yo nick wirth man just calm down
[editline]14th February 2013[/editline]
also what the fuck at the above post
Holy shit lol
She cried because she couldn't ass fuck you
wow
fantastic pageking
[QUOTE=killerteacup;39574045]Holy shit lol
She cried because she couldn't ass fuck you
wow[/QUOTE]
I really appreciated her after dating her twice. But the third one was just strange. During the two dates, she told me that she hasn't been in a real relationship and only dated a few times. I thought this was strange but due to her anal fantasy, now I know why she doesn't have a boyfriend.
jesus fucking christ
[QUOTE=thisispain;39574214]jesus fucking christ[/QUOTE]
Since I told mine, you tell yours?
I remember my ex had one hell of an urge to try to stick some fingers up my ass. Shit sucked. And once while we were done having sex and cuddling I went to put my clothes on and she went ahead and spread my buttcheeks. I felt fucking violated after that. It was terrible.
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;39574235]Since I told mine, you tell yours?[/QUOTE]
i had a bit to drink tonight and i remembered this awful story after hearing everyone's terrible school stories
when i was like 17, i went out (not really a relationship) with this kind of like punk rock girl with cool short boyish hair and typical hipster glasses (i really wish i remembered names); we hung out after school at her house and we started talking a lot after drinking some really bad booze. she kind of starts flirting with me and asks if i thought she was cute. i think i said something sleazy but it ended up sounding really funny and we both kind of laughed with drunken giggles.
she took off her blouse and i noticed that she had scars on her arm but i just dismissed it and we started feeling each other up because i was a fucking shithead of a 17 year old and didn't understand anything at that point.
after a while she kind of reluctantly tried to give me oral sex but i knew she wasnt into it so i just told her it was okay and we could just skip doing that.
i start to take the rest of her clothes off but she just bursts into tears, sobbing. i felt really really bad and i didnt know what to do so i put my arms around her and just kind of held her for a good 20 minutes while she cried really hard, not having a single fucking clue what to say or do besides say "it's ok"
after that i just set her down, said "i have to go", and left for the door, even seeing her fucking mum on my way out. i go home, and i just kind of vomit in my bathroom because this experience left me with such a completely bad feeling (the booze didnt help).
the next day my stomach churns into a ball when i see her, and i just straight up tell her that i was sorry for what had happened yesterday and i don't think we should see each other again. she said she was sorry and she was feeling really bad, and then just agreed and said goodbye
i will always remember age 15-19 as the years of complete emotional disaster, and i think the depressing sex stories i have showcase them perfectly :v:
i feel like what you did was incredibly nice and the only good way to go about it. well done guy
So, my girlfriend dyed her hair blond today. She sends me a picture and I tell her that she's looking hot (like, I love me so blond hair). She then starts asking if I thought she was unattractive with black hair even though I was saying she's really hot. Now, she's like super pissed at me. I probably made it worse because I told her it's not a thing to get mad over and said it was childish ( I REALLY shouldn't have called it childish, but it's what I thought). The best part is that she constantly says I look less attractive and worse when I have hair/facial hair instead of a bald face and a fade. Like, whenever I bring up my hair she tells me how much she hates that I'm growing my hair out. I called her out on it and she said basically "it's okay for her to say it but I can't," I called bullshit and she got even more pissed.
Did I really do something like SO bad? We've been dating for 10 months by the way.
[QUOTE=Goldenmyer;39581694]So, my girlfriend dyed her hair blond today. She sends me a picture and I tell her that she's looking hot (like, I love me so blond hair). She then starts asking if I thought she was unattractive with black hair even though I was saying she's really hot. Now, she's like super pissed at me. I probably made it worse because I told her it's not a thing to get mad over and said it was childish ( I REALLY shouldn't have called it childish, but it's what I thought). The best part is that she constantly says I look less attractive and worse when I have hair/facial hair instead of a bald face and a fade. Like, whenever I bring up my hair she tells me how much she hates that I'm growing my hair out. I called her out on it and she said basically "it's okay for her to say it but I can't," I called bullshit and she got even more pissed.
Did I really do something like SO bad? We've been dating for 10 months by the way.[/QUOTE]
Your statements are pretty fair but normally you don't say them to peoples faces. If she asks if you thought she looked bad with black hair the acceptable answer is "no you looked great with that too" you can tag on you think blond suits her better though or some other way to say you prefer it.
Whatever answer you did give obviously didn't work very well and dissolving to calling her feelings childish is basically the worst option.
