Sex, Girlfriends and Shit IV - General

I am dead serious. My girlfriend has never played Mario Party. I played Mario Party 8 with her last night. She won the very last game, which won her the Minigame bonus star, which secured her first place. What mini game...? [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9xW-thG93A[/media] Fuck me.

Wow, I never had a girlfriend who liked videogames as much as I do. You are truly blessed.

[QUOTE=BackSapper;39529082]I am dead serious. My girlfriend has never played Mario Party. I played Mario Party 8 with her last night. She won the very last game, which won her the Minigame bonus star, which secured her first place. What mini game...? [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9xW-thG93A[/media] Fuck me.[/QUOTE] i hope she doesnt rip your dick off gl bro

(posted this on the social/love advice thread as well) I've been talking to this girl who I have a recent-ish crush on and whom i've known for a little while and have been speaking to on steam for a few weeks, and after getting to know her better i've been thinking of asking her how she feels about me. Not right away though, since I don't want to rush this and have everything fall apart on me just because I told her too soon or some shit.

So you're thinking of knowing her better personally just so you try to figure out the right time to let her know you have feelings for her? Sounds like a bad plan.

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;39532472]So you're thinking of knowing her better personally just so you try to figure out the right time to let her know you have feelings for her? Sounds like a bad plan.[/QUOTE] Well, it's the only plan I have atm so *shrugs* More or less what's going on between me and her is I like her, I don't know if she likes me even though she's already told me that she likes my personality, and we have a decent amount of things in common. Also, I don't exactly live within walking distance from her, since she lives in Delaware and I live in Ottawa.

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;39529454]Wow, I never had a girlfriend who liked videogames as much as I do. You are truly blessed.[/QUOTE] She likes them, she just sucks HORRORIBLY. She does like to cuddle and watch me play though as she believes i'm a profound god at vidya.

[QUOTE=BackSapper;39532658]She likes them, she just sucks HORRORIBLY. She does like to cuddle and watch me play though as she believes i'm a profound god at vidya.[/QUOTE] Nice. My gf came round the other day and I was playing Reach. The whineing. Oh god the whineing.

I play video games with my girlfriends. One controls the keyboard and one controls the mouse.

[QUOTE=Disseminate;39535290]I play video games with my girlfriends. One controls the keyboard and one controls the mouse.[/QUOTE] wat

i started playing silent hill 2 finally since i didn't want to play it by myself generally when the radio starts making static sounds i'll pause the game and make high pitched whining noises until my bf comes over and kills the monsters

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;39535811]i started playing silent hill 2 finally since i didn't want to play it by myself generally when the radio starts making static sounds i'll pause the game and make high pitched whining noises until my bf comes over and kills the monsters[/QUOTE] I can't even play scary games around my gf. :v: And I have to play shooters for her because while she enjoys them, she's not very good at them.

i can't play fpses anymore because most of them give me nausea now. a while back i made one of my friends come over to play bioshock on my computer so i could watch since i wanted to play it again and watching didn't give me headaches

im having the worst case of flutes right now and its making me lose self-respect so this is a fun night

videogame topic: my boyfriend and i both like to play games, however, we don't really like the same games he prefers rpgs, however, i prefer fps we mostly end up playing fpss though - we spent last weekend only playing dead island and watching spartacus, great weekend fun fact when we moved in with each other last year the first thing we did was to buy 8 multiplayer ps3 games

Can't get my girlfriend to play anything other than the sims.

my girlfriend plays morrowind and baldur's gate 2 she is reluctant to play multiplayer games

[QUOTE=GoldenDargon;39532587]Well, it's the only plan I have atm so *shrugs* More or less what's going on between me and her is I like her, I don't know if she likes me even though she's already told me that she likes my personality, and we have a decent amount of things in common. Also, I don't exactly live within walking distance from her, since she lives in Delaware and I live in Ottawa.[/QUOTE] Let me tell you something. This doesn't work in a mathematical and logical fashion, Mr. Spok. If you want to conquer someone's heart you have to cultivate it first. Hanging around someone only to wait for the right moment to say "I like you" is not conquering anyone's heart. Basically you'll be leading yourself to a follower dog's life that has no initiative of doing something fun whatsoever. It may also lead you to have front row seats to find out she's not interested in you or in another guy. I think you should start to see things from another perspective, and that is stop thinking about your plan and start thinking what both of you can do together to cement a good relationship. That is, if you're really interested in this girl. I suggest, for example, if you're going to start hanging out with her that you keep it simple like going to get some ice cream, for a walk, coffee, whatever floats your boat really. Get to know her a bit and from there see if you can cultivate her interest and jump to other fun things to do. If both of you are into each other the right moment will surely appear. If not, well, there is more fish in the ocean.

So i got blown off this weekend. What annoys me is that i asked her if she wanted to do something this weekend and she said yeah, then we made plans and on the day she decided she didn't want to do what we had originally decided. so i brainstormed some more ideas and she pretty much just ignored me all day until later. i texted her something along the lines of "if you don't want to do anything that's okay" and she just said "i'm so tired". which is fine but goddamn, if you don't want to do something then speak up. i made a joke along the lines of "you must have had a busy friday, it's only 6pm" and she sidestepped that comment... i get the feeling she just went and hung out with her ex on friday and ditched me. she's usually pretty talkative about the things she does but it's like she disappeared into a void on friday and emerged at noon the next day. of course it's just a feeling, there could have been some other thing that she didn't feel like discussing, it's just that she visibly put effort into keeping her plans nondescript. I was going to go to her house on valentines day (it's like 45 minutes commute to just get to her house) and drop off a little basket with a handmade card and some chocolate or what have you because fuck it, i've never actually celebrated valentine's day. now, the idea just doesn't sound as appealing anymore.

