[QUOTE=junker|154;39275630]If there are not any consequences to it or major drawbacks, just do it. Unless your attitude towards casual sex is negative. Also I noticed that people really show what they want when they are drunk.[/QUOTE]
ummmmmmmmm when you're drunk you tend to do things that you regret, and sex is one of them
taking advantage of a drunk girl is not a nice thing to do
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39276176]ummmmmmmmm when you're drunk you tend to do things that you regret, and sex is one of them
taking advantage of a drunk girl is not a nice thing to do[/QUOTE]
Well, people want sex and they get it. I have no moral quarrel with it anyway.
See y'all later, I'm heading to my gf's.
Sex, Girlfriends and Shit V: Viper's blog!
:v:
Hahaha, I laughed for real at that. More like everyone's blog though. I just happen to be a lucky bastard at the moment.
[QUOTE=viper shtf;39278099]See y'all later, I'm heading to my gf's.[/QUOTE]
"Look at me, guys, I have a girlfriend!"
speaking of which, got a lovely day planned for date #3 with this girl i've been seeing:
seattle aquarium, pike place market, space needle, asian fusion place for dinner
looks like online dating really works after all, just need patience
[QUOTE=H4yd3n;39275839]Just got home from swing dancing and a dessert date with the girlfriend and some other couples. It was super fun, and i felt like sharing it.[/QUOTE]
So you're a swinger?
My wife and I used to love to do a bunch of kinky shit, like one time she did the mailman.
Why do girls say they are in love with you/someone after they have known you/them for a couple days?
Apparently my "accidental girlfriend" said she has loved me for 2 years since she's first met me.
[QUOTE=iggy650;39283045]Why do girls say they are in love with you/someone after they have known you/them for a couple days?
Apparently my "accidental girlfriend" said she has loved me for 2 years since she's first met me.[/QUOTE]
Well there's always the chance that she has.
people have different ideals of what love is, she might just use the term more lightly than you would.
[QUOTE=iggy650;39283045]Why do girls say they are in love with you/someone after they have known you/them for a couple days?
Apparently my "accidental girlfriend" said she has loved me for 2 years since she's first met me.[/QUOTE]
Well over 2 years i'm guessing she has had a chance to get to know you fairly well.
A lot of it is because of the "love at first sight" stereotype though which makes people think initial infatuation is true love.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;39284106]Well over 2 years i'm guessing she has had a chance to get to know you fairly well.
A lot of it is because of the "love at first sight" stereotype though which makes people think initial infatuation is true love.[/QUOTE]
I think the problem is that she doesn't know me well enough. She doesn't truly get my sense of humor and how I act.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;39284106]Well over 2 years i'm guessing she has had a chance to get to know you fairly well.
A lot of it is because of the "love at first sight" stereotype though which makes people think initial infatuation is true love.[/QUOTE]
Your advice is awesome and all, but every time you post I (without knowing at first) am reading your post in LSP's voice.
[QUOTE=iggy650;39283045]Why do girls say they are in love with you/someone after they have known you/them for a couple days?
Apparently my "accidental girlfriend" said she has loved me for 2 years since she's first met me.[/QUOTE]
Why do you got to doubt it? Maybe she really does.
My current girlfriend says she had a thing for me going on six years. She just never got a chance to act on it. Maybe she's just saying that, but I don't care. You shouldn't either.
Well. Ex-gf, current friend, almost fwb, just had sex with another guy.. Apparently I'm not over her and Iiii'm fucking.. mad. Or depressed. Honestly idfk. I need some sleep.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;39277003]when you're drunk you do things you actually want to do but don't do when sober because of cons/possible cons
like you really want to fuck that one hot girl but you have a gf and thus you stay loyal; drink enough and some people decide that fucking that gf is a pro that overcomes the con and do it and then regret it later when they sober up
alcohol doesn't literally change people, just their inhibitions[/QUOTE]
of course every man wants to fuck a hot girl, but part of the reason relationships are meaningful is that you choose not to do what your primal instincts tell you to do
just because you're drunk doesn't mean its ok because "well i wanted to fuck her anyway that was just my drunk self telling me the truth!!"
there are also lots of things that you dont have any reason to do sober, but do when you're drunk, its really not just a gateway into seeing your true desires
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like when youre drunk you just get really horny, and this girl could have been horny, looking for a guy to fuck, and her drunk-self thought "oh i know, this guy will be easy to convince to fuck me!!"
or it could have been her long-lost desire to have sex with you
or it could have been a way to get back at someone
or it could have just been the alcohol
no matter WHAT the reason is, it's still very bad to take advantage of drunk people
[editline]20th January 2013[/editline]
sexual abuse, even
[editline]20th January 2013[/editline]
im actually just surprised that this thread considered it good advice to say "go for it bro! she probably meant it!"