Got dumped 2 days before Valentines day. The store wouldn't take back the present I got her.
Dope.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;39581794]Your statements are pretty fair but normally you don't say them to peoples faces. If she asks if you thought she looked bad with black hair the acceptable answer is "no you looked great with that too" you can tag on you think blond suits her better though or some other way to say you prefer it.
Whatever answer you did give obviously didn't work very well and dissolving to calling her feelings childish is basically the worst option.[/QUOTE]
That's exactly what I did. I told her she's hot with black hair too and that I just preferred the blond more. I realized afterwards that I seemed like a dick for saying she getting mad for a childish reason.
[QUOTE=Swearblocked;39580092]i feel like what you did was incredibly nice and the only good way to go about it. well done guy[/QUOTE]
heh thanks, and i know that now, but then i just blamed myself and thought id done something wrong
if i honestly could remember her name or what happened to her id give her a call and ask how she's doing
it took me a really long time to have anything close to a normal relationship haha
I finally convinced myself to just take that next step, and I've made contact with one of the girls I mentioned on these dating sites. I know it's not exactly a big deal but having thought about it, I've technically never asked anyone out before (like, straight-up asked out), so in a sense I've never known rejection. I'm not afraid of it, it's just... new, you know? So I'd say that's why it's been a tough thing for me to put myself out there like this.
I'm still on the fence about that second girl though - against my own better judgement, I took a quick peek at her Facebook profile (she mentioned it online anyway) and she seems a bit odd - disregarding valentine's day as silly, making comments about how life is generally pretty bleak and always quoting depressing song lyrics and such. Either she's generally unhappy or just a very honest soul. I suppose we'll see!!
I've got a good feeling about all of this, like it's some kind of fresh start for me :)
[QUOTE=Sobek-;39582689]disregarding valentine's day as silly[/QUOTE]
happy consumerist hetero-normative monogamy day
Hahaha yeah, it's a bit like that. But as you know, what little tidbits of info I posted above really don't give you the whole picture - she does seem really nice. That being said, just a quick glance at what's on Facebook does indicate that we have a lot in common too... From the wording, I get the strong impression that she's just unhappy around valentine's day due to not having anyone special to spend it with - the fox and the grapes, you know?
I guess I'll find out more soon enough!
[QUOTE=Goldenmyer;39581694]So, my girlfriend dyed her hair blond today. She sends me a picture and I tell her that she's looking hot (like, I love me so blond hair). She then starts asking if I thought she was unattractive with black hair even though I was saying she's really hot. Now, she's like super pissed at me. I probably made it worse because I told her it's not a thing to get mad over and said it was childish ( I REALLY shouldn't have called it childish, but it's what I thought). The best part is that she constantly says I look less attractive and worse when I have hair/facial hair instead of a bald face and a fade. Like, whenever I bring up my hair she tells me how much she hates that I'm growing my hair out. I called her out on it and she said basically "it's okay for her to say it but I can't," I called bullshit and she got even more pissed.
Did I really do something like SO bad? We've been dating for 10 months by the way.[/QUOTE]
i honestly dont really see any problem on your part here, maybe you shouldn't have called her feelings childish, but how she's acting is indeed very childish, especially when she pulls the "its ok if i do it, but not you" card
instead of saying thank you when you told her she looked hot and jumping to start a fight is stupid too. the entire situation is just kind of stupid though
but imo, no, if your part of the story is completely true (as in you didnt insist she looked unattractive with black hair or anything of the sort), you didnt do anything wrong apart from calling her feelings childish
i am curious though, what did you even tell her when she asked about the black hair?
I will type the texts straight off my phone:
Her: So, if I go back darker I will look less hot? Dafuq
Me: I just like blond hair ): You'll look good regardless
Her: You think I'm less hot with darker hair
Me: You think I'm less hot WITH hair
Her: Yeah, you are
Me: And you're hotter with blond hair.
Her: So, I'm ugly with dark hair
Me: You're putting words in my mouth. I never said you were ugly
Then basically we talked on the phone and I asked if she was seriously angry and she's like "do I not have a right to be angry?" I tell her she can be mad if she wants but I think it's a childish thing to be mad over. Now she's saying she's gonna dye her hair back black because I made her feel unattractive and is ignoring my efforts to even try and explain myself. She seriously thinks it's okay for her to say how bad I look with long hair but I can't tell her she's hot with blond hair, I heard her telling her sister that I didn't know "the rule". She tries to pull that card a lot but I call her on her shit, I don't think it's fair that she can say whatever but I can't "just because". We've fought over petty stuff before but this seriously is the most petty.
