You are a blunt person who tries so hard to look confident and tough. Nobody likes such people, sometimes being harsh is a good method of pointing out a flaw. But very often it does not help at all. Helpful suggestions and detailed advice are the key to improve a situation. Problems and conflicts are complex and cannot be shrugged off with a "deal with it". After your advice I should simply fuck my girlfriend and say goodbye after three years only because she has a stressful time at the moment? Nice.
Just leave it be or try to give some useful advice.
if you don't care about how people receive advice and are intentionally talking in a way that will make people not want to listen, then why waste your time and ours posting in advice threads?
[editline]1st December 2012[/editline]
furthermore it's obvious you have no concept of how relationships work. shit happens, sometimes your partner will have a bad day or just fuck up somehow. that doesn't mean ending the relationship. good fucking luck getting married and settling down in the future with an attitude like that.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38661880]you fucking idiot stop not using condoms for fucks sake how hard is it you horny son of a bitch[/QUOTE]
sry i accidentally
Do I need to make my social life better if I want a girlfriend? My social life is so broken down and have been downhill for the past 13 years. Nobody just wants to be my friend at school. That's the reason why my social circle is so limited.
Most people I know and myself met their girlfriends from their social circles, usually it's a friend of a friend or something similiar. So, your answer is a yes. But your question is very abstract and you cannot tag persons to categories like that, well not always.
Having friends is always beneficial because you will be more in contact with people, which results in a higher chance of getting a girlfriend.
Oh god this sounds so mathematical.
[QUOTE=Swog;38668019]Do I need to make my social life better if I want a girlfriend? My social life is so broken down and have been downhill for the past 13 years. Nobody just wants to be my friend at school. That's the reason why my social circle is so limited.[/QUOTE]
Yes, you need to make your social life better. IMO it should be a priority to have friends before girlfriends so you have a support structure.
Well I can't expand it. People are just so picky on who's their friends. So I'm stuck as forever alone, (no meme intended)
With that attitude, you will probably die alone in some sewer. There is always a way to expand.
But I don't know why people don't like me; probably because I'm disabled?
Perhaps people do not like you because you make no effort to make them like you, it is not that hard to get in touch with people. You talk to them, chit chat or a particular topic, you meet them again more often. Then you or they ask you if they want to hang out or do something. Then the rest evolves automatically.
Just try to make an effort, be interested in other people and what they think.
if you don't interact with people then how do you expect to land in a romantic relationship? the term "girlfriend" is a bit more literal than you seem to think it is.
I asked the girl if she texts, and her response was "yes here's my number ******* :)"
What....
Why was that so easy?
It's never been that easy.
[QUOTE=Remscar;38671625]I asked the girl if she texts, and her response was "yes here's my number ******* :)"
What....
Why was that so easy?
It's never been that easy.[/QUOTE]
It's because she's into you. I haven't had to struggle to get a girls number so that seems kinda normal to me.
[QUOTE=Remscar;38671625]I asked the girl if she texts, and her response was "yes here's my number ******* :)"
What....
Why was that so easy?
It's never been that easy.[/QUOTE]
It's a trap!
[QUOTE=Zareox7;38672137]It's because she's into you. I haven't had to struggle to get a girls number so that seems kinda normal to me.[/QUOTE]
Well only one time have i not gotten a number from a girl (out of 7 lawl). But usually it takes a little bit longer than just asking "Do you text?"
Well well well, here I am again. In this thread. With another problem and the same girl.
I'll explain everything from when the problem started.
A month or so ago, I posted about my girlfriend being confused. Turns out she wanted to get back with her ex, because she still had "feelings" for him (I'll explain the "feelings" a few words later). So, I tried to basically fight for this girl, saying that getting back with him will only end up in tears (She cheated on him), and that he probably won't take her seriously. But I said and said again, but she wasn't listening, so I let her go and "be with him". This is where things start turning into "why the fuck" moments. I let her be with her ex to make her happy, because it's what she wanted. But then, I read up on her Twitter about two days ago, and she tweeted "such a slut lol". So I assumed something happened with her, something bad. So I asked her what the problem was (She's very resiliant to talk to me as I tried too hard to get her back and to try and talk some sense into her about being with him.) But she then responded to me, that she had slept with another guy, who wasn't her ex. Now, this all maybe a bit confusing, but prior to her sleeping with this guy, she was hanging around with her ex for a few weeks, kissing and generally spending time with each other. But then, she meets this guy at college, he messages her on Facebook and then they end up going out for the night and fucking each other. I tried to talk to her about it, but she's all like; "it's none of your business who I sleep with" and "i'm not with him, I can sleep with who I want". But then I tried to talk EVEN MORE sense into her by mentioning that if her ex finds out about this, it's either going to tear him apart or he's a fool. But yet again, she refuses to listen. She basically rubbed it in my face though, by tweeting and giving me every little detail down the phone. But now, I'm stuck with a decision.
Do I tell her ex-boyfriend about what she had done? Or do I let her go on to turn into a major slut and fuck up her own life whilst hurting her ex?
tl;dr - My ex girlfriend is a slut, should I save her ex? Yes or No?
[QUOTE=CWalkthroughs;38672561]Well well well, here I am again. In this thread. With another problem and the same girl.
I'll explain everything from when the problem started.
