Italian food where you show all the dosh you have without looking like a suck up wanker best first date ever.
In Italy.
At sunset.
With private musicians.
And dinosaurs with lasers.
Because by this point all this is is a dream.
Well shit, my ex who up until this point had been a bro decided to flip out and ask why the hell I didn't exercise when she asked me to (brought on by a comment I made about me exercising the other day), to which I truthfully replied that she brought it up once not even as a proper suggestion and that she never made it seem like a big deal, especially since she had always told me I didn't need to even when I thought I did, however at this time I was being lazy and a mess generally in life but I was comfortable with body, so I didn't exercise.
Then basically she totally flips the fuck out and decides that I was a horrible boyfriend and that I was actually not nice and that I was the sole reason for all problems in the relationship and that she only felt bad about breaking up with me because she sugar coated it.
Shit I feel like a fucking mess all over again. Shit.
I feel like I'm going crazy because I don't know if I'm just overreacting or if I really am the one truly at fault here or what.
Tell you what, here's the chat log with names expunged, could some of you act as an independent third party and help put my mind to rest by either telling me what an asshole I am or she is or we both are:
[url]http://pastebin.com/XLu79ktN[/url]
And so here I am, getting drunk just so I can stop thinking about her and how much I fucked up with her. So much for me having a calm first break-up :v:
[QUOTE=Regorc's Chest;39009572]bitch' be trippin'
And so here I am, getting drunk just so I can stop thinking about her and how much I fucked up with her. So much for me having a calm first break-up :v:[/QUOTE]
Tell her she needs to make things clearer for her future chubbyguys as you are busy excercising for better girls!
[QUOTE=Big Ben;39000984]She is, what I could consider, rather flirty, yes.
I think I'll take your advice and say nothing though, even if it does pain me not to.[/QUOTE]
not saying anything isnt going to solve anything.
the thing is, she is flirty? then you should be flirty too.
don't rush things, build something.
[QUOTE=Campin Carl;39009613]Tell her she needs to make things clearer for her future chubbyguys as you are busy excercising for better girls![/QUOTE]
She's already got another guy, and he's not chubby. She had him practically before we broke up so I guess she just changed her mind on what she likes.
[editline]28th December 2012[/editline]
Honestly, the more I think about it the more I feel emotionally abused overall during our relationship. But on the other hand it wasn't that bad, and I loved her and it was great, and on the mutated third hand I can't guarantee I wasn't emotionally abusive too. I have a manipulative, probably slightly sociopathic side that not even psychologists picked up, mainly because I just lie to keep face and manipulate, so how could they tell, I was lying to the people that were trying to help me, hell, I was an attempted suicide case that was diagnosed as not depressed. They said I was frustrated. Which I was.
But anyway I'm losing track, if I manipulated the people that I wanted to help me, without even trying, god knows if I did it to her.
Just curious, is she fit or is she generic girl?
Generic girl, gamer so not a lot of exercise but she keeps herself... uh... well to me as her boyfriend she was incredibly attractive and I still maintain that viewpoint.
Here's some comparison, I don't deny that I let myself go but she had always said she liked how I was and that made me comfortable with myself:
[img]http://dl.dropbox.com/u/44454289/Comparison.JPG[/img]
[editline]28th December 2012[/editline]
Well it's late and I'm already late for bed since I'm supposed to be re-jigging my sleep schedule so I'll see what guys have had to say tomorrow.
Write her off as a huge bitch and hit the gym
If you really are comfy with your bod then that's fine. You'll find a new boo again
she's probably just saying all those things because she's trying to justify to herself why you two are no longer together so that she can go on dating this new guy without feeling any guilt or remorse for moving on
in all likelihood it's just a bunch of lies and contorted truths she's convincing herself were actual problems in hindsight. but there's nothing to worry about, you saw everything firsthand and knew what the relationship was like, and now you know where you can improve. don't worry about some suddenly-crazy girl thousands of miles away from you and move on, bud
My girlfriend got me a machete for christmas and we got to cuddle for like two hours straight
best christmas
Alright so, I met this girl who lives near my cousins house which is 3 states away.
We hit it off really well and ended up making-out in the movie theater.
However whenever I come down to see her, it's always me, her, and her friends; But we make-out anyway. And tonight I went over her house to watch a movie and I ended up fingering her on the couch with only pillows separating me and her friends. I felt like an ass. I try to say to myself "Don't do this with her friends around" but then again, I know I wont be seeing her for another 4 months at least because I live 300 miles away.
