[QUOTE=killerteacup;38594451]So my girlfriend has to get a tooth out in january, then is getting braces on in february and we're like 20 so its a bit odd
Are braces such a bad thing because I really don't like braces[/QUOTE]
Forget blowjobs.
I disagree, she can still give you blowjobs, but don't be a jerk and expect one when she's just gotten her braces tightened. Give her 4 or 5 days, depending on the severity of her pain. At the beginning of the treatment, it takes ages for the pain to go. But after a few months, pain only lasts a day or a few hours.
Same. I remember I ate a sandwich after I first got mine on, and the pain, oh god. It was like electricity running along my teeth. Felt so shit after that because I had to not eat a really delicious sandwich.
Bad times when I'd have to eat like a complete muppet, slowly closing my mouth then opening it again as soon as my teeth touch the food, until the food is soft enough to chew.
I think no blowjobs at all really. At least when I had them I wouldnt be able to properly cover my teeth or anything. It'll depend on her, don't pressure her into it I guess, just go with what she thinks cause it's different for different people.
Braces shredded the inside of my mouth, I actually have scars on the inside of my cheeks from it. Kissing shouldn't be a problem, arn't really any sharp or possibly painful bits near the front of the mouth. Things were living hell for me.
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What is she getting braces for anyway?
blowjobs really suck whenever they get their braces tightened because they move around and they don't know where the metal is anymore
Gee, this is reassuring guys. I remember the first thing that crossed my mind when she told me she was getting braces was "I wonder how this will affect my monthly blowjob quota". At least it's nice to know that once she gets over a bout of immense pain she'll be able to do it - I guess I'll just tell her to tough it up, sweetheart, because without blowjobs this relationship is nothing!!
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What is she getting braces for anyway?[/QUOTE]
Wisdom teeth are placed in such a way they're pushing her teeth out and getting them out has a high risk of severely damaging her nerve endings so one of her teeth became a snaggletooth and is getting removed to make way for the other teeth being pushed
well, its just that other than the intial pain and pain after tightening, thats the only thing it really affects at least from the perspective of being a partner to someone with braces. and can't eat some really sticky foods like taffy, i guess, but i doubt that has any bearing on your relationship either
also the girl i am dating now has braces and has scratched me at least once with her braces. i went from in the mood to [img]http://i.somethingawful.com/forumsystem/emoticons/emot-gonk.gif[/img] instantly.
So.. recently got broken up with, and the chick says she still likes me a lot, but she doesn't want to commit to a boyfriend. I'm thinking the reason behind it is she has a lot of over obsessed guy-friends ( aka they've asked her out at least 1-2 times, follow her around, don't get the hint, etc ) that honestly just started hating her guts the moment we started going out, or maybe that's just her excuse, but I dunno. The breakup was ~2 weeks ago, and after avoiding eachother for a bit we started flirting again Friday night.
Does anyone have any suggestions on what the hell to do? I'm wanting to try and get back together, but I'm not even sure if she still has a real interest in me..
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38595393]applying suction hurts so she can't do any sort of sucking so if you're into nipplesucking you can forget that too
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damn the world is unfair
however getting your lip bit feels even better
you have no idea what goes late at night in the chat
It is late at night here (3:20 AM).
I've seen some shit.
I stopped wearing my retainer after about a year, back when I was in high school and didn't think it'd matter - kinda wish I hadn't because now my teeth are slightly deviated which means it was a lot of wasted time and money. Oh well.
I lost my retainer when my Aunt put the cup I was washing it in in the washing machine. Alas, poor retainer.
So I was wondering if anyone had experience with a partner who has trouble with changing plans.
Like I will half organise something, forgetting something else, remember and then tell her but because I have already said yes, it upsets her.
And before you say don't say yes right away, she has a personality where you have to give answer right away as her family organise things like weeks in advance wher I come from a famliy where we do stuff last minute.
[QUOTE=killerteacup;38594776]It seems so weird to me that one would get braces at 20
And I'm sitting here going "ugh that's gonna be weird to kiss and weird to see in general" which is pretty shallow because I'm not the one getting them but I guess I'll get used to the idea in time[/QUOTE]
There was a middle aged math teacher in highschool that had braces my senior year. It was... very odd.
[QUOTE=JohanGS;38586741]what if you've told yourself your entire life that you are straight? what if you told yourself that nothing else was acceptable? then you found yourself a partner and everything was a fucking dream except having sex with this person was so disgusting that you couldn't look at another body of the other sex again. on top of that, you despise yourself for being what you'd hate to become.
i dunno lol[/QUOTE]
that doesnt turn you gay that means u were gay the whole time
Feels good to have a girlfriend again
Lass I love just sent me a text along the lines of "Are they from you?". I thought we were talking about something work related (long story) but she replied with "the roses?". Hmmm, looks like she's got a secret admirer...
No idea who it is. No note or anything included with them. Bugger hahaha, we're not even really together and I'm insanely jealous. It's always possible it's just a very concerned friend, but... roses. If it were me she'd have got a huge bunch of flowers in her favourite colour with chocolates and a nice note in my awful handwriting :)
Worst thing is, right before she asked me that I was at the florist discussing just that very thing - what to send her next. She's about to start a new job and I was hoping to surprise her again with something nice (I've sent her flowers before when she previously started a job). Will have to see how this pans out...
So I took her to the park today to talk and hang out, was a pretty nice day out today. We sat down in on a patch of grass in the middle of the park and about 15 minutes of talking about life and things, we start making out. For three hours straight. In the middle of the park. We even inspired couples all around us.
