Sex, Girlfriends and Shit IV - General

[QUOTE=Pernoccuous;38696701]so my other classmates found out about our affair apparently i'm going to get a lecture from them about it next class when i see them heh[/QUOTE] I'm not sure your friend has any right to be lecturing but at least maybe you'll listen to her since we've gotten practically no response to anything we have said to you.

i don't understand why they think they can forcefully lecture two adults who are making their own choices, showing concern is one thing...but...

[QUOTE=Pernoccuous;38696797]i don't understand why they think they can forcefully lecture two adults who are making their own choices, showing concern is one thing...but...[/QUOTE] Let me re-iterate the part of my post which was actually important. [quote]I'm not sure your friend has any right to be lecturing [B]but at least maybe you'll listen to her since we've gotten practically no response to anything we have said to you.[/B][/quote]

oh yeah the responses sorry about that i can answer some shit let me look

It's quite the dickish move to be banging a girl who's got (why would she "claim" if she doesn't?) a fiance. Just saying. Have some morals, man :v:

[QUOTE=Regorc's Chest;38660994] Also Pernoccuous, what'chu doin' man? More importantly, what's SHE doing?[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Rhenae;38661122]It would be nice to have a bit more context than this. (+ Morning After et cetera)[/QUOTE] this is the entire situation, some discreet jumps in lieu of detail: going back to before we hooked up, my classmate, while not exactly being a tart in any way, she has a habit of being a little playful (not sexually), but a bit flirty with other people on campus, nothing like oh let me eat your face with my mouth kind of stuff, let's just say she was quick to throw her arms open (not her legs) and hop on people with hugs and shit, typical hyper/giddy female kinna' stuff. there were a couple guys she flirted with - one she specifically stated this is just friend stuff, nothing will come of it but they didn't get the message so people thought they were totally shagging or something, (or atleast supposedly the friend who is going to 'lecture' me. (i contacted them by the way, just as i was writing this, they're p much done with the ordeal and we're all still friends. i'm not sure of the other friends of my classmate, however.)) and then there was this other guy she kind of kissed on and hugged for a brief period of time but it never went anywhere, and when the guy tried to get all sexual she got super mad and ended it. basically she was overtly flirty but nothing in an intimate way, just observably intimate if you don't care, i guess? me and her started hanging out more recently, moreso than just "hey, me and you both go here." but actual hanging out during breaks or class w/e and we got to a little bit of talking and i learned about her, more about her fiance, but whilst she has a fiance he's a very phantom-esque fiance, he's hardly ever brought up or really talked about but is apparently there. he feels more like a macguffin with how rare he is talked about - but then again he's not really our business. i told her a few personal things of mine and she wanted to come hang out at my place, and it was cool - ( now before i continue to the 'downward' spiral, i'd like to note that while i knew she had a fiance and everything, when speaking to other people i'd mention if she was brought up, that, even though she acts kind of weird and annoying ((as i didn't really know her at the time, it was a distant observation of personality)) that i still thought she was super attractive and i wanted to fuck her. ) - well, while she was hanging out the discussion got to how i was a super sloppy kisser and she was like "i'll show you how!" and i was super kawaii desu ne sugoi hawkward about it because i was into her and shit, and apparently she figured it out and could sense it because we ended up kissing and shit and then we fooled around that night (wednesday night) and the following (thursday) night we had sex, and she came over for the weekend and we hooked up like retarded crazy even though we have no protection or anything and i gave her a morning after pill, she took it...and that was that. we're two adults that jumped into some crazy sexual spiral and it's not like she's even OH I'M LEAVING MY FIANCE FOR YOU OHHH it was just casual sex and she agreed with me (even though that's weird, if all the other guys failed why didn't i? am i secretly a player? or is she lying? if she is lying, she hides it very well because i am a rat and a snoop and i verified things with her friends and other people. granted there is the easy chance of things slipping through the cracks, but..to lie about that much? i don't know.) fast forward to now: it was discovered as we were texting and one of her friends was there and basically just leaned over and read her texts while she was doing it - catching us red-handed talking less than proper and bam spread it like wildfire and she got this huge lecture and apparently i may or may not have one coming. this pretty much feels like the whole bis, but further questions from an outside observer/reader might jostle more memory. final verdict of event with summary: (spoilering crude details for those who may or may not ask about them) classmate and me hooked up through chance or possibly not chance if she lied about other guys, if not, we had casual meaningless sex(affair) on her fiance and she's not leaving him for me nor trying to use me as i have no stds, and if she was trying to trick me into knocking her up then she failed because [sp]during sex i would pull out/clean semen then keep going[/sp] and i gave her a plan b and watched her take it and swallow it. [QUOTE=Zareox7;38666554]Make sure you aren't around when she's on the morning after pill. Atleast with my experience, it makes her fucking insane since it gives the woman like 4x their normal dose of hormones.[/QUOTE] she was fine after she took it. we slept in the same bed that night and went to class like normal in the morning. [QUOTE=loopoo;38697065]It's quite the dickish move to be banging a girl who's got (why would she "claim" if she doesn't?) a fiance. Just saying. Have some morals, man :v:[/QUOTE] i say claim because i've not spoken to or seen the guy myself but apparently he is indeed a tangible person, i know he exists, but. i am just not aware of the true relation between the two. also, (her words, so, if you seem to believe she is a liar at this point, take with a grain of salt) she says that i apparently treat her better and give her better sex than her fiance, so. bollocks to this dude who can't keep the reins, eh?

