[QUOTE=_Maverick_;38574121]girlfriend just said PC games suck and nobody plays them anymore
[B]WHILE PLAYING BLACK OPS 2 ON PS3[/B]
how should i kill her?[/QUOTE]
I feel for you...
Guys, I knocked work last night in the end. I'm glad I did, we had a lovely evening. I cooked dinner with some dessert, then we had a bath and some joints and watched a movie.
Nice to be left alone for a bit. Bonus of having no one else here is being able to walk around nude or at the most just a pair of pants.
Also before my lass got up, I whipped round and got the house spotless cause I'm a boss housewife
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38574783]once my gf had a dream i cheated on her and she was mad all day
hormones~~[/QUOTE]
Yeah, my ex had that like twice.
She also has some really cool trippy dreams. I can never remember my dreams unfortunately.
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;38574288]loopooo i havent[/QUOTE]
Then I offer you my sincere apologies, and one (1) coupon to call me a "Douche", at whichever time you may find convenient.
Sorry buddy. Didn't realize. I guess I was just thinking of someone else.
[editline]24th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Doozle;38574815]Guys, I knocked work last night in the end. I'm glad I did, we had a lovely evening. I cooked dinner with some dessert, then we had a bath and some joints and watched a movie.
Nice to be left alone for a bit. Bonus of having no one else here is being able to walk around nude or at the most just a pair of pants.
Also before my lass got up, I whipped round and got the house spotless cause I'm a boss housewife[/QUOTE]
You're a legend, and I'm glad you had a great evening.
PS: having a bath with my partner is like one of the biggest things on my to-do list, along with pooping with the door open and growing a beard that would make Vikings quiver in fear and adoration.
[QUOTE=loopoo;38575461]Then I offer you my sincere apologies, and one (1) coupon to call me a "Douche", at whichever time you may find convenient.
Sorry buddy. Didn't realize. I guess I was just thinking of someone else.
[/QUOTE]
Its fine, your apology is enough! Don't even know why i asked anyway, its a party and everyone is drinking therefore it doesn't matter haha.
[QUOTE=Jebus;38573134]Same girl I posted about yesterday guyz
tl;dr I'm not psychic and that's grounds for being immediately and unreasonably pissed off at me, when I suggest this and say "I'll come, I didn't realise it was that serious" it's not good enough and it's Allll myyyy faaaault!
So now I'm here pissed off and worried even though I didn't do anything wrong and I'm such a gosh-darn asshole.
Fuck it guys, what am I supposed to do here
[/QUOTE]
This girl keeps on coming across as a bitch. I hope to Jebus (heh, see what I did there, I'm just [I]that[/I] hilarious) you didn't go in the end. Fuuuuuuuck her. "We're not exclusive, I'm going to ditch you as soon as I get with this guy, I'll bitch at you all the time and just be a royal pain in the ass". You're not exclusive, she said it herself, who does she think she is, you're not at her beck and call.
You told her you had obligations, it was her fuck-up, not yours. Obviously, if you two were in a serious relationship, then of course you could have adjusted your plans for that (which you offered to do now, which is a big no-no). But the fact of the matter is, you aren't. She's keeping you on a leash, don't let her do that. She wants it to be non-exclusive, let it be non-exclusive. I'd keep rambling on, but I'm going to stop here. I hope you did the right thing and let her mull over some things, maybe it would have done her some good.
Only time I'd ever change plans I'd already made, especially if it was to go get on a train and wait a few hours, would either be for: 1) one of my really close, best mates who I knew would do the same for me or 2) my other half.
[QUOTE=Jebus;38573134]Same girl I posted about yesterday guyz
She went to the city over an hour away to have fun and stuff...[/QUOTE]
This girl is coming off as a huge diva, and she's trying to make you bend to her will. I woudn't, but that's just my opinion.
Yeah, I didn't go to her. I made it clear that she fucked up, not me. If we were in a relationship obviously I would have done what I could to get there, but her being like this to me really makes me hesitate going out of my way to do things for her. I only offered to change my plans once I realised just how concerned she was for her own safety, which I honestly was too - but by then she'd already started bitching at me so I really lost all motivation to do so.
It's so frustrating though. I'm still in love with her, but she's changed so much since our breakup and now she's doing all this kind of shit. I guess I'm just holding onto hope that she'll go back to how she used to be... and that's what's keeping me from just cutting the cord completely. I don't want to miss that chance because it was seriously great how it used to be. Meh.
