could be several reasons
if you can get it up in other cases it's probably nervousness or lack of sexual attraction
if you cannot get it up in other cases you might have a medical issue there
it really annoys me when girls take personal offense because of that sort of issue
like uh, t-pain said, if you've been fine in the past then there's probably nothing to worry about. if it's caused by nerves then worrying isn't going to help
[QUOTE=E1025;38456404]I've had this girl come over twice now after having a night out and on both occasions I can't get it up when we start fooling around. It made her kind of upset last time because she's convinced it's because of her. The only thing I can think of is it's because I was drinking beforehand both times but I'd always be pretty much sober by the time we got back. Why is my dick broken?[/QUOTE]
I had some issues like you, somehow I was always nervous as fuck. A thousand thoughts flowing through my mind at that point, unable to let it go. I concentrated to much without really flowing with the emotions and situation. Also my girlfriend at that time was also pretty new to this and she was not really that good at making me horny. Combined with the the amount of nervous thoughts, it was quite the bone killer.
Yahnich, you seem to change a lot of your posts. What's up with the 5+ beers?
In the moment I'm not nervous or overflowing with thoughts, at most I'd just be irritated at myself; This has happened before so I think I'll have to go get it checked out. Great, I'm not even 20 yet and I'm going to have to go to the doctors about ED, what has the world come to.
I'm not unfit or unhealthy but I notice I tend to get cold hands / feet which suggests poor circulation - could that be it?
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38456524]could you say that in english now pls
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if you mean why 5+ beer specifically it's because that's when i'm slightly tipsy
if you mean why beer then because i'm belgium
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oh, i edit my posts because sometimes i type too fast and i'm still thinking in dutch grammar so i make preposition mistakes or sometimes i just want to make my point clearer i guess???[/QUOTE]
Goddamn, belgian beer is the best beer ever. It is pretty heavy compared to most beers that you get, not like some piss beer. Do you speak french or dutch mainly? My dad is from belgium.
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Well that does not really belong in this thread anyway :v:
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[QUOTE=E1025;38456596]In the moment I'm not nervous or overflowing with thoughts, at most I'd just be irritated at myself; This has happened before so I think I'll have to go get it checked out. Great, I'm not even 20 yet and I'm going to have to go to the doctors about ED, what has the world come to.
I'm not unfit or unhealthy but I notice I tend to get cold hands / feet which suggests poor circulation - could that be it?[/QUOTE]
I went to a doctor because of my issue and there was everything fine with my pregnancy stick, it was all psychological. If you think like Yahnich mentioned "you little fuck, fuck this bitch" then nothing will work out. Just take your time and be cool about it. Some people drink alcohol to ease themselves so I do not know if alcohol is an issue here.
ED at your age is extremely rare. i wouldn't worry too much about it, but it probably wouldn't hurt to see a doctor anyway so you could get a professional opinion on what's causing it.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38456524]
oh, i edit my posts because sometimes i type too fast and i'm still thinking in dutch grammar so i make preposition mistakes or sometimes i just want to make my point clearer i guess???[/QUOTE]
goedenavond, hoe gaat het?
ik heb mijn nederlandse donald duck comics gevonden
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hamsterdam
rottendam
Duvel is such a good beer, I like the Westmalle trappiste a lot. Usually after school my friends and I were chilling in the sun, drinking some Westlmalle trappiste. That beer gets you drunk so quickly, at times we even had oral exams. Good times.
apparently i can read dutch
i never studied it or anything, i just meant i can understand what you guys are saying haha
speaking of useless languages i'll be learning russian once i move
and i never really had a chance to use the 6+ years of french i took outside of school
Maintenant, j'écris en français pour attirer de l'attention avec le seul but de me profiler sans contribuer quelque chose d'interessante ou utile :v:
How can you learn languages outside of classes? I want to learn French.
I mean I have already learned somewhat the basics from having french classes for 8 years or so, but we learned fuck all in those classes because they were mandatory and full of dunces.
