[QUOTE=orcywoo6;38531925]Play it off that you must see them first to see if they are worthy of a piercing. :v:[/QUOTE]
I'm planing to. :zoid:
So me and my other half talked it out and got through our little rough patch.
It was tough and neither wanted to say anything that might cause upset so we just both agreed to say it how it is, obviously the initial impact once we both said our part was a pretty big one and we sat with a couple of hours of silence, neither wanting to really say anything. I must admit I teared up a little, she did too.
Basically she felt I didn't trust her, she hated the fact that I seemed worried/untrusting about the relationship for example I told her that I hope she never goes away once and she doesn't like the fact that I say heartfelt things to her and worry/care so much which apparently gets to her and makes her think I don't trust her or have faith in our relationship, so I made sure to tell her more or less everything, past events and why I do what I do.
She just wants me to believe that we are going to stay together, that's the bottom line. She just wanted me to stop trying so hard.
After we had both recollected ourselves and stuff, out of nowhere she calls me and sends me a song that I'm sure is going to be one that will be meaningful to both of us now. We are now both smiling, laughing and back to how we were before.
Times can be tough, but never give up. I'm so glad I managed to hold myself back from making several mistakes I would have regretted today. I fucking love this girl.
[video=youtube;x8311YhEEbU]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8311YhEEbU&feature=plcp[/video]
[QUOTE=orcywoo6;38532089]So me and my other half talked it out and got through our little rough patch...[/QUOTE]
I'm glad for you man.
[img]http://i.imgur.com/ZTjHl.png[/img]
What the christ? :v:
Found it in the LMAO thread.
When did that happen
yeah just post it everywhere why don't you!!!!
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38532058]I'm planing to. :zoid:[/QUOTE]
Ask for before and after pics so you can give your judgement.
[QUOTE=thisispain;38533666]yeah just post it everywhere why don't you!!!![/QUOTE]
:v: I just don't get it.
some guy was just pissed off at me and decided to make a image about it
i just can't believe that stephen hawking would say that though ;__;
I can delete it, if you want. I was just surprised by this. I am sorry.
[QUOTE=thisispain;38533823]some guy was just pissed off at me and decided to make a image about it
i just can't believe that stephen hawking would say that though ;__;[/QUOTE]
Sounds like a typical day
[quote]you are such a faggot please stop posting and kill yourself[/quote]
what i get in the pm box every day
[QUOTE=thisispain;38533965]what i get in the pm box every day[/QUOTE]
nice
Man, I'm feeling uneasy.
Really uneasy.
Anxious too.
Yesterday she asked me, "jw, are you over me yet"
I replied with a "nope" and she just said "kk".
We bid each other good night and we haven't spoken since. I don't know what to interpret or if I should even interpret it. I don't know what I am anxious about. Maybe it is a little bit of the fact that she has not spoken to me yet today. I know I am not supposed to wait for her or try to care but it's really hard.
Honestly "Are you over me yet" is the most stupid question that one could ask. I do not see the point in that at all, she sounds like a bitch asking that, no offense though.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38534075]what a cunt; it sounds like she's asking that to stroke her own ego tbh[/QUOTE]
Nicely said, sounds like a selfish cunt.
That's what is weird, she isn't the type to person who would try to hurt me nor does she have much of a superiority complex going on. She was really sweet - and I'm not trying to sugarcoat it or see through rose-tinted glasses.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38534009]do you want me to stop sending those[/QUOTE]
...
no please don't stop
[QUOTE=VU;38534091]That's what is weird, she isn't the type to person who would try to hurt me nor does she have much of a superiority complex going on. She was really sweet - and I'm not trying to sugarcoat it or see through rose-tinted glasses.[/QUOTE]
We do not know the whole story but that sentence sounds like something that my ex-girlfriend would say after we broke up, she used to do stuff like this all the time to make me jealous or anger me.
Mmm, I don't want to use strong words but she has never been the one to try and anger me.
Right after we broke up she said we're still bros, you're fucking amazing, etc. There is nothing really there to spite her.
"We're still bros" and "You're amazing" never work out, they only exist to comfort eachother and make it less awkward.
