I have some questions about a girl I am trying to get with.
Should point out I am pretty shy and basically have no experience with relationships and what not.
I ran into a highschool friend when I was at a restaurant with my parents, she gave me a hug and asked for my number. That night we hanged out. This was the week before Christmas. We again hanged out the next sunday. After that night she texted me saying if she could fix a problem I had as a Christmas present. The problem being I have not kissed a girl since the 4th grade. I got her a gift and the she said I would get my gift when she got hers. Whenever I leave from hanging out with her we hug, the night we kissed she gave me the kiss when we hugged. I came in for a hug, then was like oh were gonna kiss. I expected a small kiss so thats what I initially gave her, and when I stopped she pulled be closer and continued kissing. I have no idea why I said this but I said "that was awkward" after we were done. She texted me a little later saying next time will be better. We have not hung out since and it has been roughly 2 weeks since then. I was getting nervous around a week after not hanging out and texted her saying how I felt about the kiss and hoping she did not take what I said the wrong way. She replied with its fine no reason to worry I just have been busy. I basically text her almost everyday asking if she wants to hang out to which she replies that she is busy or not responding at all.
The question I have is, do you guys think she is playing hard to get or just does not want to hang out with me anymore?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39237596]this isn't a game of chess mate im not making movies, im just stating my opinions and arguments
good for you, you took his sexist post and twisted it into a non-sexist response for him, well done[/QUOTE]
Wait sorry hang on I didn't realize that we were supposed to stand up for the obviously persecuted woman in his story.
Sorry I thought he was asking for help fingering his girl or some shit I didn't realize he was asking how to tune his chick.
WHy are you the only one that is angry at this? Jesus fuck.
Squirrel she might be leaking oil, which would make you work harder to max her RPMs, I'd take her to the shop when you get the chance and get that checked out. Restore lubrication and you'll have no problem.
[editline]16th January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=assassin_Raptor;39237624] I came in for a hug, then was like oh were gonna kiss. I expected a small kiss so thats what I initially gave her, and when I stopped she pulled be closer and continued kissing. I have no idea why I said this but I said [B]"that was awkward"[/B] after we were done. She texted me a little later saying next time will be better.[/QUOTE]
If she's not playing hard to get, then this part here fucked the whole thing up for you.
[QUOTE=EvilSquirrel;39227806]Does anyone have tried and true methods for giving a girl an orgasm through her underwear? I somehow managed to fumble my way through getting her off the first 3 times, mostly because it was the first few times a guy did it for her. On my 4th try my arms pretty much turned to jelly and I still couldn't get her to climax.[/QUOTE]
practice makes perfect, but protip if you, like, actually put your fingers under the panties it helps
also maybe actually put them in her too
also maybe im just on a streak of girls who like getting their tits touched but maybe touch or perhaps suck on them whilst fingering
if they dont orgasm then at least you did a good job at foreplay, right??
Uhhh maybe I shouldn't have asked, I didn't want to start an argument. Sorry. Thanks to the people that gave me some help anyway.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;39237643]
If she's not playing hard to get, then this part here fucked the whole thing up for you.[/QUOTE]
Yea, that is what I am hoping is not the case.
One of my friends suggested to just stop texting her saying that if she wants you she will come to you.
[QUOTE=EvilSquirrel;39237747]Uhhh maybe I shouldn't have asked. Sorry.[/QUOTE]
don't listen to the dudes above, they are just trying to find some kind of evil sexist comment in what you said, and all the reasonable posters here understood you just wanted to hear about what other people do to get some ideas
my point was that there are a lot of people in this thread asking "how do i get a girl to like me" or "how to i get a girl to orgasm" or other questions about getting people to do things that you can't even come close to describing in a single little piece of advice
and these people are the types of people who treat every interaction the same, the type of people who listen to the terrible pua advice
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39237833]my point was that there are a lot of people in this thread asking "how do i get a girl to like me" or "how to i get a girl to orgasm" or other questions about getting people to do things that you can't even come close to describing in a single little piece of advice
and these people are the types of people who treat every interaction the same, the type of people who listen to the terrible pua advice[/QUOTE]
I'm sure calling out such inexperienced people on being sexist and misogynistic helps your case a lot too. Blasting someone and trying to start a fight doesn't help either of us. The last thing anybody needs is you to go off judging someone you've never even met.
I don't even know what I'm doing, and I know that not every girl is the same. I was merely asking if there were any techniques that worked so I could maybe try them out in the hope that she might like some of them. I'm sorry if you found it sexist, because it was never meant to be.
ey whats everyone getting bent out of shape about?
[QUOTE=thisispain;39237889]ey whats everyone getting bent out of shape about?[/QUOTE]
theyre probably taking me seriously again
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39237896]theyre probably taking me seriously again[/QUOTE]
Should women be objectified? No, not that I think anyone was [i]trying[/i] to do that here. Can you give advice on how to make them happy? Yes. This isn't difficult.
