Yeah I know where you're coming from. Guys that got flat-out rejected by my ex still stupidly persisted, thinking that their devotion would change her mind. Idiots.
To be honest, I would also be persistent. I cannot blame them for that, still it's my territorry and they know it exactly. After knowing that I would rather stop.
The worst thing is that both of these guys are complete faggots.
[editline]17th November 2012[/editline]
no offense loopoo, just some hipster fuckheads
[QUOTE=junker|154;38484963]To be honest, I would also be persistent. I cannot blame them for that, still it's my territorry and they know it exactly. After knowing that I would rather stop.
The worst thing is that both of these guys are complete faggots.
[editline]17th November 2012[/editline]
no offense loopoo, just some hipster fuckheads[/QUOTE]
Hahaha :v: What do you mean by no offense? None taken man :v:
Personally, I don't get the persistence. If a girl is taken, just move on. It's just a dickish move to keep trying to get with a girl who's already taken. Persistence is only good in my book when a girl is single, and you like her, yet she has other guys who want to be with her.
For some reason, I thought you were homosexual. Might got that wrong though, this world is confusing at times.
I thought that was the case, but I edited my original post because I couldn't tell :v: I'm not homosexual, even though I may come across as it. I'm just extremely squishy.
The PM I sent you didn't help! To be honest, I thought you were gay :v: We're all good though, haha, oh God this is quite weird.
[editline]17th November 2012[/editline]
I'm only gay for Yahnich.
I do not like cocks, although I get mistaken as gay very often.
You don't have one of the manliest faces, I have to admit.
[sp]not a bad looking one regardless[/sp]
I posted this picture in the Gay chat and now I got pms and messages on my profile. Weird ones to say the least. I am really attracting guys :v:
[img]https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/535612_4872326008290_725643993_n.jpg[/img]
[QUOTE=junker|154;38485372]I posted this picture in the Gay chat[/QUOTE]
i wonder why people think you're gay
Oh God :v: My PM wasn't me hitting on you haha, I'm just weird and send complimentary PM's every now and then to randomers.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38485491]i wonder why people think you're gay[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I asked if I would appeal to men because I get hit on a lot by men when I go out. :v:
I remember this one moment when I went to a gym centre.
There was this 34 year old steward in the gym. I saw him in the gym like twice and did some small talk. Then one day, he asked me if I was gay and whether he could take me out for dinner and rent a small hotel room for a night.
Shit was scary. I kindly declined obviously shitting bricks in my mind.
Some guy kissed me on the cheek at the tav. He was a strange one.
[QUOTE=loopoo;38484819]I feel your pain man, when some douchebag is touching your girlfriend in an obvious sexual manner, but your girlfriend isn't picking up on it (thinking it's something innocent), it sucks. You sort of have that inner turmoil of thoughts: should I tell him to back off, which will make a scene, or keep my mouth shut and just let it pass?
Sucks big time.[/QUOTE]
There's a guy who's clearly into my girlfriend, but she's also becoming very good friends with them because of common interests. I totally trust her and the guy knows that she's with me and that there's no way around that, but I'm going to have to end up meeting this guy. I set her straight after some photos came up where she got drunk with some friends and he was being pretty close with her etc. enough to embarass and agitate me, of course she wasn't picking up on how it looked or if any boundaries were being pushed.
Uh.. just don't want to have to see this guy if I hang around with her, because she rarely sees him, so it would a little cringey seeing them catching up and giggling together, wondering if I need to say something if he gets a little too close or something, then there will be arkward introductions, no thanks.
So a week after me and my girlfriend broke up
She is going out with a bisexual leaning towards gay 20 year old.
I may sound like the jealous ex-boyfriend, which im not as i find it a relief to be single again. But i do find it a little weird a just turned 16 year old going out with a 20 year old and i want to get opinions from people.