I didn't care too much about learning it until recently I realized half-ish my province is French, and I can't communicate with them in their language at all, I'm just relying on everyone else to learn English.
j'ai oublier comment le parler
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38456749]het gaat fantastisch, mijn beste man. je had al eens vermeld dat je nederlands kon geloof ik!!!
ps thisispain u could totes visit the nederdraad
[/QUOTE]
ya maar ik wil het aantonen (is aantonen the right word???), om te altijd engels spreken is te vervelend
and uh i kind of ran into some issues with the nederdraad when i kind of just a little implied that many dutch people were kind of a little bit racist
imo the best way to learn a language is just to be exposed to it a lot. even though i spent 6 years taking french classes 90% of what i understood was based on hearing the locals speak it, reading french books, and watching french films.
basically what i'm saying is amelie is a good movie
Das ist nicht schlimm :v: wenn man nie eine gewisse Sprach spricht dann vergisst man Sie nach einer Weile. Ich werde irgendwie immer schlechter im Englischem, da ich alle grammatikalische Regeln vergessen habe.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38456873]imo the best way to learn a language is just to be exposed to it a lot. even though i spent 6 years taking french classes 90% of what i understood was based on hearing the locals speak it, reading french books, and watching french films.
basically what i'm saying is amelie is a good movie[/QUOTE]
I hate romantic comedy. I also hate myself for occasionally liking it anyway. :v:
But that is a really good idea! I don't know why I hadn't considered watching movies in French, especially since I've picked up a ridiculous amount of Japanese without even trying. Just because I would watch the japanese versions with subtitles!
I think I'll start with that and books! I would love to immerse myself in the language and actually talk to people but my listening and speaking has always been terrible.
We mostly learned grammar and in class vocabulary, but I can read and write fairly well.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;38456957]I hate romantic comedy. I also hate myself for occasionally liking it anyway. :v:
But that is a really good idea! I don't know why I hadn't considered watching movies in French, especially since I've picked up a ridiculous amount of Japanese without even trying. Just because I would watch the japanese versions with subtitles!
I think I'll start with that and books! I would love to immerse myself in the language and actually talk to people but my listening and speaking has always been terrible.
We mostly learned grammar and in class vocabulary, but I can read and write fairly well.[/QUOTE]
i hate romance stuff and romantic comedies are not my jam but i love amelie. it's really happy and upbeat and it's .. actually funny, it's a different sense of humor than romantic comedies are expected to have
even though it's technically "romantic comedy" it doesn't really fit the stereotype of them at all
[QUOTE=junker|154;38456781]Maintenant, j'écris en français pour attirer de l'attention avec le seul but de me profiler sans contribuer quelque chose d'interessante ou utile :v:[/QUOTE]
ah oui, tres bien, je parle un petit francais; a ete appris a l'ecole
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38456929]i basically just kinda picked them all up without classes
dutch is obv my native language, i learned spanish because half my family is spanish and i've been in contact with it my entire life so i guess also a native language??? french i picked up because of school but mostly because my mom's boyfriend after she got divorced only spoke french and spanish for a year or so so i had to adapt and we speak mostly french at home
english is really weird i pretty much learnt it by watching the fresh prince of bel-air in english with dutch subtitles
also, tpain; dutch people are pretty racist and so are belgians really, mostly towards muslims
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fuck
le fabuleux destine
of fucking
amelie poulaine
you have no idea how many reports and analysises of that fucking movie i've had to make in my life[/QUOTE]
I've picked up a lot of verbal Russian like that. After school I would always go to a neighbours house for "baby sitting" which was more like us paying her for me to keep her younger kid occupied...
She speaks in Russian a lot so I picked up key words and usually know what she is saying.
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[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38456972]i hate romance stuff and romantic comedies are not my jam but i love amelie. it's really happy and upbeat and it's .. actually funny, it's a different sense of humor than romantic comedies are expected to have
even though it's technically "romantic comedy" it doesn't really fit the stereotype of them at all[/QUOTE]
I shall try it then :)
Edit2:
I am also downloading The Lion King in French, per suggestion of my boyfriend because he said I know the words off by heart... which I do :D
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38456972]i hate romance stuff and romantic comedies are not my jam but i love amelie. [/QUOTE]
ah moi aussi moi aussi
ooo audrey tautou
oui s'il vous plait
[QUOTE=E1025;38456596]In the moment I'm not nervous or overflowing with thoughts, at most I'd just be irritated at myself; This has happened before so I think I'll have to go get it checked out. Great, I'm not even 20 yet and I'm going to have to go to the doctors about ED, what has the world come to.
