[QUOTE=Dr. Punchgroin;39526178]So this girl I'm thinking of asking out is good in a lot of respects, except she's a relatively frequent smoker (in that I've seen her do it twice in a two week period, but she probably does it more). Any of you guys had experience dating a smoker? Is there any hope that they could stop, or is it not actually that bad?[/QUOTE]
they're not good for you, but it's not like cigarettes are horrific death beasts that did 9/11 and the holocaust like those videos from school make them out to be. people's breath usually smells like nicotine for a while afterward, and that's about it.
[QUOTE=Sobek-;39546843]Incredible - I seriously can't come to a decision about which of these two girls to contact first (from the dating sites I mentioned a page or 2 back). Seems like it should be such a simple thing, but I'm conflicted. The first is a bit younger than me and seems like more of a free spirit, but she appears to have a great family connection (family is important to me), while the second is the same age as me, has her own little home business and seems to be pretty 'realistic' and headstrong - plus she likes videogames, sci-fi and the like, same as me.
I would think the latter should be an obvious choice as I'm a pretty mature and serious person, but something about the first girl really catches my attention. Never would have thought I'd have such a hard time just picking one you know? Haha, got some thinking to do I guess... Maybe I'm just making a bigger deal out of it than it really is, but I suppose I of all people would as this is all kinda new to me.
Don't think there's any advice to be given here really but putting my thoughts out there like this helps me work it out in a strange way.[/QUOTE]
online dating champ here, caught up on your situation
like yahnich said, you're not exclusive and it's actually healthy to keep time open to meet other girls, and not just limiting yourself to one at a time until you find out if they're right for you
what site are you using? just a heads-up, a lot of girls are looking simply for hookups too, not just the guys. with almost all online daters, there are going to be a LOT of first dates, so don't feel bad if things don't work out the first few times around
smooth operator~~~~
So, I had to move back to my old home town for a little while, settle some school buisness and such.
My question is, I haven't seen my GF since the 3rd of january. She has it pretty rough at school, and at home, her parent's are two faced. Atleast when it comes to me.
What can I do to keep the flame up, to keep some of the passion, to show her that I miss her and all of that.
I send texts sometimes, I like to write poems so i share them with her, they are about her, me and us.
I send pics sometimes, just to say hi, everythings ok and well and such.
But yeah. It get's kinda boring after a while, I'd like to surprise her :)
Well this sucks. My Girlfriend broke up with me too try and get back with her Ex.
[QUOTE=xEPICxACIDx;39553853]Well this sucks. My Girlfriend broke up with me too try and get back with her Ex.[/QUOTE]
Oh,
Is there anything I can do for you? Do you need to talk to someone?
Fuck...... bro
[QUOTE=4NGRY MUFF1N;39555302]Oh,
Is there anything I can do for you? Do you need to talk to someone?
Fuck...... bro[/QUOTE] Nah ill be ok thanks though.
Strange question incoming.
I recently did some pick-up and got a date. The girl's outgoing, funny, fun, pretty.
Had two dates. After the second date, we got pretty hot and heavy. Was great.
The day before yesterday in the evening, I called her and arranged when we were going to hang out again. Yesterday, around 3 in the morning, I got a text from her saying "I want to drive a dildo up your ass next time we meet." Thought she was drunk and all so I just ignored it and went to sleep. 9 hours later, whilst I was eating I get another text from her saying she really wants to analfuck me.
Although I want to meet her again and again, this whole thing is weird.
Has any guy tried anal before (if I have to do it)? How can I wiggle myself out of this situation?
you're locked in. your butt is forfeit
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;39560935]Strange question incoming.
I recently did some pick-up and got a date. The girl's outgoing, funny, fun, pretty.
Had two dates. After the second date, we got pretty hot and heavy. Was great.
The day before yesterday in the evening, I called her and arranged when we were going to hang out again. Yesterday, around 3 in the morning, I got a text from her saying "I want to drive a dildo up your ass next time we meet." Thought she was drunk and all so I just ignored it and went to sleep. 9 hours later, whilst I was eating I get another text from her saying she really wants to analfuck me.
Although I want to meet her again and again, this whole thing is weird.
Has any guy tried anal before (if I have to do it)? How can I wiggle myself out of this situation?[/QUOTE]
You can tell her that you're not comfortable with that yet.
yes yahnich. you've had experience. I seek your words of wisdom. Please.
in all seriousness prostate stimulation results in the greatest orgasms of all time, not to mention thousands of nerve endings around the outside area
if you're secure enough, nothing wrong with being pegged by a girl. straight guys can enjoy it plenty
[editline]12th February 2013[/editline]
prepare your anus
Dude, it's a dildo, not an actual cock. Chill out.
all that shit, smell of it and stain of it on her dildo, let alone what she'll do to me with it after just makes me queasy at the moment. from what i've experienced in bed, she's quite rough. this means she ain't going to go easy on me.
[sp]why the eff do weird things always happen to me?[/sp]
you can even find strap-ons that look incredibly basic, non-threatening
[url]http://www.edenfantasys.com/new-comers-strap-on-kit/adult-toys-dvds-18851#reviews[/url]
Deathhunter, only do it if you're comfortable with it, not because people in the thread says it's okay
we havent had a strap-on related post in a while, how exciting!