I know that the [sp]furry[/sp] community in my town, most of them are against it. [sp]as me, my ex and this guy are furrys everyone just found out (please dont kill me for mentioning furries)[/sp]
so i went to a football game with my friend from before yesterday. there's some other dude who is v into her, and she's not interested, but doesn't want to just tell him off because she's afraid of hurting his feelings. so instead she's opting to just wait till he leaves for college, which is in two weeks or so.
but the best part was when she said she wanted to start an actual relationship after he leaves
feeling p good
Oh, mine was more of a problem. Like, I trusted her around him, but she pretty much started treating him more like a boyfriend than me. He kissed her a couple times and she wouldn't tell him off.
needless to say, we're not together for a reason. It's not that guy so much as the whole not treating me like a boyfriend. I still hold bitterness about the whole business with that dude though. They're together now too. Surprisingly it doesn't sting any more to see them together than to see her alone.
I think I broke up with her out of self-respect. It wasn't out of lack of desire or anything, which is making it really slow-going, getting over her.
bad news: I got fired.
Good news: I'm no longer working with that one girl, could probably ask her out now!
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;38487989]Oh, mine was more of a problem. Like, I trusted her around him, but she pretty much started treating him more like a boyfriend than me. He kissed her a couple times and she wouldn't tell him off.
needless to say, we're not together for a reason. It's not that guy so much as the whole not treating me like a boyfriend. I still hold bitterness about the whole business with that dude though. They're together now too. Surprisingly it doesn't sting any more to see them together than to see her alone.
I think I broke up with her out of self-respect. It wasn't out of lack of desire or anything, which is making it really slow-going, getting over her.[/QUOTE]Good on you, man. You're a person, not a plush toy.
And why get mad at the guy? He's not the one you were with.
[QUOTE=artDecor;38488103]Good on you, man. You're a person, not a plush toy.
And why get mad at the guy? He's not the one you were with.[/QUOTE]
I was mad at the guy because I knew him and thought we were on good terms, then he goes and kisses my girlfriend after he and I talked about her and I being together. He seemed perfectly fine.
I'm more mad at her, when I'm mad at anything. I dunno. I miss her a bunch.
[editline]17th November 2012[/editline]
It's not like I'm just angry all the time. I hope no one takes it that way. When I am, I understand that the anger is misplaced anyway, but you feel what you feel.
Mostly I miss her. Sometimes I feel all empowered and optimistic for my own future, and sometimes I'm all wistful for her.
[QUOTE=Tobylol;38418540]I need some advice on my relationship.
So six months ago I met this amazing girl and we hit it off basically instantly. We've been hanging out almost every day. We've gone to France together and it's been perfect. She's clearly expressed that she loves me and I love her so. Until about a week ago we never expereianed any major problems, until she suddenly proclaims that she feels a bit smothered and that we should take it easy and not see eachother for a few days. Fine, I say. However during that period I noticed that when texting and talokingo n the phone,, she was always very distant and didn't seem very in love at all. Not in the way that she used to feel in any case. So yesterday I asked her about it, and she agreed that it felt different and she didn't know why. She wanted to take a longer break to re-evaulate her feelings, and I had sort of a breakdown which i thoroughly regret now as it must have only worsened the scenario. We agreed to talk more today via phone after work/school. And I'm worried as fuck. I feel terrible. Less than a week ago she told me that I was the perfect boyfriend, her best friend and that she loved me. It just feels so unreal for me to lose her like this. What should I do/act? I've never felt so awful before.[/QUOTE]
Well I blew it.
We met up tofday and she broke up with me. Her excuse was that she simply didn't have that lovey feeling about me anymore and that she wants to be free. It just feels so strange as we had som much plans together. She really was the perfect girl I thought. It feels unreal as she told me not long ago how she was so in love and so happy. I just feel cmpletely devastated lost and confused now. Terrible basically. I've lost all motivation for everything and I don't know what to do with myself. Any tips on how to handle this? She really was the love of my life.
[QUOTE=Tobylol;38489417]Well I blew it.
We met up tofday and she broke up with me. Her excuse was that she simply didn't have that lovey feeling about me anymore and that she wants to be free. It just feels so strange as we had som much plans together. She really was the perfect girl I thought. It feels unreal as she told me not long ago how she was so in love and so happy. I just feel cmpletely devastated lost and confused now. Terrible basically. I've lost all motivation for everything and I don't know what to do with myself. Any tips on how to handle this? She really was the love of my life.[/QUOTE]
You just gotta pick yourself up and move on. You might not feel like doing much but force yourself too, youll feel better in the end for it.
[QUOTE=Tobylol;38489417]Well I blew it.