Does she have a family history of mental retardation or is it just the blonde hair doing it?
So does anyone know last minutes DIY gifts i can get my girlfriend for valentines? D:
She agreed to skip valentines because our anniversary is on Feb 29th but she texted me today and told me she got me a gift :(
Now i just feel bad.
[QUOTE=Citrusfruit;39583462]So does anyone know last minutes DIY gifts i can get my girlfriend for valentines? D:
She agreed to skip valentines because our anniversary is on Feb 29th but she texted me today and told me she got me a gift :(
Now i just feel bad.[/QUOTE]
flowers, chocolate etc
on that note i asked my bf to get me those chalky heart candies and he came home with 7 boxes of them tonight
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;39583650]flowers, chocolate etc
on that note i asked my bf to get me those chalky heart candies and he came home with 7 boxes of them tonight[/QUOTE]
Its late here and nothing is open, do you girls like letters?
ill just tell you this from experience, unless youre an artisan any "last minute DIY" gift will feel like a last minute DIY gift
I thought we were doing something for each other so I organised to take her to see Silver Linings Playbook with alcohol then take her to the restaurant where we first made things official official, which I thought would be a nice gesture - but then she shows up this morning with a present she got me and I didn't have anything to give her uh oh
[QUOTE=killerteacup;39583701]I thought we were doing something for each other so I organised to take her to see Silver Linings Playbook with alcohol then take her to the restaurant where we first made things official official, which I thought would be a nice gesture - but then she shows up this morning with a present she got me and I didn't have anything to give her uh oh[/QUOTE]
What did you do? was it awkward?
[QUOTE=Citrusfruit;39583679]Its late here and nothing is open, do you girls like letters?[/QUOTE]
you don't have cvs or anything similar there?
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;39583815]you don't have cvs or anything similar there?[/QUOTE]
Well we do, but since shit close early here in Canada and i only have 10$. Payday on Friday WOOOOHHOOOO!
[QUOTE=Goldenmyer;39583357]I will type the texts straight off my phone:
Her: So, if I go back darker I will look less hot? Dafuq
Me: I just like blond hair ): You'll look good regardless
Her: You think I'm less hot with darker hair
Me: You think I'm less hot WITH hair
Her: Yeah, you are
Me: And you're hotter with blond hair.
Her: So, I'm ugly with dark hair
Me: You're putting words in my mouth. I never said you were ugly
Then basically we talked on the phone and I asked if she was seriously angry and she's like "do I not have a right to be angry?" I tell her she can be mad if she wants but I think it's a childish thing to be mad over. Now she's saying she's gonna dye her hair back black because I made her feel unattractive and is ignoring my efforts to even try and explain myself. She seriously thinks it's okay for her to say how bad I look with long hair but I can't tell her she's hot with blond hair, I heard her telling her sister that I didn't know "the rule". She tries to pull that card a lot but I call her on her shit, I don't think it's fair that she can say whatever but I can't "just because". We've fought over petty stuff before but this seriously is the most petty.[/QUOTE]
I would have had to shoot myself in the face if I had to deal with her on a regular basis.
"You think I look ugly with black hair! I'm gonna dye it black again cause you said i'm ugly!" hmmmm
I can't give you any advice anyway, just pointing out the blond logic there, I'm way too much of an argumentative person and might have verbally ripper her head off by now. My advice would be pretty bad if you want to keep your gf. :v:
[editline]13th February 2013[/editline]
[QUOTE=Citrusfruit;39583830]Well we do, but since shit close early here in Canada and i only have 10$. Payday on Friday WOOOOHHOOOO![/QUOTE]
Bake her something, or get your parents out of the house and make her supper/ make supper together.
Edit:
Also dude its 10pm at best why are you just getting to this now.
[QUOTE=Citrusfruit;39583462]So does anyone know last minutes DIY gifts i can get my girlfriend for valentines? D:
She agreed to skip valentines because our anniversary is on Feb 29th but she texted me today and told me she got me a gift :(
Now i just feel bad.[/QUOTE]
Oh boy I love last minute gift ideas!
Find a nice looking container of some kind, buy one of all her favourite little chocolatey snacky things, place them neatly inside amongst some nice fill material of some kind along with a written note / letter professing your love for her, then wrap a nice ribbon around it and just make it clear that she inspired you to do something last minute even though she said not to... Remember, it's not really even the gift itself that matters, but the presentation and thought that goes into it (in my opinion).
With only $10, you're pretty far up the creek I think :P
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