of course not, i told her i'd say it back when i was ready
i was just taken aback at how sudden it was, i feel like she doesn't know all that much about me and then boom there it was, right in the middle of sex even
[QUOTE=djshox;39314315]of course not, i told her i'd say it back when i was ready
i was just taken aback at how sudden it was, i feel like she doesn't know all that much about me and then boom there it was, right in the middle of sex even[/QUOTE]
I would take that particular timing as a good sign :v:
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
Oh guys, I was just making a joke about him being good in bed
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
Wait automerge removes ratings from posts? Interesting...
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;39311295]i usually get really happy when i'm drunk
when i was the most wasted i've ever been i spent an hour or two laughing my ass off and wouldn't shut up for more than a minute[/QUOTE]
This. I am much friendlier when drunk, and much more talkitive too.
I went out with a girl for a third time last night. We and her two friends all went to go see a horror movie that they tricked her into seeing, so she was clinging on to dear life to me. The rest of the night she always stayed around me. By the end of the night, I wanted to go for the kiss, but her friend was around so I sorta just held her hand, told her I had a great time, and let them be for the night.
I feel like I fucked up somehow, and that shes ignoring me. We all had plans to go hang out before she had to do her own shit later tonight, but I have heard nothing at all from anyone and h
Holy fuck she was sleeping the whole time. Fuck me.
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
I was typing mid panic, and quite literally she just texted back after I sent an amount of I think five texts within the past 16 hours. I'm attached aren't I? I mean it's been three weeks and every time we've gone out has been awesome. Just nothing too personal as she wants me to meet her friends and all, only went out once alone with her. Should I slow down, I mean we both are into it :/
[QUOTE=BackSapper;39318536]I was typing mid panic, and quite literally she just texted back after I sent an amount of I think five texts within the past 16 hours. I'm attached aren't I? I mean it's been three weeks and every time we've gone out has been awesome. Just nothing too personal as she wants me to meet her friends and all, only went out once alone with her. Should I slow down, I mean we both are into it :/[/QUOTE]
[quote]mid panic[/quote]
[quote]she just texted back after I sent an amount of I think five texts[/quote]
You should stop that. Never healthy.
try to avoid sending more than 3 texts in a row clearly that depends completely on the situation but its a good general rule of thumb to avoid being creepy and over bearing
[QUOTE=BackSapper;39318536]I was typing mid panic, and quite literally she just texted back after I sent an amount of I think five texts within the past 16 hours. I'm attached aren't I? I mean it's been three weeks and every time we've gone out has been awesome. Just nothing too personal as she wants me to meet her friends and all, only went out once alone with her. Should I slow down, I mean we both are into it :/[/QUOTE]
Woah ok, I mean that feeling is normal right, but you really don't want to keep texting until they answer. Be a lot more cool about it, if she doesn't answer or you think she's lost interest, just be patient She will contact you when she's ready, she's just as capable as you at making an effort as you, and they might just be a busy or distracted person. If you're the one to make the effort or chase after her (if it doesn't scare her off) then you'll always be doing that if you guys get together.
So just relax, occupy yourself, you're not desperate and you don't want to look like it either, you've just met a nice girl and you're interested to see how things pan out.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;39298520]it really depends on how drunk she is tbh, if she's only buzzed she's still in full control of her own actions
and tbh, if you say that someone who cheats isn't absolved from responsibility because of a shitty decision he made while drunk, why wouldn't a girl be? is it because girls are special little princesses?
i mean if you're going to make your line in the sand at least make sure it's an equal line, i personally think everyone is responsible for their own mistakes and if a girl ends up fucking a dude (willingly as in she seduced him) and regrets it the day after sucks to be her[/QUOTE]
Its ok if you are both equally drunk or as long as she isn't absolutely off her face otherwise its fair game.
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;39311250]the only reason i really drink anymore is because it's cathartic. when i'm sober it's hard for me to talk about my feelings even when i'm really bothered and i tend to stutter or lose track of what i'm saying. when i'm drunk i can just talk without everything holding me back.[/QUOTE]
I got the majority of my drinking escapades out the way when I was 15-19
Now I just find it an average almost boring kinda buzz with a terrible aftermath if you forget to drink water :v:
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=BackSapper;39318536]I went out with a girl for a third time last night. We and her two friends all went to go see a horror movie that they tricked her into seeing, so she was clinging on to dear life to me. The rest of the night she always stayed around me. By the end of the night, I wanted to go for the kiss, but her friend was around so I sorta just held her hand, told her I had a great time, and let them be for the night.
