It sounds like neither of you is willing to compromise for the other, so probably best you break up.
A bit of advice though, don't go into a relationship expecting it to end soon. You wont get anywhere with a girl if you can't act committed.
I know, Rhenae. She's not really what I'm seeking in a girl for the reasons below:
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;38504206]It really does make it seem like you're not interested in her. Maybe you should just forget about your pride/whateverwordishoulduse and do it anyway? It won't hurt anyone. Seems like you're making it out to be something huge when good lord, it's just Facebook. Just a bit of fun.
But if it REALLY means that much to her, maybe she's just being childish.[/QUOTE]
It's not a question of pride, it's a question of principle. I don't feel comfortable and I should not be forced to do so as much as I wouldn't force other people to do something they don't feel comfortable with.
It wouldn't make me happy but it sure as hell is making her pissy about it.
She's just imposing to many rules and expecting a lot of me. I kinda feel she wan't a boyfriend and is projecting her role-model boyfriend in me and telling me what I should be like without any consideration for my feelings.
If facebook and publicity of the relationship is critical for her, than being on a relationship is what she wants since being with me doesn't really matter. What I'm trying to say is, she's more interesting in projecting her perfect relationship in me than really enjoying me as a person.
I deeply believe a relationship is an act of cooperation, support, love, and really I'm not feeling any of those things. On the other hand, I've been very supportive and tried my best to be romantic towards her and didn't feel it was recognized.
I believe that your "relationship with" status should not be what defines your relationship as she's leading me to believe. Instead I believe it should be a consequence of that love and support that will come naturally from both sides.
Because as I said before, I wouldn't mind at all to update it with someone I really loved.
What the hell is the difference between this and the love advice thread? They both seem pretty active. It bugs me.
Well, this thread is more for someone who is already in a sexual or romantic relationship. Super Friendly and Social is for someone seeking to be more socially active and romantically attractive towards others.
I know people usually tend to confuse both but, the way I see it is:
Sex GF and shite = relationship and sex advice
Social and Love = advice in seeking Social skills and "Love" skills
They are both pretty legitimate, though.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38504642]To be honest I have no strong feelings for her other than just liking her. There were times where I would be ok with having a relationship just for sex, but not anymore. I'm not seeking it and I she's not into that.
I don't know. I just feel that I'm more unattached to people in the beginning of relationships. I like to go slow and really this is going too fast. Also it's not just this.
She's establishing her own rules in something that can't still be called a relationship.
I think I'm to impulsive when it comes to meeting girls. I mean, I let things go too much, specially into the bedroom. And that's what gets me in these kinds of situations.
This isn't how I feel comfortable, so I think I'm going to be honest with her and decide to breakup. At least I think she's a mature enough person to understand that and that our friendship is still salvageable.
Oh well. Let's see what this turns out into.[/QUOTE]
Anything that you wouldn't expect a girl to do if she didn't want to, you shouldn't be expected to do if you don't want to.
And vice versa
[QUOTE=Scotchair;38504758]What the hell is the difference between this and the love advice thread? They both seem pretty active. It bugs me.[/QUOTE]
nothing, making the other one was pretty unnecessary imo
Just text this to two girls; one named Vanessa and one name Louise.
Hey Vanessa. I need to ask you something that has kept me sleepless and I want you to be totally honest with me. It might be awkward between us after this but I have to know how you feel. I have kept this in my mind for a while now but I think it's finally time I'll be straight up and just confront you.... I hope this doesn't ruin the relationship we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over this. It wouldn't be fair on me if I don't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh it is. I just want your honest opinion... Do you like coke or lemonade?
Thats right, i left 'Vanessa' in the text i sent to louise haha.
Attempted recovery;
'what do you expect, your name just isn't memorable enough. Just sent it to my mate josh as vanessa too, what is my life today. x'
and saved it.
Yeah.
As I said before I was pretty impulsive. I usually see thinks as "well, why not". At the the time she wanted it and me too.
I don't love her and I don't believe I ever will. And damn, does this sound kinda cruel, but I don't think she loves me either. I think we were both impulsive and started this just for the thrill.
This facebook issue is not her only issue. She's been imposing rules in a 2 week "non relationship" as If I'm suppose to act like a boyfriend. What I mean is. She's being bossy. She comes in, tells me "you should do this, act like that" and so on and then leaving.
