[QUOTE=TheFilmSlacker;38026844]You're lucky. I remember the first time I really got into it with my girlfriend. We were making out in my bed and we started to french kiss.
Then I reached down to unzip her pants. She seemed OK with it until I pulled her panties down. She covered up and said "not tonight".
Biggest mood killer ever, but I respected her decision.[/QUOTE]
Well any advice for people who haven't had sex yet, you have to make sure you slow down. Make sure there's a lot of making out and then start rubbing her very gently before actually going further. Getting her very horny works and will take a while sometimes even when you're ready to go.
I'm sure everyone who has a girlfriend still does this a fair bit because girl's aren't an off/on switch unlike guys. I think it's something a lot of people learn though.
Can someone very briefly summarize what boobs feel like? I've never had a real girlfriend (maybe I will Monday, fingers crossed) and I'd just like to know.
[QUOTE=EmperorKabuto;38026981]Can someone very briefly summarize what boobs feel like? I've never had a real girlfriend (maybe I will Monday, fingers crossed) and I'd just like to know.[/QUOTE]
Bags of sand.
[QUOTE=Badballer;38026992]Bags of sand.[/QUOTE]
That sounds slightly less enjoyable tan I expected. So do vaginas taste like coins and milk, or is that a myth?
I also should mention that if I do get a girlfriend, she'd be 15 and i'd be 18. Bleh.
[QUOTE=EmperorKabuto;38027025]I also should mention that if I do get a girlfriend, she'd be 15 and i'd be 18. Bleh.[/QUOTE]
ehh definitely entering weirdo territory imo
[QUOTE=TheFilmSlacker;38027035]I wouldn't worry about age at all unless you're about 5 years older than her, at least until she's an adult, then anything goes, apparently.[/QUOTE]
I wouldn't worry but the police might beg to differ if they were to find out somehow.
[QUOTE=Badballer;38026992]Bags of sand.[/QUOTE]
Because people have taken this comment seriously, it's from The 40 Year Old Virgin, you dummies.
Boob just feel like fat.
[QUOTE=EmperorKabuto;38027025]I also should mention that if I do get a girlfriend, she'd be 15 and i'd be 18. Bleh.[/QUOTE]
speaking from experience, a 15 year old and 18 year old are generally going to be at very different points in life and at different levels of maturity. i would advise against it
[editline]13th October 2012[/editline]
also in most cases i've seen, guys date younger girls because they can't find anyone their own age
[editline]13th October 2012[/editline]
which actually seems like the case based on your "how do boobs feel" comment
It is, I asked out several people my own age. All with typical 'just friends' response.
[QUOTE=EmperorKabuto;38027931]It is, I asked out several people my own age. All with typical 'just friends' response.[/QUOTE]
honestly i don't think that makes it alright
an 18 year old dating a 15 year old is weird dude. it is a bad sign if you're dating 15 year olds out of desperation. i'd work on the actual problem and try figuring out why nobody your age is interested in you rather than dating freshmen
Well I vastly prefer her to any of the people I asked that are my age. I'm more interested in dating than screwing, so personality is important, and she and I are very similar. Also she's a sophomore not a freshman.
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;38026761]i can't work out whether my girlfriend is being really needy or whether i'm being emotionally detached. we had a very happy and very easy first 6 months together and now she's moved to uni pretty far away (it's like a £100 train fare). we still manage to see each other twice a month and we talk everyday, usually skype/phone for like 30-60 minutes and text/message throughout the day
she feels i'm not making enough of an effort, mostly because she instigates almost all of the calls/skypes and because i don't say enough mushy stuff without being prompted. i've promised to make more of an effort with the calls and skype but i told her that all the mushy stuff just isn't me and i'm not going to force it. i tell her i love her a lot and i fully mean it but i'm not going to say the stuff she says like "i think about you all the time and i miss you so so much and i'm so sad etc" because it's just not true for me. i miss her but i'm not gonna play-act the lovey-dovey stuff
she said she needed the reassurance of the mushy stuff and the constant contact to get by ([URL="http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml"]this article[/URL] comes to mind, but replace "guy" with "girl"). is it unreasonable for her to expect me to be different, a different person, or to act differently? or am i being emotionally neglectful? i can't work it out
yesterday she got upset with me because i wanted to end a skype call after 45 minutes because i wanted to play a game with my flatmate. she said she imagined we'd at least get past the 1 hour mark because "other couples, most couples, skype for 2 hours or even more!!". these comparisons to "other couples" and "most couples" and "normal couples" aren't so rare now and i find it somewhat insulting. part of me feels bad because i clearly don't miss her as much as she misses me, but hell i don't even miss my parents or anything else like that particularly. maybe i'm just not a very emotional person
[editline]14th October 2012[/editline]
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she has no right to be acting the way she does. I do the same as you do, I rarely be mushy without being prompted and it hasn't caused an argument yet. If she keeps this going, confront her or something. She shouldn't be comparing her relationship to other relationships she wants it to be like, because it means she's not happy with the way things are now.
Had a good weekend though this week, I went down to sydney for a visit to participate in some job interviews, got rejected from one that I thought I did really well at (at a bookstore, but someone who was working at another bookstore upstairs from this one applied so my chances were minimal), and was really down so on saturday she came over and made us nachoroni (mac n' cheese with corn chips), and we watched Castle. Such a cheerup
Again, she isn't a freshman. :V
I almost dated a 15 year old at 17 (almost 18) after a bad break-up.
Glad I dodged that bullet.