We met up tofday and she broke up with me. Her excuse was that she simply didn't have that lovey feeling about me anymore and that she wants to be free. It just feels so strange as we had som much plans together. She really was the perfect girl I thought. It feels unreal as she told me not long ago how she was so in love and so happy. I just feel cmpletely devastated lost and confused now. Terrible basically. I've lost all motivation for everything and I don't know what to do with myself. Any tips on how to handle this? She really was the love of my life.[/QUOTE]
She seems like the type who just wants the new, fresh feeling of love, the love-sickness and all that, and once it wears off she wants to go out with someone else to experience it all over again.
Cause you said she was head over heels for you at the start, and then after six months lost it and "didn't feel that lovey feeling for you".
You're better off, in my opinion. Being in an unstable relationship is just stressful, and when your girlfriend seems to change her mind practically overnight, you'd be pulling your hair out over every thing you do, analysing it all beforehand to make sure you don't scare her off or something.
[QUOTE=loopoo;38489695]She seems like the type who just wants the new, fresh feeling of love, the love-sickness and all that, and once it wears off she wants to go out with someone else to experience it all over again.
Cause you said she was head over heels for you at the start, and then after six months lost it and "didn't feel that lovey feeling for you".
You're better off, in my opinion. Being in an unstable relationship is just stressful, and when your girlfriend seems to change her mind practically overnight, you'd be pulling your hair out over every thing you do, analysing it all beforehand to make sure you don't scare her off or something.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I know. Thanks
It just feels so strange to me as she was so enthusiastic and I really felt there was something special. We had basically everything in common and I thought I'd be with her for the rest of my life. She said she doesnät know why she feels like she does, but she'd be lying to me and herself if we kept on going. I guess it's for the best, but right now it just feels like a nightmare as I've never been so happy as I was when with her.
So is there no Super Friendly thread anymore?
they were basically the same thread anyway
uh yeah, there is a super friendly thread it's still going
[QUOTE=Tobylol;38490155]Yeah, I know. Thanks
It just feels so strange to me as she was so enthusiastic and I really felt there was something special. We had basically everything in common and I thought I'd be with her for the rest of my life. She said she doesnät know why she feels like she does, but she'd be lying to me and herself if we kept on going. I guess it's for the best, but right now it just feels like a nightmare as I've never been so happy as I was when with her.[/QUOTE]
Welcome to my world brother. It's been a week for me, she gave me a very similar speech a week before we had broken up. I found it really helpful to get drunk and talk to a bunch of girls on facebook the first night. Of course you'll still feel like shit in the morning, but it helped me get through it. My best advice to you is to get rid of all thoughts that you guys might get back together again at some point. It will only hurt you more. If you remove those thoughts and you guys do end up getting back together, well great. But if you hold onto that idea and you guys never get together again, you'll be holding onto something that simply isn't there. It's seriously that hardest thing I have ever done in my life, and I'm still in the middle of letting it go, but it truly is the best way. Try to keep eating and I've noticed walks help a lot. I made the mistake of walking and not eating very much and I lost ten pounds. (And I only weighed 145 pounds)
[editline]17th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=loopoo;38489695]She seems like the type who just wants the new, fresh feeling of love, the love-sickness and all that, and once it wears off she wants to go out with someone else to experience it all over again.
Cause you said she was head over heels for you at the start, and then after six months lost it and "didn't feel that lovey feeling for you".
You're better off, in my opinion. Being in an unstable relationship is just stressful, and when your girlfriend seems to change her mind practically overnight, you'd be pulling your hair out over every thing you do, analysing it all beforehand to make sure you don't scare her off or something.[/QUOTE]
That's seriously how I felt like it was in my relationship.
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alright. thanks a lot guys glad you agree with my decision
Well seeing as I unfortunately just broke up with my girlfriend recently, your post made me a bit fiery. But I'll hold it back for the time being. I think your friends are right, you should forget about her and move on. She's already pushed you away by telling you her and her boyfriend are back together, which means she isn't interested in you at that moment. I say at that moment because she did in fact get back with her boyfriend, so there must have been something there enough to make her make the decision. Even if her friends did pressure her into it, there must have been enough there. Forget and move on I say, nothing you can do right now anyways.
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