I don't feel that she's present enough for me to compromise, so yeah, her making such a big deal about a stupid status and not caring whatsoever about me does make me feel deeply uninterested in her.
I'm really going to break this up. It's actually starting to feel awkward and ridiculous.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38505028]elite flirter 2pro5us[/QUOTE]
noooo don't make sarcastic fun out of me :(
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38505031].
I don't love her and I don't believe I ever will. And damn, does this sound kinda cruel, but I don't think she loves me either. I think we were both impulsive and started this just for the thrill.
[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38505031]
[B]in a 2 week "non relationship"[/B]
[/QUOTE]
You expect to know whether or not you love this girl or she loves you back "in a 2 week non-relationship", your still in the part where you are just getting to know eachother. Stop making such a big deal out of this Facebook thing, just do it or tell her she is being to overbearing and your not going to do it. Seeing as your "in a 2 week non-relationship" it shouldnt really make a difference one way or the other if she doesn't drop it because you can just end things because your "relationship" at this point should be non-commital
Okay guys, urgent help needed.
Used to be good friends with this girl, which turned into friends with benefits, but all we did was send each other some smexy texts and such. We shall call this girl derpina. Then, she proceeds to tell me she has herpes. Fast forward and she's dating my friend that I used to be close to, who we shall call derp.
Shit hits the fan here. My smart ass decided it would be a good idea to talk to his ex after we sort of faded away from each other, and I was once sorta friends with her. Now, I thought it would be a good idea to tell her over facebook (remember this,) that derp's new girlfriend with the herp has the herpes, and that she should quit talking to derp and messing around with him if she still is, all because she could get it and I don't want him getting it either. I should have confronted HIM about it first. Anyways...
Derps ex decides to confront him about it. He had the password to her account so he got on there without her knowing and saw the messages that I sent her. He tells derpina, and she explodes and blows up my phone with hate messages and stuff telling me that I'll pay and I'll regret this and all this stuff. So apparently derps ex tells her friends and I get a text from derpina saying today that word got around to her dad that I told derps ex that I had herpes and shit.
FUCK. I don't want to go to jail or anything. I don't want to have anything on my clean record. I don't want anything to do with this. I blocked all of them on facebook, every single one of them. I'm in panic mode, and this has REALLY been bothering me today. Facepunch, what do I do?
your avatar fits so well when you write 'FUCK'
What are you exactly going to go to jail for? Telling someone that this girl has herpes? Also sending people naughty texts isn't friends with benefits, just saying.
I send naughty nexus all the time man
I don't know, I'm not going to jail but I don't want there to be a chance that it will happen. I don't even know if I did anything illegal. I'm just scared honestly.
I like having two threads
I feel like if we were to restrict it to one thread the amount of people looking for advice would become so much that it would be very hard to pay attention to any specific problem
dividing it into two helps streamline it so attention can be paid to everyone's problems and not just ignored
[QUOTE=kman866;38506603]Okay guys, urgent help needed.
Used to be good friends with this girl, which turned into friends with benefits, but all we did was send each other some smexy texts and such. We shall call this girl derpina. Then, she proceeds to tell me she has herpes. Fast forward and she's dating my friend that I used to be close to, who we shall call derp.
Shit hits the fan here. My smart ass decided it would be a good idea to talk to his ex after we sort of faded away from each other, and I was once sorta friends with her. Now, I thought it would be a good idea to tell her over facebook (remember this,) that derp's new girlfriend with the herp has the herpes, and that she should quit talking to derp and messing around with him if she still is, all because she could get it and I don't want him getting it either. I should have confronted HIM about it first. Anyways...
Derps ex decides to confront him about it. He had the password to her account so he got on there without her knowing and saw the messages that I sent her. He tells derpina, and she explodes and blows up my phone with hate messages and stuff telling me that I'll pay and I'll regret this and all this stuff. So apparently derps ex tells her friends and I get a text from derpina saying today that word got around to her dad that I told derps ex that I had herpes and shit.
FUCK. I don't want to go to jail or anything. I don't want to have anything on my clean record. I don't want anything to do with this. I blocked all of them on facebook, every single one of them. I'm in panic mode, and this has REALLY been bothering me today. Facepunch, what do I do?[/QUOTE]
Well you didn't do anything illegal, on the other hand you did do something incredibly stupid.
You should have just told your friend, as he rather deserves to know anyway. No some random other person who might spread it around. Seriously what the hell were you even thinking?
