Maybe, subconsiously, that's the reason I post it - to get some confirmation that it smelt this bad for everyone.
[editline]7th November 2012[/editline]
if it doesn't then uh oh
Doesnt sound healthy to me! Difficult one to approach though. You cant really be like hey your snatch smells like rancid milk to the girl your with.
Rofl
[QUOTE=Zethiwag;38359102]Sorry. But can you say you've never sniffed your fingers after fingering a girl? Jesus christ, that stench is unholy.[/QUOTE]
Well yes, I did. and yes, it's has a distinctive odor, but nothing like rancid. It actually smells kinda nice in my opinion.
[editline]7th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Zethiwag;38359218]Maybe, subconsiously, that's the reason I post it - to get some confirmation that it smelt this bad for everyone.
[editline]7th November 2012[/editline]
if it doesn't then uh oh[/QUOTE]
Well, na dude, it doesn't. Maybe the odor's due to some infection which is common on girls, and yeah sometimes it can smell. (never happened to me) but it's not that common.
However, the smell stays in your fingers for hours :v:
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38359398]Well yes, I did. and yes, it's has a distinctive odor, but nothing like rancid. It actually smells kinda nice in my opinion.
[editline]7th November 2012[/editline]
Well, na dude, it doesn't. Maybe the odor's due to some infection which is common on girls, and yeah sometimes it can smell. (never happened to me) but it's not that common.
However, the smell stays in your fingers for hours :v:[/QUOTE]
It's still lingering underneath my fingernails. Also, she said something about a water infection but I don't think she was serious.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38359583]the taste also lingers for an hour or so
it tastes good
[editline]7th November 2012[/editline]
well i wouldn't recommend tasting it if it smells rancid
might taste like burritos[/QUOTE]
fuck you burritos are awesome.
However associating burritos with that kind of smell would be bad for my opinion of burritos.
[QUOTE=Zethiwag;38359218]Maybe, subconsiously, that's the reason I post it - to get some confirmation that it smelt this bad for everyone.
[editline]7th November 2012[/editline]
if it doesn't then uh oh[/QUOTE]
It depends on the time in her cycle but also something like a yeast infection apparently makes it smell horrible
[editline]7th November 2012[/editline]
Also depends on how hygienic she is
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;38359945]It depends on the time in her cycle but also something like a yeast infection apparently makes it smell horrible
[editline]7th November 2012[/editline]
Also depends on how hygienic she is[/QUOTE]
Oh, she's hygienic. She was on her period last saturday so yeah maybe that was it.
I had a funny story about period sex.
Oh right... I told it a million times
:zoid:
[QUOTE=Zethiwag;38359565]It's still lingering underneath my fingernails. Also, she said something about a water infection but I don't think she was serious.[/QUOTE]
Need to wash your hands better bro. I always give mine a bit of scrub after if I go to the toilet.
I've woken up before and wondered why I could smell fanny and it's because I forgot to wash my face and beard before going to sleep
If it stinks that bad she probably has a yeast infection or some shiz
don't give her the good old [I]lickaroo[/I] then.
After a month of chatting with a girl on the internet, I'm finally meeting her! Wish me luck facepunch!
Well, I hope your expectations were not to high or anything. You might be disappointed, anyway good luck.
Holy shit. My now-ex pretty much dumped me because I sent a text about having a shitty weekend. Then proceeded to say that "I think you're too desperate." She also said that "there was too much immaturity," but she never even said that there was a problem before then. I'm not even depressed, it's like a feeling that's half amused half angry. I spent 8 months talking to her, 2 more months dating.
There's a little bit more that goes along with it but nothing that changes anything. Seriously, if you're not going to tell me what the issue is, that's your own damn fault.
Sounds really immature from her, everyone has a bad weekend or time. It simply happens, sometimes I talk nonsense. Your girlfriend should be trying to help you out.
[QUOTE=PistolKid;38365068]Holy shit. My now-ex pretty much dumped me because I sent a text about having a shitty weekend. Then proceeded to say that "I think you're too desperate." She also said that "there was too much immaturity," but she never even said that there was a problem before then. I'm not even depressed, it's like a feeling that's half amused half angry. I spent 8 months talking to her, 2 more months dating.
There's a little bit more that goes along with it but nothing that changes anything. Seriously, if you're not going to tell me what the issue is, that's your own damn fault.[/QUOTE]
Issue is you. She probably just used the text as an excuse to convey what she thinks.
sounds like it wasn't the text you sent, it's how you generally behave
since it's your personality that she dislikes, her telling you that wouldn't have changed anything. you can't change who you are just because someone tells you to.
[editline]8th November 2012[/editline]
the 'desperate' thing really comes through in your post. your whole attitude toward the whole thing is that she owes you a relationship for you spending "8 months talking to her, 2 months dating".
[editline]8th November 2012[/editline]
i'll never be able to understand why people get angry at their exes for breaking things off when they weren't happy in the relationship. it's a shame that it wasn't mutual and all, but.. why blame them for the feelings not being mutual?
I think it's the manner that people do it. It's important to take the other person's feelings into account even if you're not happy. That doesn't mean you should feel obligated to stay in the relationship, you should leave it, but a little empathy and compassion to help ease out never killed anyone.
yeah, that's true. it's hard to end a relationship peacefully though - if you aren't blunt about wanting to break things off, the other person might not understand or expect you to change your mind.
Yeah, you can understandably only do so much since you can't predict exactly how they're going to react.
hardly related...