Wow.
[editline]26th November 2012[/editline]
Feels out of this world, but it's all so very real.
[B]Sorry for the wall of text, just had to spill my heart out somewhere..
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Guys, please tell me if this makes sense...
I moved to the UK at the start of October, to study at University. Being Lithuanian, we all meet up very fast and are quick to socialise between our self. Anyway, I met this girl which from the beginning was not perfect, mostly because she smokes once in a while (my rule #1 for girl - not smoking, but I made an exception).
Anyway, me, her and another Lithuanian friend kept meeting and doing stuff every day. For some reason I felt that I could really be open to her, she was the first person in my life that I could be 100% open and honest to, no idea why. And so I started getting attached to her, quickly enough I started having feelings for her and it seemed that she also had some feelings for me. I spent quite a few nights with her, had really good time with her in all senses. Sure, she smoked once in a while but I was thinking that she could stop smoking because she does it rarely, so I thought why not go on.
Anyway, a month passed, a month of so much new information, felt as if a year has passed... And suddenly she decided to stop everything, we spoke about for like 5 hours straight but I just didn't understand.. I kept socialising with her despite our talk for the next week until she basically rejected me completely..
After that I didn't speak with her for a week, I was angry and tried to understand what the hell I did wrong and really couldn't find anything.. 3 days ago me and 6 more friends including her went for a little trip to a nearby city, just to check out the surrounding cities. Every time I heard her voice or even looked at her I really felt bad because our relationship turned the worst possible path that I never wanted it to... She tried to talk to me during that trip, but I barely spoke to her, obviously she understood I'm angry..
Yesterday I broke the silence, spoke to her, tried to figure out what I did wrong and why the hell this relationship ended before it even properly started. So we spoke for like 4 hours, she told me how she understands why I am angry at her, because really, I was giving myself for this relationship, being completely honest and open, and she just ended it all with no apparent reason.
Now, as she said, the main reason why she ended it all was "we're too different", and even though she did actually had at least some kind of feelings for me ("I was starting to get attached to you, and I liked it") she decided to end it all..
I really don't understand this, if you have feelings for a person despite the difference, surely you would try to continue this relationship, see how it goes on? I mean I don't think it's possible to find a person that's perfect for you, there will always be disagreements in some spheres...
tl;dr
Read last paragraph
she doesnt want to date you dude. i feel your pain but its not like its the end of the world, there's more fish in the sea~ she probably doesnt want to get tied down by anyone, which is a pretty common desire
[QUOTE=Rusty100;38596703]that doesnt turn you gay that means u were gay the whole time[/QUOTE]
well, that's what i meant with it
not that you go from straight to gay, but you're like the incendive spark (if that makes sense, what expression can i use here?)
[QUOTE=JohanGS;38599725]well, that's what i meant with it
not that you go from straight to gay, but you're like the incendive spark (if that makes sense, what expression can i use here?)[/QUOTE]
Some cocks can't be unsucked bro
[QUOTE=Disseminate;38596408]I stopped wearing my retainer after about a year, back when I was in high school and didn't think it'd matter - kinda wish I hadn't because now my teeth are slightly deviated which means it was a lot of wasted time and money. Oh well.[/QUOTE]
Same thing with me.
I used a retainer for 2 years and a half and after like 4 months of taking it off, my teeth started deviating again to their previous position.
When I went to visit a dentist afterwards he told be I needed a retainer urgently. When I told him I had already had one he was shocked and told me that the person who put it on my teeth had no idea of what she was doing. (I always suspected that).
I just replied that I would never have those again in my teeth.
And really, why the hell do people have to feel insecure about their teeth. It's like they wanna force that on any kid who has a minor deviation.
Also, it's a very expensive thing to have in your teeth. I don't see what's the need of having them other than just when someone has terrible teeth deviations.
i had braces i think 4 or 5 years ago, hardly wore the retainer. teeth are a lot better than they used to be but still a bit uneven. don't care much though - the only thing that really bothers me is that i have an overbite, but my braces never did anything for that anyway.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38600242]i had braces i think 4 or 5 years ago, hardly wore the retainer. teeth are a lot better than they used to be but still a bit uneven. don't care much though - the only thing that really bothers me is that i have an overbite, but my braces never did anything for that anyway.[/QUOTE]
Well once you get your wisdom teeth out, the rest more or less stay put.
[QUOTE=Swearblocked;38592986]I can already tell your relationship is fucked because you are putting wayyy to high of expectations on this girl and you've only know her for >a week[/QUOTE]
Thanks for your input :smile:
I have no clue how I fucked up so badly. I got a car, I got a job (well, several different ones) that pays, I moved out of my parents house, went to public events and clubs/parties/stuff and tried fitting in with the crowd and after four years I have been met with NO success. I didn't even get past buying food/drink for a girl.
I really just... I can only seem to get really well along with girls that I know through other guys but that's a really dangerous approach.
[QUOTE=MIPS;38601284]I have no clue how I fucked up so badly. I got a car, I got a job (well, several different ones) that pays, I moved out of my parents house, went to public events and clubs/parties/stuff and tried fitting in with the crowd and after four years I have been met with NO success. I didn't even get past buying food/drink for a girl.
I really just... I can only seem to get really well along with girls that I know through other guys but that's a really dangerous approach.[/QUOTE]
This may be a little bit blunt but if you still look anything like you did in [url=http://facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1169691]this thread[/url], then that is probably the problem.
You don't look approachable or interesting.
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