[QUOTE=Dori;37657330]you disagreed with this by saying what amounts to "they're just words." stop backpedaling[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Greenen72;37657054]no, you're just not being sensitive[/QUOTE]
uhh
[editline]13th September 2012[/editline]
i know there's no point in actually trying to let you see a point of view than "everyone who uses bad words knowingly uses them to show contempt for something that they don't like" but you know it's ok to not take everyone on the internet that isn't actively campaigning for lgbt rights as a homophobe
[QUOTE=Greenen72;37657369]uhh[/QUOTE]
what is your point? by refusing to change your language which is insensitive to GSMs, you are being a bigot by definition
[QUOTE=Greenen72;37657369]
i know there's no point in actually trying to let you see a point of view than "everyone who uses bad words knowingly uses them to show contempt for something that they don't like" but you know it's ok to not take everyone on the internet that isn't actively campaigning for lgbt rights as a homophobe[/QUOTE]
do you read the posts you reply to? you replied "you're just not being sensitive" in response to "by knowingly calling gay people fags and trans people trannies, you are a bigot"
[QUOTE=Dori;37657419]what is your point? by refusing to change your language which is insensitive to GSMs, you are being a bigot by definition[/QUOTE]
and what you seem to intentionally not read is the point that not everyone is so lucky as to have a pleasant conversation with you, not knowing that there are a variety of terms on the level of 'faggot' that actually mean something other than cussing
[QUOTE=Greenen72;37657490]and what you seem to intentionally not read is the point that not everyone is so lucky as to have a pleasant conversation with you, not knowing that there are a variety of terms on the level of 'faggot' that actually mean something other than cussing[/QUOTE]
what?
can I just ask one question?
why is tranny an offensive slur? I had the understanding that it was just a shorter variation of "transgendered'. is there any sort of negative connotation that I'm oblivious too?
surely it can't be on the same level as slang such as nigger or chink. slavery is a lot worse than "oh no this dude is homophobic and calling me mean things". of course this could just be stemming from ignorance.
of course I get rated boxes for asking a question.
[QUOTE=xxncxx;37657358]ok I'll let people use derogatory slurs that offend me thanks![/QUOTE]
Out of curiosity, what do you suggest we do?
[QUOTE=Governor Goblin;37657558]Out of curiosity, what do you suggest we do?[/QUOTE]
don't say tranny when referring to trans people
[QUOTE=Dori;37657503]what?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Joeyl10;37657547]can I just ask one question?
why is tranny an offensive slur? I had the understanding that it was just a shorter variation of "transgendered'. is there any sort of negative connotation that I'm oblivious too?
surely it can't be on the same level as slang such as nigger or chink. slavery is a lot worse than "oh no this dude is homophobic and calling me mean things". of course this could just be stemming from ignorance.
of course I get rated boxes for asking a question.[/QUOTE]
read:there are people who don't know, and calling them stupid doesn't help
[QUOTE=Greenen72;37657579]read:there are people who don't know, and calling them stupid doesn't help[/QUOTE]
yes and then there are people like you who do know and yet try to defend themselves
[editline]13th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Joeyl10;37657547]
why is tranny an offensive slur?
[/QUOTE]
[url]http://www.bilerico.com/2008/09/is_tranny_offensive.php[/url]
[QUOTE=Dori;37657595]yes and then there are people like you who do know and yet try to defend themselves[/QUOTE]
i don't know about you, but I only jump into arguments when someone gives a incorrect or blanket statement like "anyone who uses 'tranny' is transphobic", but sure you can try really hard and believe i personally hate you if it makes what i say easier to ignore :-)
[QUOTE=Primigenes;37657483]Ok who cares
There are some Trans people who don't find it an issue and there are some who do. Chill the fuck out
And your sensitive for calling people Transphobic just for using a word. Gosh they could just be ignorant or maybe I don't know not really care. Its not like they just called Transexual disgusting vermin or any word that immediately implies disgust[/QUOTE]
the trans people that dont find it offensive are greatly outnumbered by people who do. again, just because there are some people who don't find it offensive, or just because YOU don't think its offensive, does NOT mean its okay.
[editline]13th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Greenen72;37657642]i don't know about you, but I only jump into arguments when someone gives a incorrect or blanket statement like "anyone who uses 'tranny' is transphobic", but sure you can try really hard and believe i personally hate you if it makes what i say easier to ignore :-)[/QUOTE]
its really hard to take anything you say seriously after you add a dumb smilie to the end of every sentence.
[QUOTE=Greenen72;37657642]i don't know about you, but I only jump into arguments when someone gives a incorrect or blanket statement like "anyone who uses 'tranny' is transphobic"[/QUOTE]
literally nobody has said that. you are arguing for the sake of arguing
[QUOTE=Primigenes;37657674]
You can't call people Homophobes and Transphobic just because they said a word.[/QUOTE]
good thing nobody has
[QUOTE=Primigenes;37657674]No the intent decides what makes it okay..
Its how you use words.
shit I think this was from George Carlin
Stop overreacting
You can't call people Homophobes and Transphobic just because they said a word. Again you need to chill the fuck out
Its people like you who abuse the fuck out of these words[/QUOTE]
k brb gonna go yell nigger in a bunch of black peoples faces then tell them not to get upset because i didnt mean it like that!
do you realize how fucking stupid that sounds?