You could kiss her goodbye and be all mr.nice guy about it, in the end she can still be angry about it regardless as you're breaking up an emotional connection which solidified immensly by inserting your penis in her. From her perspective, you're litreally, a dick no matter what.
Of course, this is not to say every woman on earth must respond that way, it's just that from a woman's perspective how you break up with her seriously doesn't matter that much.... it's the whole of your relationship;what you did with her, what she thinks of you, your actions and decisions that eventually dictate whether she does or doesn't talk to you after breaking up.
few examples, just to prove my point here;
one, I once dated a girl, we had sex and a month later I ended it. There wasn't any goodbyes, no screaming or crying (I suppose) and she turned out to be one of my first female friends.
two, I dated this girl. ended it, it was a real fucked up relationship, told her to piss off... nevermind the details, as of today she still is willing to meet up and still sends me texts....
both examples show bad breakups, however, both girls are still talking to me
I wonder if women ever think about this.
My now ex and I broke up at the beginning of October. We had been in a long distance relationship and I finally got the money to fly out and spend a week with her and her family over the summer and we were really happy. She then started looking for work and told me she wouldn't be on as much and I was fine with it. This was all back in September. She finally got a job and she lived up to it. She wasn't on as often but we kept in correspondence.
October rolls around and she breaks up with me stating that she didn't want to hurt me and she didn't want me to be alone. This is the fourth long distance relationship I've had, she knew this, and I was fine with bouts of silence. I had made this extremely clear to her before I left to go back to the East Coast that I would be fine. I was more worried about her. So when she broke up using me as the reason I got very very frustrated. She was hurting herself more then she was hurting me, if she had said that instead of using me I would've been fine.
She then said she would stay in contact with me so that we could stay friends. I haven't heard a single thing from her since. I must've fucked up I guess.
[QUOTE=Swilly;38369312]I wonder if women ever think about this.
My now ex and I broke up at the beginning of October. We had been in a long distance relationship and I finally got the money to fly out and spend a week with her and her family over the summer and we were really happy. She then started looking for work and told me she wouldn't be on as much and I was fine with it. This was all back in September. She finally got a job and she lived up to it. She wasn't on as often but we kept in correspondence.
October rolls around and she breaks up with me stating that she didn't want to hurt me and she didn't want me to be alone. This is the fourth long distance relationship I've had, she knew this, and I was fine with bouts of silence. I had made this extremely clear to her before I left to go back to the East Coast that I would be fine. I was more worried about her. So when she broke up using me as the reason I got very very frustrated. She was hurting herself more then she was hurting me, if she had said that instead of using me I would've been fine.
She then said she would stay in contact with me so that we could stay friends. I haven't heard a single thing from her since. I must've fucked up I guess.[/QUOTE]
That just sounds more like "I miss having someone around, and while you're cool, i need someone who's physically here". I always took the "I don't want to hurt you" bit to mean "I have interests developing in other areas" when people said it.
I don't know that you fucked up, or could have done much different.
It's always the man's fault, sorry to say. However, I can relate when the said relationship is a long distance one... Besides an idea you can't really keep her wanting.
in the end, whether her reasons are true or not, it is irrelevant... take into mind what you can so you can improve yourself in the next relationships
Yeah, well, I'm alone now and I feel like shit. Which is why me and her worked so well together, we were easily excitable/emotion people. My only problem is that its been 4 years where I had a significant other. Now I have no clue what to do. Dating was never a big thing for me because I find romance annoying and I suck at it.
[editline]8th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=HarveySpecter;38369370]It's always the man's fault, sorry to say.[/QUOTE]
This I think is societal rule bunk that really needs to go. It shouldn't be left up to the man alone to maintain the relationship, it should be both sides giving equal amounts into a relationship.
My girlfriend is upset because she's not my first girlfriend, this causes her to be depressed and angry at me and I have no clue on how to cheer her up. It's usually my best friend who manages to cheer her up but she brings up my ex's occasionally and just becomes a very very sad girl, especially when I say "I love you" to her, she'll suddenly be like "You've said that to your ex's before, I'm upset because I don't feel special blah blah blah" What do I do?
IF you've never done something with your exs but with your current girlfriend, then remind her of this. It sounds like she wants to have something that she can claim to be hers that is a part of you. Also, ask your friends what they do to cheer her up, you might get some insight into what's going on.
It's not a rule, it's a primal thing. Women expect it, men desire it in every action they do. Imagine a world, for a second, where women are not driven this way and act like men (appearance matters more than character, emotions are irrelevant....)
society would deem itself robotic, and humans would turn into robots... this exact contrast, that causes so much problems is exactly what makes life exciting, relationship a "need"... it's just that men nowadays are completely in the dark when it comes to understanding things from a female perspective, they think with their dicks and just go "huh???" with the first sign of drama or problem
[editline]8th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=AtomicDongo;38369401]My girlfriend is upset because she's not my first girlfriend, this causes her to be depressed and angry at me and I have no clue on how to cheer her up. It's usually my best friend who manages to cheer her up but she brings up my ex's occasionally and just becomes a very very sad girl, especially when I say "I love you" to her, she'll suddenly be like "You've said that to your ex's before, I'm upset because I don't feel special blah blah blah" What do I do?[/QUOTE]
When women just go emotional on me, out of the blue, I usually try and understand what is it that bothers them and pay little attention to that one sentence. With you, it seems like she's yearning for more attention, possibly the relationship is becoming dull. You need go back and try and connect the dots yourself, see what's missing.
If you guys are open enough, you can just ask her what's bothering her, but don't expect much answers... most women aren't like that and they expect us to know, sometimes you just gotta connect the dots, it's your job, you're the man.
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