My girlfriend is bisexual too I think (though leaning more to the hetero side), and the fact that she chose me of all the possible variants makes me feel amazing.
See how amazing you feel when she leaves you for a chick ;D
[QUOTE=Jebus;38586610]See how amazing you feel when she leaves you for a chick ;D[/QUOTE]
Dude I used to date started dating a guy recently. I was amuse.
what?
i would honestly feel less bad if a girl left me for another woman
i don't know there's just not that inherent competitiveness with another woman that you get between men. it's such a different dynamic i imagine a woman being with another woman that it's like
oh. alright. fair enough i guess.
Yeah, I would be more like "Hey, can I watch" other than just mad.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38586626]Yeah, I would be more like "Hey, can I watch" other than just mad.[/QUOTE]
What if being with you was the thing that caused it?
I keep having to throw up
I hope I'm just legit sick cause otherwise that makes me a massive pussy :v:
I always thought it would be more emasculating but now that I think about it, I guess I see where you're coming from.
[QUOTE=JohanGS;38586640]What if being with you was the thing that caused it?[/QUOTE]
yeah!!! because you can turn gay!!! that is a very likely scenario!!!
[QUOTE=JohanGS;38586640]What if being with you was the thing that caused it?[/QUOTE]
Let's not go there. :v:
[QUOTE=Rusty100;38586649]yeah!!! because you can turn gay!!! that is a very likely scenario!!![/QUOTE]
what if you've told yourself your entire life that you are straight? what if you told yourself that nothing else was acceptable? then you found yourself a partner and everything was a fucking dream except having sex with this person was so disgusting that you couldn't look at another body of the other sex again. on top of that, you despise yourself for being what you'd hate to become.
i dunno lol
[QUOTE=Moustacheman;38586047]I just found out my girlfriend is Bisexual.
Should I exploit this?[/QUOTE]
my girlfriend is like 90% homosexual. at least, in physical attraction.
So I haven't spoke to my girlfriend properly in 4 days now thanks to what I'm assuming is hormones fucking her mind up. She hasn't been right all week.
Been trying my best not to let it get to me but I flipped the hell out a couple of days ago and she kinda realised what she was doing, another two days of silence until today...
When she out of the blue messages me on skype "Jack?"
I got no reply by replying though so I have no idea what she was trying to do there...
Why message me just to ignore me and not answer when I call?
Also her best friend did the same thing to me yesterday and then replied today as though whatever she needed was sorted now.
The hell is going on, this past week has been fucking destroying me, my mum said to me how ill I look today...fuck. :(
Maybe there was a problem with skype or so.
Best to call her then. Say you don't want to be mad at her anymore.
Also "hormones fucking her mind up" is the worst assumption ever to do.
Her best friend started talking to me and she basically told me everything that is going on and not to be worried because she knows what is happening and its not my fault at all.
Fixing at this very moment.
I'm so fucking relieved.
tl;dr
[QUOTE]"shes confused jack
and shes a girl
and we over analize stuff
she feels like you already have her....so that now its like your trying to hard to get something you already have cuz your soo afraid of losing it
and thats okay.
i just think she doesnt know how to talk to you about it without it making you upset or starting a fight between you
[sp]___[/sp] like me we hate fighting with people we love
and look shes had some past bad ones
who treated her like crap and never listened to her at all
so shes put up barriers to protect herself from those things hurting her again
your not losing her jack
look ive been with her through alot
and ive never seen her happier
than when i saw her with you
dont worry about losing her
you already have her
just by being you"[/QUOTE]
I've never seen someone put a bra back on as fast as I took it off, if only her dad didn't come home when he did...
Well, me and this girl are pretty much together now. Woo. It's weird, I only met this girl last Friday, and I can already tell she's perfect.