[editline]18th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=killerteacup;38506698]I like having two threads
I feel like if we were to restrict it to one thread the amount of people looking for advice would become so much that it would be very hard to pay attention to any specific problem
dividing it into two helps streamline it so attention can be paid to everyone's problems and not just ignored[/QUOTE]
Thats pretty true, if more than 2 people post their problems at once people start getting ignored fast.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;38506723]Well you didn't do anything illegal, on the other hand you did do something incredibly stupid.
You should have just told your friend, as he rather deserves to know anyway. No some random other person who might spread it around. Seriously what the hell were you even thinking?
[/QUOTE]
I don't know. I really don't. Could I be charged for anything at all? I mean I did it for both of them- to mainly keep both of them from getting it. Apparently he did stuff with her already and I don't think she told him, which I think is a felony... And he got on her facebook without her knowing, which is kind of stupid and possibly illegal.
[QUOTE=kman866;38506775]I don't know. I really don't. Could I be charged for anything at all? I mean I did it for both of them- to mainly keep both of them from getting it. Apparently he did stuff with her already and I don't think she told him, which I think is a felony... And he got on her facebook without her knowing, which is kind of stupid and possibly illegal.[/QUOTE]
You specifically did nothing illegal to the extent of my knowledge. He may have in getting on her facebook, maybe, depending on how he did it. But that has nothing to do with you.
It is not illegal for her to have has sex with him without telling him, (assuming your in the USA?) There were some laws for that proposed but I dont think any passed. Not sure though.
Also you should know that although she may carry herpes it is perfectly possible she is on suppressant medication which means she most likely wont pass it on etc.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38506854]wow really is that not illegal in america? you are legally required to inform every sexual partner of permanent (viral) STDs
[editline]19th November 2012[/editline]
in belgium[/QUOTE]
Again, I'm not sure on that detail. I dont have a ton of knowledge about US policies on that stuff. I believe you are for HIV/AIDS but i'm not sure about herpes and such because they are non life threatening.
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;38505015]Just text this to two girls; one named Vanessa and one name Louise.
Hey Vanessa. I need to ask you something that has kept me sleepless and I want you to be totally honest with me. It might be awkward between us after this but I have to know how you feel. I have kept this in my mind for a while now but I think it's finally time I'll be straight up and just confront you.... I hope this doesn't ruin the relationship we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over this. It wouldn't be fair on me if I don't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh it is. I just want your honest opinion... Do you like coke or lemonade? [/QUOTE]
That's actually pretty brilliant. But holy shit guys, don't send that to someone you're trying to woo, I think the mental / emotional overload would sink your chances hahaha
Maybe I'm just paranoid. I dunno.
His ex has done some really shitty things though. She left a note on derpina's (look I can't think of a better name got dommit) saying he taught her everything he knows, which is pretty low. She also messaged her some nasty stuff before, so if anything, wouldn't SHE be in trouble?
Big wall of text; much appreciation to anyone who reads this and can give me feedback or their input.
I do not really know if this is the right place (between this and the other thread), but I'll just move it if it's wrong.
I'm 17. I met her in middle school. She was more mature than me but I kind of caught up, and that is partly what has allowed us to stay together for so long at such a young age.
Certainly this is not the end, and I know I am young. I know that there are plenty of other people out there. But it doesn't hurt any less.
My girlfriend of around 4.5 years broke up with me yesterday. The last 2 years ish were in a long distance relationship. She moved over 300 miles away. We got to see each other once every month or two months. We broke up once already in March. I scrambled back to her.
I fucked up around October, finding feelings for another girl and upsetting her greatly. I handled it really badly and I broke up with her, but once again, I regretted the decision the next day and slowly appealed to her again.
Recently everything has been a rush. I just saw her around two weeks ago. We went out for a bit, it was great. And then she had to go again.
She's had told me about another boy who she felt was attracted to her. She reassured me that she would maintain a friendly distance from him. I told her I trusted her judgement.
Tuesday, she told me she was in denial and told me that she had feelings for him. She wanted another break. This time without me arguing against it or trying to sway her. I obliged, but we still made small talk. She then just let me go, telling me that she wasn't going back to me. She said nothing has changed but she was not in love with me anymore. She said I was still amazing. I told her that the pain I was going to go through was worth it because she had changed me in so many ways for the better.
I am not going to fight back anymore.
