[QUOTE=cyclocius;38042861]This. It will only end badly, a friend of mine got into fights with his Girlfriend every fortnight for a year and they'd be back together after a few days. He got rid of her over summer but he's still whipped as all hell by this Bunny-Boiling bitch.[/QUOTE]
yeah...lately I kept fighting with my gf, and it seemed like everything was going better all of the sudden but she broke up with me suddenly a few days ago. I thought I'd be mad and I'd hate her, but it seems like I'm happy for her or something?? its weird. She's taken her decision and even tho it leaves me out of the game I know she's somewhat happier. I still love her though, idk what to do with my love life. I'm kind of feeling like shit though. relationships where you fight just don't work mate, completely destroyed me...I know I love her but it's impossible for us to be together.
I really don't understand how to meet women at age 20. Jobs are supposed to expose you to new people, but damn if those aren't some homely looking forty year old women that walk up in there. Not really sure where to look.
[QUOTE=Variant;38044033]I really don't understand how to meet women at age 20. Jobs are supposed to expose you to new people, but damn if those aren't some homely looking forty year old women that walk up in there. Not really sure where to look.[/QUOTE]
I don't really post about my personal life on FP but here goes. I'm not going to pretend to be some girl expert by any means but I was in a similar situation where everyone I worked with was much older than I was. I ended up asking a woman about 10 years older than myself out and we started seeing each other for about 4 months before we both decided to break it off. But in those 4 months we were together holy shit did we have fun, it was my first time but she was experienced and very open sexually. Her being 33 and myself being 22 I found she was just a lot more mature and interesting than most women my age. We ended up breaking it off due to our priorities being different but we are still on good terms and never had an argument or anything like that.
Sounds better than what I got to hear about last weekend:
Guy in his twenties has a relationship with a smoking hot 37 year old.
After 3 years of it going on her husband finds out and hangs himself in their childrens bedroom.
:pwn:
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;38044261]Sounds better than what I got to hear about last weekend:
Guy in his twenties has a relationship with a smoking hot 37 year old.
After 3 years of it going on her husband finds out and hangs himself in their childrens bedroom.
:pwn:[/QUOTE]
Asshole as that guy may be for persuading her to cheat, he must feel fucking terrible.
[QUOTE=Variant;38044033]I really don't understand how to meet women at age 20. Jobs are supposed to expose you to new people, but damn if those aren't some homely looking forty year old women that walk up in there. Not really sure where to look.[/QUOTE]
I'm 20
go to parties and get togethers and ask girls out for coffees
if you see a girl in a store get talking etc etc
[QUOTE=cyclocius;38042861]This. It will only end badly, a friend of mine got into fights with his Girlfriend every fortnight for a year and they'd be back together after a few days. He got rid of her over summer but he's still whipped as all hell by this Bunny-Boiling bitch.[/QUOTE]
Lol, me and my girlfriend have arguments all the time, probably at least once a week. Normally over silly and petty things like most couples. We don't break up though, we just get over it and laugh about it. But we live with each other.
My mates are always rowing with their birds as well, and most of them have been with their girlfriends for over two years.
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
Also I'm 21 and she's 22 so maybe we're a bit older than some of the posters here. She's probably more mature (i'm probably not). It's only two years but you do change from being 18 to 21
Been together now for 9 months, haven't had a single fight or nag with my GF, people think its weird that we haven't fought, is it really that weird that my relationship is working?
Most normal relationships will have a few arguments / disagreements, but not having them isn't necessarily a bad sign.
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
That being said it could be a sign you're both rather apathetic about the relationship, that's for you to decide.
[QUOTE=SataniX;38044844]Most normal relationships will have a few arguments / disagreements, but not having them isn't necessarily a bad sign.
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
That being said it could be a sign you're both rather apathetic about the relationship, that's for you to decide.[/QUOTE]
No, its just love love love love and no fights.
[img]http://filesmelt.com/dl/ffssheknows.PNG[/img]
new low
[QUOTE=lotusking;38031248]let the stock photo explain
[img]http://wwwdelivery.superstock.com/WI/223/4001/PreviewComp/SuperStock_4001-814A.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]
hyahah oh my god that picture is priceless
[QUOTE=FreeOnions;38025793]Alright, well guys. I don't know really where else to turn to for this. I have never had sex before, but recently I have been reaching that point with my girl friend. When it finally came down to it and I had a condom and what not, I was not into it at all. I could not get a hard on worth hell. I feel like a complete and utter disappointment and I feel incredibly depressed. I just don't know what to do at all.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38025828]i remember my first time
glaciers formed and melted by the time i got it up[/QUOTE]
Late response I know.
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[QUOTE=Rankxerox;38044776]Been together now for 9 months, haven't had a single fight or nag with my GF, people think its weird that we haven't fought, is it really that weird that my relationship is working?[/QUOTE]
my bf and i have been together for ~1.5 years and never argued or really been angry at each other
if something's bugging one of us we bring it up and just discuss it until we understand one another's perspective on it
I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years and we had a shitton of fights, arguments and so on. Needless to say I actually learned a lot.
you know never arguing doesn't mean 100% that your relationship is working
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
it just means you arent very open with each other
I don't know why but I'm so scared about the fact that I may break up with my girlfriend. I mean, in the end maybe I will. Just to know that feeling and going out with her kind of worries me. I know that I should think positively but these ideas kind of revolve back to me and it can't get out of my head. How should I help alleviate this problem? I don't know but these feelings may make me go back to my clingy style for someone which I really don't want to have and especially show to my girlfriend. To keep in topic I've not been in a fight yet either. (Despite only a 1 month relationship)
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38046024]you know never arguing doesn't mean 100% that your relationship is working
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
it just means you arent very open with each other[/QUOTE]
i'm just answering his question, that it's totally normal and not a bad thing
it's the opposite, though. my bf and i have excellent communication, we can both immediately tell if the other is bothered about something. we just don't argue because we both try to be rational about things and take full responsibility if we do something wrong.