[editline]24th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=OogalaBoogal;38575600]This girl is coming off as a huge diva, and she's trying to make you bend to her will. I woudn't, but that's just my opinion.[/QUOTE]
Well I was for a while, but I've developed my spine a bit and I don't think she likes that. She complains that I don't go out of my way to do things for her like I used to, I just don't know how to make her realise that breaking up with me and being like this doesn't exactly make me want to.
I've never had sex, I've never had a girlfriend, but I do shit. That's all I have to say.
I don't know, I'm gonna vent for a bit. Is that okay? I hope so.
I've been pining after this girl for what seems like ages. She's... pretty much what I'd describe as perfect. Everything about her. She's great to be around, shares most of my interests, and just happens to be drop-dead fucking gorgeous.
But... like I've said before, we seem to only be friends. And there's times I get the impression there could be something more but, that's probably just me seeing what I want to see.
I've known her for about 3 years now, and sort of been stuck in a rut. We've been out a few times to movies and stuff like that, but, you know, I don't think she saw it as anything but friendly outings
I don't want to give up on her, I mean, she's... like I said. Fucking perfect. But at the same time there's a niggling thought in my head that I'm only depressing myself and I need to move on here.
She's never had a boyfriend, interestingly enough, and she doesn't actually seem that interested in dating :v So I don't know
I just don't know anymore.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38576086]how old are you again because i doubt it's 67[/QUOTE]
I'm 17, mate.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38576191]alright alright don't get your knickers in a twist
[editline]24th November 2012[/editline]
also see other thread[/QUOTE]
I like to post in both because a.) impatience and b.) differing opinions
I don't know if there's different crowds in each thread but I like multiple opinions
oh and I'm not offended at all, btw. I understand! I feel silly about this whole thing. There's a 3rd part of me that's like "You're 17. There's gonna be way more girls in your life. Get over this one :v"
To be honest, at 17, I was the exact same as you. Found a girl I liked and thought she was the only one for me. I guess it's just a part of being young. Reality is gonna smack your bottom though and wake you up with life's equivalent of a cold shower.
[QUOTE=loopoo;38576416]To be honest, at 17, I was the exact same as you. Found a girl I liked and thought she was the only one for me. I guess it's just a part of being young. Reality is gonna smack your bottom though and wake you up with life's equivalent of a cold shower.[/QUOTE]
yeah don't I know it.... I know. Being young sucks, sort of. Fuckin' hormones and shit.
[QUOTE=Doozle;38574815]Guys, I knocked work last night in the end. I'm glad I did, we had a lovely evening. I cooked dinner with some dessert, then we had a bath and some joints and watched a movie.
Nice to be left alone for a bit. Bonus of having no one else here is being able to walk around nude or at the most just a pair of pants.
Also before my lass got up, I whipped round and got the house spotless cause I'm a boss housewife[/QUOTE]
I probably would have dropped work as well, with an opportunity like that. Glad to hear it paid off well!
[QUOTE=loopoo;38575461]
You're a legend, and I'm glad you had a great evening.
PS: having a bath with my partner is like one of the biggest things on my to-do list, along with pooping with the door open and growing a beard that would make Vikings quiver in fear and adoration.[/QUOTE]
Baths with your partner are all well and good, as long as there's room for you both in the tub. Sounds silly, but make sure. Nobody wants the tap end of the bath.
man i dodged a bullet with this girl
was friends with her at first but then we went to a party and almost made out and she drunkenly told me she liked me. didnt take it any further because we were both fucking hammered and i knew i was going to regret doing anything. we make out a few times over the next couple of days but then she says that she "really likes me but not in that way, we should just say friends" and hey, okay. not a big deal.
Then we have sex like two days later and i spend the night at her place. and then she says the same thing (really like you but we should stay friends) and that she has a problem with having sex with anyone when the opportunity arises and she went on about her life story (that's actually fairly similar to mine) except she hasn't gotten over it. at all. but we should stay friends because i really like you~
jesus chriiiiiist
[QUOTE=Jebus;38575640]
It's so frustrating though. I'm still in love with her, but she's changed so much since our breakup and now she's doing all this kind of shit. I guess I'm just holding onto hope that she'll go back to how she used to be... and that's what's keeping me from just cutting the cord completely. I don't want to miss that chance because it was seriously great how it used to be. Meh.
[editline]24th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE][/QUOTE]
Well I was for a while, but I've developed my spine a bit and I don't think she likes that. She complains that I don't go out of my way to do things for her like I used to, I just don't know how to make her realise that breaking up with me and being like this doesn't exactly make me want to.[/QUOTE]
You should tell her just that, and explain also that your "non exclusive relationship" isnt even a relationship because she just wants you to do shit for her and nothing back. Tell her she is being a bitch and tell her it is over.