Don't do it.
a senior was dating an 8th grader (13 y/o) at my school, she was the local slut and she started dating him for like 2 weeks, and then he ends up in jail on basis of statutory rape (and i'm pretty sure the girl said he actually raped her, even though everyone knew it was totally consensual). he's still in jail.
i felt bad for that girl when it was announced in front of the whole school that he was going to prison ( he was a football star and our school takes football seriously, so they announced it and made a big ceremony or some shit out of it), the girl started crying and left the building.
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;38026761]i can't work out whether my girlfriend is being really needy or whether i'm being emotionally detached. we had a very happy and very easy first 6 months together and now she's moved to uni pretty far away (it's like a £100 train fare). we still manage to see each other twice a month and we talk everyday, usually skype/phone for like 30-60 minutes and text/message throughout the day
she feels i'm not making enough of an effort, mostly because she instigates almost all of the calls/skypes and because i don't say enough mushy stuff without being prompted. i've promised to make more of an effort with the calls and skype but i told her that all the mushy stuff just isn't me and i'm not going to force it. i tell her i love her a lot and i fully mean it but i'm not going to say the stuff she says like "i think about you all the time and i miss you so so much and i'm so sad etc" because it's just not true for me. i miss her but i'm not gonna play-act the lovey-dovey stuff
she said she needed the reassurance of the mushy stuff and the constant contact to get by ([URL="http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/niceguys.shtml"]this article[/URL] comes to mind, but replace "guy" with "girl"). is it unreasonable for her to expect me to be different, a different person, or to act differently? or am i being emotionally neglectful? i can't work it out
yesterday she got upset with me because i wanted to end a skype call after 45 minutes because i wanted to play a game with my flatmate. she said she imagined we'd at least get past the 1 hour mark because "other couples, most couples, skype for 2 hours or even more!!". these comparisons to "other couples" and "most couples" and "normal couples" aren't so rare now and i find it somewhat insulting. part of me feels bad because i clearly don't miss her as much as she misses me, but hell i don't even miss my parents or anything else like that particularly. maybe i'm just not a very emotional person
[editline]14th October 2012[/editline]
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that reminds me of my friend
but he is the obsessive girlfriend
heh the first woman i slept with was 40, couldn't get it up for 20 minutes.
i remember the story of how i lost my virginity
it goes like this:
[QUOTE=Eeshton;38028177]a senior was dating an 8th grader (13 y/o) at my school, she was the local slut and she started dating him for like 2 weeks, and then he ends up in jail on basis of statutory rape (and i'm pretty sure the girl said he actually raped her, even though everyone knew it was totally consensual). he's still in jail.
i felt bad for that girl when it was announced in front of the whole school that he was going to prison ( he was a football star and our school takes football seriously, so they announced it and made a big ceremony or some shit out of it), the girl started crying and left the building.[/QUOTE]
wow senior football star dates an 8th grader?
[QUOTE=EmperorKabuto;38027025]I also should mention that if I do get a girlfriend, she'd be 15 and i'd be 18. Bleh.[/QUOTE]
"what's wrong, are you not comfortable with this?"
"no it's just I never statutory raped someone before"
also the dinner party was totally fun and great, we discussed Kafka's Metamorphosis for a long time
still would have preferred XCOM
So my girlfriend has started to get shitty at me because i dont want to skype anymore, shes saying she gets depressed, that she hates me now etc, etc.
She only says these things via texts or steam, never face to face and its starting to piss me off. We had a great weekend and now im getting all these texts like "why cant we skype anymore", "its depressing", "I hate you why dont you just leave me and chat to your friends".
I love her more than anything else but she thinks i dont because of not skyping.
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38029252]So my girlfriend has started to get shitty at me because i dont want to skype anymore, shes saying she gets depressed, that she hates me now etc, etc.
She only says these things via texts or steam, never face to face and its starting to piss me off. We had a great weekend and now im getting all these texts like "why cant we skype anymore", "its depressing", "I hate you why dont you just leave me and chat to your friends".
I love her more than anything else but she thinks i dont because of not skyping.[/QUOTE]
why wouldn't you want to skype with your girlfriend?
[editline]14th October 2012[/editline]
especially if she wants to?
i don't see what the big deal is, just skype with her!
[QUOTE=lotusking;38029273]why wouldn't you want to skype with your girlfriend?
[editline]14th October 2012[/editline]
especially if she wants to?
i don't see what the big deal is, just skype with her![/QUOTE]
we have been skyping with each other every single night for 6 months, we never even talk on skype, its still always via steam. We see each other every 3 days and i generally sleep over or she stays at mine the whole weekend, and i also want to be able to skype with the people i am playing games with.
I have also told her i will always add her to the call if i am playing a game, as she plays DayZ with our group
she sounds a bit clingy..
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38029339]she sounds a bit clingy..[/QUOTE]
She knows that she is clingy but can't get over the clingyness because it makes her depressd
[QUOTE=FreeOnions;38025793]Alright, well guys. I don't know really where else to turn to for this. I have never had sex before, but recently I have been reaching that point with my girl friend. When it finally came down to it and I had a condom and what not, I was not into it at all. I could not get a hard on worth hell. I feel like a complete and utter disappointment and I feel incredibly depressed. I just don't know what to do at all.[/QUOTE]
After you get at least one successful try, you won't have to worry about having sex ever again. Just relax about it and flow along with it.
Lost my virginity the other night. Feels good man.
I just wanted to tell people that my girlfriend is really kinky, and I honestly love it.
Weird sex is best sex.
best thing ever is finding out your bf/gf has the same kinks as you
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