I didn't know people skills came in 25-pin cartridges.
I am using a tablet for the most part, so excuse me mr. smartypants
I don't think you quite understood my response...
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38286097]i don't think you quite understood the zing[/QUOTE]
maybe they come in microSD these days.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;38285978]They (meaning all of us) want to know what "she's just my fantasy" means[/QUOTE]
It means that's shes actully not my girlfriend but I have it in mind ;) And we got a thing going on :P see now?
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38285980]explain yourself or be branded a weirdo forever
i've got my eye on you[/QUOTE]
read above
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38286497]if you got a thing going on it isn't really a fantasy now is it[/QUOTE]
Well...don't mess with my mind!
[QUOTE=oytal;38286562]Well...don't mess with my mind![/QUOTE]
Make it [I]real[/I], man!
[I]Move![/I]
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;38286648]Make it [I]real[/I], man!
[I]Move![/I][/QUOTE]
I'm going to! Soon, just gotta make sure she's ready and that's what she really want :)
How can you be sure? You cant read her mind, just make a move...
[QUOTE=cyclocius;38285534]Sunday, [U]buy the Walking Dead game and play that with her[/U]. Me and my Girlfriend have been playing it religiously, a seriously good game, especially if she enjoyed the TV Series.
Also, me and my girlfriend play League of Legends together, fuckyeah.[/QUOTE]
I actually did already suggest that to her last night.
That she'd sit in my lap and the other would take over the keyboard while the other takes over the mouse.
Or alternatively we pass on the 360 controller every now and then.
My girlfriend has gone home to her mums for the weekend. No longer gonna be a no fap November
Wait... it's November....
Time to tell my bf he can't fap for a month :v: yay
[QUOTE=cyclocius;38285534]Sunday, buy the Walking Dead game and play that with her. Me and my Girlfriend have been playing it religiously, a seriously good game, especially if she enjoyed the TV Series.
Also, me and my girlfriend play League of Legends together, fuckyeah.[/QUOTE]
I used to play league with my girlfriend, but then they nerfed her favorite champ, Irelia, again, and she just didn't have the heart to carry on.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38285053]i'm studying physics in university but nice try bub
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
the point was more that i don't really know what to do with my life, because as much as i like physics what the hell am i going to do with my degree? academics, sell my soul and work for a company?[/QUOTE]
become a college professor, buttloads e mone
[QUOTE=Megadick;38291841]become a college professor, buttloads e mone[/QUOTE]
lol
[QUOTE=zeroti2;38290130]I used to play league with my girlfriend, but then they nerfed her favorite champ, Irelia, again, and she just didn't have the heart to carry on.[/QUOTE]
(irelia's still really strong)
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
but yeah my bf and i usually duo queue ranked together
he plays games the same way i do which is really nice, most people i know either rage a lot or are really laid back and don't care at all about improving
[QUOTE=Megadick;38254890]So I had homecoming on monday and a girl I knew was there without a date
So I'll give a bit of background: I already knew her, we met in the halls and stuff and she was on a sports team the year before last year with me, really nice and also pretty good looking. In the hallways she'd always say "Hi" or hug me sometimes but girls do that so I thought it was pretty normal
At the dance we bumped into each other and I asked where [guy who was her boyfriend's name here] was and she said he wasn't there and I asked and they said they broke up. She asked me who did I come with.
I said nobody (I didn't actually ask anybody. I'm not the most socially talented person, and have ADHD, used to be pretty annoying, got better over the years, to the point where I'm invited to parties, but people are still just "used" to me rather than a normal friendship) and she asked if I wanted to be her date in an excited voice. I said that I'd love to, and then we agreed to pretend with everybody else that we planned on meeting there the whole time. I actually take it that it was a sign we should be together, because we actually matched really well.
It's weird, she said that she never actually realized it, but she liked me for a while. I think I felt the same way. We never got friendzoned exactly because we didn't ever have classes together and only saw each other for about 30 seconds at a time, so it wasn't awkward like that. It felt natural, I liked her and she liked me, so we held hands and danced and kissed. I even drove her home.
I'm really excited. I'm really happy about it, and I really do like her.
About her old boyfriend, they didn't break up on friendly terms, so that brings me to my first problem: How do I interact with a friend (not my best friend or anything, but we were friends) who's ex girlfriend I am now dating?
Second, this is my first girlfriend. How much/often do I text without being overbearing, what signs do I look out for that I am doing something wrong, basically anything because I don't want to fuck this up
Third, how do you greet each other when we meet, like at school? What do you say? How do I make plans, how should we go about holding hands or other 'PDA'? Obviously I'm not going to full on make out with her in the hallway, but I am talking about subtle stuff. When I say goodbye to her as well.
I just needed to type this out thanks for listening, keep in mind I have no prior relationship experience as a 17 year old
She's grounded at the moment so we're making plans on going to see a movie when she's ungrounded.
