First time I slept in the same bed as my gf was last weekend when we were in Berlin. They only had twin rooms left, no doubles, but we pushed the beds together. Halfway through the night she screams, it turned out she'd fallen down the gap between the bed :v:
[editline]30th October 2012[/editline]
After being together for a year it was good to finally share the same bed though
For some strange reason, I find wine bottle dildo-ing an extreme turn on when girls do it on themselves (masturbating)
I'm really glad you shared thanks
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;38248973]For some strange reason, I find wine bottle dildo-ing an extreme turn on.[/QUOTE]
that's
obscure
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;38248774]First time I slept in the same bed as my gf was last weekend when we were in Berlin. They only had twin rooms left, no doubles, but we pushed the beds together. Halfway through the night she screams, it turned out she'd fallen down the gap between the bed :v:
[editline]30th October 2012[/editline]
After being together for a year it was good to finally share the same bed though[/QUOTE]
Long distance or something?
A year is a long wait
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;38248639]Gotta love it how good me and my gf are at sleeping together.
As in both manage to cuddle up in comfy position and neither of us is hogging the cover.[/QUOTE]
Do you lie on your back and put your arm 'round her? 'Cause I swear there is no other way to cuddle and sleep unless you do that without majorly fucking your own arm up.
If not, please enlighten me on these methods 'cause I hate dead arms.
[QUOTE=Whittall;38250390]Do you lie on your back and put your arm 'round her? 'Cause I swear there is no other way to cuddle and sleep unless you do that without majorly fucking your own arm up.
If not, please enlighten me on these methods 'cause I hate dead arms.[/QUOTE]
I put my arm where the bottom of her pillow would be and move her pillow up.
That way none of her weight is on my arm, thus the blood keeps flowing.
From there I can adjust to if I wish to sleep on my side or on my back.
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;38250774]I put my arm where the bottom of her pillow would be and move her pillow up.
That way none of her weight is on my arm, thus the blood keeps flowing.
From there I can adjust to if I wish to sleep on my side or on my back.[/QUOTE]
since when did you get over your literal fear of talking to women without stalking them, and get a girlfriend?
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38250977]wow so even your porn is high brow huh[/QUOTE]
as long as they're not dildoing themselves with bottles of cheap swill
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38250889]since when did you get over your literal fear of talking to women without stalking them, and get a girlfriend?[/QUOTE]
Switched deodorant.
[QUOTE=Lukeo;38250057]Long distance or something?
A year is a long wait[/QUOTE]
Well I only just turned 18, she's 17, both still live with our parents, we normally stop over at each others every weekend or every other weekend, but because of the parent thing we don't share a bed, that might change now though. We've been having sex since last December, just not sleeping in the same bed.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38247084]i got laid last night, hooray finally![/QUOTE]
[img]http://www.goodlightscraps.com/content/congrats/congrats_2.gif[/img]
[QUOTE=Y'all.;38247476]she doesn't want to go anymore 'cause her exams are next week.
damn.[/QUOTE]
Good, you don't have to listen to angus stone
[QUOTE=zedpenguin;38247230]making a girl scream and moan so loud the whole street can hear her.
feelsgoodman.[/QUOTE]
Nothing turns me on more like a girl that moans and screams loudly, luckily my girlfriend is such a girl. :v:
I know you feel bro.
[editline]31st October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38247084]i got laid last night, hooray finally![/QUOTE]
holy fuck, you always acted like a pro here and shelled out tons of advice. You seemed so experienced.
Anyway, cool. Although the "finally" gives your comment a negative feel to it. What's up with that?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38247084]i got laid last night, hooray finally![/QUOTE]
Does this mean you won't be as bitter?
[QUOTE=JohanGS;38254667]Does this mean you won't be as bitter?[/QUOTE]
unless she had a stick-up-arse-removal fetish not likely hehe
So I had homecoming on monday and a girl I knew was there without a date
So I'll give a bit of background: I already knew her, we met in the halls and stuff and she was on a sports team the year before last year with me, really nice and also pretty good looking. In the hallways she'd always say "Hi" or hug me sometimes but girls do that so I thought it was pretty normal
At the dance we bumped into each other and I asked where [guy who was her boyfriend's name here] was and she said he wasn't there and I asked and they said they broke up. She asked me who did I come with.
I said nobody (I didn't actually ask anybody. I'm not the most socially talented person, and have ADHD, used to be pretty annoying, got better over the years, to the point where I'm invited to parties, but people are still just "used" to me rather than a normal friendship) and she asked if I wanted to be her date in an excited voice. I said that I'd love to, and then we agreed to pretend with everybody else that we planned on meeting there the whole time. I actually take it that it was a sign we should be together, because we actually matched really well.
It's weird, she said that she never actually realized it, but she liked me for a while. I think I felt the same way. We never got friendzoned exactly because we didn't ever have classes together and only saw each other for about 30 seconds at a time, so it wasn't awkward like that. It felt natural, I liked her and she liked me, so we held hands and danced and kissed. I even drove her home.
I'm really excited. I'm really happy about it, and I really do like her.