I have all these objective thoughts in my head (she's not the only one perfect for me, I have college to change up things), friends to support me, but it doesn't hurt any less.
The pain comes up in waves. I am still dazed and my feelings are dull. I feel lethargic a lot. But every few hours, my emotions will resurface and I will remember all the great times I had with her and how I will not be able to enjoy them with her anymore and I just become an absolute mess.
Anyways I'm not too sure what to do. My thoughts are in a jumble. I long both for her and I long for the companionship that having a girlfriend entails. I grew up and matured with her, and I am not used to being single. This is my first taste of rejection.
Am I being short-sighted in wanting to be in a relationship again? At this point, my mind seems to be compromising - I might not be able to be with her, but I want to be with SOMEONE.
This is more towards the social advice thread but I'll put it here anyways:
As much as I want to be with someone, I don't really have experience asking girls out. I am fairly confident with myself, but I guess I am just spoiled. After all these years with her I did not really have to worry about any other girls, or if they were impressed or what they even thought. I do not know really what to do, or if I am even justified in looking for someone right now.
That sounds like a hell of a story, especially that you got together with 12/13. Such a serious relationship is really a big deal in that young age. Especially when you grew into all that, you have to get used to being single. It sounds harsh but there is not much that you can do, you should also try to be solo for some time. Rushing in something might hurt you even more in the end.
You are 17, you have time. Do not try to find a girl immediatly, it will only hurt. As I said, try to be alone for a while. The experience and all that will come with time. At 17 I was pretty much an idiot when it came to relationships. It got better over time as I met more people and girls, now I still make mistakes, but it gets better.
[QUOTE=VU;38507066]Big wall of text; much appreciation to anyone who reads this and can give me feedback or their input.
I do not really know if this is the right place (between this and the other thread), but I'll just move it if it's wrong.
I'm 17. I met her in middle school. She was more mature than me but I kind of caught up, and that is partly what has allowed us to stay together for so long at such a young age.
Certainly this is not the end, and I know I am young. I know that there are plenty of other people out there. But it doesn't hurt any less.
My girlfriend of around 4.5 years broke up with me yesterday. The last 2 years ish were in a long distance relationship. She moved over 300 miles away. We got to see each other once every month or two months. We broke up once already in March. I scrambled back to her.
I fucked up around October, finding feelings for another girl and upsetting her greatly. I handled it really badly and I broke up with her, but once again, I regretted the decision the next day and slowly appealed to her again.
Recently everything has been a rush. I just saw her around two weeks ago. We went out for a bit, it was great. And then she had to go again.
She's had told me about another boy who she felt was attracted to her. She reassured me that she would maintain a friendly distance from him. I told her I trusted her judgement.
Tuesday, she told me she was in denial and told me that she had feelings for him. She wanted another break. This time without me arguing against it or trying to sway her. I obliged, but we still made small talk. She then just let me go, telling me that she wasn't going back to me. She said nothing has changed but she was not in love with me anymore. She said I was still amazing. I told her that the pain I was going to go through was worth it because she had changed me in so many ways for the better.
I am not going to fight back anymore.
I have all these objective thoughts in my head (she's not the only one perfect for me, I have college to change up things), friends to support me, but it doesn't hurt any less.
The pain comes up in waves. I am still dazed and my feelings are dull. I feel lethargic a lot. But every few hours, my emotions will resurface and I will remember all the great times I had with her and how I will not be able to enjoy them with her anymore and I just become an absolute mess.
Anyways I'm not too sure what to do. My thoughts are in a jumble. I long both for her and I long for the companionship that having a girlfriend entails. I grew up and matured with her, and I am not used to being single. This is my first taste of rejection.
Am I being short-sighted in wanting to be in a relationship again? At this point, my mind seems to be compromising - I might not be able to be with her, but I want to be with SOMEONE.
This is more towards the social advice thread but I'll put it here anyways:
As much as I want to be with someone, I don't really have experience asking girls out. I am fairly confident with myself, but I guess I am just spoiled. After all these years with her I did not really have to worry about any other girls, or if they were impressed or what they even thought. I do not know really what to do, or if I am even justified in looking for someone right now.[/QUOTE]
Mate, don't get with someone - it's a feeling that passes quite quickly once you leave from a long distance relationship, you just want to fill up the gap with something, regardless of who or what it is. Take my word for it though, you'd only be trying to replace what you've lost and it'll never work.
