[QUOTE=Rhenae;38106255]And what exactly is the problem with being queer Mr.W0w00t?[/QUOTE]
he didnt say there was anything wrong with the queermobile
all aboard
[QUOTE=junker|154;38105724]Man, my girlfriend attracts all kind of dumb people. It can be so annoying, although at times it is quite fun.
Today, she went to a party with some friends and there was a guy who talked to her. He asked her "who was that gay knight at the bus last week?" in the most dumb tone possible. He meant her brother, both were in a bus, going home. Her brother looks a bit unusual and has a very distinct style.
Anyway she was mad at that guy, she went to the bar and took a vodka/red bull with tons of ice. Then went to the guy and said "Come a little bit closer". So he was like "yeah, what?". Then she poured the whole drink over his expensive clothes and smashed the plastic cup on his head. He was so surprised and absolutely stunned :v: Anyway he went batshit insane and promised to kill her and make her life a living hell. Then my girlfriend left the place.
Unfortunately I have not been there, I would totally go medieval on his ass. Luckily he has not physically touched her. Man, this things are so annoying.
It is not the first time that guys do such stuff with her, usually there are tons of guys who hit on her but fail and then annoy her because they did not stand a chance against her.[/QUOTE]
seems a bit cunty to do that? she told him to come closer then splashed liquor all over him and smashed a cup on his head all because he asked "who was that gay knight at the bus last week", a stupid but fairly innocent question
It was an offensive insult to her brother, that guy is a total asshole. I knew him during school, he is a cunt and insults people all the time. "gay knight" might sound not that bad, but in my language it is really a bad thing to say.
[QUOTE=junker|154;38105724]He asked her "who was that gay knight at the bus last week?" in the most dumb tone possible.[/QUOTE]
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So last night I met up with my best friend ever (a girl) for the first time in months after a massive fall out... we got absolutely wrecked on jack daniels and pulled. We've been so fucking close for about 7 years now and this has never happened, I liked it. Fuuuuuuuuck, I'm also taking that other girl out for dinner tonight. Which makes me feel weird.
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Also, I'm nursing the mother of all hangovers which isn't helping matters. I honestly can't even think about having dinner with that girl without feeling like I'm gonna throw up or pass out.
After more thought, something can never happen with my friend. It was great getting it out there and off my chest, but I'm gonna try and make sure it doesn't happen again and just focus my efforts on this new lady. Thankfully my mate is away on tour with her Irish dancing troupe until Christmas so we won't be seeing each other.
Last night I kept having dreams about my ex running into me and saying that she changed her mind.
I didn't want to wake up. ):
Oh and what I said earlier about my girlfriend and me being permanently over was just me misinterpreting one of my friends who overblows everything she hears.
Well, Ive been in University for about a week or so. It is tough because 1 german girls arent that open to having strangers start a conversation with them, and 2 because my german isnt good enough to where I can comfortably talk to someone and flirt or whatever and also because its not a very romantic language in itself. A lot of cuties in my class though, oh well...
I study in Austria now and I had absolutely no problem talking to girls, honestly they are a lot more open than at my homecountry. My german was not that great either, I rarely talked german before moving to Austria. You will get the hang with the time, also german can be quite romantic. By the way, where do you study?
hmm I dunno, I feel more comfortable talking in english or portuguese, where I'm from. And I have to admit, some are friendly and all, but I always get a bit nervous because Im afraid my german is not up to par, which I know its completely ridiculous and I should get better with the time.
Im studying in Munich now, its not that far away is it
and where were you from?
Innsbruck, only a small jump from here :v: I have a lot of friends in munich. Anyway, in my experience people found it really great that I tried improving my german. The mistakes that I still make from time to time are rather funny and we always laugh about it. Also I lived for a year here in Austria, talking german everyday. You will get a grasp of the language.
Yeah, people always say that I speak really good german considering I have been here for a little less than a year (which was mostly spend with foreigners), but I never feel that way. Sometimes they start talking and I can only get some of the stuff they say, which is really frustrating. I actually met a girl at a party, and she started speaking really fast, so I told her to calm down and speak a bit slower. She starts talking slowly like Im a retard or something, which was pretty funny. But I actually get along better with foreigners than germans, even if they've lived here for a long time and speak german fluently.
You know, for me talking to foreigners is a lot of fun. I like talking in different languages or adapt my talking to another person. A friendly foreigner who tries to talk my language is really a sympathetic person that I would actually like. So do not worry, nobody takes you for a retard. Only assholes do.
