do my eyes decieve me, did i just see sawah post?
[editline]29th January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=KlaseR;39407567]So I'm going out with this girl friday night, and since we've showed a great interest in one another I'll try getting her in bed. Problem is I can't go back to mine (don't ask why, I just can't) and I know she can invite me to hers if she wanted to. Any tips on how to make her do that, or any subtle way I can ask her if I can come to her place?
she probably will ask me, but in case she doesn't[/QUOTE]
just ask her if she wants to go back to her place, i don't see why that would be an issue with anyone
[QUOTE=KlaseR;39407567]So I'm going out with this girl friday night, and since we've showed a great interest in one another I'll try getting her in bed. Problem is I can't go back to mine (don't ask why, I just can't) and I know she can invite me to hers if she wanted to. Any tips on how to make her do that, or any subtle way I can ask her if I can come to her place?
she probably will ask me, but in case she doesn't[/QUOTE]
Should be as simple as asking if she wants to go to her place, or offering to take her home after the date.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;39407338]did you at least cum outside or not even that[/QUOTE]
By the time she wanted to, we were about an hour and a half of constant making out and fooling about. I didn't cum.
Which raises the next question, I haven't actually came for a female (between three others). I seriously don't know what the problem is since I haven't masturbated within the past week.
[QUOTE=CAPSMAN!;39407794]Hey. The guy dating the fire hydrant here.
Does anyone have any tips to this issue?
After the first month we knew eachother she doesn't let me finger her properly, as in she stops me right before she starts orgasming, and says "I can't, I don't know why".
She always acts like it's something I shouldn't even bother doing, even though she knows I can make her orgasm. [/QUOTE]
obviously she feels uncomfortable with it for some reason
there's no real tip to give, you can try talking to her about it but i don't know if you're at the point she'd be comfortable doing that
But learn from me;
If she seems like the type that would use the term "hot coffee",
Stop.
Think.
Don't reply "Sorry, I don't drink coffee".
You could probably save it by asking for hot chocolate, but you're gonna feel pretty stupid when she doesn't even have a coffee machine.
[editline]30th January 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;39407958]obviously she feels uncomfortable with it for some reason
there's no real tip to give, you can try talking to her about it but i don't know if you're at the point she'd be comfortable doing that[/QUOTE]
Talking about it doesn't get me much further than that she doesn't know, and that it's more important the sex is good for me, that it takes so much time(it doesn't) that it's not worth the bother.
I like you guys and gals.
how do i an girlfriend
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;39408574]This may or may not be stupid because i'm inexperienced, but if you didn't cum what are you worried about?[/QUOTE]
You're still at higher risk of STIs and whatnot. Plus what if he came a little but didn't realize?
[QUOTE=twoski;39409411]You're still at higher risk of STIs and whatnot. Plus what if he came a little but didn't realize?[/QUOTE]
As far as I know, precum doesn't get you pregnant - there's a tiny tiny chance, but not worth worrying about. Getting pregnant isn't that easy, especially if you aren't even trying, seeing as a girl can only get pregnant a few days a month.
I think a lot of people really wreck themselves worrying about that shit though
It's probably not healthy but it's a damn sight better than being totally blase' about it
But if you're going to worry, worry BEFORE you stick your little meat pole in her meat hole, it's not like worrying after will help you at all because then the damage is done and if she's pregnant you deal with it then.
So a girl I know at work texted me and said "want to hook up tomorrow morning?"
I am assuming this means she wants to have sex so I have prepared myself for such.
Am I assuming correctly?
God I am hopeless.
[QUOTE=Adius Shadow;39410829]So a girl I know at work texted me and said "want to hook up tomorrow morning?"
I am assuming this means she wants to have sex so I have prepared myself for such.
Am I assuming correctly?
God I am hopeless.[/QUOTE]
Get ready for it, but don't expect it.
[QUOTE=Adius Shadow;39410829]So a girl I know at work texted me and said "want to hook up tomorrow morning?"
I am assuming this means she wants to have sex so I have prepared myself for such.
Am I assuming correctly?
God I am hopeless.[/QUOTE]
Sometimes hooking up just means hanging out
Why don't you just go with a condom in your wallet and see what happens
noooo thats a bad idea, you could damage it that way
damage what
The condom, sillybuns
Oh, of course, my mistake, carry it in your special condom tote bag
do you not have a condom tote bag???
The shoulder strap snapped because I used to tote so many condoms around
thats totelly crazy!
i always carry my condoms on my boyfriend and ive only been pregnant once
works 99% of the time every time
Now I keep a condom in my pendant to keep my swag safe
I keep a condom on my dick at all times so I'm super prepared always.
hey buddy; like the way you're rocking the protection ;)
im gay
[QUOTE=twoski;39412755]
Bad vibes all around. We started dating 4 weeks ago and we had sex 2 weeks ago and we've only been able to see eachother intermittently so god knows what she's actually been up to. She had a chance to come hang out with me one weekend and she decided to go hang out with her friend instead. I'm really getting second thoughts and my poor brain is just analyzing all this way too much. :([/QUOTE]
You had sex 2 weeks after dating? I really hope you knew her well before that, because if not I'd be worried too.
[QUOTE=itisjuly;39412874]You had sex 2 weeks after dating? I really hope you knew her well before that, because if not I'd be worried too.[/QUOTE]
I did at four weeks, sex doesn't really mean anything now these days. If two people want to have a little fun, let em go at it.
poopo
[QUOTE=itisjuly;39412874]You had sex 2 weeks after dating? I really hope you knew her well before that, because if not I'd be worried too.[/QUOTE]
lol as if that has anything to dó with it - my boyfriend and i had sex on our second or third date it turned out fine
however, is your 'relationship' exclusive? you and her might have different opinions on where your relationship is headed, and ven whether or not there's a relationship to begin with - she might just be having fun with you, while you're putting way too much into it.
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