Well I guess my girlfriend is probably moving in in April
how exciting
So I went out on a date with that chick I told you guys about. All went well. We went to the movies, I dropped her off. We had a short kiss and she went inside. But I dunno about it all. I'm not sure if I'm ready to start another relationship after just being out of one. I want affection, but I still feel half attached to my ex I think. Im thinking that it will likely go away if I date again, but I'm not quite sure. As for the date, I was cool headed the whole time, albeit nervous occasionally since it's the first time I've dated somebody else. So I'm just kinda chilling here debating with myself. I'm not sure if I have the motivation to date again actually. I didn't have the same excitement that I had with my ex when we first started dating. Hmm what to do, what to do...
Engineering is life of celibacy.
[QUOTE=Oscar_SP;38896300]Thanks for complimenting my writing, I still feel kinda shaky about my english as it isn't my first language.
Anyways, update incoming.
I asked around and I found out her name. She knows a few younger friends of mine so I just took a shot and added her on Facebook. She accepted, and a bit later I popped open the chat window. She was offline. It calmed my nerves quite a bit, because that meant I could take my time and write carefully without worrying about instant replies. Halfway through my message, she suddenly was online. And I erased everything. It took me three hours to try again.
I sat down with my computer again and clicked her name, opening the chat. She was still online. I realized I should just go for it, instead of making her wonder why the hell some random idiot added her. It took quite some time to come up with something that sounded casual enough, but still not too passive. In the end, I sent her this;
I wasn't sure if I should have added the whole "cute" thing. But I want to be mature, and just let her know everything I was feeling. A compliment is always a compliment. As soon as I hit enter, I had to leave my computer for a bit, have a glass of water and a cigarette. I guess I just wanted to wait before I saw her response. When I came back, fifteen minutes later, she still hadn't responded.
I was getting kind of afraid at this point. She had seen my message, but hadn't yet answered it. All kind of thoughts was racing through my mind. She probably saw my profile picture and immediately felt, "nah". She was probably creeped out from my message. She probably hates me already. I blanked out similarly to how I did at the concert. I didn't feel or think anything for a good five minutes. Until I heard the chat bleep.
I let out a sigh of relief, and got filled with an angst-ridden happiness. I said;
(Pretty fantastic? It was the most wonderful thing I've ever seen.)
I felt like I had the ball rolling. All my fears of rejects was blown out the window. She's actually writing to me, and with a positive attitude too! I realized I was kind of bouncing in my chair out of joy, when I noticed my chair squeeking.
My social awkwardness kicked in and I didn't know what to say. I was struggling in my brain for what felt like forever trying to come up with something. In reality, only one minute had passed.
Wow. She actually did know who I am. And apparently recognized me without my horse mask!
See what happened? I just dropped all my insecurities down the deepest hole, not to be found by anyone. I manned the fuck up. Her next response literally made me burst into joyfilled giggles.
Awwwww yeah. I've already made a good impression on her it seems.
From that point, we started talking about more music. She's apparently a fan of my own band (we played the same night I did guest vocals with the horse mask). And she's uploading the video when she finds her memory card. She then said she had to leave because she had to pack and do some cleaning. "But we'll talk later, alright? Bye for now!".
I'm thinking about asking her out for a coffee or something. Going on dates isn't really a thing in Sweden, but I bet I could pull it off. Just get some coffee, discuss more music, plans etc. At the same time I'm still so insecure. I'm happy, I feel like we got along well, but I'm still insecure.
Will update when more stuff happens.
tl;dr went well[/QUOTE]
Update: She rejected me.
tl;dr emptiness
NOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooo! :(
I'm sorry bro, I'd say keep it up, in what way did she reject you?
That rancher girl I've been seeing said some awkward shit about being schizophrenic and I thought she was kidding.
I really hope I didn't hurt her feelings.
yeah, i know
she said something along the lines of ~ id probably break up with her if i knew ~~ and i was like 'yeah right man' so you know
B(
Girl here (physically at least, genderqueer)
My friend who is 18 is really embarrassed about being a virgin. He's good looking and healthy and he finds me hot, and pretty much said he wanted me to have sex with him (I'm technically a virgin as well as I've only fucked girls before).
Do you guys think this is a wrong way to go about it? I'm kinda curious to find out what its like with a guy tbh, but it feels like I'm whoring myself cause he says he's gonna pay for our weed and drugs and shit. We always have this bro type of relationship, am I going to ruin that?
embarassing page king
there's nothing wrong at all with casual sex, so if you both want it, i say go for it and it's only going to ruin the "bro type" of relationship you two have if you let it
[QUOTE=plants;38954866]Girl here (physically at least, genderqueer)
My friend who is 18 is really embarrassed about being a virgin. He's good looking and healthy and he finds me hot, and pretty much said he wanted me to have sex with him (I'm technically a virgin as well as I've only fucked girls before).
Do you guys think this is a wrong way to go about it? I'm kinda curious to find out what its like with a guy tbh, but it feels like I'm whoring myself cause he says he's gonna pay for our weed and drugs and shit. We always have this bro type of relationship, am I going to ruin that?
embarassing page king[/QUOTE]
I'd say go for it, it sounds like both of you want it anyway.
[QUOTE=plants;38954866]Girl here (physically at least, genderqueer)
My friend who is 18 is really embarrassed about being a virgin. He's good looking and healthy and he finds me hot, and pretty much said he wanted me to have sex with him (I'm technically a virgin as well as I've only fucked girls before).