A month or so ago, I posted about my girlfriend being confused. Turns out she wanted to get back with her ex, because she still had "feelings" for him (I'll explain the "feelings" a few words later). So, I tried to basically fight for this girl, saying that getting back with him will only end up in tears (She cheated on him), and that he probably won't take her seriously. But I said and said again, but she wasn't listening, so I let her go and "be with him". This is where things start turning into "why the fuck" moments. I let her be with her ex to make her happy, because it's what she wanted. But then, I read up on her Twitter about two days ago, and she tweeted "such a slut lol". So I assumed something happened with her, something bad. So I asked her what the problem was (She's very resiliant to talk to me as I tried too hard to get her back and to try and talk some sense into her about being with him.) But she then responded to me, that she had slept with another guy, who wasn't her ex. Now, this all maybe a bit confusing, but prior to her sleeping with this guy, she was hanging around with her ex for a few weeks, kissing and generally spending time with each other. But then, she meets this guy at college, he messages her on Facebook and then they end up going out for the night and fucking each other. I tried to talk to her about it, but she's all like; "it's none of your business who I sleep with" and "i'm not with him, I can sleep with who I want". But then I tried to talk EVEN MORE sense into her by mentioning that if her ex finds out about this, it's either going to tear him apart or he's a fool. But yet again, she refuses to listen. She basically rubbed it in my face though, by tweeting and giving me every little detail down the phone. But now, I'm stuck with a decision.
Do I tell her ex-boyfriend about what she had done? Or do I let her go on to turn into a major slut and fuck up her own life whilst hurting her ex?
tl;dr - My ex girlfriend is a slut, should I save her ex? Yes or No?[/QUOTE]
She isn't currently dating her ex again so she is kinda right in saying its not really of any relevance. Sounds like she might just go for this new guy or some shit. Does her ex not have a twitter or something?
She is right it's none of your buiseness also and you'll probably just put more bad blood between the two of you by telling him. Personally I'd just not even bother packing my bags and just gtfo.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;38672719]She isn't currently dating her ex again so she is kinda right in saying its not really of any relevance. Sounds like she might just go for this new guy or some shit. Does her ex not have a twitter or something?
She is right it's none of your buiseness also and you'll probably just put more bad blood between the two of you by telling him. Personally I'd just not even bother packing my bags and just gtfo.[/QUOTE]
The thing is that she WANTS to be with her ex, which is why I'm finding this so fucked up.
And if she really loved him and wanted to be with him, why didn't she fuck her ex instead of some random guy from her college?
[QUOTE=CWalkthroughs;38672819]The thing is that she WANTS to be with her ex, which is why I'm finding this so fucked up.
And if she really loved him and wanted to be with him, why didn't she fuck her ex instead of some random guy from her college?[/QUOTE]
Not your problem anymore, wash your hands of the situation and focus on your own life
[QUOTE=CWalkthroughs;38672819]The thing is that she WANTS to be with her ex, which is why I'm finding this so fucked up.
And if she really loved him and wanted to be with him, why didn't she fuck her ex instead of some random guy from her college?[/QUOTE]
stop caring. she's a dumb whore from the sounds of it, not worth your time
I tried anal for the first time tonight... not really into it first and last time probably
[QUOTE=Swearblocked;38674745]I tried anal for the first time tonight... not really into it first and last time probably[/QUOTE]
Did it hurt?
[QUOTE=Haxxer;38585236]I decided to take her to the local park tomorrow to just hang out and talk about things. Hopefully all of my spaghetti will stay in my pockets! :v[/QUOTE]
i am going to stalk you to the park
[QUOTE=pansarkurt;38674783]Did it hurt?[/QUOTE]
didnt hurt me but i was the "pitcher" she was the "catcher"
(i realize your joking but i feel i should clarify)
bottoms up, mate
girlfriend lying in a mood at the opposite end of the bed cause I was playing empire total war i think, turned off my laptop and cuddled into her asking what was wrong and she just said "nothin" in a crappy way. asked her 10 minutes later (still hugging her, she hadn't moved) and she said in an annoyed way "NOTHING." she isn't usually this quiet but i tried helping her and nothing worked what should i do?
Also she doesn't get periods, something to do with the implant i think
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;38681907]girlfriend lying in a mood at the opposite end of the bed cause I was playing empire total war i think, turned off my laptop and cuddled into her asking what was wrong and she just said "nothin" in a crappy way. asked her 10 minutes later (still hugging her, she hadn't moved) and she said in an annoyed way "NOTHING." she isn't usually this quiet but i tried helping her and nothing worked what should i do?
Also she doesn't get periods, something to do with the implant i think[/QUOTE]
Stop posting on Facepunch, and actually go do something with her instead of playing video games when she wants to spend time with you.
[QUOTE=OogalaBoogal;38682030]Stop posting on Facepunch, and actually go do something with her instead of playing video games when she wants to spend time with you.[/QUOTE]
She just spend 6 days drinking/smoking weed with me, i did everything she wanted, made her food, tea and loads of stuff. ive been craving this and games for ages so i took a little time out and thought it would be okay
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;38682059]She just spend 6 days drinking/smoking weed with me, i did everything she wanted, made her food, tea and loads of stuff. ive been craving this and games for ages so i took a little time out and thought it would be okay[/QUOTE]
Okay then, IDK what's wrong with her. Could have been something you said?
pretty sure all ive done is compliment her, how do you usually cheer up a PMS'ing gf?
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