[QUOTE=Shark Cat;38592128]Well, me and this girl are pretty much together now. Woo. It's weird, I only met this girl last Friday, and I can already tell she's perfect.[/QUOTE]
Nobody is perfect, but I wish you the best of luck
[QUOTE=Zareox7;38592442]Nobody is perfect, but I wish you the best of luck[/QUOTE]
I didn't mean it literally, everyone has their flaws, I just meant she's cool. Anyway, thank you ^^
[QUOTE=JohanGS;38586640]What if being with you was the thing that caused it?[/QUOTE]
That happened to George Costanza in Seinfield!! :v:
[QUOTE=Shark Cat;38592128]Well, me and this girl are pretty much together now. Woo. It's weird, I only met this girl last Friday, and I can already tell she's perfect.[/QUOTE]
I can already tell your relationship is fucked because you are putting wayyy to high of expectations on this girl and you've only know her for >a week
soooo
advice for getting over people
I need that
the girl (aka the one I've been mentioning) is telling me I'm still a great guy, and she still wants to be friends, and she doesn't want to see me hurt because of her
BUT ON THE OTHER HAND
Can a friendship really work now
I mean, I'm gonna have a hardass time not loving her. That's gonna be a lot of work.
And no doubt it's gonna be awkward for her now that she knows about it :v:
ahh h
fmml
[QUOTE=Sardonus;38593325]soooo
advice for getting over people
I need that
the girl (aka the one I've been mentioning) is telling me I'm still a great guy, and she still wants to be friends, and she doesn't want to see me hurt because of her
BUT ON THE OTHER HAND
Can a friendship really work now
I mean, I'm gonna have a hardass time not loving her. That's gonna be a lot of work.
And no doubt it's gonna be awkward for her now that she knows about it :v:
ahh h
fmml[/QUOTE]
if you feel that you cant deal with it, then don't try to be around her.
So my girlfriend has to get a tooth out in january, then is getting braces on in february and we're like 20 so its a bit odd
Are braces such a bad thing because I really don't like braces
[QUOTE=killerteacup;38594451]So my girlfriend has to get a tooth out in january, then is getting braces on in february and we're like 20 so its a bit odd
Are braces such a bad thing because I really don't like braces[/QUOTE]
i've never had braces but they're annoying to wear i know that
plus i've heard that skin can stuck on them eek
It seems so weird to me that one would get braces at 20
And I'm sitting here going "ugh that's gonna be weird to kiss and weird to see in general" which is pretty shallow because I'm not the one getting them but I guess I'll get used to the idea in time
I wore braces, they're really not that bad. Cleaning your teeth is a massive bitch to do, literally ten minutes spent morning and night doing it (paranoia sets in if you don't, since Dentists will happily tell you if you don't brush well, when they come off there'll be big bits of decay on the front of your teeth). On top of that, whenever they get tightened within the first few months, it REALLY hurts. So be there for your girlfriend when her mouth is killing her.
Other than that, it's fine? You can still kiss. I kissed even though I had braces. They're not some monstrous contraption that you'll get your mouth caught in and your lips torn to shreds by.
[editline]26th November 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Sardonus;38593325]soooo
advice for getting over people
I need that
the girl (aka the one I've been mentioning) is telling me I'm still a great guy, and she still wants to be friends, and she doesn't want to see me hurt because of her
BUT ON THE OTHER HAND
Can a friendship really work now
I mean, I'm gonna have a hardass time not loving her. That's gonna be a lot of work.
And no doubt it's gonna be awkward for her now that she knows about it :v:
ahh h
fmml[/QUOTE]
Hey man, it sucks that things didn't work out. At least you don't have that niggling in your mind, at least now you know. As for getting over her? Fall for someone else. Get with them.
And yes, a friendship can really work, as LONG as she doesn't abuse the fact that she knows you like her (IE making you her errand boy etc. and knowing she'll get away with it). If you're wondering how you can be friends despite telling her your feelings? How'd you do it before? Just go back to how you acted before you told her. Granted, things may be different, but as long as you don't fall into the role of "heartbroken friend", everything will be fine.
Finding someone else to date would be extremely helpful, though, as it'd get rid of the heartache.
[QUOTE=Shark Cat;38592128]Well, me and this girl are pretty much together now. Woo. It's weird, I only met this girl last Friday, and I can already tell she's perfect.[/QUOTE] *whooo* OBSESSION
I guess it will be fine
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