basically what you are saying is that you don't care about being married or a long-term relationship or anything like that, and most of us do. that's basically the gist of this entire long yelling match.
what an earth shattering conclusion
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;38397906]i dont think most of us are even defining casual on the same terms here, because you apparently imply casual sex = sex with someone who is your (apparently somewhat close) friend, which is not what it means. casual sex usually means one night stand, never call her again type of deal. if you're having casual sex with someone on a regular basis doesn't really make it casual, does it?[/QUOTE]
casual sex in my eyes is having sex with someone while both sides don't mind the other involving themselves with other people. we can talk on the phone, go to places if we want, she's a female friend with benefits... if it's how i described it, then it's still casual.
[editline]10th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;38397939]basically what you are saying is that you don't care about being married or a long-term relationship or anything like that, and most of us do. that's basically the gist of this entire long yelling match.
what an earth shattering conclusion[/QUOTE]
what. i care about it as much as the other guy, it's just not what I am looking for right now for various of reasons.... how is that even relevant or the conclusion or the whole debate?
i hate dogmas especially when the reasoning behind one is bullshit, and feeling oriented. I need reasons, we all have reasons that's why i bluntly stated them. It's either you have answers or not. it's never complex.
So, I'm pretty sure I'm going to break up with my girlfriend today...
possibly a cliche, possibly you'll read it and dismiss it, and possibly it might actually be helpful... 3 little rules, I find myself utilizing each and every day and you seem to come here to share so i guess it won't hurt, long story short;
I. Paradox: life is a mystery;Don't waste time trying to figure it out.
II. Humor: Keep a sense of humor, especially about yourself. It is a strength beyond all measure.
III. Change: Know that nothing stays the same.
If someone came up to me and offered casual sex, I honestly don't know what I would do. Sure, I fantasize about it all the time but I don't think I would go through with it. Being raised Catholic and having a strong sense of morals, as well as having a tendency to think too deeply about things like that kill it for me.
[QUOTE=HarveySpecter;38397808]the problem on topic here, is why people wouldn't want casual relationships besides feelings. Those, again, are hardly reasons because it can happen on both options, casual and meaningful relationship.
I think you, facepunch, are confusing a whore with a casual relationship. casual relationships include talking to the woman before.... deciding whether I want or do want to sleep with her....
I can get as much information about her sex life in a casual relationship and a meaningful one and also the word meaningful is so moronic because again a casual one can be meaningful... you can be good friends....
why do I have to explain this?[/QUOTE]
You react way too strongly to people who disagree with you it's embarrassing
i have a confession to make
whenever i see other boomkin players in wow i feel an immediate brotherly bond with them for how uncommon they are. i must admit i've spent what feels like hours watching one from afar, lurking in flight form within the foliage while he effortlessly rounded up tricksters and executed them. we've already parted ways but i miss him already and long for his avian companionship. i feel like i know him so well (i carefully inspected all his gear) but he doesn't even know what spec i'm running.
i'm a horrible person. my boyfriend hasn't even hit level 90 yet and all i can think of is how badly i want to run off with this handsome owlkin and lose my challenge mode virginity to him.
[editline]10th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38400129]are you... turned on???[/QUOTE]
YES i can't get his shimmering yellow eyes out of my mind
all i can think about is how badly i want him to caress me with his ilvl 470 armor
[QUOTE=azurelao;38397351]What he's saying, though, is that any guy will have casual sex at the drop of a hat. [/QUOTE]
even people in a current partner/marriage/engagement/slave-mistress relationship?
no it'll never be the same.
i'll never forget his name.. one word, didn't even have symbols in it..
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38400136]i'm a horrible person. my boyfriend hasn't even hit level 90 yet and all i can think of is how badly i want to run off with this handsome owlkin and lose my challenge mode virginity to him.
[editline]10th November 2012[/editline]
YES i can't get his shimmering yellow eyes out of my mind
all i can think about is how badly i want him to caress me with his ilvl 470 armor[/QUOTE]
WoW what a slut
That bitch. Wasn't even surprised at all that I broke up with her. She was glad. Fucking caused me hell for a month. I'm feeling a mixture of sadness and hatred and I don't know which one is right. I gave her all that I could and put everything into our relationship and she gives up halfway through and chalks it up to "we're just not compatible with each other". Just be frank with me and tell me it's not working and end it if you feel that way. Instead of giving me hope that it might improve.
