[QUOTE=junker|154;39030377]My girlfriend is taking the pill for the first time, we usually relied on condoms. For some reason I am really anxious and feeling uncomfortable about it. I am worried about the sideeffects and possible issues or if they fail. The consequences would kill me.[/QUOTE]
As long as she remembers to take it every day you'll be fine, chill. Also she should take it at night before bed, that way you miss all the hormonal bit because you're asleep. The majority of my girlfriends have been on it at some point in the relationship and it's always worked out fine.
Thanks, it's just that I am always sceptical when it's about medication, just a dumb thing of me. Although I really like how we do not need condoms anymore.
[QUOTE=junker|154;39030377]My girlfriend is taking the pill for the first time, we usually relied on condoms. For some reason I am really anxious and feeling uncomfortable about it. I am worried about the sideeffects and possible issues or if they fail. The consequences would kill me.[/QUOTE]
The pill has a failure rate of .3 in perfect use and 8 in practical use, a lot of that percent is screw ups.
My recommendation is for her to set a reminder on her phone to go off after supper or at similar convenient time to remind her to take one, and also keep a spare pack in her bag if she has one she brings with her everywhere, in case she ends up not being home at that time.
Side effect wise the pill is pretty mild, it can cause mood swings, headaches, breast tenderness, irregular bleeding, and nausea, there are others but all very uncommon and most of these probably won't be a problem either. It basically can just have mild side effects of pregnancy. You can look up a list if you feel like worrying over it but if she does find she has negative side effects she can ask the doctor to give her a different form of the pill, since there are multiple which may help. The pill has no known longterm side effects she should have to worry about.
It is a possibility that if she goes on some forms of anti-biotics that it can lower the amounts of pill hormone in the bloodstream, it hadn't been specifically linked to a decrease in pill effectiveness as of yet (lack of research). If your paranoid you should just use a secondary contraceptive during that time.
It may or may not dull her sex-drive some, since she won't ovulate and have ovulation hormones saying "GO SEX NOW" , and you may have to focus on foreplay more to get her wet but again that may or may not be a problem :)
I assume she will have done her own research on it anyway, so don't fuss too much and feel free to consult here or PM me if you want more info :)
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Before bed is a relative term, if she sleeps at the same time every night that would be good, otherwise some consistent time before she goes to bed would be best. You are supposed to take it the same time every day, and that is best for hormonal consistency (So she doesn't get all mood swingy all over the place cause her hormones are up and down)
[QUOTE=junker|154;39030377]The consequences would kill me.[/QUOTE]
the best part of waking up
is ru486 in your cup
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[QUOTE=junker|154;39030377]My girlfriend is taking the pill for the first time, we usually relied on condoms. For some reason I am really anxious and feeling uncomfortable about it. I am worried about the sideeffects and possible issues or if they fail. The consequences would kill me.[/QUOTE]
It worried me for a while relying on something completely chemical like that but once you get through the first few months or so, the pill is pretty great.
When my ex was on the pill it was... well eventually it got the the point where the sex-hungry 17 year old guy that loved it without condoms convinced her to stop taking it because it wasn't worth it.
It completely changed her personality really, she got really rough, I knew something was wrong when she was like ten times as nice when she was not taking the pill and on her period week than when she was taking it :v:
It also majorly lowered her sex drive, so I was getting better sex but less of it, and a girlfriend who was likely to flip out at a moments notice, so we agreed to back to the condoms. Thing were generally better, and even though we only ever used feather-light it still meant I lasted longer :v:
[editline]31st December 2012[/editline]
Also yeah, it was the first few months thing, but when you only got 3 months together a year and you had spent 1 and a half of them already with someone who isn't quite the person you love, I think it was the better move.
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;39033873]It worried me for a while relying on something completely chemical like that but once you get through the first few months or so, the pill is pretty great.[/QUOTE]
That's my point, I feel like I cannot control it enough. Anyway, not using a condom will be great. It's kind of a nuisance anyway.
[QUOTE=metallics;39014940]Are machetes good to cuddle with?[/QUOTE]
yes
My girlfriend goes to bed at like 8-9 every night, and gets up at like 4 in the morning. What is wrong with her?
I feel like I'm always acting when I'm with my girlfriend, or any girlfriend Ive had. I feel like all the love and affection I feel goes away when I'm not with her, like its just temporary. I've just always felt some level of disconnect from anyone I'm with, so it never really feels like love.
This is a problem for me but I also don't really know what question to ask. Is this somewhat normal for one?
[QUOTE=Ramses;39037984]My girlfriend goes to bed at like 8-9 every night, and gets up at like 4 in the morning. What is wrong with her?[/QUOTE]
have you checked to see if she is 70?
GF of just over 2 months just said "I wuv you"
What exactly should I take from this?
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;39038897]GF of just over 2 months just said "I wuv you"
What exactly should I take from this?[/QUOTE]
I wuv you too
She really likes and trusts you?
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;39038897]GF of just over 2 months just said "I wuv you"
What exactly should I take from this?[/QUOTE]
if shes actually saying she loves you then thats a big step, but i dunno about wuv...
