Sex, Girlfriends and Shit IV - General

this just in: not being a virgin makes you untrustworthy

If your cherry has been popped I would sooner die than date you

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38749043]this just in: not being a virgin makes you untrustworthy[/QUOTE] Because not being a virgin obviously means that you are an infidelitous whore-bastard and I totally judge people based on that rather than whether they actually act trustworthy or not. Because I am the bastion of innocence and anyone who is polygamous but with the consent of their partners or just people who do stuff casually are all heathen whores. [editline]8th December 2012[/editline] -Rude by bringing it up (irrelevant thing) with an awful tone of writing that'll just be dragged out of its contextual space and beaten down.-

That second sentence is fucking up my brain. I get the bastion of innocence bit, but then it all becomes a clusterfuck.

let's just relax a bit ok

[QUOTE=loopoo;38749151]That second sentence is fucking up my brain. I get the bastion of innocence bit, but then it all becomes a clusterfuck.[/QUOTE] Giving off my opinion on polygamists and people who do casual sex using sarcasm because Guy Mannly takes me for a genital-less conservative freak, apparently. [editline]8th December 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=thisispain;38749159]let's just relax a bit ok[/QUOTE] This is what needs to be said to me whenever I read a post about adultery, I bet. Anyway, I've had Shadow of Chernobyl tabbed for about an hour and it'd be more healthy to shoot at mutant monsters than make angry statements about the aforementioned single post.

[QUOTE=thisispain;38749159]let's just relax a bit ok[/QUOTE][QUOTE=thisispain;38749159]let's just relax a bit ok[/QUOTE][QUOTE=thisispain;38749159]let's just relax a bit ok[/QUOTE]

there's a difference between "i disapprove of casual sex" and "i'm not going to have premarital sex because it means people will cheat on me" (also i don't understand this logic?) [editline]8th December 2012[/editline] also i can't read three-line-long sentences sry

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38749332]there's a difference between "i disapprove of casual sex" and "i'm not going to have premarital sex because it means people will cheat on me" (also i don't understand this logic?) [editline]8th December 2012[/editline] also i can't read three-line-long sentences sry[/QUOTE] It isn't so much logical as it is I'm too afraid to risk being cheated on because it's a deeply rooted anxiety of mine and it is simply easier to just not do anything? -snipped- Basically everything in those two bouts of text was me trying to sympathize and reason with you so you wouldn't think I was some awful person with huge double standards. It was thinly veiled under a bout of sarcasm so it looked like I was making some sort of comeback instead of backing up and apologizing for a gaping insecurity of mine.

using sarcasm is never going to make you sound sympathetic. especially when you're bringing up someone else's post history when it has no relevance to the conversation. and sorry but i'm dyslexic, please humor me a bit, i can't follow your walls of text.

[QUOTE=U.S.S.R;38749530]Basically everything in those two bouts of text was me trying to sympathize and reason with you [/QUOTE] swing and a complete miss [editline]7th December 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=U.S.S.R;38749530] you thought that by me calling cheaters whores and such I was indirectly attacking you.[/QUOTE] no don't do this please

[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;38749566]using sarcasm is never going to make you sound sympathetic. especially when you're bringing up someone else's post history when it has no relevance to the conversation. and sorry but i'm dyslexic, please humor me a bit, i can't follow your walls of text.[/QUOTE] I spaced out my post above, anyway. Was trying to under stand what you thought was dumb about my posts, figured it was because I was indirectly insulting you. Thought I had explained the reasons for my celibacy good enough and it wasn't because I thought everyone was a cheating whore. Tried to apologize under thinly veiled sarcasm as to make it look like I wasn't actually apologizing. Didn't work. Explained the sarcasm and apologized again, with normalcy and not sarcasm. I have certain kinds of dyslexia but I've overcome most of the issues with reading, too bad there isn't a heavier font to write with besides bold and H2.

also i really don't understand why you needed to bring that up. the fact that i cheated on my ex was nowhere near my thought process when responding to your comment about celibacy. it's honestly pretty insulting to me that you assumed i only disagreed with you because i'm a "cheater" (also this should REALLY not be viewed as its own personality type considering people do it for a lot of different reasons), when i'm absolutely not and don't consider myself one just because i did it once. [editline]8th December 2012[/editline] to be clear i'm not angry or particularly offended by your post, if your remark about celibacy was any indication it seems you're just having issues with communicating your thoughts. just try to be a bit more direct, i (and i'm pretty sure most other people as well) can't read that far into the motives behind what you say

If it works for him, it works for him, I guess.

