[QUOTE=junker|154;38307713]Yeah, my girlfriend is a person who just discovered what rage faces are and some memes, because they became popular. :v:[/QUOTE]
Holy shit, you actually knew what memes was before it became popular?
/jizz
I think most facepunchers were aware of the ragecomics and memes before they were showing up on shitty websites and facebook. I still wonder how they became so popular.
Its just commercialisation of geek culture that does it. I hate it but its having a bit of a vogue right now. Also counting the minutes til you lose patience with it.
wanna hear a joke
the internet [h2] LLOLL[/h2]
[QUOTE=junker|154;38307989]I think most facepunchers were aware of the ragecomics and memes before they were showing up on shitty websites and facebook. I still wonder how they became so popular.[/QUOTE]
whats a ragecomic
I don't get it.
Most rage comics are crap, but occasionally I'll see one that makes me full on laugh out loud
[editline]4th November 2012[/editline]
Oh wait I get it, the spoon makes the empty pot fall over. That annoys me, I might have found it funny if I knew what it was. It's 7.30am, just got in from work. Need to go to bed.
[QUOTE=junker|154;38310132][i]This[/i]
[img]http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lc1r6g0fzE1qej8gyo1_500.png[/img][/QUOTE]
sorry, I should have been clearer with my sarcasm.
I'm engaged. :dance: :dance: :dance:
For real as in getting married?
Congrats mang, that shit would scare me
[QUOTE=Doozle;38314412]For real as in getting married?
Congrats mang, that shit would scare me[/QUOTE]
For real, not for a while yet but we are now engaged. :smile:
Thanks, I never thought I would even want to. I guess you just have to find that one person.
Good luck with your sooner or later to be wife/husband.
[QUOTE=orcywoo6;38314378]I'm engaged. :dance: :dance: :dance:[/QUOTE]
[B]RETURN FIRE DEVIL DOG[/B]
[QUOTE=orcywoo6;38314378]I'm engaged. :dance: :dance: :dance:[/QUOTE]
Good luck, I was engaged for a few years. :) It was mostly a happy time.
I wish you more success than myself. 3 dancy smileys must mean they're pretty special though. :D
so i went over to one of my good friend's house because we were both bored and we ended up making out on her bed.
welp.
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;38321421]so i went over to one of my good friend's house because we were both bored and we ended up making out on her bed.
welp.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like everything went better than expected.
definitely a pleasant surprise. i had no idea they felt that way.
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;38321739]definitely a pleasant surprise. i had no idea [B]they[/B] felt that way.[/QUOTE]
At first i though there was more than one girl.
Nice work
man this rules, watching regular show on mac while girl sleeps on my leg
the fight dematerialised and everything is as good as ever
yeah nothing really makes us bond better than a good fight
My girlfiend of 3 years and 10 months broke up with me just now, no hard feelings against her, but the sadness is of course overwhelming. She was my first love, and my first real girlfiend so this is pretty hard for me. To make things worse it hit me so hard and so sudden, I thought we were just in a "low spot" of our relationship that we have quickly recovered from in the past but she evidently thought it was worse than I did. In our last moments together which was less than an hour ago we both felt the most in love. We always said when we broke up we would continue to be friends, because she's my best friend, and I'm her best friend and I know everything there is to know about her. The hardest part is going to be realizing she has gone from girlfiend to just friend. I'm scared for the future. All our friends are mutual so that complicates even more things as they've started to "pick sides" when really there is no need. We both made the mistake of being in such a serious, long relationship at such young ages (18 now) and we effectively grew up together. To add to all this we've been trying to have sex for the last year or so now, and each time we "couldnt" too much pain on her end and I didn't want to hurt her too much. So now both of us are feeling down about that because we both feel we were "supposed" to lose it together. I'm still in the stages of not being able to handle any of this. This is going to be the most difficult next couple of weeks I've ever experienced I think. Not trying to make this my blog or ask for your sympathy, just trying to get things out ya know.
[QUOTE=Death King83;38324345]All our friends are mutual so that complicates even more things as they've started to "pick sides" when really there is no need. [/QUOTE]
Make it clear that there's no need.
I can just tell they're gonna be weird about it, I was most of their friends "first" she didn't really become good friends with that group until later into our relationship. And of course they naturally think that because she broke up with me she's the bad guy.
