The part where she said it was understandable kind of got masked by the whole "it's your fault for thinking it was real, you jackass! She's confused, that gives her an excuse to play with your emotions and make it be your fault!" thing.
If you could omit the insults, guy mannly, maybe I would get something out of your advice more than what I said above, because that's what it sounds like you're saying to me
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38293165]lmao
get over it[/QUOTE]
woah, work with me here.
the dude said it was his first relationship. When you get into a relationship for the first time we all have lofty expectations.
I know this thread is big on "tough love" thing, but ease of the gas a bit and give this guy a break. He's clearly inexperienced, confused, and hurt.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38293165]lmao
get over it[/QUOTE]
Why are you so mean
[QUOTE=Megadick;38293200]The part where she said it was understandable kind of got masked by the whole "it's your fault for thinking it was real, you jackass! She's confused, that gives her an excuse to play with your emotions and make it be your fault!" thing.
If you could omit the insults, guy mannly, maybe I would get something out of your advice more than what I said above, because that's what it sounds like you're saying to me[/QUOTE]
It's okay to be upset, but you're kinda being a dick about it. Everyone does stupid shit at this age, and, if I'm understanding it correctly, it only lasted a week?
Chill out, you won't even remember this girl in a few years.
[QUOTE=Megadick;38293209]Why are you so mean[/QUOTE]
Because you're acting a fool, son.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38285053]the point was more that i don't really know what to do with my life, because as much as i like physics what the hell am i going to do with my degree? academics, sell my soul and work for a company?[/QUOTE]
you and me both bud, I have this idea that I want to be a research scientist but nothing's set in stone yet. need to get me some work experience
physics is awesome though. I'm very glad I chose this degree, I'm enjoying the content of the course a great deal and my department is pretty cool. just yesterday I walked past [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Mansfield]the guy who won the Nobel Prize in medicine for co-creating MRI as it is now[/url] for fuck's sake! I just need to make more out of it than I am currently doing
I'll just stop having emotions like girls are allowed to, at least according to Guy
I guess I can't come here and be comforted by the fact that somebody else had the same problem as me once
[QUOTE=Megadick;38293403]I'll just stop having emotions like girls are allowed to, at least according to Guy
I guess I can't come here and be comforted by the fact that somebody else had the same problem as me once
After all, fuck empathy, right? If a guy is sad about something, he's a jackass![/QUOTE]
If you are seriously unable to separate the parts where you were being sad, and the parts where you were being a jackfuck. You might be retarded.
.....I really hate drama-queens. Accept the situation and stop with the puppy eyes for a second and maybe re-read your comments, hopefully, you WON"T feel empathy.
I'm not even concerned about the girl anymore, it was short, but it was sad and it hurt, but that doesn't give you assholes excuses to insult people for being upset
You never asked for advice, you asked for empathy and a pet on the head.
[i]I guess I can't come here and be comforted by the fact that somebody else had the same problem as me once[/i]
[QUOTE=Megadick;38293479]I'm not even concerened about the girl anymore[/QUOTE]
you stopped being concerned after you posted about being concerned.
facepunch fixed you.
the thread works.
I didn't come here looking for empathy or anything, the reverse of it is true: I didn't come here looking to be called a jackass for being upset
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Y'all.;38293508]you stopped being concerned after you posted about being concerned.
facepunch fixed you.
the thread works.[/QUOTE]
It replaced whatever I was feeling before with anger
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38293165]lmao
get over it[/QUOTE]
You're being pretty harsh about this, the guy is clearly pretty worked up about it and looking for some advice/support. You're not really helping any more.
Good channel it somewhere else go watch karate kid or something
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Scotchair;38293592]You're being pretty harsh about this, the guy is clearly pretty worked up about it and looking for some advice/support. You're not really helping any more.[/QUOTE]
Shes allowed to be upset with emotional, irrational tantrums flooding thi thread just like his ex is allowed to regret her choice
Hey guys, how do you get past PMS week other than hanging with your girl as little as possible at that time?
[QUOTE=mac338;38293845]Hey guys, how do you get past PMS week other than hanging with your girl as little as possible at that time?[/QUOTE]
Be nice to her, don't give her a reason to be angry with you, just generally be nice and don't avoid her. Avoiding her will probably make her more pissy. You should be around to make her not want to punch kittens. (even if only online so you don't have to be a direct punching bag instead :v:)
[QUOTE=mac338;38293845]Hey guys, how do you get past PMS week other than hanging with your girl as little as possible at that time?[/QUOTE]
Generally I just call her on her shit. She says sorry for being a bitch, most times.
[QUOTE=Scotchair;38293592]You're being pretty harsh about this, the guy is clearly pretty worked up about it and looking for some advice/support. You're not really helping any more.[/QUOTE]
no get over it really is the best advice right now
it's honestly seriously just not a big deal at all, you're better off not wasting all that energy on something that isn't even worth it
[QUOTE=thisispain;38293921]no get over it really is the best advice right now
[/QUOTE]
It may be the best advice, but you're over-pushing it.
[QUOTE=thisispain;38293921]no get over it really is the best advice right now
it's honestly seriously just not a big deal at all, you're better off not wasting all that energy on something that isn't even worth it[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying the general advice was wrong, but there's nicer ways to put it than "lmao get over it"
[QUOTE=zeroti2;38293255]It's okay to be upset, but you're kinda being a dick about it. Everyone does stupid shit at this age, and, if I'm understanding it correctly, it only lasted a week?
Chill out, you won't even remember this girl in a few years.[/QUOTE]
worded it badly (was in a rush) but this is exactly what i meant
it's fine to feel upset after your relationship (i wasn't being clear on that sorry). what i meant is you have no right to act like this girl "used" you or manipulated you when you only were "together" for a week.
[editline]2nd November 2012[/editline]
he edited his original post, it basically said "fuck her, fuck my friend who she dated, fuck everything".
Everyone's slowly turning into a Maverick
Maverick was the best thing to ever happen to the LA section.
He was harsh when it was [i]needed[/i] to shock someone out of whatever state of stupidity they were in, not just generally a dick.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;38294255]She broke up with him because it was "too awkward."[/QUOTE]
Why did he ask, and why did she say yes then?
In between bouts of dating me one of my old boyfriends would go ask out one of my friends, she would date him for about an hour or two before saying no never mind.
Multiple times.
So who else does the shopping cart when they dance?
I usually reserve it for serious moments.
[QUOTE=Enjoirules;38296334]So who else does the shopping cart when they dance?[/QUOTE]
Nobody ever
I do this dance only
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lurch got served, dude
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