[QUOTE=assassin_Raptor;39237624]I basically text her almost everyday asking if she wants to hang out to which she replies that she is busy or not responding at all.[/QUOTE]
give her some space
you can't expect her to like you if you basically harass her
don't text everyday or wait for her to text you
and tell her you liked the kiss next time
This thread is very cyclical in its arguments.
[QUOTE=assassin_Raptor;39237624]I have some questions about a girl I am trying to get with.
Should point out I am pretty shy and basically have no experience with relationships and what not.
I ran into a highschool friend when I was at a restaurant with my parents, she gave me a hug and asked for my number. That night we hanged out. This was the week before Christmas. We again hanged out the next sunday. After that night she texted me saying if she could fix a problem I had as a Christmas present. The problem being I have not kissed a girl since the 4th grade. I got her a gift and the she said I would get my gift when she got hers. Whenever I leave from hanging out with her we hug, the night we kissed she gave me the kiss when we hugged. I came in for a hug, then was like oh were gonna kiss. I expected a small kiss so thats what I initially gave her, and when I stopped she pulled be closer and continued kissing. I have no idea why I said this but I said "that was awkward" after we were done. She texted me a little later saying next time will be better. We have not hung out since and it has been roughly 2 weeks since then. I was getting nervous around a week after not hanging out and texted her saying how I felt about the kiss and hoping she did not take what I said the wrong way. She replied with its fine no reason to worry I just have been busy. I basically text her almost everyday asking if she wants to hang out to which she replies that she is busy or not responding at all.
The question I have is, do you guys think she is playing hard to get or just does not want to hang out with me anymore?[/QUOTE]
Calm down. She's probably just busy, like she told you. At least that's the vibe I got.
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;39237755]don't listen to the dudes above, they are just trying to find some kind of evil sexist comment in what you said, and all the reasonable posters here understood you just wanted to hear about what other people do to get some ideas[/QUOTE]
Dude(s)?? I actually gave advice! Jo was starting shit...
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39237345]he's asking for "tried and true methods for giving a girl an orgasm" which is simply not based in reality[/QUOTE]
you're kind of wrong, even though there isn't one single specific technique we can describe that will get off a girl immediately (seeing as female anatomy is a bit hard to navigate as is), there are definitely things that will apply to most women
- the majority of women need clitoral stimulation to reach an orgasm, it's why a lot of women can't finish with just sex.
- while the existence of the g-spot is debatable a lot of women claim to have one, it's about two knuckles into a woman's vagina on the upper side and has a spongy sort of texture, you'll probably know it when you hit it.
these things are pretty universal, i really don't know why you're getting your panties in a bunch
though i do remember you posting in this thread when you first lost your virginity so maybe you didn't know these things??
[editline]16th January 2013[/editline]
also there are plenty of videos/other resources you can find online on how to go down on a woman, nina hartley did a pretty good video on it showing a ton of tricks
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;39238398]Dude(s)?? I actually gave advice! Jo was starting shit...[/QUOTE]
i was talking basically about jo and nobody else
[QUOTE=Yahnich;39239075]touch vagina get result[/QUOTE]
Step 1: Obtain female
Step 2: Touch sexually related parts of female
Step 3: ...
Step 4: Profit!
better yet google female genital anatomy and find a printer friendly one for on-hand reference
we dont need no science diagrams and shit when we got ~~ love ~~
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39237833]my point was that there are a lot of people in this thread asking "how do i get a girl to like me" or "how to i get a girl to orgasm" or other questions about getting people to do things that you can't even come close to describing in a single little piece of advice
and these people are the types of people who treat every interaction the same, the type of people who listen to the terrible pua advice[/QUOTE]
i think you're forgetting what it was like to be inexperienced with the opposite gender and that "a lot of people in this thread" are asking questions like that because they have absolutely no idea what it takes for either of those things. they have to start with a question somehow, and we're here to guide them to the answer they need, because most of them don't know what that is. i'm just saying don't get mad when some likely 15 year-old kid is asking something like how to flirt with a girl in his biology class he likes but just give him some realistic expectations.
its probably because this girl i know is always on my floor arguing that literally everything in the universe is sexist, and she does have tons of "scholarly" articles to back herself up with, so it started to rub off on me
his post wasnt that sexist it was just a sorta badly worded question
who's got two thumbs and took derpina to bone town last night? This guy right here
lmao wow
where is the what the christ rating
What the fuck is a derpina?
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;39248972]What the fuck is a derpina?[/QUOTE]
a beautiful woman, all derped up and beggin for it.
i dont even know what derp means
fuck im too old for the internet, someone take me out back and shoot me
[QUOTE=twoski;39248990]a beautiful woman, all derped up and beggin for it.[/QUOTE]
Did you drug her up?
[QUOTE=twoski;39248990]a beautiful woman, all derped up and beggin for it.[/QUOTE]
Please cease, for the sake of everyone in this thread.
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