Sex, Girlfriends and Shit IV - General

So I'm having some trouble, and I honestly don't know why. I've been on two dates with this girl from my highschool, one was to see a movie (which happened to be her first date ever, so she, as she told me later was really nervous) and the 2nd to a comedy show at my school. The whole dating thing is new territory for this girl, and I'm not too far ahead of her, so I feel the need to take things slowly as to make sure she's comfortable. However I don't know if I'm going too slow, and I have actually found myself getting kind of nervous myself in fear of making her uncomfortable. She's already expressed to me that she really likes me, thinks I'm perfect, and am the only guy she wants to date, ect. And I like her too, and I think I'm afraid of ruining it. I don't know if she is comfortable with me making a more romantic move or not. I had breidly held her hand during the first date but I felt she might of been too nervous so I stopped (but gave her room to reinitiate if she wanted, but she didn't), and I didn't try during the 2nd date because the room was moderately lit and there were people from school all over and I didn't want to pressure her or anything. Maybe I care more about how she feels than girls I've dated in the past. Advice? Should I look out for certain signs? We are going to see a movie sometime next week

Well I just asked her and she admitted she likes him and it's a (small) part of why we broke up. Honestly I feel fine about this, nothing has changed but it's put my mind more at rest.

So I have a friend who's sick all the time from some kind of condition she has, I'm going to get her lotion tissues (she buys regular because they're cheaper) and a small thing of chocolate as a Christmas gift. Want to know what you all think.

[QUOTE=Swog;38837647]Why don't I have a girlfriend. I want one that I can talk to.[/QUOTE] The only way to get a girlfriend is to buy a big farmer's sack, fly over to Baywatch and force a girl into it.

[QUOTE=Swog;38837647]Why don't I have a girlfriend. I want one that I can talk to.[/QUOTE] You could spend a lifetime compiling a list of all the things you don't have. The richest billionaire on earth could spend a lifetime compiling a list of things he doesn't have. Ensure that you are the source of your own happiness, if you depend on others for it, you'll be horribly disappointed, a lot.

[QUOTE=Ramses;38845763]So I'm having some trouble, and I honestly don't know why. I've been on two dates with this girl from my highschool, one was to see a movie (which happened to be her first date ever, so she, as she told me later was really nervous) and the 2nd to a comedy show at my school. The whole dating thing is new territory for this girl, and I'm not too far ahead of her, so I feel the need to take things slowly as to make sure she's comfortable. However I don't know if I'm going too slow, and I have actually found myself getting kind of nervous myself in fear of making her uncomfortable. She's already expressed to me that she really likes me, thinks I'm perfect, and am the only guy she wants to date, ect. And I like her too, and I think I'm afraid of ruining it. I don't know if she is comfortable with me making a more romantic move or not. I had breidly held her hand during the first date but I felt she might of been too nervous so I stopped (but gave her room to reinitiate if she wanted, but she didn't), and I didn't try during the 2nd date because the room was moderately lit and there were people from school all over and I didn't want to pressure her or anything. Maybe I care more about how she feels than girls I've dated in the past. Advice? Should I look out for certain signs? We are going to see a movie sometime next week[/QUOTE] Maybe you should talk to her about it? Its a lot easier than trying to guess at what she is thinking. She's already admitted to you she was nervous on your first date, I don't see why you couldn't talk it out with her that your nervous of going to fast or anything. Communication is the best thing always in any situation with your SO. Always.

I hate it when someone is 'busy' so you get ignored all day without an excuse and that's supposed to be acceptable. When they are unknowingly logged into steam and obviously at their computer. I'm the only one to make the effort of contact a lot of the time. Its not hard to take a minute to reply to something, I've tried doing the same thing before and got a ton of shit for it.

I came.

[QUOTE=orcywoo6;38852590]I hate it when someone is 'busy' so you get ignored all day without an excuse and that's supposed to be acceptable. When they are unknowingly logged into steam and obviously at their computer. I'm the only one to make the effort of contact a lot of the time. Its not hard to take a minute to reply to something, I've tried doing the same thing before and got a ton of shit for it.[/QUOTE] I don't know, just because I'm at my computer doesn't mean I'm not busy, my desk is also my lab and I do a lot of prototyping for my final year project there. If I told my SO I was going to be busy with work all day then I don't think she'd mind, and vice versa. I know replying to texts mangles my productivity horribly. Get a hobby, damn.

[QUOTE=metallics;38852781]I don't know, just because I'm at my computer doesn't mean I'm not busy, my desk is also my lab and I do a lot of prototyping for my final year project there. If I told my SO I was going to be busy with work all day then I don't think she'd mind, and vice versa. I know replying to texts mangles my productivity horribly. Get a hobby, damn.[/QUOTE] I wouldn't mind so much if I was actually told and if it wasn't such a big deal when it was the other way around. Don't get me wrong I occupied myself with other things.

So this day was very weird today. 50% of the day i fell very happy cause i had a crush that might have actually liked me. The other 50% of the day i fell very sad because after some research, found out that she might have a boyfriend. FUCK MY LIFE. Feels better after getting this out of my chest. Thanks for listening.