[sp]"You're amazing" sounds like total bullshit[/sp]
I will take these comments to heart. Really, I do. I don't want to sound like one of those guys that seem to be in denial, but out of any drop of objectivity I can muster, there is no reason nor any hint in our relationship that she would be trying to hurt or spite me with that question.
She was so sweet and she still is nice to me all the time. I would have bailed a long time ago if she pulled such childish tricks on me. But she did not, and I have trouble believing that she is doing so right now.
With that in context, what would you think of it?
Well, perhaps she is quite confused and overwhelmed with the whole situation that both of you are currently going through.
sounds like she just didn't realize that was a bad thing to ask about
Mm a lot of different perspectives, thanks. I was kind of overwhelmed by all the sudden hate she got (even though I know you guys have best intentions) because I never felt or even had to deal with such negativity towards her.
One thing is true - I don't think it's possible for me to ever villainify her, because I know she's just not that kind of person. Regardless, my interpretation was that she /might/ be having second thoughts. I'm very tentative though, and I know not to get my hopes up. But you know how it is, that naive optimism just finds its ways through the cracks no matter how hard you try to cover it up.
Perhaps your glasses are bigger than you think. I never experienced a somewhat serious relationship without any negative aspects. By the way how old are you and how long has your relationship going with her?
Certainly my relationship was not perfect but ultimately she was temperate and kind.
Ah, I'll just quote myself from a few pages back.
[QUOTE=VU;38507066]Big wall of text; much appreciation to anyone who reads this and can give me feedback or their input.
I do not really know if this is the right place (between this and the other thread), but I'll just move it if it's wrong.
I'm 17. I met her in middle school. She was more mature than me but I kind of caught up, and that is partly what has allowed us to stay together for so long at such a young age.
Certainly this is not the end, and I know I am young. I know that there are plenty of other people out there. But it doesn't hurt any less.
My girlfriend of around 4.5 years broke up with me yesterday. The last 2 years ish were in a long distance relationship. She moved over 300 miles away. We got to see each other once every month or two months. We broke up once already in March. I scrambled back to her.
I fucked up around October, finding feelings for another girl and upsetting her greatly. I handled it really badly and I broke up with her, but once again, I regretted the decision the next day and slowly appealed to her again.
Recently everything has been a rush. I just saw her around two weeks ago. We went out for a bit, it was great. And then she had to go again.
She's had told me about another boy who she felt was attracted to her. She reassured me that she would maintain a friendly distance from him. I told her I trusted her judgement.
Tuesday, she told me she was in denial and told me that she had feelings for him. She wanted another break. This time without me arguing against it or trying to sway her. I obliged, but we still made small talk. She then just let me go, telling me that she wasn't going back to me. She said nothing has changed but she was not in love with me anymore. She said I was still amazing. I told her that the pain I was going to go through was worth it because she had changed me in so many ways for the better.
I am not going to fight back anymore.
I have all these objective thoughts in my head (she's not the only one perfect for me, I have college to change up things), friends to support me, but it doesn't hurt any less.
The pain comes up in waves. I am still dazed and my feelings are dull. I feel lethargic a lot. But every few hours, my emotions will resurface and I will remember all the great times I had with her and how I will not be able to enjoy them with her anymore and I just become an absolute mess.
Anyways I'm not too sure what to do. My thoughts are in a jumble. I long both for her and I long for the companionship that having a girlfriend entails. I grew up and matured with her, and I am not used to being single. This is my first taste of rejection.
Am I being short-sighted in wanting to be in a relationship again? At this point, my mind seems to be compromising - I might not be able to be with her, but I want to be with SOMEONE.
This is more towards the social advice thread but I'll put it here anyways:
As much as I want to be with someone, I don't really have experience asking girls out. I am fairly confident with myself, but I guess I am just spoiled. After all these years with her I did not really have to worry about any other girls, or if they were impressed or what they even thought. I do not know really what to do, or if I am even justified in looking for someone right now.[/QUOTE]
Oh, I even replied to you :v:
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38531594]A girl I know just texted me out of the blue saying she's going to pierce her nipples. :v:[/QUOTE]
tell her thats gross and she shouldnt do it
[editline]21st November 2012[/editline]
like why would you do that it just makes me think of someone piercing my nipples i'd be so distracted by that
My girlfriend has 2 in her lips, 2 in each ear and soon one in the nose :v:
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