Não te preocupes!
Thanks man. It can only get better from here for both of us :)
I have a cousin in Germany now. He moved there with his wife and daughter and he complains a lot about how hard it was to learn German at age 45.
He felt a bit insecure at first but he got the hang of it. Lucky for him he had German classes there. It's still funny though.
I mean, in Portugal you either talk Portuguese or English (to foreigners) and we kinda get used to it. To go abroad and start speaking English. Funny thing is when I went to Madrid, nobody either understood a word I said of both English nor Portuguese (and the languages resemble a bit), I had a hard time asking for directions from the Bullfighting Arena of A Cubierta to the airport. I was lucky to find an old man who could manage to speak to me in [I]Spanenglish[/I].
But still, the other day, I was walking through the streets of lisbon and this french woman comes to me asking for directions in French, and I was like "what". And she gave me this shocked look as if I was suppose to know French.
well if youre in spain, you should have spoken in spanish. You speaking in portuguese in spain is the same thing as that french woman speaking to you in french in Portugal. And yeah, Spanish and Portuguese are more closely related than French and Portuguese, but still, the principle is the same. Maybe she thought that portuguese and french were really similar, and since the portuguese community in france isnt that small, she could have also assumed that a lot of people in portugal knew some french
Well, French used to be well known in Portugal back in the day since it was taught in school before they started to teach english.
So I guess most people assume it is still the second language around here.
I am just about ready to fucking flip.
So me and my girlfriend have been having issues the past week, me not wanting to skype with her. Her trying to kill herself, both of us getting depressed.
So last night im chatting to her, after she said she wasn't allowed to go anywhere this weekend, and i do trust her allot, tells me she is going out with my cousin and his boyfriend in a town 150KM north of where i live with the excuse "you said to hang out with my friends". Well i would be ok with this if they were friends, but when it comes down to family members, especially the one i have the most in common with, as well as being very good friends for nearly 17 years, it really starts to piss me off, as if something like that was happening my cousin and/or his boyfriend would tell me straight away.
I nearly considered ending the relationship this morning but i decided against it because i do love her.
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38121359]I am just about ready to fucking flip.
So me and my girlfriend have been having issues the past week, me not wanting to skype with her. Her trying to kill herself, both of us getting depressed.
So last night im chatting to her, after she said she wasn't allowed to go anywhere this weekend, and i do trust her allot, tells me she is going out with my cousin and his boyfriend in a town 150KM north of where i live with the excuse "you said to hang out with my friends". Well i would be ok with this if they were friends, but when it comes down to family members, especially the one i have the most in common with, as well as being very good friends for nearly 17 years, it really starts to piss me off, as if something like that was happening my cousin and/or his boyfriend would tell me straight away.
I nearly considered ending the relationship this morning but i decided against it because i do love her.[/QUOTE]
dont stay in a unhealthy relationship just because you think you love somebody.
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38121359]I am just about ready to fucking flip.
So me and my girlfriend have been having issues the past week, me not wanting to skype with her. Her trying to kill herself, both of us getting depressed.
So last night im chatting to her, after she said she wasn't allowed to go anywhere this weekend, and i do trust her allot, tells me she is going out with my cousin and his boyfriend in a town 150KM north of where i live with the excuse "you said to hang out with my friends". Well i would be ok with this if they were friends, but when it comes down to family members, especially the one i have the most in common with, as well as being very good friends for nearly 17 years, it really starts to piss me off, as if something like that was happening my cousin and/or his boyfriend would tell me straight away.
I nearly considered ending the relationship this morning but i decided against it because i do love her.[/QUOTE]
you aren't obligated to stay in a relationship you aren't happy in.
it sounds like she's taking advantage of the fact that you aren't willing to leave her in spite of how she's behaving.
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38121359]I am just about ready to fucking flip.
So me and my girlfriend have been having issues the past week, me not wanting to skype with her. Her trying to kill herself, both of us getting depressed.
So last night im chatting to her, after she said she wasn't allowed to go anywhere this weekend, and i do trust her allot, tells me she is going out with my cousin and his boyfriend in a town 150KM north of where i live with the excuse "you said to hang out with my friends". Well i would be ok with this if they were friends, but when it comes down to family members, especially the one i have the most in common with, as well as being very good friends for nearly 17 years, it really starts to piss me off, as if something like that was happening my cousin and/or his boyfriend would tell me straight away.
