[QUOTE=Croft;38798429]My boyfriend and i are meeting for the possible final talk of our relationship on friday. I am really nervous. He said a lot of things that made me so unsure. He explained exactly his feelings and what i meant to him. I don't know what to do. It all depends on what he tells me on friday. Wish me luck[/QUOTE]
Good luck! Let us know how it goes please!
[QUOTE=U.S.S.R;38798211]Problem is, I don't exactly conform to either of those ideals fully and I do not, at all, have the social or mental ability to hop into the dating ring and I can't please too well and I'm arguing the same things over and over and over and getting into pedantics and it is clogging up the thread with a sorrowful dross full of "me" and "I" and "can't" and useless drama. Guess the only point left I have to make is that the self-centered, competitive, Epicureanist nature of the human psyche is the reason that I'm whining here on my favourite internet forum. Or my apparent unnamed psychological disorder that makes me think waywardly and I'm really the fractured, disgusting one.[/QUOTE]
Life is inherently comprised of useless drama. #YOLO
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38799718]and everyone knows that those movie romances are absolute bullshit because not a single thing that happens in those movie will work. sudden confession about your feelings of the past 6 months? movie: omygod y didn't u tell me sooner ~*instant love*~; real life: uh... yeah... that's umm... nice
sudden romantic gesture on the first date: omfg i love u forever; real life: wow, um... thanks?
if you don't want to put in effort in a relationship then you will only be happy with someone who also doesn't put effort in it, but then you'd probably bitch and moan about them not being altruistic and loyal enough or whatever[/QUOTE]
I briefly went out with a girl who did like all that movie-romantic stuff from the word go. Note the word "briefly"
We didn't actually have a relationship, I just took her on a few dates, bought her chocolates, etc. Then I realised that I hardly knew her and that it was basically all one-way.
It isn't normal.
[QUOTE=U.S.S.R;38797031]My entire point was that the dating process is awful, meticulous, ''casual'' and will inherently lead to multiple failed relationships just because someone better came along or ''you weren't good enough'' or the after effects of infatuation. And I'm not stupid for not wanting to participate in it or wanting to have a partner that is loyal and altruistic no matter what stage the relationship is in.[/QUOTE]
dude e v e r y t h i n g in life is exactly like this.
learning a new instrument will result in multiple failed attempts to play that instrument. i am not stupid for not wanting to play an instrument ever because of this! UNLESS i can pick up an instrument and instantly know all its intricacies and play it for life.
working out will result in multiple failed attempts to lift a heavier weight or perform more reps. i am not stupid for not wanting to go to the gym ever because of this! UNLESS i can go to the gym and instantly be fucking swole as shit.
both are terrible analogies (hint all analogies are terrible) but that's basically how you're going about this and you're not going to go anywhere in life because of this bizarre mentality you've adopted. i know what it's like to not want to try anything if you don't know it'll work out immediately, trust me, the first 17 years of my 19 thus far on this earth were like that. and i know what it's like to be afraid of opening up to women because of what one did to you, five of my past six months were like that.
what you need to do is look yourself in the mirror, put a smile on, and get over it.
[editline]12th December 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=U.S.S.R;38797440]I can certainly be loyal and affectionate and that, but I wouldn't be able to do anything like competing with some other person for my partner, or do any upstanding stupid romantic stuff. I'd go out of my way to be kind and pander to their every want and need that doesn't harm the relationship in some way but I'll never do anything that is inherently "social" or "competitive".[/QUOTE]
dude that's fine, to be honest. if you find a girl who expects you to compete, the best "move" you can make in that "competition" is to not even play. she'll either run off or realize that you're not to be trifled with, and stay if she really cared about you.
and secondly, those grand gestures your talking about are just what the TV has fed you, you won't always have to do shit like that (though if you like the person enough, you'll want to. it'll seem natural. i know this because i was with someone who i actually did not like at all and i couldn't figure out why being romantic felt unnatural to me.)
The girl I like is trying to friendzone me, I said nope and just deleted her from my contacts.
You're such a badass!!
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38801163]women are only on earth to fuck!!! good on you lad!!!!!!!
[editline]12th December 2012[/editline]
jeez imagine if a girl isn't interested in you but wants to stay friends oh my god how dreadful!!!
[editline]12th December 2012[/editline]
just horrible!!!!![/QUOTE]
I told her how I felt, she told me she had a boyfriend for 8 months...
I can't handle awkward situations like that so I deleted her...
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38801214]dude she has a boyfriend what exactly did you except to happen? her jumping in your arms? it's only as awkward as you make it[/QUOTE]
Because she always gave away an impression that she liked me.
But what has happened has happened, now let it rest.
[QUOTE=sanderpoede;38801197]I told her how I felt, she told me she had a boyfriend for 8 months...
I can't handle awkward situations like that so I deleted her...[/QUOTE]
you did the most awkward thing possible and now the situation (thanks to you) is more awkward than you ever thought it was
(dont flip your shit when things dont go your way)
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38801638]how? did she smile at you once????[/QUOTE]
no she averted her eyes and forced laughter when he walked by.
[editline]12th December 2012[/editline]
but not mocking laughter, it was special. [I]she wanted him.[/I]
It seems all you guys do is just mock me.
I am new to the whole 'I like you' thing.
Word of advice, keep on trying, you ain't getting to me
[QUOTE=sanderpoede;38801759]It seems all you guys do is just mock me.