I'm not unfit or unhealthy but I notice I tend to get cold hands / feet which suggests poor circulation - could that be it?[/QUOTE]
Oh boy, I had the same scare as you a year or so back, to the point where I went to the doctors and he told me "Nope, everything's fine". So all I got out of it was a very embarrassing experience. All I can say is: don't worry, you're fine (most likely).
I've got exactly the same as you as far as cold hands / feet go. My hands and feet are always colder than anyone else's. As for the ED thing, give masturbation a break for a while. I've had this a few times where I go through a period of devoid sexual appetite(? not sure if that's the right word, I don't want to come across as a creep, but you get what I mean) and lack the ability to get an erection, but it always returns after a couple days or week if I abstain from porn / masturbation.
I had it with my ex as well for a little while. I was telling her I can't seem to get it up, and she was all "Don't worry, I'll fix it", then she came over and it worked. I was just getting annoyed myself over it, which made it worse. Also, the excessive masturbation didn't help, so I cut that down. I don't know if it'll be the case with you, but for the next couple of days after you actually mess about with this girl, you'll find it much easier to get it up.
Just put masturbation off, leave off the porn and everything'll return to normal. I've found that if you give all that stuff a break, everything returns back to normal (sometimes with a vengeance, can be quite irritating getting semi-hard over the smallest things). All the best man. It shouldn't be anything serious. I'd advise against going to the docs first (to save yourself some embarrassment, you might be unlucky and end up with a female doc, I ended up with a male. Either scenario is awkward, I don't like older people looking at my peewee), so try the alternatives first before going to them.
喝精液，白痴人了！
nah but language learning thread for those interested - [url]http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1194238[/url] - OP has some good links
Since we're on the subject of french movies?
[B][U]WATCH THE INTOUCHABLES.[/U][/B]
Amazing film based off of real life events of a businessman. I loved every minute of it. So upbeat and just amazing.
So, it's my birthday this weekend, I'm 20. I was looking forward to spending the weekend with my girlfriend and friends, instead my Parents have decided to come up to spend a weekend with me, "make a little holiday out of it" as they put it.
I can't speak French.
Russian is best language. It's romantic and yet it has a sub-language of insults and swears :v:
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38444814]heh
in middle school woodshop for our last project we had to design a video game. my group came up with x-treme ping-pong and it was my job to do an animation with this program called pivot. when we were presenting our projects i initially thought i had done really bad on mine even though i had spent hours working on it, and then i realized how much better it was than everyone else's in the class. our teacher ended up making some comment about how our entire group was incredibly gifted because all of us did the best on our parts of the project
i miss that class... i did the best out of everyone on every project and got an a on an assignment i was absent for because of how good my technical drawings were[/QUOTE]
Me and one of my best friends made a parody of our school using pivot for our final project in middle school.
Everybody loved it, but we didn't get a too good grade out of it because we didn't document much at all.
I think that it was probably for the best that I didn't manage to get a working DVD out of it to be shown in our auditorium because it had some cussing.
Like this fine excerpt:
- Wazzup g-homie!
- Go fist yourself, fucking cripple.
- Yo! I think those white cripples are trying to be black crips like us, nahmean?
*background yells "what the hell?!"*
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On the notion of languages; I picked up a fair bit of Italian from playing the Assassin's Creed games over and over again.
Didn't pick up much from my Italian classes in school.
Or get any teaching from my grandmother who was a teacher in Italian, due to her getting a stroke.
So I can't tell you my name in Italian, but can tell you to go fuck yourself in Italian.
i really hate coming here for advice but im gonna make this story as short as possible. basically that girl i like has competition with others guys
how do i deal with competition with other guys? honestly, ive never had this problem before and i would love to win this girl over but i refuse to compete with these other guys and act desperate. ive been playing it cool and kind of reserved
[QUOTE=NuclearAnnhilation;38458941]i really hate coming here for advice but im gonna make this story as short as possible. basically that girl i like has competition with others guys
how do i deal with competition with other guys? honestly, ive never had this problem before and i would love to win this girl over but i refuse to compete with these other guys and act desperate. ive been playing it cool and kind of reserved[/QUOTE]
Ask her first. Obviously.
Stop trying so hard to "play it cool" and make a move.
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