I feel like I fucked up somehow, and that shes ignoring me. We all had plans to go hang out before she had to do her own shit later tonight, but I have heard nothing at all from anyone and h
Holy fuck she was sleeping the whole time. Fuck me.
[editline]22nd January 2013[/editline]
I was typing mid panic, and quite literally she just texted back after I sent an amount of I think five texts within the past 16 hours. I'm attached aren't I? I mean it's been three weeks and every time we've gone out has been awesome. Just nothing too personal as she wants me to meet her friends and all, only went out once alone with her. Should I slow down, I mean we both are into it :/[/QUOTE]
Just chill out bro, when people don't text back think of all the times you haven't texted someone back until a long time later, it happens heaps and is normal.
But you should probably make a move/hang out with her one on one a bit more it has been 3 weeks
She just said she only wants to be friends. I asked her what was up, and she basically said "nothing, just want to be friends first."
[QUOTE=BackSapper;39322056]She just said she only wants to be friends. I asked her what was up, and she basically said "nothing, just want to be friends first."[/QUOTE]
idk man, that's what my gf wanted, we aim for best friends who make out a bunch.
Ok so I like this girl a lot but she only wants to be friends with benefits
Wut do
[QUOTE=MBB;39328174]Ok so I like this girl a lot but she only wants to be friends with benefits
Wut do[/QUOTE]
If you want that, then do that. If you don't, then don't. Tadaaaa
[QUOTE=MBB;39328174]Ok so I like this girl a lot but she only wants to be friends with benefits
Wut do[/QUOTE]
Be friends with benefits and take it from there?
[QUOTE=SataniX;39328496]Be friends with benefits and take it from there?[/QUOTE]
I think ill just do that. Thanks man
You know, I'd probably like casual sex. But to be honest, I'd prefer having a girlfriend and working my way towards sex over having a friend I could fuck with whenever I want. Then again, I've never had a relationship before, so that might be why.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;39330744]what makes you think you'll be able to fuck whenever you want and what makes you think a girlfriend doesn't mean fuck whenever you want?
fwb is basically having a girlfriend, but without the intimacy (so just the sex part)[/QUOTE]
Well, I mean I want the intimacy.
do it until you find an alternative
[QUOTE=Yahnich;39331216]then don't do it obv[/QUOTE]
I wish I could have that. But I have none of both. Neither FWB, nor a girlfriend.
My friends girlfriend says shes going to wait 8 months before she'll have sex! I feel sorry for him it's such a long time...
[editline]23rd January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=DatWut?;39331478]I wish I could have that. But I have none of both. Neither FWB, nor a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
Why don't you want to be FWB? That's a good opportunity.
[QUOTE=StonedGamer;39334179]Why don't you want to be FWB? That's a good opportunity.[/QUOTE]
Not if you really like the girl and want to be in a relationship
[QUOTE=StonedGamer;39334179]
Why don't you want to be FWB? That's a good opportunity.[/QUOTE]
because some people don't feel better when they are just fucking around
downstairs neighbors banged on the ceiling during sex today
I pay extra for an upstairs apartment and I can't have sex without rocking the bed so they're gonna have to deal with it
How to fool yourself into thinking your over your ex only to have a complete emotional breakdown 2 months later, make a fool of yourself and then realise it's probably because you never really broke down after the break-up and you're only just coming to terms with the fact that you're not together: A simple guide by Christopher Ryan.
