[QUOTE=metallics;38059461]I think your mother is right. Keep hold of any records of the conversation though, so you've got something to back yourself up with.[/QUOTE]
we are still deciding wherether or not to call the police, sadly KIK has a 400 message purge and i missed the part about her originally wanting to kill heself. But i did manage to get the part about how she has tried it already.
thanks for the help
[editline]16th October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Bobie;38059421]she sounds incredibly obsessive, if you can't re-assure her, calm her down or talk it out then i really dunno[/QUOTE]
i have firmly stated that we dont need to be skyping every night, but we can still chat via steam and such
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;38059525]we are still deciding wherether or not to call the police, sadly KIK has a 400 message purge and i missed the part about her originally wanting to kill heself. But i did manage to get the part about how she has tried it already.
thanks for the help
[editline]16th October 2012[/editline]
i have firmly stated that we dont need to be skyping every night, but we can still chat via steam and such[/QUOTE]
i'm not accusing you of anything but is it possible you could be neglecting her a bit?
[QUOTE=lotusking;38059569]i'm not accusing you of anything but is it possible you could be neglecting her a bit?[/QUOTE]
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then explain to her why you don't want to skype anymore, and talk it out as to why she wants to. come to a mutual agreement.
[QUOTE=Bobie;38059838]then explain to her why you don't want to skype anymore, and talk it out as to why she wants to. come to a mutual agreement.[/QUOTE]
i have been trying, but she cant see why not.
Thankfully i have calmed her down so im not going to be worrying at much, tonight at least
sounds like a horribly exaggerated version of my girlfriend's skype upsets. i explained to her though that i hate skype because my netbook is terrible and i miss like 90% of every conversation and have to shout to be heard so now we have compromised on phone calls which i much prefer
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;38059859]sounds like a horribly exaggerated version of my girlfriend's skype upsets. i explained to her though that i hate skype because my netbook is terrible and i miss like 90% of every conversation and have to shout to be heard so now we have compromised on phone calls which i much prefer[/QUOTE]
in Aus the phone prices are insane. But the reason i dont is the fact that we dont actually talk on skype.
maybe you could keep skype on so she can see your face but keep chatting on steam/fb/whatever and get on with your own thing. we do this sometimes if i'm busy painting and she likes that even if i'm not talking much
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;38059914]maybe you could keep skype on so she can see your face but keep chatting on steam/fb/whatever and get on with your own thing. we do this sometimes if i'm busy painting and she likes that even if i'm not talking much[/QUOTE]
as i have told her though, being a gamer i skype with others, and you have to pay for skype ~premium~
Suddenly she seems to be avoiding me, we made eye contact for a second but she looked away rather fast. I think despite the fact that we leveled and what not, something changed her mind. She did tell me she was having PMS on Sunday... I wish she would just say what she is thinking
Just incase anyone wanted to know i saw a doctor and i'm now seeing a therapist on a regular basis, changed my died, getting support from the council and hopefully i should set my life back on track.
[QUOTE=MxOAgentJohnson;38060912] changed my died.[/QUOTE]
what
God, it has been nearly three weeks since I departed from home, where my girlfriend lives. I am so bloody horny, I need to masturbate like four to five times a day. :v:
Christ.
Too much information
Free flow of information is my motto.
[QUOTE=myng;38031758]My ex(she's 16) ended up dating a fucking 30 year old for a few weeks during the summer.[/QUOTE]
Apparently now he's suckled her tit too!
[QUOTE=myng;38066087]Apparently now he's suckled her tit too![/QUOTE]
keep us updated on every sexual advance he makes please
[QUOTE=myng;38066087]Apparently now he's suckled her tit too![/QUOTE]
this thread always delivers
[QUOTE=junker|154;38063312]God, it has been nearly three weeks since I departed from home, where my girlfriend lives. I am so bloody horny, I need to masturbate like four to five times a day. :v:
Christ.[/QUOTE]
I do that anyway, even if I get laid the same day.
The life of a male is quite a challenge at times, eh? :v:
Well, I think it's permanently over. The girl that I pledged so much to, the girl that stood by me through all of the shit I've gone through, the girl who agreed to never let anything get between us, and the girl that was literally the only thing keeping me alive at one point isn't with me anymore. I just don't know.
So, your comforting trip ended bad?
Honestly, keep your head up. Even if it sounds stereotypical and silly, there will be more to come. Do not let it drag you down. Also you might never know what happens in the future, perhaps the girl will enter in your life again in a few years. My ex-girlfriend meant the world to me, we were seperated and she broke my heart, so did I. But somehow we came back together, even if my life was completely different.
At this point the only thing keeping me going is that she still wants to be friends after she's done sorting out the shit she's going through, and that's all I could ask for. Being able to be open with her and be there for her and know that she's okay means the world to me.
[editline]16th October 2012[/editline]
It's just a matter of waiting.
get over it upgrade123
you have your entire life to look forward to, don't wallow in dirty waters
[QUOTE=Upgrade123;38067494]At this point the only thing keeping me going is that she still wants to be friends after she's done sorting out the shit she's going through, and that's all I could ask for. Being able to be open with her and be there for her and know that she's okay means the world to me.
[editline]16th October 2012[/editline]
It's just a matter of waiting.[/QUOTE]
This is gonna sound harsh but I mean it in the most helpful way possible:
You sound like my ex boyfriend, can you guess why he is my ex?
I meant that girlfriend or not, she still means a lot to me. I care for people, that's just what I do.
well she obviously doesn't care for you
so maybe you should get over it and continue with your life instead of posting sob stories on FP
[QUOTE=Upgrade123;38067778]I meant that girlfriend or not, she still means a lot to me. I care for people, that's just what I do.[/QUOTE]
Yes and he has also said that since we broke up.
[QUOTE=Upgrade123;38067778]I meant that girlfriend or not, she still means a lot to me. I care for people, that's just what I do.[/QUOTE]
I felt this way with my ex, " I dont care if we are in a relationship, I just want to care for you and be friends". Which was bullshit considering I was what I see now as being in love with her. Sometimes you just gotta let it go man
[QUOTE=BusterBluth;38069371]I felt this way with my ex, " I dont care if we are in a relationship, I just want to care for you and be friends". Which was bullshit considering I was what I see now as being in love with her. Sometimes you just gotta let it go man[/QUOTE]
He's right upgrade, it's best to just move on as soon as possible to bigger and better things. I felt the same way with the ex who cheated on me with two other guys and had sex with them (and I forgave her for it, how fucking stupid am I), but I just eventually let it go and everything improved 120%
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