Use the time to be alone. Take stock, make some new friends, spend some more time alone without having any obligations. You'll learn a lot about yourself by doing that. You don't need to be with someone to be happy, and getting with someone is only going to make you less happy min the long run in your situation. To be honest, you should really only start looking once you're 100% sure you're over it, and okay. Otherwise it's unfair to you, your ex, and the new girl who's been fooled into thinking you're not just trying to run away.
[QUOTE=VU;38507066]Big wall of text; much appreciation to anyone who reads this and can give me feedback or their input.
I do not really know if this is the right place (between this and the other thread), but I'll just move it if it's wrong.
I'm 17. I met her in middle school. She was more mature than me but I kind of caught up, and that is partly what has allowed us to stay together for so long at such a young age.
Certainly this is not the end, and I know I am young. I know that there are plenty of other people out there. But it doesn't hurt any less.
My girlfriend of around 4.5 years broke up with me yesterday. The last 2 years ish were in a long distance relationship. She moved over 300 miles away. We got to see each other once every month or two months. We broke up once already in March. I scrambled back to her.
I fucked up around October, finding feelings for another girl and upsetting her greatly. I handled it really badly and I broke up with her, but once again, I regretted the decision the next day and slowly appealed to her again.
Recently everything has been a rush. I just saw her around two weeks ago. We went out for a bit, it was great. And then she had to go again.
She's had told me about another boy who she felt was attracted to her. She reassured me that she would maintain a friendly distance from him. I told her I trusted her judgement.
Tuesday, she told me she was in denial and told me that she had feelings for him. She wanted another break. This time without me arguing against it or trying to sway her. I obliged, but we still made small talk. She then just let me go, telling me that she wasn't going back to me. She said nothing has changed but she was not in love with me anymore. She said I was still amazing. I told her that the pain I was going to go through was worth it because she had changed me in so many ways for the better.
I am not going to fight back anymore.
I have all these objective thoughts in my head (she's not the only one perfect for me, I have college to change up things), friends to support me, but it doesn't hurt any less.
The pain comes up in waves. I am still dazed and my feelings are dull. I feel lethargic a lot. But every few hours, my emotions will resurface and I will remember all the great times I had with her and how I will not be able to enjoy them with her anymore and I just become an absolute mess.
Anyways I'm not too sure what to do. My thoughts are in a jumble. I long both for her and I long for the companionship that having a girlfriend entails. I grew up and matured with her, and I am not used to being single. This is my first taste of rejection.
Am I being short-sighted in wanting to be in a relationship again? At this point, my mind seems to be compromising - I might not be able to be with her, but I want to be with SOMEONE.
This is more towards the social advice thread but I'll put it here anyways:
As much as I want to be with someone, I don't really have experience asking girls out. I am fairly confident with myself, but I guess I am just spoiled. After all these years with her I did not really have to worry about any other girls, or if they were impressed or what they even thought. I do not know really what to do, or if I am even justified in looking for someone right now.[/QUOTE]
You're not being shortsighted. You're just experience the first hand pain that most teenagers go through after they say goodbye to their great love.
They say it's about 17 and 18 years old when you meet your big love, in your case it was earlier so its not far from the truth, and you, my friend, were able to be in a relationship for 4.5 years through yoru teenage years.
Now that's amazing! and yeah, you really marked her, she won't forget 4.5 years that easy. Even if she's with another guy - a thought to unbearable to even imagine, I know, I too went through it - it will never be the same as the relationship she had with you.
Not to get your hopes up but, there's a great chance she'll be with this new guy for a short time and she will probably look for you again. She will miss you.
I once had a love like that and it was terrible to handle the break up.
Man, I know that you're going through hell right now. Nights without sleep, emptiness, food tastes like nothing, you probably feel like doing some crazy shit like running to wherever she is and tell her you love her.
Right now, the only advice I can give it is to try to get a hold on yourself.
She won't contact you so soon so don't even stare at your cell phone, your messenger, or whatever you guys used for communicating. In fact, as much as you want to call or text her, get that idea off of your head while you're still a wreck. Anything you would do if you text her, is to terrorize her with a gigantic wall of text and make things worse.
1st - Take some time to yourself. Cry and scream all you need to and let it all out.
2nd - You need to get back on the road and don't let yourself go.