I am new to the whole 'I like you' thing.
Word of advice, keep on trying, you ain't getting to me[/QUOTE]
What are you, 12?
[QUOTE=sanderpoede;38801759]It seems all you guys do is just mock me.
I am new to the whole 'I like you' thing.
Word of advice, keep on trying, you ain't getting to me[/QUOTE]
did you come to this thread expecting sympathy or something
[QUOTE=sanderpoede;38801759]It seems all you guys do is just mock me.
I am new to the whole 'I like you' thing.
Word of advice, keep on trying, you ain't getting to me[/QUOTE]
oh sHIT i never thought id be [i]receiving[/i] advice in this thread!!!! the tables have turned!
[QUOTE=sanderpoede;38801759]It seems all you guys do is just mock me.
I am new to the whole 'I like you' thing.
Word of advice, keep on trying, you ain't getting to me[/QUOTE]
gee, maybe if you don't want people to be upset with you, you could try not being a misogynistic ass who thinks women don't have the right to reject his advances
[QUOTE=sanderpoede;38801759]It seems all you guys do is just mock me.
I am new to the whole 'I like you' thing.
[B]Word of advice, keep on trying, you ain't getting to me[/B][/QUOTE]
p.s. drawing attention to this fact is extremely counter-productive if you are indeed trying to convince us we aren't getting to you
[QUOTE=Variant;38794862]Well, I finally had sex for the first time yesterday, and I still didn't cum. I don't know what to do.[/QUOTE]
Same happened with me on my first time which was like 2 weeks ago, second time wasn't a problem though.
My first time was... er... um... Oh god.
These memories... these suppressed, painful memories... the angles... I couldn't get the angles right ;_;
[QUOTE=Regorc's Chest;38804586]My first time was... er... um... Oh god.
These memories... these suppressed, painful memories... the angles... I couldn't get the angles right ;_;[/QUOTE]
are you poetically telling us you get boners that point down
Hahahaha...
Not quite guys. There's an ever so slight downward curve but generally it was the first time for both of us and I was just having some troubles. It wasn't feeling right, and I was afraid I was hurting her which made boner popping kinda hard and generally it was a sad sad uneventful evening.
The next day however was much much better :v:
So today we tried it kinky for the first time.
She slapped my schlong a lot and it got hard as concrete, more than usual, which kind of made me worried. I mean, I should be the dominant one but lawd I was enjoying the slaps and bites like a bitch.
After all that, my willy was far more sensitive than usual, which made MY dominant turn fucking amazing.
I'd suggest it to everybody, get your genitals slapped you won't regret it afterwards
so if after things end she texts me saying "You don't have to ignore me you know"
and then when I talk to her she's like "I need some space from you"
THIS IS LIKE
SOME MIXED MESSAGES SHIT
[QUOTE=Sardonus;38806148]so if after things end she texts me saying "You don't have to ignore me you know"
and then when I talk to her she's like "I need some space from you"
THIS IS LIKE
SOME MIXED MESSAGES SHIT[/QUOTE]
If it's over, then err on the side of ignoring her, it'll be much better in the long run.
[editline]12th December 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=lapsus_;38805609]So today we tried it kinky for the first time.
She slapped my schlong a lot and it got hard as concrete, more than usual, which kind of made me worried. I mean, I should be the dominant one but lawd I was enjoying the slaps and bites like a bitch.
After all that, my willy was far more sensitive than usual, which made MY dominant turn fucking amazing.
I'd suggest it to everybody, get your genitals slapped you won't regret it afterwards[/QUOTE]
It's not for everyone. An ex gave me a fair clawing once, to the point where I have some battle scars. It didn't turn me on, it just made me want to pick her up and shake her till she understood she was being a muppet.
Caecilius est in horto.
[QUOTE=sanderpoede;38801197]I told her how I felt, she told me she had a boyfriend for 8 months...
I can't handle awkward situations like that so I deleted her...[/QUOTE]
i feel so bad for this... poor poor girl
[QUOTE=Yahnich;38807356]what's that about a garden??[/QUOTE]
caecilius is in the garden dude
that was in my latin textbook when i was like 14 haha
[QUOTE=lapsus_;38805609]So today we tried it kinky for the first time.
She slapped my schlong a lot and it got hard as concrete, more than usual, which kind of made me worried. I mean, I should be the dominant one but lawd I was enjoying the slaps and bites like a bitch.
After all that, my willy was far more sensitive than usual, which made MY dominant turn fucking amazing.
I'd suggest it to everybody, get your genitals slapped you won't regret it afterwards[/QUOTE]
I once got my dick slapped, it hurts like a bitch :v: what's wrong with you?
[QUOTE=metallics;38807181]If it's over, then err on the side of ignoring her, it'll be much better in the long run.
[editline]12th December 2012[/editline]
It's not for everyone. An ex gave me a fair clawing once, to the point where I have some battle scars. It didn't turn me on, it just made me want to pick her up and shake her till she understood she was being a muppet.[/QUOTE]
What's wrong with being clawed, you wuss? That means you're doing things right. (At least with my girl, it does.)
This girl I'm talking to is going to pierce her nipples and invited me to go with her wtf. Does she want to pierce my nipples too.
Guys I need advice, this is serious shit!
I only accompanied my girlfriend when she was piercing a septum. Why the fuck does she want do pierce your nipples, it's horrible.
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