[QUOTE=Dori;37657595][URL]http://www.bilerico.com/2008/09/is_tranny_offensive.php[/URL][/QUOTE]
honestly I don't think "it came from porn" is a good enough reason to deem it an offensive slur and even half of the article talks about reclaiming it. it'd be pretty counter-productive to just demonize it even more.
then again I'm not transgendered so perhaps it's not really a good argument for me to get involved.
again more dumbs for voicing my opinion in a modest way.
[QUOTE=Dori;37657658]literally nobody has said that.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=xxncxx;37655033]doesn't matter, its still offensive.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Governor Goblin;37655655]Doesn't make people "transphobic", mate.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=xxncxx;37655961]So I guess calling gay people faggots doesn't make you a homophobe either?[/QUOTE]
hint: implied
Its people like you that make us feel like we have to separate ourselves from the community because no matter what we do, we are "attention whoring" or "over reacting"
[QUOTE=Joeyl10;37657698]honestly I don't think "it came from porn" is a good enough reason to deem it an offensive slur[/QUOTE]
it's more that people started using it as a slur than how it started
wow automerge
[editline]13th September 2012[/editline]
fucking
[QUOTE=Joeyl10;37657698]honestly I don't think "it came from porn" is a good enough reason to deem it an offensive slur[/QUOTE]
it's not offensive because "it came from porn." it's offensive because it sexualises, objectifies, and belittles trans people. besides, what you think is a good reason for it to "be offensive" is wholly unimportant
[QUOTE=Dori;37657728] besides, what you think is a good reason for it to "be offensive" is wholly unimportant[/QUOTE]
oh okay so my opinion doesn't matter. gotcha. sorry for giving some input.
[QUOTE=Joeyl10;37657751]oh okay so my opinion doesn't matter. gotcha. sorry for giving some input.[/QUOTE]
you are not a trans person and are therefore not affected. your opinion on what trans people should find offensive means nothing
[QUOTE=Joeyl10;37657751]oh okay so my opinion doesn't matter. gotcha. sorry for giving some input.[/QUOTE]
im white and a black guy called me a nigger once and it totally didn't phase me so tbh i don't see what the fuss is about
- you
[editline]14th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Primigenes;37657770]fucking fuck, fucker fucking face fuck fuck you fuck fucking ass fucker[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Primigenes;37657770][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/ffUAw.png[/IMG]
The part about defending it is irrelevant because iirc this is after he mentions intent therefore making it a stupid as fuck thing to say.
Because if he defends his usage of a word because it had no ill intent and tells you to get the fuck over it then how does that make him a homophobe. That just makes you an arrogant and petty little person
[editline]13th September 2012[/editline]
Do you realize how fucking silly you sound? If your going to mention stupid as fuck statements in an attempt to refute fucking points at least consider the factor of people not liking you yelling in there fucking face.
You make it hard to take you seriously[/QUOTE]
the fact you used a variation of fuck 8 times in one sentence makes it incredibly ironic that you are saying I make it hard to take me seriously.
[QUOTE=Primigenes;37657770][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/ffUAw.png[/IMG]
The part about defending it is irrelevant because iirc this is after he mentions intent therefore making it a stupid as fuck thing to say.
Because if he defends his usage of a word because it had no ill intent and tells you to get the fuck over it then how does that make him a homophobe. That just makes you an arrogant and petty little person
[editline]13th September 2012[/editline]
Do you realize how fucking silly you sound? If your going to mention stupid as fuck statements in an attempt to refute fucking points at least consider the factor of people not liking you yelling in there fucking face.
You make it hard to take you seriously[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37657795]im white and a black guy called me a nigger once and it totally didn't phase me so tbh i don't see what the fuss is about
- you
[editline]14th September 2012[/editline][/QUOTE]
just so you know being nice in an argument is just as important as being right if you want the other guy to see your point :)
[QUOTE=xxncxx;37657828]the fact you used a variation of fuck 8 times in one sentence makes it incredibly ironic that you are saying I make it hard to take me seriously.[/QUOTE]
You're seriously discounting his arguments because he swears?
if saying faggot meant you're homophobe no matter what I'd be homophobic Emily. I say it a lot and it doesn't mean I'm a bigot nor a homophobe.
Stop it.
[QUOTE=Governor Goblin;37657848]You're seriously discounting his arguments because he swears?[/QUOTE]
im not discounting his argument at all, I said its incredibly ironic he cant take me seriously when hes cursing up and down like a 5 year old that just heard his dad say "fuck". Regardless, I already refuted his argument by showing what hes basically saying is okay to do.
[QUOTE=Greenen72;37657834]just so you know being nice in an argument is just as important as being right if you want the other guy to see your point :)[/QUOTE]
how was i insulting at all i just pointed out that his post was nothing other than saying "youre fucking childish and boring". the entire post was just a tribute to the word "fuck" there wasn't even an argument straddled imbetween the french, it was just a wall of him saying "fuck" over and over again with some other nouns imbetween
[QUOTE=Primigenes;37657841]Are you trying to belittle my argument because of the language I use? God grow the fuck up
I already know that some of you get easily annoyed by words so this isn't all that surprising.
Really if you can't refute my points and instead have to debase my argument by the fact that I use the word "fuck" alot then you aren't worth my time.[/QUOTE]
there were no points to refute lol
you didn't make any points, you just said he sounds silly and you can't be judged for saying something offensive even though you know its offensive, unless you really MEANT to be offensive
[QUOTE=zerothefallen;37657874]if saying faggot meant you're homophobe no matter what I'd be homophobic Emily.[/QUOTE]
nobody has said that, so you're in luck my friend
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