[QUOTE=ichiman94;38153383]I think she wanted to be with me together, but I'm not sure if it is a good sign. I like her, and we have just met some days ago.[/QUOTE]
This is almost how my relationship started (except for the stalking part, you're a weirdo), she probably wants you.
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;38139728]I know this isn't directly about sex and girlfriends e.t.c, But a few pages back a few of you said you moved to Germany to study. Im currently in my second year of university in London but i'd like to move to Germany to improve my German (I'm currently learning) and just to have a good time. What would you guys suggest for going over there? Like a work placement or something?
And i guess this is about girls and shit, I've heard they dig english guys, especially when they try to speak German. Have any of you found this to be true?[/QUOTE]
Do Erasmus if you can. Spend 6 months here in Germany and you're set, as long as you spend time with other people. And that whole myth of "hes a foreigner, lets fuck him" doesnt happen just like that. You might have a bigger possibility to get laid, since youre a foreigner and youre going to spend like a limited amount of time here, which means girls can go with you and then not have to worry about you, but thats not a guarantee, its just a tiny fraction of a probability, and you still have to do everything people do to get girls. Play the cards right, and it'll help, play them wrong and its like you were invisible
[QUOTE=ichiman94;38153383]I think I had a good time with a girl. First, I followed her home, went in, talked and watched the TV for hours. I had to go home but she wanted to follow me home, so I let her. On the street where my house is, we talked a lot and we had to go home, but we still talked, then we agreed that we have to go. After minutes, I followed her for like 5 streets. We then said goodbye to each other and went home.
I think she wanted to be with me together, but I'm not sure if it is a good sign. I like her, and we have just met some days ago.[/QUOTE]
Is English your first language? I don't think "follow" means what you think it means
[QUOTE=tommyc225;38154743]Is English your first language? I don't think "follow" means what you think it means[/QUOTE]
uhm he used follow correctly
don't be so rude
I'm not being rude :(
[QUOTE=ichiman94;38153383]First, I followed her home, went in...[/QUOTE]
You can see how people can take this the wrong way, yeah?
they wouldn't take it the wrong way if they actually read his post JEEZ
SHIT SON I'm just giving some sound grammatical advise don't be like that
i'll follow you home and show you some fucking grammatical advice
I'll show you my d-
dictionary
[QUOTE=tommyc225;38155823]SHIT SON I'm just giving some sound grammatical advise don't be like that[/QUOTE]
Whoa fall back
Only room for one of us in this town
Well I ain't going anywhere
I surrender
Smart
[QUOTE=tommyc225;38156279]Well I ain't going [B]no[/B]where[/QUOTE]
Guys, I'm in a bit of a situation.
My girlfriend (or such) and I, and in a long distance relationship and we have this major problem that's making a massive effect on me. We've been talking for months over messengers and stuff, but then there was one day where she thought that I would never visit her, and she wanted to end things if it was just constant messaging. So, a week later, I bought train tickets and stuff to go and see her. It was only for the weekend, but my god was it worth it to me. But when I got back home, she says to me that "she's confused" about her feelings. Saying that she thought me visiting would change the relationship significantly. She keeps saying to me that she loves me and such, but we can't be together until she comes to her senses and realises if she loves me for real or not. And I keep getting hurt by this and I keep trying to change her mind but I'm so scared as what to do. Fuck man, I love this girl.
[QUOTE=CWalkthroughs;38160422]Guys, I'm in a bit of a situation.
My girlfriend (or such) and I, and in a long distance relationship and we have this major problem that's making a massive effect on me. We've been talking for months over messengers and stuff, but then there was one day where she thought that I would never visit her, and she wanted to end things if it was just constant messaging. So, a week later, I bought train tickets and stuff to go and see her. It was only for the weekend, but my god was it worth it to me. But when I got back home, she says to me that "she's confused" about her feelings. Saying that she thought me visiting would change the relationship significantly. She keeps saying to me that she loves me and such, but we can't be together until she comes to her senses and realises if she loves me for real or not. And I keep getting hurt by this and I keep trying to change her mind but I'm so scared as what to do. Fuck man, I love this girl.[/QUOTE]
Dude stop trying to convince her to change her mind, let her make her decision independently and stand by it
Trust me it's a lot better for your pride and she'll respect you for it as opposed to becoming that shameful guy who is going out with a girl he knows didn't want him until he begged.
thats a lot like how i am (not the guy)
i hate pressuring people to do anything and imposing anything on girls. i think a lot of it is that i dont ever wanna come across as that weird kid
[QUOTE=CWalkthroughs;38160422]Guys, I'm in a bit of a situation.
My girlfriend (or such) and I, and in a long distance relationship and we have this major problem that's making a massive effect on me. We've been talking for months over messengers and stuff, but then there was one day where she thought that I would never visit her, and she wanted to end things if it was just constant messaging. So, a week later, I bought train tickets and stuff to go and see her. It was only for the weekend, but my god was it worth it to me. But when I got back home, she says to me that "she's confused" about her feelings. Saying that she thought me visiting would change the relationship significantly. She keeps saying to me that she loves me and such, but we can't be together until she comes to her senses and realises if she loves me for real or not. And I keep getting hurt by this and I keep trying to change her mind but I'm so scared as what to do. Fuck man, I love this girl.[/QUOTE]
You can't make her change her mind. Even if you did convince her to change it, she will be reminded of that every time it comes up and every time a problem arises relating to that, your push to change [I]will[/I] be used against you.
[QUOTE=junker|154;38129473]Drugs and sex.[/QUOTE]
moved to a new place 150 km far.
Already meet new girls, now I just have to get sweet and kinky :)
smoking pot everyday.
life is kinda great now :)
Dont smoke too regularly, it does have long term negative impacts. Pot is fine in moderation, don't do it everyday.
Broke up with GF of 5 years a few days back. We had broken up once before for 6 months.
Don't even know how to feel.
Snip for security reasons
break up with her.
[QUOTE=D3TBS;38164175]break up with her.[/QUOTE]
Agreed.
I'd say the longer you stay with her, the more comfortable you both become and the harder it is to finish things.
Can someone give me some possible signs that a girl could like me?
I'm pretty certain there's a girl in my grade who likes me, but I really don't want to say yes before I get some advice.
you gotta explain your situation more man, your request is a little vague
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;38171768]you gotta explain your situation more man, your request is a little vague[/QUOTE]
I'm not truely sure, but she seem to shoot me some glares during lunch, and when she walks by, she's whispering in her friend's ear. I can't hear it but it's probably about me. Also, when I walk by her for Social Studies, she shoots me a glance too.
next time shes out ogling you just ask her if you guys have homework or something and then segway into chitchat. will be p easy to tell once you start talking to her
[QUOTE=Kopimi;38171824]next time shes out ogling you just ask her if you guys have homework or something and then segway into chitchat. will be p easy to tell once you start talking to her[/QUOTE]
I'm not that type of social person, I prefer working alone, and I have no clue how to talk to girls.
[QUOTE=Swog;38171797]I'm not truely sure, but she seem to shoot me some glares during lunch, and when she walks by, she's whispering in her friend's ear. I can't hear it but it's probably about me. Also, when I walk by her for Social Studies, she shoots me a glance too.[/QUOTE]
Your grasping at straws. Try talking to her, not assuming every whisper is about you.
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