[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38629327]Uhm, so you're coming up with rules such as "let's not go to fast" to make your relationship work.
Not a good idea.[/QUOTE]
Thanks, but the issue kinda resolved itself with a cuddle and a talk.
When asking girls out do you just dive straight into "Will you go out with me?" I have no idea what the social normal way is?
[QUOTE=Methylparaben;38630382]When asking girls out do you just dive straight into "Will you go out with me?" I have no idea what the social normal way is?[/QUOTE]
Phrase that differently more subtle if anything. Want to go the cinema friday evening watch xyz then get some dinner after?
If he / she has any brain cells they will know what this means if your not a clear regular friend.
[QUOTE=Methylparaben;38630382]When asking girls out do you just dive straight into "Will you go out with me?" I have no idea what the social normal way is?[/QUOTE]
The other part is that you should know them first too. Don't go around asking random girls.
There is a girl who I've known for awhile but never really talked to who likes me. She added me on FB and then started chatting with me, good conversation. Then again she started talking with me on FB the next day.
We are in FBLA (Future Business Leaders of America) together this year, so we do have some common ground. I was getting signs of interest and It was painfully obvious that she kind of liked me so i took the liberty of starting the conversation on FB. Each one seems to last about an hour, and starts right around 8pm every time. Then today she started the conversation again.
She asks lots of questions about me, and is very friendly. I find it kind of amusing because usually when i talk to girls i try and keep them talking about themselves, yet when she talks to me she is always asking things about me. I haven't decided what i think of her though...
[QUOTE=Remscar;38634428]There is a girl who I've known for awhile but never really talked to who likes me. She added me on FB and then started chatting with me, good conversation. Then again she started talking with me on FB the next day.
We are in FBLA (Future Business Leaders of America) together this year, so we do have some common ground. I was getting signs of interest and It was painfully obvious that she kind of liked me so i took the liberty of starting the conversation on FB. Each one seems to last about an hour, and starts right around 8pm every time. Then today she started the conversation again.
She asks lots of questions about me, and is very friendly. I find it kind of amusing because usually when i talk to girls i try and keep them talking about themselves, yet when she talks to me she is always asking things about me. I haven't decided what i think of her though...[/QUOTE]
She's interested in you! You can just play it cool or be forward and go on a date or something.
Ahead 2/3rds! set rendezvous course!
Back to reality, ask her out dude! Its pretty obvious there is some degree of interest here.
Better to ask out and take a chance, than wait and lose that chance!
[QUOTE=JohanGS;37897404]Keep looking at her. Imagining being with her is way better than actually failing to interact with her.
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This should be in the sticky
Next time we talk ima get her number, I usually ask and have them by now. Then I'll figure something out, I don't get my license till February
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38631823]yo wanna hang out
actually it only depends on the cojones you have, if you really want to you could probably ask a girl out for coffee or something without really knowing her; because guess what dates are for
getting to know people better[/QUOTE]
I would normally only plan on meeting with someone i knew already but just asking someone would probably be some good social training.
Is there a way to reduce your chances of getting friend zoned if you ask someone you know out?
[QUOTE=Methylparaben;38639584]Is there a way to reduce your chances of getting friend zoned if you ask someone you know out?[/QUOTE]
first step is to learn to accept rejection. asking people out becomes infinitely easier if you aren't afraid of the possibility they'll say no. check out the OP of the super friendly social and love advice thread - the sections on being alpha and the friend zone give a pretty good answer.
getting friendzoned for asking someone out?
Is that even possible?
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38641321]getting friendzoned for asking someone out?
Is that even possible?[/QUOTE]
Well it probably is if you ask them to hang out with you.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38641321]getting friendzoned for asking someone out?
Is that even possible?[/QUOTE]
Your choice of words matter, "go out with me" and "hang out with me" are two completely things
[QUOTE=Methylparaben;38639584]I would normally only plan on meeting with someone i knew already but just asking someone would probably be some good social training.
Is there a way to reduce your chances of getting friend zoned if you ask someone you know out?[/QUOTE]
You don't get friendzoned, you're either there from the start or not there from the start. By 'there' I mean she's not interested.
[QUOTE=Disseminate;38642250]You don't get friendzoned, you're either there from the start or not there from the start. By 'there' I mean she's not interested.[/QUOTE]
Ah yeah that's a very good point I didn't really think of it like that, cheers both of you!
the friend zone is a blanket term for people who aren't experienced enough/self-blinded too much to see disinterest when its obvious to everyone else
i hate to be brutal but that's how it is, every time, without fail. my sister recently decided to constantly badger some poor friend of hers to date her, and when he finally broke down and said yes, she asked him if he really meant it. he was pretty fed up at this point so he just said he said it to make her shut up about it, which has made her be in this incredibly insufferable rage towards this dude and her best friend (because they dated before or something i guess)
basically if you think your in a 'friend zone' DONT FUCKING PUSH IT
so i fucked a classmate from school, she claims to have a fiance.
no protection used but did pull out. disquiet about it - advice? comments?
its a boy
thanks
i'll name him jeoffrey
[QUOTE=Pernoccuous;38648281]i'll name him jeoffrey[/QUOTE]
[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/a1ZES.gif[/IMG]
Great name.
I fucking love Peter Dinklage. Did justice to the character Tyrion, and has done an amazing job portraying him straight from the books.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38648324]i never get tired of that gif[/QUOTE]
It is so satisfying.
I've asked this before, but what's the proper way to kiss a girl? I usually just go with it but I don't know how I should move my lips or when to stop, etc.
[QUOTE=deadshot;38651146]I've asked this before, but what's the proper way to kiss a girl? I usually just go with it but I don't know how I should move my lips or when to stop, etc.[/QUOTE]
There isn't a "proper" way, if you're unsure then let her take the lead and just follow along.
[QUOTE=Legend286;38651241]There isn't a "proper" way, if you're unsure then let her take the lead and just follow along.[/QUOTE]
mostly this, except i should probably add: please try not to drool when you kiss
if the girl has to wipe her mouth you're probably doing it wrong
What they said. (I have a girlfriend, so yes, I am qualified to endorse this advice.)
Me and my ex crossed paths on my way out of the train.
Awkward conversation was awkward.
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