[editline]30th October 2012[/editline]
thank you, wise and kind sirs[/QUOTE]
[quote=The girl]co and I don't want to hurt you because I still want to be with him I'm sorry this is goodbye[/quote]
[quote=The girl]Look [Me] I only like as a friend I'm sorry I had a lot of fun during homecoming but after that night I realized I'm still trying to get over [the guy][/quote]
best first relationship ever
no it's actually fucking not
ok it's understandable if you're upset but quit being a selfish jackass and acting like you're entitled to a relationship with her when she's clearly interested in someone else
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38292744]ok it's understandable if you're upset but quit being a selfish jackass and acting like you're entitled to a relationship with her when she's clearly interested in someone else[/QUOTE]
you're the fucking jackass
she kissed me. She came to me, asking for me to be her date.
she even fucking said she and him were not talking to each other ever again
is that what you define as "clearly interested in someone else"
guess what
human emotions aren't set in stone! most people don't know exactly what they want and where they want to be in the future. ESPECIALLY at your age when they're still maturing and learning about relationships.
You got a little fucked over, aye... but the point is you need to get over it and move on already.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38292837]guess what
human emotions aren't set in stone! most people don't know exactly what they want and where they want to be in the future. ESPECIALLY at your age when they're still maturing and learning about relationships.[/QUOTE]
getting used as a therapy tool by a girl who you like and then broken up with over a text message takes more than a couple minutes to get over
grow up
the world doesn't revolve around you
[QUOTE=Megadick;38292596]best first relationship ever
no it's actually fucking not fuck my fucking life and fuck her and fuck him[/QUOTE]
It's okay to vent but just chill. I was wondering when you posted that before if she actually intended to be in a relationship with you after... it seemed a little like you assumed. Lots of people hook up just for homecoming.
You'll find a better one soon enough
get over it, or don't. but don't act like your ex used you when she was obviously confused about her emotions. she owes you [b]nothing.[/b] and with a vengeful, possessive attitude like that, you really don't deserve to be in a relationship.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38292905]grow up
the world doesn't revolve around you[/QUOTE]
it's not like this is the thread for discussing that sort of thing or anything
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38292938]get over it, or don't. but don't act like your ex used you when she was obviously confused about her emotions. she owes you [b]nothing.[/b] and with a vengeful, possessive attitude like that, you really don't deserve to be in a relationship.[/QUOTE]
what are you talking about
I'm just goddamned sad right now
[QUOTE=Megadick;38292596]best first relationship ever
no it's actually fucking not fuck my fucking life and fuck her and fuck him[/QUOTE]
At least she was honest.
Keep in mind while you know what you want, she has had to find out what she wants. If she's trying to get back with the other guy, you have to let her go. She has to deal with her feelings and thoughts of the previous relationship, while you have had no such baggage. Respect this, respect her.
Also not trying to be the posting police, but rating someone's advice dumb is pretty immature. Its advice, take it or leave it.
there's a difference between being sad about a relationship ending and venting about it and saying "my ex used me to [b]talk to about her emotions[/b], fuck her! she's a bitch!"
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
and then calling me a jackass for pointing out how self centered you're acting.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38292996]there's a difference between being sad about a relationship ending and venting about it and saying "my ex used me to [b]talk to about her emotions[/b], fuck her! she's a bitch!"[/QUOTE]
That's not even close to what happened.
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Disotrtion;38292993]At least she was honest.
Keep in mind while you know what you want, she has had to find out what she wants. If she's trying to get back with the other guy, you have to let her go. She has to deal with her feelings and thoughts of the previous relationship, while you have had no such baggage. Respect this, respect her.
Also not trying to be the posting police, but rating someone's advice dumb is pretty immature. Its advice, take it or leave it.[/QUOTE]
It sounded alot more like he was insulting me than giving advice
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
I'm upset that a girl breaks up with me over a TEXT MESSAGE for a boyfriend whom she said SHE WAS NEVER TALKING TO AGAIN when, and I stated this before, was my FIRST GOD DAMN RELATIONSHIP with a girl I LIKED
Maybe you've been in more relationships than me but I didn't fucking know she wasn't over the other guy, and if you didn't have any experience you wouldn't either
Of course being sad that a girl you liked, got together with you, and left you a week later is clearly self-centered, and obviously my fault for having a normal human emotional response
[QUOTE=Megadick;38293023]
It sounded alot more like he was insulting me than giving advice[/QUOTE]
Guy Mannly is a woman, and people can come across as rude over the internet. Granted the "jackass" part was probably unwarranted, but the advice is solid.
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Megadick;38293023]
Maybe you've been in more relationships than me but I didn't fucking know she wasn't over the other guy, and if you didn't have any experience you wouldn't either[/QUOTE]
True, true. And I'm not upset with your reaction because this is a common mistake.
Like Guy Mannly said, its understandable.
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