[QUOTE=Yahnich;38697160]why are we pretending it's his fault, the girl is just as big a cunt as he is; she has a fiancé yet she keeps banging this dude, without protection even[/QUOTE] I'm not saying it's his fault, I'm just saying he should have some decency and stop banging this chick who has a fiance. If it were me, I wouldn't want to be the dude who got a couple broken up. If she's going to mess about, I'd rather she got caught messing about with someone else, because that way I wouldn't feel guilty as fuck when a relationship goes down the drain, because of my own selfishness.

[QUOTE=loopoo;38697173]I'm not saying it's his fault, I'm just saying he should have some decency and stop banging this chick who has a fiance. If it were me, I wouldn't want to be the dude who got a couple broken up. If she's going to mess about, I'd rather she got caught messing about with someone else, because that way I wouldn't feel guilty as fuck when a relationship goes down the drain, because of my own selfishness.[/QUOTE] yeah. she definitely started it thought - but not defending myself - i didn't stop her.

[quote] we ended up kissing and shit and then we fooled around that night (wednesday night) and the following (thursday) night we had sex, and she came over for the weekend and we hooked up like retarded crazy even though we have no protection or anything and i gave her a morning after pill, she took it...and that was that. [/quote] How long after you had unprotected sex the first time did you give her the pill? Its only considered plausibly effective for 2 days. [I][B]edit:[/B] I'm getting mixed sources, says up to 5 on other sites, other might be old info. [B]EDIT 2:[/B] I shouldn't post as I research should I? Over the counter stuff is 72 hours, prescription ones are 5 days. [/I] [quote] if she was trying to trick me into knocking her up then she failed because during sex i would pull out/clean semen then keep going and i gave her a plan b and watched her take it and swallow it.[/quote] I'm very disappointed in whatever sex ed system you went through. That is not an effective contraceptive at all. Pulling out is a shitty idea to begin with but seriously? Clean and continue? Your a dumbass to think thats effective at all.

Just jacked off and had a glorious orgasm, thats covered in the sex department. In the relationship department, I married my hand recently and the honeymoon in milan was wonderful.

Not weird at all.

Nope, unlike you betas that dont get hand ass all da time, keep having fun with your seacows you'll never make chillens with.

[QUOTE=Brunchies;38697312]Nope, unlike you betas that dont get hand ass all da time, keep having fun with your seacows you'll never make chillens with.[/QUOTE] Your hand has an ass? Have you tried anal? :v:

[QUOTE=Rhenae;38697319]Your hand has an ass? Have you tried anal? :v:[/QUOTE] Yes, so much blood.

[QUOTE=Rhenae;38697272] Your a dumbass to think thats effective at all.[/QUOTE] that's why the plan b and if not...well. [QUOTE=Pernoccuous;38648281]i'll name him jeoffrey[/QUOTE]

i don't think this woman has a fiance lmao you're being used for sex

[QUOTE=thisispain;38697346]i don't think this woman has a fiance lmao you're being used for sex[/QUOTE] is that a bad thing

What. The. Fuck.

just making sure you know that she doesn't want a relationship with you in anyway

[QUOTE=Pernoccuous;38697334]that's why the plan b and if not...well.[/QUOTE] So the other question is then how was it till she got the plan B? less effective the longer you wait basically. Since it's not an abortion pill, just a preventative. (aka it wont stop a pregnancy that already implanted) You know guys get no say in naming kids right? :v: Anyway, in my not so professional opinion you should buy some condoms to you have them next time a crazy bitch jumps your dick, and stop fucking her. For one moment I would like you to imagine being her fiancee. And imagine your girlfriend fucking another guy behind your back, [I]sit down in this nice chair here, and how does that make you feel Mr.Pernoccuous?[/I]

[QUOTE=thisispain;38697361]just making sure you know that she doesn't want a relationship with you in anyway[/QUOTE] i don't like dating [QUOTE=Rhenae;38697369] For one moment I would like you to imagine being her fiancee. And imagine your girlfriend fucking another guy behind your back, [I]sit down in this nice chair here, and how does that make you feel Mr.Pernoccuous?[/I][/QUOTE] if she wants to fuck another guy whatever she wouldn't be my fiancee in the first place. also yeah the pull out thing was pmuch useless, but at least it felt better than dropping baby batter right in her and it was less than a couple days we got the plan b.

you're too old to call it baby batter cease and desist

[QUOTE=Pernoccuous;38697395]i don't like dating if she wants to fuck another guy whatever she wouldn't be my fiancee in the first place. also yeah the pull out thing was pmuch useless, but at least it felt better than dropping baby batter right in her and it was less than a couple days we got the plan b.[/QUOTE] I think your missing the point of this, so have fun with your fuckbuddy and I hope you find a good foster home for little Jeff :)

[QUOTE=thisispain;38697399]you're too old to call it baby batter cease and desist[/QUOTE] baby batter buttermilk love liquor white honey cream man juice [editline]4th December 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Rhenae;38697405]I think your missing the point of this, so have fun with your fuckbuddy and I hope you find a good foster home for little Jeff :)[/QUOTE] it's JEOFFREY

[QUOTE=Rhenae;38697405]I think your missing the point of this, so have fun with your fuckbuddy and I hope you find a good foster home for little Jeff :)[/QUOTE] poor little jeff we should run an FP charity shop to support little jeff

oh god it's jeoffrey fuck [editline]4th December 2012[/editline] legitimate question how do you guys feel about the effectiveness of a diaphragm

I think it's pretty effective, it helps me breathe.

the contraceptive diaphragm you muppet

i don't know what answer you are looking for lol all i know about diaphragms is that there are very few women who use them

i guess me and her have to sit down like adults and talk about this also yeah i'm kind of dumb, thanks.