It's time for you to get used to the single life, either you like it or not. It takes courage, to leave it all behind and move on but it's a really ballsy move you have to pull out on your own. In the end after you get over her, you'll learn about yourself, you'll change and you'll grow up inside. You'll start seeing that there's life beyond a relationship and you can handle it on your own.
You're young, just 4 years younger than me, and I met my great teenage love exactly at your age, but be sure that others will come in their time.
Just take it easy. Now it's the time to take care of yourself, go out there, have fun, enjoy some quality time with your friends without constantly talking about your ex (unless you really need to vent). And go try to have fun. Get a hobby too or a sport.
It will be tough at first but with time, keeping active will help you feel better and will make it way easier to deal with what you're going through.
Good luck, man. It's not the end of the world! :yarr:
[QUOTE=NotMeh;38502239]Hey guys, I've never been to this thread before but here goes:
So there's this girl who I've been really into for a few months now, she's very shy and I don't think she's ever had a boyfriend (we're both in HS). I started talking to her a little while ago and it appeared to me that [U]she's started losing interest in me[/U] (first sign, uh oh!), which became more apparent when[U][B] I found out she was talking about me behind her back about how she wants to stop talking to me[/B][/U] (this makes it clear to me she's a bitch and that she's trying to make a bad reputation of you for some reason, which is shown to be the case later on in this post).
So a month or so ago we stopped talking and I guess I just kind of started ignoring her in general, thinking I'll just move on and find someone else. Now she's for some reason trying[U] her hardest to get my attention back.[/U] (she isn't. she's just doing her best to make you uncomfortable / being a bitch to you, because she honestly has nothing better to do with her time)
[B][U][I]eg. Fakely laughing as I pass by, talking louder when I'm around, staring at me etc...[/I][/U][/B] (fake laughing is directed [I]at[/I] you, mockery. The talking louder thing, I dunno about that. Staring at you? Again, it's most likely a bitch-stare-of-death she's using to make you uncomfortable)
It's becoming very hard to ignore her and I obviously still like her so I don't know [U]what she wants[/U] (she doesn't want anything from you, she's just being an asshole because it probably makes her feel like a big-shot popular girl) and what I'm supposed to do now.
Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]
Hey buddy, sorry for this late reply, but this post made me feel for you real bad, so I had to help. I've underlined key points in your post which - at least to me - indicate she isn't interested in you and that she is an utter bitch. I've replied in the quote to make it easier for you. She's a bitch, stay away from her.
[editline]19th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;38502595]yeah but none of this bullshit means anything[/QUOTE]
It means everything, man. She's going out of her way to be a bitch. I've seen girls do it loads of times in highschool, and they'd be doing the same shit: spreading rumours and talking about a person they don't like behind their back. Basically shitty highschool drama that ends with some poor sap being the butt of a tonne of abuse for no particular reason.
[QUOTE=NotMeh;38502239]Hey guys, I've never been to this thread before but here goes:
So there's this girl who I've been really into for a few months now, she's very shy and I don't think she's ever had a boyfriend (we're both in HS). I started talking to her a little while ago and it appeared to me that she's started losing interest in me, which became more apparent when I found out she was talking about me behind her back about how she wants to stop talking to me (something like that anyway).
So a month or so ago we stopped talking and I guess I just kind of started ignoring her in general, thinking I'll just move on and find someone else. Now she's for some reason trying her hardest to get my attention back.
eg. Fakely laughing as I pass by, talking louder when I'm around, staring at me etc...
It's becoming very hard to ignore her and I obviously still like her so I don't know what she wants and what I'm supposed to do now.
Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]
She either A). is awkward and trying to make herself feel cool by being a bitch to you when she doesn't know how to express herself or B). (way less likely) she's awkward and likes you but doesn't know how to show it.
To find out which, just talk to her.
The day I find a girl with the same musical taste is the day I will fall in love.
[QUOTE=NowhereMan;38508736]The day I find a girl with the same musical taste is the day I will fall in love.[/QUOTE]
What's your musical taste?
if it's the beatles it won't be hard to find
[QUOTE=NowhereMan;38508736]The day I find a girl with the same musical taste is the day I will fall in love.[/QUOTE]
and then you'll probably find out that, in spite of enjoying the same music, you have little else in common and have extremely different views on life/plans for the future.
[editline]19th November 2012[/editline]
furthermore even if a girl doesn't already listen to the same music as you it doesn't mean she won't enjoy it or at least appreciate why you like it if you show her it
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