My girlfriend just broke up with me. There's been a couple times when I've done some stupid shit without really knowing why, and she kept getting mad that I don't know why I did it. I guess she's had enough. I feel so fucking lonely right now, facepunch, help me.

I was late with waking up my girlfriend so I tried to be funny about it. I entered the bedroom, threw my bathrobe off and leaped in to the bed. Funny as hell I scraped my arm at the wall and now it burns.

The only bitch I fell for moved to vegas but she just starting following my twitter. Girls are annoying.

[QUOTE=mzathemind;38750851]The only bitch I fell for moved to vegas but she just starting following my twitter. Girls are annoying.[/QUOTE] Agreed. Found out that my Ex was doing some guy while we were dating, Life's like that I suppose.

At least she did not masturbate with a leaky glowstick.

That happened :0

What the fuck?

[QUOTE=Vacuum;38750348]My girlfriend just broke up with me. There's been a couple times when I've done some stupid shit without really knowing why, and she kept getting mad that I don't know why I did it. I guess she's had enough. I feel so fucking lonely right now, facepunch, help me.[/QUOTE] It's kind of your fault. Sorry.

[QUOTE=OogalaBoogal;38752524]It's kind of your fault. Sorry.[/QUOTE] I know it is. I just want her to believe my promise that I'll never do that again, I understand how she feels, it's just that she's amazing, I don't want to lose her.

[QUOTE=Vacuum;38753133]I know it is. I just want her to believe my promise that I'll never do that again, I understand how she feels, it's just that she's amazing, I don't want to lose her.[/QUOTE] Not doing it again insnt really what is needed there, and after doing something multiple times no one believes the "I won't do it again" thing. Your vauge on what you did, if you tell us what the dumb thing was or whatever you can get better advice.

[QUOTE=Rhenae;38753975]Not doing it again insnt really what is needed there, and after doing something multiple times no one believes the "I won't do it again" thing. Your vauge on what you did, if you tell us what the dumb thing was or whatever you can get better advice.[/QUOTE] I just went on her skype and read her chats or whatever, but I tried going on it just for the hell of it, I tried it, it worked and I automatically went to the messages, like I always do on skype. She thinks I did that because I don't trust her. And I've done a couple of things before without really knowing why I did them, and the fact that I can't explain my actions is pissing her off, but I really can't.

You should not read her chats and messages on skype, no wonder that she does not trust you.

So I french kissed a girl for the first time a couple days ago (a little late to the party, since I'm 20). I was... not very good. She said I wasn't the worst she's ever done it with though, so that's something.

[QUOTE=Vacuum;38754109]I just went on her skype and read her chats or whatever, but I tried going on it just for the hell of it, I tried it, it worked and I automatically went to the messages, like I always do on skype. She thinks I did that because I don't trust her. And I've done a couple of things before without really knowing why I did them, and the fact that I can't explain my actions is pissing her off, but I really can't.[/QUOTE] Ok so rather than saying you don't do it again (say that too) but also say YOUR SORRY. Kidna an important thing. Explain you did something stupid, impulsively for no good reason. You cant just say "i dunno" because that really don't seem that honest.

[QUOTE=Rhenae;38754257]Ok so rather than saying you don't do it again (say that too) but also say YOUR SORRY. Kidna an important thing. Explain you did something stupid, impulsively for no good reason. You cant just say "i dunno" because that really don't seem that honest.[/QUOTE] I did. Thanks for the advice by the way, when somebody's mad at me or disappointed with me I kind of become speechless, don't know what to say and how to justify my actions. [editline]8th December 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=junker|154;38754196]You should not read her chats and messages on skype, no wonder that she does not trust you.[/QUOTE] It was the first time I did, without a reason really.

Seems like I'm becoming a single lady now. My boyfriend told me he needs to think about us, and I feel the same. He has hurt me way to much lately and I don't know how much more shit I can take. He has driven me to the breaking point and I'm no longer his priority after 15months together. I actually feel alright.