[QUOTE=marvincmarvin;39286694]Well. Ex-gf, current friend, almost fwb, just had sex with another guy.. Apparently I'm not over her and Iiii'm fucking.. mad. Or depressed. Honestly idfk. I need some sleep.[/QUOTE]
remember that you're not her boyfriend anymore, you don't own her, and she doesn't have to avoid sex just to spare your feelings. she's not bound by any rules, and clearly she's moved on, and so should you. try not to let it bother you.
[editline]19th January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39286993]of course every man wants to fuck a hot girl, but part of the reason relationships are meaningful is that you choose not to do what your primal instincts tell you to do
just because you're drunk doesn't mean its ok because "well i wanted to fuck her anyway that was just my drunk self telling me the truth!!"
there are also lots of things that you dont have any reason to do sober, but do when you're drunk, its really not just a gateway into seeing your true desires
[editline]20th January 2013[/editline]
like when youre drunk you just get really horny, and this girl could have been horny, looking for a guy to fuck, and her drunk-self thought "oh i know, this guy will be easy to convince to fuck me!!"
or it could have been her long-lost desire to have sex with you
or it could have been a way to get back at someone
or it could have just been the alcohol
no matter WHAT the reason is, it's still very bad to take advantage of drunk people
[editline]20th January 2013[/editline]
sexual abuse, even
[editline]20th January 2013[/editline]
im actually just surprised that this thread considered it good advice to say "go for it bro! she probably meant it!"[/QUOTE]
not to mention that it's impossible to get consent from someone who's drunk. judges don't say "well she was just going on feelings she had anyway so clearly she wanted it"
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39286993]
im actually just surprised that this thread considered it good advice to say "go for it bro! she probably meant it!"[/QUOTE]
definitely not good advice
It's good advice if you're interested in living a 'me-first' lifestyle
I mean you'll get sex and she'll feel horrible in the morning, but you'll feel great
but then again, its not a graet life to lead
It's good advice if you want to get accused of rape at some point.
that too
it's taking advantage of someone and that's not something you do to friends
[editline]20th January 2013[/editline]
don't do it to anyone for that matter
like don't even suggest that in this thread anymore please
we were saying its good advice if you are a cunt
[QUOTE=killerteacup;39287695]It's good advice if you're interested in living a 'me-first' lifestyle
I mean you'll get sex and she'll feel horrible in the morning, but you'll feel great
but then again, its not a graet life to lead[/QUOTE]
yeah but once again this is pretending it affects you more than the girl
"well go ahead and kill them but you might have to live with some regret, if you're cool with that then ok"
that's an incredibly selfish way of thinking though, the first thing you should think of should be the drunk girl, not how you'd feel "living like that"
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39291361]yeah but once again this is pretending it affects you more than the girl
"well go ahead and kill them but you might have to live with some regret, if you're cool with that then ok"
that's an incredibly selfish way of thinking though, the first thing you should think of should be the drunk girl, not how you'd feel "living like that"[/QUOTE]
jo i think he understands that he was giving advice from a selfish person's perspective
and rape is awful but please don't make the analogical jump to murder to try to make a point, people really overplay that card and killing is so extreme that it really isn't comparable
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;39291975]jo i think he understands that he was giving advice from a selfish person's perspective
[/QUOTE]
so why even give advice?
[QUOTE=Yahnich;39294631]tbh everyone's opinion is allowed here, everyone should just look at the disagrees/agrees ratio of every bit of advice they get and figure it out for themselves[/QUOTE]
Exactly, we let you (Jo) still post when you piss everyone else off and no one agrees with you don't we? :v:
So my girlfriend is currently texting me and I think she's trying to convince me to have sex with her tomorrow. I say "I think" because she's really shy and nervous about saying anything even remotely sexual. We were talking about messing around (something we already do pretty regularly) but we've never gone all the way. Now she keeps asking if I want to "do something new."
The thing is I'm a virgin (she isn't), and up until dating her I've never even gotten as far as making out with anyone. I'm nervous as hell but I don't want to disappoint her or something by just playing dumb or flat out saying "no."
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