I nearly considered ending the relationship this morning but i decided against it because i do love her.[/QUOTE]
Try to speak to her face to face before she goes out. Communication is always good in situations like these. It's hard to judge how people are really feeling through phonecalls, skype, texts etc. Try and get a hold of your cousin, if you are that close I'm sure He'll invite you out or tell you what's really going on.
As said before, and I totally agree don't stay if you are not happy in the relationship. Leaving each other could be good for both of you.
[QUOTE=AimeeRose;38122834]Try to speak to her face to face before she goes out. Communication is always good in situations like these. It's hard to judge how people are really feeling through phonecalls, skype, texts etc. Try and get a hold of your cousin, if you are that close I'm sure He'll invite you out or tell you what's really going on.
As said before, and I totally agree don't stay if you are not happy in the relationship. Leaving each other could be good for both of you.[/QUOTE]
the problem with that is that i havent seen her in over a week.
Also when my cousin gets home im going to ask him whats going on
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38122913]the problem with that is that i havent seen her in over a week.
Also when my cousin gets home im going to ask him whats going on[/QUOTE]
I see, I'm sure you'll manage to sort it out. If you guys are meant to be together things will sort themselves out.
Arguments are healthy in a relationship so don't worry to voice your opinions. Good Luck
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38122913]the problem with that is that i havent seen her in over a week.
Also when my cousin gets home im going to ask him whats going on[/QUOTE]
Sounds like she doesn't love you back, she's just using you buddy.
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[QUOTE=AimeeRose;38122983]I see, I'm sure you'll manage to sort it out. If you guys are meant to be together things will sort themselves out.
Arguments are healthy in a relationship so don't worry to voice your opinions. Good Luck[/QUOTE]
Arguments are healthy, threatening suicide is not.
[QUOTE=metallics;38123157]Sounds like she doesn't love you back, she's just using you buddy.
[editline]21st October 2012[/editline]
Arguments are healthy, threatening suicide is not.[/QUOTE]
If i'm honest 9 times out of 10 i'd just say do it. Threatening suicide is too much of a dick move for me to pretend to care.
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38121359]I am just about ready to fucking flip.
So me and my girlfriend have been having issues the past week, me not wanting to skype with her. Her trying to kill herself, both of us getting depressed.
So last night im chatting to her, after she said she wasn't allowed to go anywhere this weekend, and i do trust her allot, tells me she is going out with my cousin and his boyfriend in a town 150KM north of where i live with the excuse "you said to hang out with my friends". Well i would be ok with this if they were friends, but when it comes down to family members, especially the one i have the most in common with, as well as being very good friends for nearly 17 years, it really starts to piss me off, as if something like that was happening my cousin and/or his boyfriend would tell me straight away.
I nearly considered ending the relationship this morning but i decided against it because i do love her.[/QUOTE]
I don't get what's the problem of her going out with her friends and family members without you when you previously told her it would be ok.
The other thing I didn't get was the reason for you to be so angry with something you gave her the green light to do. Since she's depressed what's so wrong of her to go out with other people?
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38123648]I don't get what's the problem of her going out with her friends and family members without you when you previously told her it would be ok.
The other thing I didn't get was the reason for you to be so angry with something you gave her the green light to do. Since she's depressed what's so wrong of her to go out with other people?[/QUOTE]
when doing this kindve things, my cousin has always invited me, for years now, then she forced him to not invite me.
An extremely hot girl at a party dragged me out into the hallway to make out...
I fucking love university. :)
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38123662]when doing this kindve things, my cousin has always invited me, for years now, then she forced him to not invite me.[/QUOTE]
sound like she's fucked in the head.
you should probably drop her.
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38123662]when doing this kindve things, my cousin has always invited me, for years now, then she forced him to not invite me.[/QUOTE]
She "forced"?
How come?
What's the problem if your cousin doesn't invite you once?
I don't think she's doing anything wrong. In fact I think you're feeling jealous about it. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to have control over everything or that you and your girlfriend have to do everything together.
You need to back off a bit and let her breathe once in a while too.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38123858]She "forced"?
How come?
What's the problem if your cousin doesn't invite you once?
I don't think she's doing anything wrong. In fact I think you're feeling jealous about it. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to have control over everything or that you and your girlfriend have to do everything together.
You need to back off a bit and let her breathe once in a while too.[/QUOTE]
its more the fact she lied to me which got me annoyed. Her parents didnt know that either.
But as my cousin said after i talked to him today, it wasnt fair on me, as i wouldve been invited if i didnt have a girlfriend, or she didnt force him to not invite me.
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