I couldn't even get my ex to give Dreamfall: The longest journey a try. Made me quite sad. Since it is the most important game of my childhood.

[QUOTE=twoski;39539772]So i got blown off this weekend. What annoys me is that i asked her if she wanted to do something this weekend and she said yeah, then we made plans and on the day she decided she didn't want to do what we had originally decided. so i brainstormed some more ideas and she pretty much just ignored me all day until later. i texted her something along the lines of "if you don't want to do anything that's okay" and she just said "i'm so tired". which is fine but goddamn, if you don't want to do something then speak up. i made a joke along the lines of "you must have had a busy friday, it's only 6pm" and she sidestepped that comment... i get the feeling she just went and hung out with her ex on friday and ditched me. she's usually pretty talkative about the things she does but it's like she disappeared into a void on friday and emerged at noon the next day. of course it's just a feeling, there could have been some other thing that she didn't feel like discussing, it's just that she visibly put effort into keeping her plans nondescript. I was going to go to her house on valentines day (it's like 45 minutes commute to just get to her house) and drop off a little basket with a handmade card and some chocolate or what have you because fuck it, i've never actually celebrated valentine's day. now, the idea just doesn't sound as appealing anymore.[/QUOTE] Just lay off her. Really, not worth your time. And the more you try the less feedback you'll get. She's not into you, at least not any longer. I think you should move on, just don't speak to her anymore unless she actually comes to you. In a good relationship there's feedback going back and forth and she seems to only go to you when she needs you. Whenever you need her, she isn't there. I don't think that's the kind of girl that deserves the kindness and attention you've been giving her, neither valentine gifts.

My bf and I both play games quite a bit, but I'm not fond of a lot of multiplayer games. A lot of the time we can end up hanging out but playing separate games, or I'll watch him play or he'll get me to play something with him. Speaking of that it reminds me the first game he got me to play with him was Amnesia. Goddamnass. He sent me portal before we started dating though, true love man, true love. (Currently we play Guild Wars 2 and AI Wars together, but we cycle games, used to play Starcraft a lot mixed with Minecraft for shits and giggles)

heres a play by play of our texting conversation [img]http://25.media.tumblr.com/5770907dcb69197dbe766852e3e0977b/tumblr_mhtqp7u3af1ri6n4po1_1280.png[/img]

[QUOTE=twoski;39542440]heres a play by play of our texting conversation [img]http://25.media.tumblr.com/5770907dcb69197dbe766852e3e0977b/tumblr_mhtqp7u3af1ri6n4po1_1280.png[/img][/QUOTE] flirting or being a bitch??? i think its fairly obvious she doesnt want to talk to you lol

[QUOTE=twoski;39542440]heres a play by play of our texting conversation [IMG]http://25.media.tumblr.com/5770907dcb69197dbe766852e3e0977b/tumblr_mhtqp7u3af1ri6n4po1_1280.png[/IMG][/QUOTE] How can we draw a conclusion about if she's being a bitch? And I mean a "big picture" conclusion other than the conversation fragment in which you sound so desperate it's just painful to read. Well, being flirty is out of the equation but classifying "bitch" to the other edge is far fetched to say the least. And I say this because, we don't know the background or your actions towards her. It looks to me that you're so desperately needy because she chewed you up, gave you the ride of your life and then left you sucking your thumb. I told you she was trouble but you keep on clinging to some flimsy hope with her, a girl that doesn't want anything with you. (And she has her reasons other than "being a bitch"). Maybe she's not a bitch, maybe you were too assuming and ignored every advice and sign. Or maybe you're all over her, everywhere, every time. But if you want to keep trying your luck with her, well go ahead, maybe you'll learn something.

aaaa you guys that isn't actually me, lol. maybe i should have made it more obvious it was a joke. if i were as oblivious as that guy i'd probably throw myself in front of a train if i were flat out referring to this girl as a bitch then i think the odds of us having a successful relationship would be next to nothing.

My girlfriend and I try to play games together but it never works out. We tried playing Sonic Unleashed once, it took her 8 minutes to make it 3/4ths though the tutorial level. The actual level takes about a minute to do normally. It usually ends up with her watching me play or me just putting a movie in.

the only games i can even play anymore is WoW and silent storm [editline]10th February 2013[/editline] i think i introduced a girl to silent storm because she was like "it looks like sims" and i was like "yeah its kind of like sims if it took place in WW2 instead of fictional suburbia" and she was like "cool!"

Incredible - I seriously can't come to a decision about which of these two girls to contact first (from the dating sites I mentioned a page or 2 back). Seems like it should be such a simple thing, but I'm conflicted. The first is a bit younger than me and seems like more of a free spirit, but she appears to have a great family connection (family is important to me), while the second is the same age as me, has her own little home business and seems to be pretty 'realistic' and headstrong - plus she likes videogames, sci-fi and the like, same as me. I would think the latter should be an obvious choice as I'm a pretty mature and serious person, but something about the first girl really catches my attention. Never would have thought I'd have such a hard time just picking one you know? Haha, got some thinking to do I guess... Maybe I'm just making a bigger deal out of it than it really is, but I suppose I of all people would as this is all kinda new to me. Don't think there's any advice to be given here really but putting my thoughts out there like this helps me work it out in a strange way.

Maybe you should meet them both. It's not like they'd find out about eachother, or just assume you're in an exclusive relationship after the first date. Find out who's better suited to you in person.