't eat spicy curry and go down on your lady.
[QUOTE=pnkpanther;39218839][IMG]http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me4mzxJElE1r6f2sco1_500.jpg[/IMG]
Dream girl just broke up with me after a year. Hurts like a bitch, still wants to be good friends.
What do?[/QUOTE]
Looks like the type of girl with some issues. Just saying.
Personal experience.
wow that's probably the most unnecessarily judgmental comments ive heard in this thread in a while and that says something congrats
I'm interested in advice and tales from any of you who have taken a girl's virginity (or are a girl). Every girl I've had sex with before hasn't been a virgin, and I want to make it as comfortable as possible for her whenever the time comes.
make sure she knows that you'll be as patient and understanding as she needs you to be. she's going to be under a LOT of pressure and she'll need to know that you understand what she's going through. if one position hurts too much for her, try another like her being on top. that way, she can take it at her own pace
granted, you too are under pressure, like you're setting some kind of an example of what she can expect when it comes to sex
what that guy said. if she's a virgin, she's probably expecting it to be painful (sex should never hurt either party), which is going to make sex really uncomfortable for her, so do whatever to make sure she's enjoying herself as much as possible
also having lube handy is probably a really good idea. probably something silicone based as water based lubes absorb into the skin, these are also safe to use with condoms
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;39223180]wow that's probably the most unnecessarily judgmental comments ive heard in this thread in a while and that says something congrats[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I know. I kinda thought twice either to post it or not.
Kinda reminded me of some girls I used to date too. Nothing personal though. Made me remind of some things I went through.
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idk what you're trying to accomplish, but making judgements about people based on (i'm guessing here) hairstyle or personal choice in fashion isn't productive nor adding anything to the thread
and making such statements about people in the "punk scene" is hurtful because some great people i know and love are part of that "scene" and really don't deserve your terrible attempts at psychological evaluation
You're right, forget I said anything. I don't know what I was thinking.
i mean i'm not trying to censor you or be mean or anything, i just thought it wasn't a cool thing to say
Well, and I agree.
Sometimes we are wrong and as I was typing I just thought "what the heck am I trying to say here". I rather admit I'm wrong than bury myself trying to find out a good justification for what I said.
I don't know what I was thinking. I'm sorry.
Does anyone have tried and true methods for giving a girl an orgasm through her underwear? I somehow managed to fumble my way through getting her off the first 3 times, mostly because it was the first few times a guy did it for her. On my 4th try my arms pretty much turned to jelly and I still couldn't get her to climax.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;39227690]Well, and I agree.
Sometimes we are wrong and as I was typing I just thought "what the heck am I trying to say here". I rather admit I'm wrong than bury myself trying to find out a good justification for what I said.
I don't know what I was thinking. I'm sorry.[/QUOTE]
its cool, it isn't a big deal
[QUOTE=EvilSquirrel;39227806]Does anyone have tried and true methods for giving a girl an orgasm through her underwear? I somehow managed to fumble my way through getting her off the first 3 times, mostly because it was the first few times a guy did it for her. On my 4th try my arms pretty much turned to jelly and I still couldn't get her to climax.[/QUOTE]
And you'd want to do this because..?
If you're down her trousers it looks to the outside no different to in her underwear.
[QUOTE=EvilSquirrel;39227806]Does anyone have tried and true methods for giving a girl an orgasm through her underwear? I somehow managed to fumble my way through getting her off the first 3 times, mostly because it was the first few times a guy did it for her. On my 4th try my arms pretty much turned to jelly and I still couldn't get her to climax.[/QUOTE]
whisper your favorite prayer into her ear, this method works like a charm
No. punch her in the face!
[QUOTE=Yahnich;39231804]also if she demands more orgasms after the third orgasm tell her to go fuck herself if she demands that much satisfaction
[sp]get it[/sp][/QUOTE]
Its not 3 consecutive orgasms. It was 2 different days. This time was the third >.>
why are you asking as if women are some piece of machinery that can be objectified and then manipulated into producing certain results?
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;39229622]And you'd want to do this because..?
If you're down her trousers it looks to the outside no different to in her underwear.[/QUOTE]
I personally find it [I]really[/I] arousing to rub a girl through her knickers, personally.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39237211]why are you asking as if women are some piece of machinery that can be objectified and then manipulated into producing certain results?[/QUOTE]
...he's not? He's asking for advice?
Only one mentioning machines is you, dude. You brought objectification into the conversation.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;39237331]...he's not? He's asking for advice?
Only one mentioning machines is you, dude. You brought objectification into the conversation.[/QUOTE]
he's asking for "tried and true methods for giving a girl an orgasm" which is simply not based in reality
[editline]16th January 2013[/editline]
and thats right i did bring it into the conversation because he wasn't even aware of the implications of what he was saying
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39237345]he's asking for "tried and true methods for giving a girl an orgasm" which is simply not based in reality
[editline]16th January 2013[/editline]
and thats right i did bring it into the conversation because [B]he wasn't even aware of the implications of what he was saying[/B][/QUOTE]
Or maybe it doesn't fucking matter and you're gonna start an argument.
ok so tell me a general rule applying to every woman on how to get her to reach orgasm
or better yet, try telling a women face to face that you know how to make her orgasm (even though you dont)
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39237429]ok so tell me a general rule applying to every woman on how to get her to reach orgasm
or better yet, try telling a women face to face that you know how to make her orgasm (even though you dont)[/QUOTE]
[I]How about we give the guy advice that'll actually help him instead of bitching about shit that really doesn't matter[/I]
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;39237461][I]How about we give the guy advice that'll actually help him instead of bitching about shit that really doesn't matter[/I][/QUOTE]
ok so give him advice like i asked just last post
what is the tried and true method for giving a girl an orgasm please??
You gotta mix it up some though, dude. Most people will get tired/used to/resistant to the same method used multiple times in a row.
Add something new to it, caress another part of her body some or do some foreplay or something.
Play around with it, communicate with her and find something that works, and then do that, and then find some new stuff, and just keep the ball rolling as time goes on.
[editline]15th January 2013[/editline]
Oh you ninja'd me. Oh well, this works.
Your move. I gave advice. I advised against his current method and gave something that is tried and true: Variety and experimentation.
this isn't a game of chess mate im not making movies, im just stating my opinions and arguments
good for you, you took his sexist post and twisted it into a non-sexist response for him, well done
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