Basically, I want to what I can do to get some alone time with her. Her parents are really strict, so the friends stick around to make sure we don't have sex or anything. I will start driving in February but even so, we always take my dads car when we come visit.
So in short, how can I see her alone without her parents jumping down my throat? Someplace private too, not a movie theater.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;39012632]You could always find an empty parking lot.[/QUOTE]
or a restroom, seems more ok than a parking lot.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;39012632]You could always find an empty parking lot.[/QUOTE]
I reccommend empty parking lots.
[editline]29th December 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;39011842]I haven't gotten to hang out with my girlfriend since the beginning of Christmas break, I'm hoping to make some plans soon because I need my love fix.[/QUOTE]
I was in the same boat as you, but today I got my fix.
[QUOTE=Tacosheller;39011740]My girlfriend got me a machete for christmas and we got to cuddle for like two hours straight
best christmas[/QUOTE]
Are machetes good to cuddle with?
Thanks guys. I'll leave those pics of my hot bod because you're bros (and bro-esses).
Also you can be my hero any day deerinheart [img]http://www.facepunch.com/fp/ratings/heart.png[/img]
I've been in the similar position of wanting to start going to a gym but not having quite enough motivation / time to do it.
Personally, I'd take the hint and use that as an excuse to actually go.
[QUOTE=SataniX;39016746]I've been in the similar position of wanting to start going to a gym but not having quite enough motivation / time to do it.
Personally, I'd take the hint and use that as an excuse to actually go.[/QUOTE]
Even though it looks like I dont need it, I'm going back to playing racquetball after Christmas! I'm really out of shape.
[QUOTE=SataniX;39016746]I've been in the similar position of wanting to start going to a gym but not having quite enough motivation / time to do it.
Personally, I'd take the hint and use that as an excuse to actually go.[/QUOTE]
I know, I already am, but this whole thing started because we broke up and now I am actually starting to get back into exercising, mainly because the break-up really acted as a reality check for me :v:
there's a woman at the airport right now laying on a chair reading 50 Shades Freed and her eyes just keep lighting up. I really don't get why girls think it's a-ok to read 50 Shades openly, like everyone would call me a huge perv if I just whipped out a porn mag in public.
she's directly across from me getting so into it that she didn't even look up at all to notice me staring directly at her like "wtf"
[editline]29th December 2012[/editline]
oh god she looked at me and smiled like i knew what was happening so I had to say how's it going
Did you fuck her
ill tell u after my flight
always wanted 2 join the mile high club ;)
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;39020466]I really don't get why girls think it's a-ok to read 50 Shades openly, like everyone would call me a huge perv if I just whipped out a porn mag in public.[/QUOTE]
you know why the thing sells right
its an empowerment movement to make smut and porn perfectly cool/acceptable by societal standards
i am jealous of the fapfic author who published their crap at the most opportune time ever
[QUOTE=SataniX;39016746]I've been in the similar position of wanting to start going to a gym but not having quite enough motivation / time to do it.
Personally, I'd take the hint and use that as an excuse to actually go.[/QUOTE]
i'm probably going to take dance classes or something at my college in the spring, i have to take a phys ed credit anyway so it's a good excuse to do something i like and get in shape.
goddammit my flight keeps getting delayed. been sitting here for almost five hours, still four to go, and the 50 shades chick left so now i wont even get any, like what's the point of life man
[QUOTE=metallics;39014940]Are machetes good to cuddle with?[/QUOTE]
Yes, if you're an African warlord.
spending New years with my boyfriend tomorrow. First time I'm out of the house for New years. So flipping excited. Dinner with his parents, handing out our christmas presents and then heading out for a party.
It wasn't dramatic. We both thought that we were on different paths in life and that we didn't have the time, even though we love eachother beyond.
But after about 4 days we broke down and realized that it was a stupid decision, and got back together.
And it's working very good so far. We're putting in a lot of effort to make it work.
My girlfriend is taking the pill for the first time, we usually relied on condoms. For some reason I am really anxious and feeling uncomfortable about it. I am worried about the sideeffects and possible issues or if they fail. The consequences would kill me.
[QUOTE=junker|154;39030377]My girlfriend is taking the pill for the first time, we usually relied on condoms. For some reason I am really anxious and feeling uncomfortable about it. I am worried about the sideeffects and possible issues or if they fail. The consequences would kill me.[/QUOTE]
The pill isn't for everyone, but I've been on it for almost 2 years and it's been working really well. So don't be anxious!
Look at the positive parts. If you still use condoms you'll have an extra protection against pregnancy. But if you're not going to keep on using condoms, then you're in for even better sex.
Just remind her fto take the pill everyday if she is forgetfull
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