About her old boyfriend, they didn't break up on friendly terms, so that brings me to my first problem: How do I interact with a friend (not my best friend or anything, but we were friends) who's ex girlfriend I am now dating?
Second, this is my first girlfriend. How much/often do I text without being overbearing, what signs do I look out for that I am doing something wrong, basically anything because I don't want to fuck this up
Third, how do you greet each other when we meet, like at school? What do you say? How do I make plans, how should we go about holding hands or other 'PDA'? Obviously I'm not going to full on make out with her in the hallway, but I am talking about subtle stuff. When I say goodbye to her as well.
I just needed to type this out thanks for listening, keep in mind I have no prior relationship experience as a 17 year old
She's grounded at the moment so we're making plans on going to see a movie when she's ungrounded.
[editline]30th October 2012[/editline]
thank you, wise and kind sirs
[QUOTE=junker|154;38254609]Nothing turns me on more like a girl that moans and screams loudly, luckily my girlfriend is such a girl. :v:
I know you feel bro.
[editline]31st October 2012[/editline]
holy fuck, you always acted like a pro here and shelled out tons of advice. You seemed so experienced.
Anyway, cool. Although the "finally" gives your comment a negative feel to it. What's up with that?[/QUOTE]
lol ive been in relationships before and i am not a socially retarded shut in, i just happen to be 18 and have just lost my virginity
[editline]30th October 2012[/editline]
notice i never gave sexual advice
[QUOTE=Megadick;38254890]Third, how do you greet each other when we meet, like at school? What do you say? How do I make plans, how should we go about holding hands or other 'PDA'? Obviously I'm not going to full on make out with her in the hallway, but I am talking about subtle stuff. When I say goodbye to her as well.[/QUOTE]
it should be instinctive. i'd imagine you would feel uncomfortable if you got to the point where you were being excessive in public. it depends on the person though. just see what she's comfortable with, if you're not sure then let her instigate things like holding hands etc.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38254953]lol ive been in relationships before and i am not a socially retarded shut in, i just happen to be 18 and have just lost my virginity
[editline]30th October 2012[/editline]
notice i never gave sexual advice[/QUOTE]
You are a smart one :v: never noticed that. Although I did not want to insult you in any way.
I lost mine at 19, really late.
If you didn't read my post above, here's a tl;dr
17 years old, kissed a girl, first real relationship, really like the girl
Also, sex. How long is it normal to be dating before we get into that? Obviously not any time soon, but like what, couple weeks? months? a year? I don't want to start doing [I]it[/I] tooo early you know, because I don't want our relationship to just be about that.
i don't think that's particularly "late", there's nothing you really gain from doing it earlier vs later
interact with the ex boyfriend like any other person, he might be upset but you should definitely not do anything that would provoke him. just be friendly
i dunno about the texting thing, ive never felt uncomfortable like i was texting someone too much, just text when you have something interesting to talk about or when you need to make plans. treat it like normal conversation
the pda thing you might wanna actually talk to her about cause that can be awkward if one of you doesn't like it
[editline]30th October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;38255228]i don't think that's particularly "late", there's nothing you really gain from doing it earlier vs later[/QUOTE]
any time under like 25 isn't late
i guess after that it does start to affect you
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[QUOTE=thisispain;38255228]i don't think that's particularly "late", there's nothing you really gain from doing it earlier vs later[/QUOTE]
I took me nearly 2 years to sleep with the girl I am now together with, I went to a doctor and tried all kinds of stuff. It was something in my head that kept me from doing it, a fear of somekind. A stupid one really.
Then in a rush we both did it in the most spontanous and unfitting moment, but it was so great.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38255257]
any time under like 25 isn't late
i guess after that it does start to affect you[/QUOTE]
well i'd imagine someone who hasn't had sex till 25 and up might perhaps also have social issues, or problems with maintaining meaningful relationships
but that's just from my small perspective, maybe some people have good reasons for it
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38255298]So remember how I wasn't able to participate in the assignment I was suppose to do with my colleague?
I decided to make it up to her and I did the assignments report all by myself. I think I aced it. It looks awesome, clean and well written.
Ooff! Now only 3 assignments to go plus a bunch of tests ahead.
The fun times at university never end![/QUOTE]
Good work man, hopefully you and her will sort it out
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38255625]i like waiting exactly 6 months, 6 weeks and 6 days after the start of a relationship so satan will bind our love together forever[/QUOTE]
Isn't six months and six weeks seven months and two weeks
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38248203]dude that's a bit creepy
also how the fuck did you just 'find out' she's 14[/QUOTE]
Well I assumed there would be an age difference considering it was Junior -> Freshman but I didn't think it'd be that big considering I was at least 15/16 my freshman year.. That coupled with the fact I didn't bother to ask about her age til after we started dating just brewed.. this.
[QUOTE=Megadick;38255214]Also, sex. How long is it normal to be dating before we get into that? Obviously not any time soon, but like what, couple weeks? months? a year? I don't want to start doing [I]it[/I] tooo early you know, because I don't want our relationship to just be about that.[/QUOTE]
Whenever you both feel ready for it.
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