and when i've been with guys in the past who i argued with frequently, it was because we both were condescending toward each other and didn't trust the other to be sensible. if the other person made a decision we disagreed with, it was because they were wrong, not because they had logically thought about it and come to a different conclusion. my current bf and i just trust each other enough to understand that we have our own reasoning for things, even if we don't always come up with the same answer to everything
[QUOTE=junker|154;38030869]I think I am going into a sex shop tomorrow, just to see what they have there. I have never been to one before.[/QUOTE]
this reminds me of my first visit to a sex shop. we had all just turned eighteen, except for one of my friends who just tagged along, and we confidently strolled in. We knew we belonged there - it was our right. We were of legal age, and we were finally going to look at the rows of porn DVDs involving women doing orifice-elasticity defying activities.
it was all going really well, until the glass shelf holding the dildo i was poking was knocked over by one of my friends and we had to re-shelf tens of scented flesh lights.
[QUOTE=Aries;38046249]this reminds me of my first visit to a sex shop. we had all just turned eighteen, except for one of my friends who just tagged along, and we confidently strolled in. We knew we belonged there - it was our right. We were of legal age, and we were finally going to look at the rows of porn DVDs involving women doing orifice-elasticity defying activities.
it was all going really well, until the glass shelf holding the dildo i was poking was knocked over by one of my friends and we had to re-shelf tens of scented flesh lights.[/QUOTE]
Well, I am already 20 and should really visit one :v: luckily I live in a street called the "Porn Street" or "Hooker street". So many naughty things here.
They're not that great, to be honest. Everything's ridiculously over-priced.
[QUOTE=SataniX;38044365]Asshole as that guy may be for persuading her to cheat, he must feel fucking terrible.[/QUOTE]
It sounded like it was more of her initiative.
Any advice on how to get my girlfriend into/force her to like anal? She is so mentally opposed to it I don't know what to do.
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
It doesn't even have to be anal sex just anal play. I like buttholes damn it and I want to express that.
[QUOTE=BusterBluth;38048709]Any advice on how to get my girlfriend into/force her to like anal? She is so mentally opposed to it I don't know what to do.
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
It doesn't even have to be anal sex just anal play. I like buttholes damn it and I want to express that.[/QUOTE]
i just wouldn't bother if i were you. if she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38046109]i'm just answering his question, that it's totally normal and not a bad thing
it's the opposite, though. my bf and i have excellent communication, we can both immediately tell if the other is bothered about something. we just don't argue because we both try to be rational about things and take full responsibility if we do something wrong.
and when i've been with guys in the past who i argued with frequently, it was because we both were condescending toward each other and didn't trust the other to be sensible. if the other person made a decision we disagreed with, it was because they were wrong, not because they had logically thought about it and come to a different conclusion. my current bf and i just trust each other enough to understand that we have our own reasoning for things, even if we don't always come up with the same answer to everything[/QUOTE]
so when you dont come up with the same answer and you do end up disagreeing, does one of you just change opinion in order to avoid an argument?
there are definitely situations where you need to both discuss your different opinions without just pretending you agree
arguing is healthy as long as its not personal attacks.
[QUOTE=BusterBluth;38048709]Any advice on how to get my girlfriend into/force her to like anal? She is so mentally opposed to it I don't know what to do.
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
It doesn't even have to be anal sex just anal play. I like buttholes damn it and I want to express that.[/QUOTE]
Some people don't like buttholes, it's a very solid mental barrier. Just deal with it. Maybe some time in the future she will get comfortable enough with it but most likely not. It's just one of those things you don't push.
[QUOTE=BusterBluth;38048709]Any advice on how to get my girlfriend into/force her to like anal? [/QUOTE]
force her? what is wrong with you wow
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38046109]i'm just answering his question, that it's totally normal and not a bad thing
it's the opposite, though. my bf and i have excellent communication, we can both immediately tell if the other is bothered about something. we just don't argue because we both try to be rational about things and take full responsibility if we do something wrong.
and when i've been with guys in the past who i argued with frequently, it was because we both were condescending toward each other and didn't trust the other to be sensible. if the other person made a decision we disagreed with, it was because they were wrong, not because they had logically thought about it and come to a different conclusion. my current bf and i just trust each other enough to understand that we have our own reasoning for things, even if we don't always come up with the same answer to everything[/QUOTE]
Yours is the way it should be done. In every relationship, I've tried to promote emotional openness, you know? The last thing I want in my life is a woman who "bottles it up." If something's on your mind, just talk to me about it so we can put it behind us. So far, though, the emotional recluses are all I've seemed to snag! Bummer for me!
[QUOTE=BusterBluth;38048709]Any advice on how to get my girlfriend into/force her to like anal? She is so mentally opposed to it I don't know what to do.
[editline]15th October 2012[/editline]
It doesn't even have to be anal sex just anal play. I like buttholes damn it and I want to express that.[/QUOTE]
plaster up pictures of gaping buttholes everywhere, that's sure to change her mind
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38049495]so when you dont come up with the same answer and you do end up disagreeing, does one of you just change opinion in order to avoid an argument?
there are definitely situations where you need to both discuss your different opinions without just pretending you agree
arguing is healthy as long as its not personal attacks.[/QUOTE]
I don't think she's saying they never disagree on anything, I think she's just saying that when they do disagree it's something they can talk about and easily put behind the relationship?
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