Do you guys think this is a wrong way to go about it? I'm kinda curious to find out what its like with a guy tbh, but it feels like I'm whoring myself cause he says he's gonna pay for our weed and drugs and shit. We always have this bro type of relationship, am I going to ruin that?
embarassing page king[/QUOTE]
Sex with a virgin might not be the best way to find out what sex with a guy is like, though (and vice-versa for him too).
My first time wasn't with a virgin and it wasn't very good sex at all. The next couple times were wayyyy better when I actually had the hang of things. Same person too.
[QUOTE=The Rifleman;38900255]Long Distance, or internet relationships don't work in the slightest.[/QUOTE]
Mine is working perfectly fine, we've been together for 8 months now and I'm going back to see her soon!!
almost all of my serious relationships have been long distance, let me tell you: it ends horribly every time.
best of luck though
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;38951297]Engineering is life of celibacy.[/QUOTE]
QFT
[QUOTE=Zareox7;38956875]My first time wasn't with a virgin and it wasn't very good sex at all. The next couple times were wayyyy better when I actually had the hang of things. Same person too.[/QUOTE]
I'm kinda afraid to disappoint my friend now.
Also, sorry for TMI but I have the tightest hymen ever :v: will it work out at all??
idk if there are any other girls here who can give advice on that
[QUOTE=plants;38958282]Also, sorry for TMI but I have the tightest hymen ever :v: will it work out at all??[/QUOTE]
It'll be fine, just tell the guy to wear a splint so nothing snaps. You'll be grand :v:
LOL I know it cause I can't even fit a tampon in, so I'm like how the fuck is a dick supposed to fit in there.
Um, me again, about issues with my now ex-girlfriend D:
I still feel like I have a chance, she said she needs a break at least, how do I go about it? I think just giving her space and not messaging her would be good, but wouldn't she just think I don't want to talk to her anymore? Also, there is one other guy she's chatting with, I'm afraid she might fall for him, arghh I don't know what to do
sigh this is why I always preferred girls. It's so much simpler
shit automerge
but why isn't broken if you've had lesbo sex, isn't there some fingering and maybe even strap on action??
[QUOTE=Vacuum;38958758]Um, me again, about issues with my now ex-girlfriend D:
I still feel like I have a chance, she said she needs a break at least, how do I go about it? I think just giving her space and not messaging her would be good, but wouldn't she just think I don't want to talk to her anymore? Also, there is one other guy she's chatting with, I'm afraid she might fall for him, arghh I don't know what to do[/QUOTE]
move on, she's an ex and if you get back together it won't be the same
[QUOTE=plants;38958735]LOL I know it cause I can't even fit a tampon in, so I'm like how the fuck is a dick supposed to fit in there.[/QUOTE]
It's not supposed to fit. That's why it breaks.
just know that your first sex is gonna be sort of like this
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUtjAbk8sNk[/media]
[QUOTE=locojaws;38958763]but why isn't broken if you've had lesbo sex, isn't there some fingering and maybe even strap on action??[/QUOTE]
I've used a strap on to fuck my ex girlfriend, but never the other way around. I've always enjoyed clit stimulation way more.
[QUOTE=plants;38958282]I'm kinda afraid to disappoint my friend now.
Also, sorry for TMI but I have the tightest hymen ever :v: will it work out at all??
idk if there are any other girls here who can give advice on that[/QUOTE]
Your hymen is supposedly supposed to just break at some point, and bleed everywhere (but not hurt). But thats just what I know from the web because myself I didn't really have that problem. My hymen was like non-existent by the time I got anywhere near sex.
You shouldn't have sex with him just for fear of disappointing him though, I think we all know that is a bad reason.
my gf always tries to kiss me after giving me a blowjob, what can i do to show her that it's fucking disgusting. i tried poking her and shoving my fingers in her mouth but she won't stop
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;38958815]my gf always tries to kiss me after giving me a blowjob, what can i do to show her that it's fucking disgusting. i tried poking her and shoving my fingers in her mouth but she won't stop[/QUOTE]
She gave you a blowjob, grow up and get over it.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;38958815]my gf always tries to kiss me after giving me a blowjob, what can i do to show her that it's fucking disgusting. i tried poking her and shoving my fingers in her mouth but she won't stop[/QUOTE]
did you try being a sensible human being?
[QUOTE=plants;38954866]Girl here (physically at least, genderqueer)
My friend who is 18 is really embarrassed about being a virgin. He's good looking and healthy and he finds me hot, and pretty much said he wanted me to have sex with him (I'm technically a virgin as well as I've only fucked girls before).
Do you guys think this is a wrong way to go about it? I'm kinda curious to find out what its like with a guy tbh, but it feels like I'm whoring myself cause he says he's gonna pay for our weed and drugs and shit. We always have this bro type of relationship, am I going to ruin that?
embarassing page king[/QUOTE]
yo no shame in fuck buddies but he'll probably get attached like a sick puppy afterwards
Are you twelve? Your girl has just done you a favour by giving you a BJ, and you won't even kiss her afterwards, that's pretty selfish. What would you prefer she do, go and brush her teeth then come back? Grow up.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;38958815]my gf always tries to kiss me after giving me a blowjob, what can i do to show her that it's fucking disgusting. i tried poking her and shoving my fingers in her mouth but she won't stop[/QUOTE]
Cheating on her will surely show her
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