It's my girlfriend's birthday today, her present arrived. I ordered it over 10 days ago :(
[QUOTE=Death King83;38324345]My girlfiend of 3 years and 10 months broke up with me just now, no hard feelings against her, but the sadness is of course overwhelming. She was my first love, and my first real girlfiend so this is pretty hard for me. To make things worse it hit me so hard and so sudden, I thought we were just in a "low spot" of our relationship that we have quickly recovered from in the past but she evidently thought it was worse than I did. In our last moments together which was less than an hour ago we both felt the most in love. We always said when we broke up we would continue to be friends, because she's my best friend, and I'm her best friend and I know everything there is to know about her. The hardest part is going to be realizing she has gone from girlfiend to just friend. I'm scared for the future. All our friends are mutual so that complicates even more things as they've started to "pick sides" when really there is no need. We both made the mistake of being in such a serious, long relationship at such young ages (18 now) and we effectively grew up together. To add to all this we've been trying to have sex for the last year or so now, and each time we "couldnt" too much pain on her end and I didn't want to hurt her too much. So now both of us are feeling down about that because we both feel we were "supposed" to lose it together. I'm still in the stages of not being able to handle any of this. This is going to be the most difficult next couple of weeks I've ever experienced I think. Not trying to make this my blog or ask for your sympathy, just trying to get things out ya know.[/QUOTE]
TBH you sound like a really sensible guy, I think you'll be ok. It's a really shit situation, and I feel for you, but I reckon you'll handle it as best as you can. Stay strong!
[QUOTE=Death King83;38324345]My girlfiend of 3 years and 10 months broke up with me just now, no hard feelings against her, but the sadness is of course overwhelming. She was my first love, and my first real girlfiend so this is pretty hard for me. To make things worse it hit me so hard and so sudden, I thought we were just in a "low spot" of our relationship that we have quickly recovered from in the past but she evidently thought it was worse than I did. In our last moments together which was less than an hour ago we both felt the most in love. We always said when we broke up we would continue to be friends, because she's my best friend, and I'm her best friend and I know everything there is to know about her. The hardest part is going to be realizing she has gone from girlfiend to just friend. I'm scared for the future. All our friends are mutual so that complicates even more things as they've started to "pick sides" when really there is no need. We both made the mistake of being in such a serious, long relationship at such young ages (18 now) and we effectively grew up together. To add to all this we've been trying to have sex for the last year or so now, and each time we "couldnt" too much pain on her end and I didn't want to hurt her too much. So now both of us are feeling down about that because we both feel we were "supposed" to lose it together. I'm still in the stages of not being able to handle any of this. This is going to be the most difficult next couple of weeks I've ever experienced I think. Not trying to make this my blog or ask for your sympathy, just trying to get things out ya know.[/QUOTE]
I think we've all been in that situation once or twice. And I mean we that had partners who were special to us.
I think the hardest part is the other part breaking up with us. The shock, the overwhelming feeling of rejection... Well, it's tough. And it's at this stage that we, under such hot headed thinking, make the biggest mistakes.
So, it's a good thing that you both ended in good terms (If not I'm assuming you did). This is good.
Right now, you should stay away from her. Don't wonder if she's talking about you with her friends, don't even think there's other guy in the picture, don't even go there. (Trust me, these are very common thoughts).
Stay away from cell phones and resist any urge to text or call her over some unresolved issue you think you have or want to get off your chest. There's nothing she can do, and it will only make you look bad. Also it will most probably end in a serious fight.
However, if both of you have already have a fight, or if there was something you told her or tried to tell her after the breakup that was not appreciated by her. It's ok, the harm is done and there's nothing you can do. In this case, and this case only, if you had an argument or fought over the phone or whatever, you should send her a brief message saying that you're sorry for losing it blablabla and you're ok with the breakup. As simple as that.
Ok, so now you just have to establish goals to keep your head away from her and from any hot-headed action.
Focus on yourself. Don't think that your friends are picking sides. That's paranoia. They probably are being there for both you and her to vent.
So go out with your friends. If they touch any subject related to the breakup be brief, or don't talk about it, you're there to have fun with them, not to whine about your ex.
And that's it really, there is nothing specific I can really say, just keep yourself busy until you feel ok about the fact that she's moving on and you're moving on.
As far as I can tell the first nights will be tough, but avoid being alone. Go make something you never had the time to do while you were with her, like sports, hobbies, etc etc.
In my case getting into a Martial Art helped me get most of the stress off of me. If you're into that, go punch some bags and hit the gym.
If not, there are definitely lots of activities as rewarding as that.
Take it easy.
literally just keep busy, you'll be stuck in a rut of overthinking if you don't.
also I wrote on my blog about a girl, and my ex (who i broke up with 3 months ago) text me and was like 'its cute that you're moving on but do you might not putting it all over your blog?'
Does that mean she's still not over it? I dunno i thought she would be by now aha
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;38326123]literally just keep busy, you'll be stuck in a rut of overthinking if you don't.
also I wrote on my blog about a girl, and my ex (who i broke up with 3 months ago) text me and was like 'its cute that you're moving on but do you might not putting it all over your blog?'
Does that mean she's still not over it? I dunno i thought she would be by now aha[/QUOTE]
Why is she reading your blog? Also if she's asking for you to not say stuff like that, It seems like she may be a little jealous.
yeah probably, oh well. her problem!
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;38326360]yeah probably, oh well. her problem![/QUOTE]
Thats the spirit!
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