And i dont mean sugar coat it and be nice either, she needs a wake up call.
Also dont accept her saying she is sorry or shit if she goes to that, she wont take it from you, you dont take it from her.
It's just that I have great down here right now with everything. The school is fun and it's actively challenging me, I get to cook my own food and I meet awesome people almost every day. Sweden is attractive right now, but I have no idea what I feel to get back to the 'safe' life I had before! If I get back, it feels like I will miss out on so much shit, I won't go out as much as I do now because I hardly know anyone at home anymore! Only in a few months, I've gotten to know extremely nice people, shit.
If we go just three months back, I was the typical A+ computer nerd who did not go out often and he thought he understood life, but just when he arrived in this distant land, life pulls the rug out from under me and yells "YOU KNOW NOTHING!". My family is kind of pressuring me to come home, because obviously they don't want me half around the world and I love them dearly and with all my heart. But I can't help to feel that this is my life and I like this place more than anything right now.
I'm such an emotional wreck now, shit, sorry
[QUOTE=Jebus;38575640]Well I was for a while, but I've developed my spine a bit and I don't think she likes that. She complains that I don't go out of my way to do things for her like I used to, I just don't know how to make her realise that breaking up with me and being like this doesn't exactly make me want to.[/QUOTE]
I was in a relationship that ended just over a year ago, and she was a super diva (theater girls are cray btw). I found at the very end I was bending to absolutely everything, and it sucked. I promised myself that I'd never bend like that ever again.
She's an attention seeker, and you're just filling her need. Let her freak out by herself next time, people like that eventually end up running themselves into the ground, and then they realize where it all went wrong.
[editline]24th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Haxxer;38577537]It's just that I have great down here right now with everything. The school is fun and it's actively challenging me, I get to cook my own food and I meet awesome people almost every day. Sweden is attractive right now, but I have no idea what I feel to get back to the 'safe' life I had before! If I get back, it feels like I will miss out on so much shit, I won't go out as much as I do now because I hardly know anyone at home anymore! Only in a few months, I've gotten to know extremely nice people, shit.
If we go just three months back, I was the typical A+ computer nerd who did not go out often and he thought he understood life, but just when he arrived in this distant land, life pulls the rug out from under me and yells "YOU KNOW NOTHING!". My family is kind of pressuring me to come home, because obviously they don't want me half around the world and I love them dearly and with all my heart. But I can't help to feel that this is my life and I like this place more than anything right now.
I'm such an emotional wreck now, shit, sorry[/QUOTE]
You're living the life! Maybe you should visit your family at some point, or they should visit you, and you can talk about your feelings.
[QUOTE=OogalaBoogal;38577621]You're living the life! Maybe you should visit your family at some point, or they should visit you, and you can talk about your feelings.[/QUOTE]
When there's 40 hour flight with a cost of 1200 dollars between you, this isn't something you can just do that easily. Mom's unemployed and step dad is not the spending type nor likes me.
Jeez, I really need the cuddles right now.
where the fuck are you travelling to and from for your flight to take 40 hours
[QUOTE=Haxxer;38577683]
Jeez, I really need the cuddles right now.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;38578026]where the fuck are you travelling to and from for your flight to take 40 hours[/QUOTE]
Sweden to NZ I think.
Lots of lay overs I bet
[QUOTE=Haxxer;38577683]When there's 40 hour flight with a cost of 1200 dollars between you, this isn't something you can just do that easily. Mom's unemployed and step dad is not the spending type nor likes me.
Jeez, I really need the cuddles right now.[/QUOTE]
Aww. All I can say is save up. Your life seems 110% more wholesome now that you live in Sweden though. The same thing happened to me while going to University.
[QUOTE=OogalaBoogal;38578194]Aww. All I can say is save up. Your life seems 110% more wholesome now that you live in Sweden though. The same thing happened to me while going to University.[/QUOTE]
Reverse, I lived in Sweden and went to NZ to study.
I have acquired 1 unit of Girlfriend
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;38579641]I have acquired 1 unit of Girlfriend[/QUOTE]
Wanna exchange her? I've got an old pair of socks and some day-old lasagna. It's real tasty.
On another note, me and my dad didn't go fishing. We decided to go eat instead :v: Fishing tomorrow!
[QUOTE=Haxxer;38578751]Reverse, I lived in Sweden and went to NZ to study.[/QUOTE]
Whoops. Sorry!
[sp] It's the Canadian thing to do![/sp]
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