Maybe the message wasn't from her? Possibly a friend playing funny buggers with her phone?
That'd be interesting...
[QUOTE=Sobek-;39569273]Maybe the message wasn't from her? Possibly a friend playing funny buggers with her phone?[/QUOTE]
definitely some buggering is going on
My ex just told me that I "spoiled [her] marvelously" in sexual matters and was awful at romance.
I thought I was perfectly normal in the sex department and fairly good at romance. My life is a lie.
In all seriousness, I am actually upset that apparently she felt like I was uncaring and stuff about her. I mean, we're not together, so it shouldn't be an issue, but I thought I was okay.
Now she's telling me that she recently developed a latex allergy and that it only affects her lady parts. I have math to do. This kind of topic is way too distracting.
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
Eugh this really bothers me. I know I was sweet with her. She has to be remembering it through her own glass of insecurities. I remember being romantic. Unless I'm remembering inaccurately...
-fuck me sideways i fucked up my relationship-
[QUOTE=BackSapper;39571541]Well that was a fun month, i'm Single.
Remind me Facepunch to never date people who are bi.
[url=http://i.imgur.com/CSyfTo2.png]If any of you care[/url]. She sent me a text message saying she loves everything about me, yet she still wants to end it because she doesn't know if she likes men or women. I dont want it to end, is it wrong of me to give her a week to make a decision?[/QUOTE]
yeah you were kind of a dick, man
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
she's just confused and doesn't want to hurt you anymore than she has too, jeez
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
and I have been best friends with one of my exes before, no problem, i don't think tv is a really good example on how the world works
[QUOTE=BackSapper;39571541]Well that was a fun month, i'm Single.
Remind me Facepunch to never date people who are bi.
[url=http://i.imgur.com/CSyfTo2.png]If any of you care[/url]. She sent me a text message saying she loves everything about me, yet she still wants to end it because she doesn't know if she likes men or women. I dont want it to end, is it wrong of me to give her a week to make a decision?[/QUOTE]
oK nick wirth
you're sending her on a guilt trip, that's super mature
i just keep on rereading this and it keeps on rubbing me more and more badly everytime i reread it
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
giving her a week is like the most asshat move of them all
[QUOTE=OogalaBoogal;39571685]you're sending her on a guilt trip, that's super mature
i just keep on rereading this and it keeps on rubbing me more and more badly everytime i reread it
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
giving her a week is like the most asshat move of them all[/QUOTE]
I've been in one, it's completely fucked me over. I'm sick of giving my all and then being hurt because of something stupid.
[editline]12th February 2013[/editline]
I guess the week thing was an asshat move.
[editline]12th February 2013[/editline]
the whole thing was an asshat move, what the fuck am i doing
people don't know what they want from a relationship from the start that's the entire point of dating
way to be a drama queen? "thanks for ruining my life" seriously? you're not married you don't need to give her a guilt trip just because she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=BackSapper;39571874]I've been in one, it's completely fucked me over. I'm sick of giving my all and then being hurt because of something stupid.[/QUOTE]
"something stupid" meaning "the person you're with having emotions"?
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
like i know you just went through a breakup and all but seriously, try remembering that other people have emotions too before you make an ass of yourself like that
I said I was uncomfortable and told her that it wouldn't end clean.
She instead just gave me a rim job which was strange and then we moved on with other things.
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;39572858]I said I was uncomfortable and told her that it wouldn't end clean.
She instead just gave me a rim job which was strange and then we moved on with other things.[/QUOTE]
are you serious i want to hear this story please tell
(ill share too, i promise)
[QUOTE=thisispain;39573237]are you serious i want to hear this story please tell
(ill share too, i promise)[/QUOTE]
We had our usual date thing first. Went to see some theatre thing down the street. Ate in some chicken restaurant. This whole time, I'm feeling queasy, nervous and sweating as heck because I haven't told her that I don't want to get drilled. My back is just a big wet patch of sweat although I'm wearing a jacket and it's freezing as fuck. She's assuming throughout the date that I 've agreed to this whole shove-a-dildo-up-my-bum thing. Whole sex act is in spoilers.
[sp]We both arrive at her house. She pulls me immediately through to her bedroom. She gives me an amazing blowjob. I'm shooting out cum and she swallows. She tells me to wait. I'm just lying down in her bed and all my muscles are contracting and my heartbeat is racing. Thought it was her normal purple dildo she'd pull out. Looks like she got some big strap-on vibrating dildo. Not even kidding. I know I can't do it and I immediately blurt out I can't. Takes me 30 minutes to talk some sense into this girl. She's really upset about this and what not. As Yahnich says, this girl's got some real anal fantasy going in on her fucked up head. She even cried. At this point, I'm like, shit.. I can't, I really can't but she's fucking crying. I tell her, if she wants, she can give me a rimjob. In a matter of second, I'm spreading my ass cheeks and she's licking my dirty asshole. God why.. Feels awkward. I should be the one eating out hers but instead I'm receiving. 10 minutes later, she stops and wants me to bang her hard in both holes. After an hour or so, cumming three times, we both stop. Next morning, I go home.[/sp]
This afternoon, she sent me a text saying she doesn't want to see me anymore from what happened last night. No loss. Not even sad to the slightest. I'm moving on.
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
Shit. Pageking
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