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;39039026]if shes actually saying she loves you then thats a big step, but i dunno about wuv...[/QUOTE]
I know, right? I am confused
Well facepunch. There goes my first relashionship ever of 8 months. at first I didn't feel so bad but then when i was going to delete some pictures. it all went to shit. i feel so empty inside now. no one to hold around, cuddle with, kiss. memories are the worst thing about it. when i look back on them i feel even worse. I'm generally an postive and optimistic person but this fucked me up. it feels good letting this out.
tl;dr looking at old pictures will just fuck your day up
[QUOTE=lolerot95;39040342]Well facepunch. There goes my first relashionship ever of 8 months. at first I didn't feel so bad but then when i was going to delete some pictures. it all went to shit. i feel so empty inside now. no one to hold around, cuddle with, kiss. memories are the worst thing about it. when i look back on them i feel even worse. I'm generally an postive and optimistic person but this fucked me up. it feels good letting this out.
tl;dr looking at old pictures will just fuck your day up[/QUOTE]
I've got a load of pictures that I'm not going to delete on our family media server, but when I was browsing through them, man that hit me right in the feels.
[QUOTE=Regorc's Chest;39040459]I've got a load of pictures that I'm not going to delete on our family media server, but when I was browsing through them, man that hit me right in the feels.[/QUOTE]
Fuck i was going rate you heart but I'm on my phone so i missed the rating. but yeah it hits you hard
[QUOTE=lolerot95;39040694]Fuck i was going rate you heart but I'm on my phone so i missed the rating. but yeah it gets you hard[/QUOTE]
definitely totally did not nearly rather embarassingly misinterpret your post
[QUOTE=lolerot95;39040342]Well facepunch. There goes my first relashionship ever of 8 months. at first I didn't feel so bad but then when i was going to delete some pictures. it all went to shit. i feel so empty inside now. no one to hold around, cuddle with, kiss. memories are the worst thing about it. when i look back on them i feel even worse. I'm generally an postive and optimistic person but this fucked me up. it feels good letting this out.
tl;dr looking at old pictures will just fuck your day up[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I used to browse old pictures of my ex-gfs from time to time, it brought me back to other times. Even if I was in a relationship.
[QUOTE=Regorc's Chest;38988837]
Man, I hated when I accidentally hurt my ex, felt so bad, usually severely wounded if not killed the mood. It was a shame too, she had a great ass in my opinion but she said doggystyle hurt her, oh well :v:[/QUOTE]
With my ex that just meant anal time. Would be heaven if she wasnt nuts.
[QUOTE=lolerot95;39040342]Well facepunch. There goes my first relashionship ever of 8 months. at first I didn't feel so bad but then when i was going to delete some pictures. it all went to shit. i feel so empty inside now. no one to hold around, cuddle with, kiss. memories are the worst thing about it. when i look back on them i feel even worse. I'm generally an postive and optimistic person but this fucked me up. it feels good letting this out.
tl;dr looking at old pictures will just fuck your day up[/QUOTE]
I havent removed pictures of me and my on facebook. Every time i see them it makes me happy, sure im not going out with her, but it brings back really good memories of those times. She thinks the same way about it as well
[QUOTE=djshox;38989634]sex discussion hmm
i encountered my first squirter last weekend after a great date night with her, it was pretty hot[/QUOTE]
My girlfriend squirts from next to nothing, it's so goddamn fun.
And it's almost impossible to hurt eachother when a girl gets so damn wet :D
Gonna invest in a waterproof bedsheet for her, as the downside is washing your sheets every single day.
[editline]31st December 2012[/editline]
What the shit, why won't fp for android edit my post
[QUOTE=CAPSMAN!;39041142]With my ex that just meant anal time. Would be heaven if she wasnt nuts.[/QUOTE]
Oh the promises she gave and the lube we bought... all with no consequence.
Man I never even got to lube up 'dem amazing titties.
the hell
[url]www.facepunch.com/showthread.php?t=1236119&page=2[/url]
I was reading this thread and I honestly thought I had accidentally stumbled into SGS IV
Shit, drunk some rum and stuff with my bro, sent awkward messages to everyone, EVERYONE.
[QUOTE=Dovahkiin;39052716]Shit, drunk some rum and stuff with my bro, sent awkward messages to everyone, EVERYONE.[/QUOTE]
Drunk Facebooking/Texting is fun. I've had some moments that I regret.
Story time
I'm on break back home until the 4th from school for the holidays, and was at a friends place having a few drinks. That night I met a girl that I think I would die for right now.
We were pretty much flirting the whole night until everybody left and it was just me, her, girl 2 who she was with, and my friend. So we put in a movie, then her and I cuddled on the couch for pretty well the whole night. I had sobered up half way through and still managed to reach second base, and I feel like if my friend and girl 2 were not on the floor right next to us there would have been more.
Thanks to not being able to get comfy we spent the whole night cuddling and watching movies until we went to the floor on the other side of the room at 12 noon and finally were able to sleep. Then my friend went out and left us to sleep in until 5pm. So I pretty much spent over 12 hours cuddling with a girl, which I've never come close to before.
Once we woke up I walked her and girl 2 back to girl 2's place through a blinding snow storm which I was not nearly dressed for. Later that night I texted her and asked if she had any fun and she said she had a blast. I told her it would be nice if I could see her again before I went back to school and she agreed.
It fucking sucks though, she is god damn beautiful in every way and if I have to let her slip because of me going back to school, I won't be a happy man.
Oh well, it was really nice to have that after having a whole lot of nothing for three years post ex. A good way to close out 2012 in my books. Happy 2013, may there be plenty of sex, girlfriends, and shits.
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