[editline]10th November 2012[/editline]
I feel so cheated and used. :frown:
I'd like to apologise about before as I know I annoyed you folk but I need some real advice in "real-time". I have been with this girl about a month and a week and she said she wants to know what my view is on getting engaged because she was out having a meal with some friends and there was this couple who were engaged who were soooo "cute" and she loves me a lot too. Now I am not entirely sure but I think she wants me to get engaged with her, I have butterflies in my stomach because of nerves and I don't want to upset her? I like her a lot but fuck, engagement is a big thing right? And a ring costs money... Halp
why are you asking us?
you have to decide yourself if you want to get an engagement. generally 1 month is really really short but no-one can tell except you
and you've apologized before only to devolve into shitposting again so you're not off the hook
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38400650]don't
you'll just cheat and get fucked[/QUOTE]
I was thinking the same :( it's happened a lot and I've done it too before.. Trust is something you don't gain over a month
[editline]11th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;38400652]why are you asking us?
you have to decide yourself if you want to get an engagement. generally 1 month is really really short but no-one can tell except you
and you've apologized before only to devolve into shitposting again so you're not off the hook[/QUOTE]
I suppose so but I tend to make bad decisions. Yeah I know
until you can learn to keep your penis in your pants don't get engaged
the fuck
why are you even thinking about marriage a [b]month[/b] into a relationship
and then admitting you'll probably cheat
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38400677]wow i say you'll probably cheat and you AGREE with me?
jesus christ[/QUOTE]
I'm bad at making the right decision whilst intoxicated, I told my mates who I drink with to punch me or kick me in the balls if I ever think about doing it if I am drinking with them. I really don't wanna fuck this one up like I always do
[editline]11th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;38400686]until you can learn to keep your penis in your pants don't get engaged[/QUOTE]
Probably best advice yet, I think I am slowly learning but I don't trust myself yet
then stop drinking, problem solved
if you can't stop drinking you are an alcoholic seek help
[QUOTE=thisispain;38400736]then stop drinking, problem solved
if you can't stop drinking you are an alcoholic seek help[/QUOTE]
-snip-
You're probably right, so much bad stuff comes from drinking
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38400764]ok alcohol decides how much fun you can have
probably an alcoholic too[/QUOTE]
No no, I meant it amplifies fun and makes me more confident and as it turns out people like me more when I'm drunk. I'm not so "uptight" or ignorant
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38400831]then stop being uptight if it bothers you so much[/QUOTE]
I've got a problem where I don't want to leave a bad impression on new people I meet so I tend to just not make an impression at all, what do I say to my girlfriend anyway? I was thinking "If we're still together this time next year I might surprise you :)" or something like that?
[b]stop thinking about getting engaged to some chick you've been with for a month[/b]
1. if she really [i]is[/i] pressuring you to get engaged, then it sucks that you like her, but she is not the girl for you
2. if (most likely) she was literally just bringing it up as a discussion topic, then why the fuck are you stressing about it
3. ask her about it. you know, communicate
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38400922][b]stop thinking about getting engaged to some chick you've been with for a month[/b][/QUOTE]
I can't just ignore her! She is expecting an answer, can't play dumb and pretend all these signs have gone over my head..?
[editline]11th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38400937]1. if she really [i]is[/i] pressuring you to get engaged, then it sucks that you like her, but she is not the girl for you
2. if (most likely) she was literally just bringing it up as a discussion topic, then why the fuck are you stressing about it
3. ask her about it. you know, communicate[/QUOTE]
I don't really agree with marriage, she does. She really loves me, I really like her. I don't want to say no and hurt her but I don't want to say yes, risk looking like a fool to almost everyone I know and possibly make a really bad decision and look like an even bigger fool if shit hits the fan and everything falls to pieces having people say "I told you so" and what not.
She's really nice and I don't think she wants to lose me so she may be using this as a way to hold onto me? I don't know
if she's seriously expecting an answer on whether you're going to get married after being together for a month
break up with her
enter witness protection
get the fuck away
[editline]10th November 2012[/editline]
wow so you're going to agree to get married because you don't want to make her mad, even though your feelings aren't mutual
just.. what is wrong with you
why would you commit to someone for life so you can not get on their nerves at this present moment
yeah i was keeping an open mind, but i'm pretty sure joshdasmif isn't even emotionally mature enough to think about getting married
I can't do that holy shit? Yeah it's pretty insane of her to ask this but she isn't usually as spontaneous as this
[editline]11th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;38400987]yeah i was keeping an open mind, but i'm pretty sure joshdasmif isn't even emotionally mature enough to think about getting married[/QUOTE]
Probably not to be fair
[editline]11th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38400974]
wow so you're going to agree to get married because you don't want to make her mad, even though your feelings aren't mutual
just.. what is wrong with you
why would you commit to someone for life so you can not get on their nerves at this present moment[/QUOTE]
I don't care if she gets mad, I don't want to upset her. She's really cute
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;38400991]She's really cute[/QUOTE]
LOL
this is a lost cause
i've decided he's trolling
i can't live in a world where people get married one month into a relationship because they think someone's cute
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