[QUOTE=hersiras;38853107]So this day was very weird today. 50% of the day i fell very happy cause i had a crush that might have actually liked me. The other 50% of the day i fell very sad because after some research, found out that she might have a boyfriend. FUCK MY LIFE. Feels better after getting this out of my chest. Thanks for listening.[/QUOTE] Sucks but there's plenty more people...

Tomorrow I'm going to Amsterdam with my girlfriend, meeting two of my mates and their girlfriends there. I'm so excited

Thinking about getting my girlfriend a necklace, and giving it to her at midnight on new years. Any thoughts? I plan on selling a gun I have, and using part of that money, so the budget is around $100.

When my girlfriend moved to uni she kept on going on about how hard it was being away from home and not seeing all the people you'd commonly see day in day out. I thought she needed to man up. Now, on a different continent away from home, it is I who needs to man up.

[QUOTE=hersiras;38853107]So this day was very weird today. 50% of the day i fell very happy cause i had a crush that might have actually liked me. The other 50% of the day i fell very sad because after some research, found out that she might have a boyfriend. FUCK MY LIFE. Feels better after getting this out of my chest. Thanks for listening.[/QUOTE] We're so good at giving advice and solving problems that we don't even need to say anything.

Some Kid keeps threatening to kill people at my towns high school so if you see this tomato you heard it from me first. [editline]16th December 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=FreeOnions;38025937]She went down on me once before and that was awesome as hell. I also feel like shit because I was just laying there feeling like shit and she said "I feel like you aren't attracted to me sexually" and I just didn't know what to fucking say. [editline]13th October 2012[/editline] STAB Her in the back of the neck I told her that I would like to return the whole oral sex thing but she said she was uncomfortable with that.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=viper shtf;38855641]Thinking about getting my girlfriend a necklace, and giving it to her at midnight on new years. Any thoughts? I plan on selling a gun I have, and using part of that money, so the budget is around $100.[/QUOTE] That's a great present, if she likes them it's a good present. I don't gift necklaces anymore, my girlfriend got some from me. If she doesn't own one, get one.

Well, my ex is now officially in another relationship and oddly enough, I feel sort of good about that. A little envy is felt, but at the same time, I'm glad that she might find somebody who could make her happier than I could, while at the same time, it kinda puts everything to rest and gives me something to finally move on with.

After 3 weeks already in a new relationship? In that case it's just some rebound thing or she was feeling that she is more interested in that person than you. Keep your head up mate.

so this girl I was banging told me she was 17 and she came over and shit, apparently she just turned 14(doesn't look it). anyway she decided to turn her phone off and said her parents knew where she was and shit and she was lying, got reported as a runaway, cops, etc. fun day of getting bitched at by police and her parents for fucking a 14 year old

Not three weeks, six weeks but yeah. It's either a rebound or she wasn't interested in me that much. I'd like to think that she really was interested in me, but that's just optimism. I'd say she was awfully confused. But I mean, I got into a relationship with her a week after she broke up with her ex. (Although, she broke up with him for me so I guess it wasn't really a rebound exactly) Anyway, my head is already kinda up. I was just talking to my friends about it, they're keeping me up. As I see it, there's really no point in trying to analyze the situation, best just to leave what happens to the present and move on with things.

Sorry, I thought it was like 3 weeks ago. Anyway, you might be better of without her when she is changing her boyfriends so fastly.

[QUOTE=Nidalee;38861701]so this girl I was banging told me she was 17 and she came over and shit, apparently she just turned 14(doesn't look it). anyway she decided to turn her phone off and said her parents knew where she was and shit and she was lying, got reported as a runaway, cops, etc. fun day of getting bitched at by police and her parents for fucking a 14 year old[/QUOTE] How did you walk away from that with just a "bitched at"? How old are you?

[QUOTE=ewitwins;38861755]How did you walk away from that with just a "bitched at"? How old are you?[/QUOTE] i'm 17 so it was legal. her parents didn't want to blame us cause none of us knew what the fuck she was doing

How the hell did you mistake a 14 year old for a 17 year old? There isn't [I]any[/I] 14 year old I've met who looks more than 15 or 16.

[QUOTE=loopoo;38861832]How the hell did you mistake a 14 year old for a 17 year old? There isn't [I]any[/I] 14 year old I've met who looks more than 15 or 16.[/QUOTE] i dunno. she looked about 16

[QUOTE=loopoo;38861832]How the hell did you mistake a 14 year old for a 17 year old? There isn't [I]any[/I] 14 year old I've met who looks more than 15 or 16.[/QUOTE] I did, it was fairly awful.

[QUOTE=loopoo;38861832]How the hell did you mistake a 14 year old for a 17 year old? There isn't [I]any[/I] 14 year old I've met who looks more than 15 or 16.[/QUOTE] If you take into consideration the fact that the age of puberty has been slowly but surely moving back over the decades, it's completely and totally possible.

There's a freshman at my school, 15, looks like she's 18.