Honestly I think she's holding this together rather well and I'm just being emotionally retarded :v:
Here, have my embarrassing pre-breakdown and during breakdown facebook posts:
[quote]Tuesday
2:19
Me
Hey N, you said when we broke up that we'd stay friends and that we could still visit each other if we wanted, and despite the fact that I don't think I'm going to have that kind of money in a while, would you even be comfortable with that? 'Cus I need my walking dead, dead like me and rediculously good value huge pizzas :V
03:23
N
I'd be comfortable with you coming over, and staying and what not... I'd prefer it if I had my own house though, like an apartment. Mainly because it would look odd to my parents, and, well you know. If I had my own house with a roommate, yeah I'd be totally cool with it, but with the current situation, I'd have to think about it. poopbreathbuttmouth
Tuesday
13:00
Me
Yeah, that makes sense, and like I said, I doubt I'm gonna have enough money for that again this year at least, so... you've got a year to get an apartment :V
:>
Wednesday
01:15
Me
N, when we first started going out, I didn't really get your idea of boyfriend and girlfriend also being best friends, because I'd never really heard of anyone thinking that before. However, I grew into the idea very quickly, and it seemed great. Now though, I understand why people dont think and do that, because losing a partner is really really shit, as is losing a best friend, but losing both at the same time? It's devastating, doubly so when it blindsides you. And although we agreed to stay best friends, and we still are friends, it seems that the distancing that comes naturally with a break up undermines a best friendship, and that makes sense. I'm not mad and I cant blame anyone for anything. Things happened how they did and I wouldn't have had it any other way. Which might prompt the question as to why I'm even writing this to you, since it serves no purpose. The reason is because it's been rattling around my head, and your still my closest emotional friend. AKA youre gonna have to put up with all my emotional bullshit :>
tl;dr: I depended on you and losing you sucked a lot, but it's okay so this message is pointless :V
ps, snape kills dumbledoor, george cloony is a bad father both as a hawaiian and as a fox.
Today
03:13
Me
Been going through my camcorder tapes, just found one which has a bit from before the first summer and a few clips from then. This would be fine except the tape also contains the half hour shower video I doubt you keep on your desktop anymore and another of me masturbating, so I don't think it should go in the N category incase my parents look :V
03:42
Me
And now the one of the 4th of july weekend, I think I'm going to upload this if I can. It's funny, at about 18 mins in I say that it's my video to watch to remember great memories, to which you ask "why would you need a video to remember great memories?" and I reply that it's a safeguard.
03:58
Me
PS the reason I'm looking at these tapes is because I couldn't sleep for thinking about you, and after a film didn't fix it I kinda gave in and ended up smelling that shirt that doesn't even smell like you for the first time in months. And then I thought it would be a great idea to check out the smash journal, which I haven't even written in, but I checked uot the stuff we tucked in the back, and found the movie and concert tickets, but then at the back I found something I didn't recognise, a Christmas card, from longbranch something or other, so with my interest piqued I opened it up, saw that picture of you and broke down. I thought I was getting over you quite well, but I realised that I never really cried after the actual break-up bit, and I guess thats what happened just now, I finally started to deal with the fact.
Anyway, I'm sorry I've been writing you all these messages in the night, mostly about weird emotional stuff that I'm sure makes you uncomfortable. I just don't know what else to do most of the time.[/quote]
[QUOTE=Regorc's Chest;39338972]How to fool yourself into thinking your over your ex only to have a complete emotional breakdown 2 months later, make a fool of yourself and then realise it's probably because you never really broke down after the break-up and you're only just coming to terms with the fact that you're not together: A simple guide by Christopher Ryan.
Honestly I think she's holding this together rather well and I'm just being emotionally retarded :v:
Here, have my embarrassing pre-breakdown and during breakdown facebook posts:[/QUOTE]
I dunno if it's just me but you seem massively over dramatic about everything with all these breakdowns over anything and such.
Dude, what are you doing?
regorc, you really need to chill out, man.
[QUOTE=Regorc's Chest;39338972]How to fool yourself into thinking your over your ex only to have a complete emotional breakdown 2 months later, make a fool of yourself and then realise it's probably because you never really broke down after the break-up and you're only just coming to terms with the fact that you're not together: A simple guide by Christopher Ryan.
Honestly I think she's holding this together rather well and I'm just being emotionally retarded :v:
Here, have my embarrassing pre-breakdown and during breakdown facebook posts:[/QUOTE]
You need to know when to stop messaging your ex.
I got two questions.
1. What do I do if I do not want to start a relationship with a girl but just be fuck buddies instead?
2. How difficult is it for a guy with a small penis (4.4in length 5in girth) to get into a hook-up? Ex said I was okay at sex but I've heard girls who hook-up say size matters.
[editline]25th January 2013[/editline]
For some reason I feel so insecure.
Shit
I wouldn't bother messaging her again, if she's genuinely ignored you then don't go after her about it. It wont help, if she really wanted to stay friends with you wouldn't have to ask her to be so.
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;39340202]regorc, you really need to chill out, man.[/QUOTE]
I think everyone, including him can see that, but it's easier said than done.
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